Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 2079. page

>>18159024
You cannot.
Rest assured though, it's only obvious to you. I mean, you don't notice other people's blackhead.

>>18159031
but they are quite visible and in fact my friends told me about them, i hadn´t noticed them ever

>>18159032
Man, what shitty friends.
Standard solution would be exfoliation. BHA, Azelaic, pore brush, clarisonic.
And make-up obv.

File: 1450296024253.jpg (62KB, 720x720px) Image search: [Google]

62KB, 720x720px

>loose

i lol'd

Yes. Tell her tor eschedule

It would be weird if you didn't ask. Just be friendly and forget the romance for the day. You know...be a decent human.

>>18158895
>This guy is truly showing himself as an abject dastard.
Oh, fuck yourself. You don't have any "claim" here. You've blown 3 separate chances to get with this girl because you were too fucked-up to function. You only refer to her as a "hoe" so you clearly don't LIKE her all that much, you just want easy pussy.

If you want her, make a fucking move. You're just being a coward. You can't fight your friend for the "right" to have her, just fucking talk to her, and maybe don't be ridiculously intoxicated next time

>>18158912
Actually it was 2 chances.
>you just want easy pussy.
Same as my lad. Does that make my intentions less legitimate?
>make a fucking move
I'll do, on the night of the concert. Trouble is my friend will be doing the same.

>>18158940
Not "less," but certainly not "more." It'd be one thing if you were in love and he just wanted to fuck. But you both want the same thing, so you don't really have any right to ask him to back off. It's up to her.

She sounds kinda nasty anyway, I don't know why you're letting this girl Yoko Ono your band. You'd really try to start a bunch of drama with your bandmate over her? Why? Last time you saw her, you picked drugs over pussy, and then ignored her for months. Why is she so important all the sudden?

>>18158890
>Is it a bad idea not wearing glasses ? Will my eyesight worsen considerably not wearing them ?
Not really, not really.

>>18158890

1. Get a prescription for your eyesight. (don't know how that works in your country, just make sure you get the cheapest obviously)

2. Try different frames on any glasses shop, find one that fits your face the best. (google guides on face and glasses shape)

3. Order models similar to the ones you liked on cheap online stores (like zennioptical, eyebuydirect or warby parker).

It's the safest way to buy glasses, no incorrect prescription, not something you don't like, and something not so expensive.

>>18159808
>I realize i should get glasses but I am too poor to buy them and will be for at least 6 months.
Said OP.

>>18158887
Babies are cute.

>>18158887
It will be fine. You'll be a great father.

>>18158893
>>18158892

So plan B or?

>How much protection is too much?

If he's not exposed to the risk of pain, then he's not learning how to prevent pain. That's exactly what 'sheltered' means.

PSA: try to find a middle ground between opposing extremes. Life is not a dichotomy.

>>18158854
The helmet and pads ain't the worst idea especially if he's a little kid. Those fuckers do the stupidest shit. Video games is iffy since it's good to have other hobbies but he will be a little alienated from other kids. Pedo and cpnspiracy thing seem a bit much unless you live in some weird violent hormonal place. You know you could talk to her as the fucking dad right?

>>18158854
I don't see how protecting your kid from getting a TBI is gonna make him into a pussy? Is buckling your seat belt for pussies too?

Video games are full of hatred and they suck ass regardless, but I played them as a kid, and was always able to completely differentiate video games from reality. Honestly if you're worried about him becoming a pussy video games will probably do that more than anything. It's the number one beta male hobby behind anime, unless your 10 year old is in a fraternity playing FIFA with bros.

And beyond all that, people just have their own temperment. I'm good friends with two brothers, who are a year apart. They had the same parents, but their personalities are quite different.

In Canada or California, maybe.

>>18158846
You're everything wrong with men these days.

File: dick in the face.jpg (172KB, 1024x936px) Image search: [Google]

172KB, 1024x936px

>>18158862
You're just mad because trans athletes are setting world records.

>>18158838
I'm /fit/. Only bench really uses a spotter, but you don't need one. Just be careful you don't overload. If you fail, bring it slowly to your chest and then roll the bar down your body.

The simple answer is to just not let yourself come anywhere near failing.

If you're not ON TRACK RIGHT NOW towards becoming a competitive athlete, then perish all thought of lifting at a competitive level. Just make yourself tired then quit, consider using pairs of dumbbells rather than a bar and plates. If you're in an actual gym then you can probably find a pair of dumbs that add up to your own bodyweight unless your body is a gelatinous spheroid.

>inb4 some crybaby roleplayer pretends to be he-man

>>18158838
>so should I bring a friend?
If you can, why not?

