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>>18158614
Certainly not by posting sad cats.

Better start telling us what is wrong with your life, what have you tried to improve it and why it failed.

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>>18158618
>tfw studying CS in college first year
>tfw being depressed and wanting to quit (already missed two weeks already but since college teach so slow didn't miss a shit)
>tfw thinking about suicide and quiting my college
>tfw thinking about quiting my dream of making games
>tfw I have nothing else to do
>tfw I can't quit because I'm already 28
>tfw I want a gf

>>18158621
How is your social life?
How is your physical health?
What happened that made you get into college so late?
What's your reason for being depressed?
Why do you want a girlfriend?
What are your hobbies or interests?
Do you have other dreams besides game making?
What do you want from your life?

>>18158593
Best part on dating is that there are no rules to it.

Tell her that next date has to be initiated by her if you really mind. Maybe it will be fun for both of us to switch the rules.

>>18158593
cos youre the guy

>>18158593

Oh boo fucking hoo you insecure pansy. Just assume that's your role to play in the relationship and stop attaching some deeper meaning to it.

Sad and disappointed, to be honest.

Which is kind of the way I feel.

I moved countries to be closer (she wasnt the main reason, medical school was better there, but it was still a big consideration). Ive regularly tried to allocate time away from my busy studies to see her.

Its not LETS BREAK UP material, but I do feel a little hearbroken that my gf has chosen some extra shifts at KFC instead of seeing each other, especially if she keeps texting me how much she wants to see me. Bit of a mindfuck

Yeah, I'd feel sad first, and then after stewing in my feels for a while the sadness would probably transmute itself to anger. "How DARE she pick work over seeing me? Doesn't she GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THIS RELATIONSHIP????"

I don't recommend saying that, but personally I'd probably be steamed enough about it to tell her how I felt. Civilly. Politely. Taking a deep breath and texting or saying, "Look, I know you have your reasons, but this is how that made me feel ..."

Better than bottling it up.

>>18158516
She moved to Florida...

>>18158516
Good parents dont go and cheat on their partners. And if you think children are super stupid who needs to be protected from "life" then you are mistaken.

Ask your son if he wants to see some woman he has never seen before in 2days trip. It doesnt matter she is his biological mom if she never acted like that.

And once he asks you where his mom is, tell him how his mom didnt even bothered to show up at court. Telling lies to kids to protect them from bad feelings is shortsighted.

Personally I would not allow it.

>>18158547
My mistake, I guess I forgot to mentioned we were together for 6 years before she cheated, our son knows who she is. He turned 4 when she took off to FL last year in October

Uuuuuuuuuh....This is rather dependant on the level of social etiquette/manners you are trying to emulate. Are we talking full on Victorian-era etiquette here....or just basic manners? Because the two things have some different answers depending on needs. (Also.........the Queen...really?)

>>18158496
I didn't figure they're mutually exclusive. I meant like both.

I'm not used to sitting on chairs and like using forks and I'm pretty kind of sure that my gf has an aunt who is a fucking baroness by marriage or something like that.

Look, there's a great book you can find in practically any second hand bookshop by Emily Post on old school etiquette. It has everything. As for newer stuff, there are modern adaptations.

Start growing watermelons.

Fuck girls with daddy issues.

Autofellatio is a good start.

You probably will have trouble getting hard while on MDMA. It's not impossible for some guys, but it's more likely that you'll have trouble than not.

You're probably going to get a few suggestions amounting to "just take Viagra/Cialis!" Anybody who says that is an idiot. DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM.

MDMA is a very safe drug by itself (it only becomes unsafe when it's cut with stuff, which unfortunately it often is). MDMA is emphatically not safe when mixed with other drugs, especially vasodilators like Viagra/Cialis.

My advice to you? Lose your virginity with nothing stronger than alcohol or cannabis in your system.

>>18158469
I've heard it's easier to get an erection during the comedown

Listen to the previous poster!

But more importantly, mixing mind altering substances and sex is kind of a hit or miss, and even if you do successfully deal with the ED caused by MDMA the substance could have effects (is that the right one? I never know T_T) on both your perception of the events as well as your pleasure levels and memory of the events.

Before engaging in sex with mind altering substances. Try it without. Make certain that you can tell what is going on beforehand!
....Unless you really need some beer goggles for an unfortunate part.er....at that point, just do what you gotta do!