2/2

Basically working 60-70 hours a week on this shit has completely killed all my passion and interest for it, and what's worse is that the deeper I go the more I realise how insurmountable the mountain of knowledge is and how if I work like a slave for the rest of my life then maybe, just MAYBE, I might contribute with some minor innovation to some obscure piece of technology that might be mentioned in 2 sentences in a college textbook.

I still feel this compulsion to contribute with something useful to the world but I don't know how now that I don't really see a future in the field I've basically devoted my life to up to this point. I'm pretty good at programming and I like creating apps and other software in my spare time, but I hate programming courses in uni because I couldn't give less of a shit about the projects we're making, I only care about my own personal projects.

Honestly I'm considering graduating with my physics BSc and then leave school forever and start a software business. I'm actually trying to start one right now but it's going super slow due to school workload. But then again I'd feel like I wasn't offering anything of value to the world, I wouldn't be solving any of the big problems. Advice, anyone?

> I don't mind working hard in general, in fact if I get really into something I'll work on it nonstop and sometimes forget to eat lol, but the problem is I'm not getting excited about anything we're learning anymore.

Pushing past the long and boring parts is part of hard work.

Saying you want to achieve some great new technological innovation or start a company without doing lots of boring slog is like saying you want to run a marathon without the gruelling and dull parts in the middle.

I work in finance and have pretty lofty goals but as a result my reading list is almost 100,000 pages and still expanding and I don't necessarily enjoy doing all the study but the choice is between this and mediocrity. You have to make sacrifices and numb yourself to unpleasant things to stand out in the world.

>>18158788
>very prestigious uni
No, it's not. Stop lying to yourself.

Basically you are experiencing a burnout. Lower your workload. Take less courses. Get a hobby. Relax a bit. Masturbate. Meditate.

>>18158768
NEET stands for Not in Employment Education or Training. If you got a degree you weren't NEET.

Anyway 32 with a degree isn't bad at all. If you want a family just start trying to find someone, it's not too late.

File: Screen Shot 2017-03-25 at 15.58.38.png (101KB, 879x530px) Image search: [Google]

101KB, 879x530px

>>18158780
>not a NEET
Did it by distance learning. I've never left home. Barely preferable to being a NEET.

I don't know why I exist. There is only the moment to moment flow of consciousness. "Cannot the kingdom of salvation take me home?"

>>18158768
Schizophrenia is degenerative. You manage it, but you can't cure it.

I'd say it could be A,C or just none of the above. There is no correct answer with philosophy, you just need to be able to explain the reasoning behind what you think.

>>18158731
There's not really any free will because the universe is deterministic but the illusion is just as good. It changes nothing to think about this. You still have to live life, you still have to make decisions. The ego exists, the thoughts it thinks and the decisions it makes still exist.

>>18158785
I think that really depend on your definition of free will.
Of course, everything you do is a reaction to something that happend in the past. Sure, you can "choose" how to react to most things but you actually only choose a certain reaction because of your learned dispositions and genes.
But to me, exactly this is free will. What else would it be?
Making a decision without any outside influence would be impossible, because you wouldn't know anything.

>>18158723
Go to school, you doofus.

>>18158723
Depends on the career you're trying to peruse, respected and eccentric can work, but not always.

>>18158740
When does it fail

Dude this is just the second time you're dating, calm down your horses. If she wanted to give you the cold shoulder it would be quite obvious.

>>18158669
Give her another chance.

>>18158674
>>18158686
Thanks bros, I needed to hear someone else say it.

Just stop acting like how your doing, it's quite obvious to the people surrounding you what you're trying to find. Of course it's going to creep them up.

Just dress normally and go to places your like and have a great time. The people that normally hang there will start to notice you and MIGHT go on to chat. There's no magic wand that's going to make someone hit you with a conversation.

>boyfriend
are yuoa's's's a girl
that feel when no girl to creep you out

the thing is 95% of guys are too insecure to approach a girl especially if shes really good looking

if your average looking or better you should be the one approaching guys because we are alot less picky than women so even if you arnt our type you probably wont get turned down if they are single

when I was yonger I dated a girl for 2 months just because she just walked up to me and asked if she could kiss me I wasnt even attracted to her but i was single and wanted sex

>>18158633
You should probably ask him if he's stressed out, how he's doing, how's his family; figuring out the source of his more than obvious stress.

>>18158633
It sounds like he's not that into you. Try talking to him about it, but I think you'd be better off dumping him.

>>18158655
This. If this was a healthy relationship, he would put some effort in. And it sounds like you two aren't sexually compatible or he's gay.