Just come out with it senpai. If you were in her shoes would you want your friend to beat around the bush?

>>18158450
But in most of those cases the victim ends up hating the messanger and id like to avoid that if possible

>Friend is being cheated on
>Has physical evidence
>"B-but what if they get upset? =("

*Sigh*

You're simply over speculating. But from the looks of it, you're a very insecure person and a relationship in which one person is insecure and the other isn't is usually a relationship that doesn't last. That said, don't let my words affect your gut feeling on the situation.

The only real result from mistakes being made are lessons learned. Remember that.

This might be bullshit and basic game, might be not. Don't think too much about it since you are just dating.

I also do not jump on 10/10 girls only, I see no problem in spending time with average girls if they are nice to hang out with.

Love is irrational; I tend to fall madly in love with girls that nobody else even likes. And if he really likes you, he won't mind if you ask him why he likes you. Female weakness in endearing and adorable; he will love that shit. So ask him. It'll help score you some freebie compliments.

You two will quite possibly break up in the future, because couples usually do and he might well be doing what you suspect, but even if that's the case, you've got a good few months ahead to be happy with him, so go for it.

Read. Do not parrot the parts you perceive as insightful or humorous, instead read more until these things start falling into patterns, e.g. you realizing certain human interaction dynamics which you can then apply in real life or you simply gaining new knowledge and ability to put it into perspective, not only challenging your own beliefs but also allowing you to be interesting externally.
Alternatively, if you want to roll with the normie crowd, just watch superhero movies and whichever "epic" TV show is currently the most watched one.

>>18158455

Anything you would recommend?

>>18158584

bump

Viagra.

Stop masterbating so much. Also since it's your first time that was also killing your confidece eventually you'll get better. But all that beating doesn't help.

>>18158397
Thanks for the kind words, I think you are right. I mean if I just started jerking it there, I would probably have made myself hard in no time, but without the iron tight grip it just seemed to shrink back. Will limit it and see.

Sort of technically. I like to imagine that I'm the woman that I know and I'm getting fucked by the regular me. It's not gay though.

>>18158374
Very rarely. Usually just a crush, once or twice. I used to do it more when I was a teen. I think some guys have a quirk for jacking it off to women they know, imagining them or looking at fb photos.

Yea I so it all day

>>18158347

>im 18 - will that be weird?

Of course. A nearly 30 year old person is hanging out with a bunch of teenagers. There is absolutely nothing not weird about that. 100% weird. Pretty pathetic as well.

>>18158347
You are horny stupid teen, who cares? Enjoy ride, dont catch aids, dont get somebody pregnant and try to not abuse drug substances much, it is not exactly healthy.

>>18158361
Kinda off for a 30 y/o to be hanging out with teens though, isn't it? But yeah, from his perspective it's all good.

Why even make a new facebook?

Just remove your old one and go without.

>>18158322
This is a good point. I thought people would get suspicious if I didn't have anything at all, though. That part is up in the air.

Why do you need to disappear? Also colleges seem risky, your educational scores and achievements would be tied to your old name so to enroll to a new college you'd have to make a recorded connection between your old and new names, I think.

You probably just lack social skills, are insecure etc.

If you really think you are autistic than get diagnosed and get those autismbux

>>18158275
I don't know exactly to what extent autism describes a degree of separation, so forgive me if I'm using the wrong word.

I feel like i don't 'feel' like most people. One constant thought i experience is that people are ridiculous with their emotions. I feel like my bleeps of emotion are so minute. I'm just a tiny bit happy, or a tiny bit mad, or a tiny bit sad. I almost never laugh unless i force myself to when around people. I feel that stuff really has no bearing in existence. Like it's a weird contrived formality. I feel a complete disconnect with interacting with people, besides a few people who somehow i can connect with.

>>18158293
Why would you connect with people without socializing with them? Im sure youre a smart guy, so you know what happens when a kid is isolated from all of the other people since birth. Isolation changes you. Regular interaction with people in school, work, family dinner, is not enough most of the time. Really talking with people about things and trying to balance their expectations with yours is what makes you feel more connected. It's not you and 'them' anymore.

>besides a few people who somehow i can connect with.
See? Those are the people you have gotten to interact with more.

Also, stop posting stupid things like a guy photoshopped to look like Guts. I get that image, but even I think it's stupid. Don't let memes be part of your life. It's not good for a person such as you.