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just make a decision

Just try it. At least you'll know you would be better off than being on the streets.

>homeless
>jobless
>still has internet access
>parents gifted $5K
Just kill yourself.

Cyanide ought to do the trick, good luck xx

>>18162241
Probably multivitamin so you don't get that malnourished bubble stomach. Seriously dude just cut 1000cal a day and wait 2 months. You don't even have to exercise.

There is no magical pill that helps you lose weight. It all comes down to you, and the decisions you make.

Try different egg recipes like boiled, scotches, fried, sunny side up, omelettes, eggs in ramen noodles, egg salad sandwich, eggs in a nest, eggs in a Cloud. I love eggs.

>>18162172
Sorry scotches eggs*

there are other foods
if you like non scrambled eggs they have the same food value. I'd find hard boiled eggs easier to wolf down without tasting much.
excessive salt and overcooking them helped me to stomach them when i didn't like them as a small child.

>continued...

Op here:

So what I'm asking is who else is/was been in this little situation?

The stories I post are of just me living my life. Going to concerts. Gym. Funny ones. Off Roading. Driving with friends.

She doesn't post up anything. She did but I didn't look at them because I could tell it's was a filtered selfie and a picture of food...

>I would still like to get back with her though... : /

But she dumped me. Blocked me on FB. And jumped into a new relationship right away. ... its my place to be the one reaching out.

Or is it?

>Is it considered contacting me if she watches all my stories.

>Or should I just keep no contact until she actually sends me a real message?

>>18162189

>Is it considered contacting me if she watches all my stories.

Yes and no. If she's doing no contact with you, but looking at your stories, then I'd say she's breaking no contact by looking, especially that soon. But if she just decided to stop talking to you and move to the next guy, then I'd say no it's not contact in the least bit.

>Or should I just keep no contact until she actually sends me a real message?

Keep no contact even if she sends a message. The chick fucking ghosted you, and not only that, she left you for another dude. Do you seriously want that kind of shit in your life? Could you seriously see yourself getting back together with her after what she did? I know you're hurting dude, I've been in a very similar situation before, but you need to use this as an opportunity to grow some respect for yourself and move on, even if it takes a bit.

If you have any more questions feel free to ask, but those are kind of the main points to answer from what I've gathered from your posts.

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Dude, come on...

Any girl that ends a relationship in such a way isn't worth a second thought. If you can honestly still want her back after her doing that childish shit to you, you probably deserved it.

>>18162101
Idk, op. But before you end it all,!3 sure to take lots of pictures

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>>18162101
hey I was in a pretty similar situation but instead of ending it I went to the doctor because what else did I have to lose if I was just going to end it?

She put me on a generic version of xanax and I've been on it for two years now and everything has changed. It changed slowly but now I don't even need the medicine to leave the house. Everything isn't perfect of course but nothing ever is.

TL;DR Go to a doctor and tell them what you just told us minus the suicidal part because they don't like that. They'll put you on anxiety medication and as long as you don't abuse it you'll be fine.

Are you just generally anxious all the time, or is something in particular causing this anxiety? Try to pinpoint exactly what's causing it. If you can find no reason, then try to see a psychiatrist.

Physics is a very diffucult degree. Surely only the very smartest of students can finish it. It's also a very quantitative degree-much more different than linguistics.

Did you just pick them at random?

Have you thought seriously about where'll you'll be ten years from graduation of both of them?

>>18162061
You're fucked either way, so might as well go for the one you enjoy learning more, since you'll never actually work in that field after you get your masters. I'll never forget the linguistics master from UCLA who was working in our IT company for the past 6 years before I was hired.

>>18162095
I got near-perfect scores from my physics finals and linguistics has always been a passion of mine
Linguistics doesn't really produce a career, but I'm a friend of literature and have got some short stories published, so it would probably lead me to be an independent writer/translator
Physics could lead me to an actual job in meteorology/industry, but the fact stands that its behind a much bigger workload than linguistics.

>>18162100
I kind of agree. Poor guy though

>>18162047
>I'm kind of really sad I couldn't have had my first relationship when I was younger, back when everything was exciting and I had huge crushes on guys
>I was too ugly and fat to have had a boyfriend when I was young
Tough shit.

>How do I get over what I missed out on?
By realizing life is finite and often injust, and that there are some good things you just will never experience, because you're too old, or too poor, or not enough of a X person. The only thing to do is focusing on what's within your reach.

>But now everything is underwhelming. It's like there's no point in it.
Well, there are other reasons why you'd appreciate being in a relationship, but if it's not doing it for you, maybe there's no point to it? Excitement in general is a pretty fleety thing anyway. And the person that can best entertain you is always yourself, even though at 26 you're probably starting to get more responsibilities and less free time.

>>18162122
> The only thing to do is focusing on what's within

But what's within my reach seems to underwhelming and not worth it that I just end up feeling suicidal

>>18162127
That feeling is called depression. It's a bitch to live with.

Stop being so controlling for one thing. You sound very insecure.

If you're so concerned about the dresses she wears, buy her ones that you like?

>>18162004
Well, I don't have any insecurities in this relationship. I trust her. I just morally don't want other men to see her underwear and I morally don't want to see more than that until I marry someone. I'm one of those crazy Christians. But I do like the idea of buying her a dress I like. Thanks for that one!

You got together with her presumably knowing what she dresses like. Then you don't get to turn around and tell her that now that she's your girlfriend, she has to change.

Even if you didn't know, you have no say in this. What you describe is pretty normal attire, not the most conservative but not eye catchingly provocative either. Now if she was going clubbing with a see through top I would understand your position. Telling her that she cannot dress with cleavage is not your place.

Obviously the dresses exist but she doesn't need an argument to want to dress according to what she likes. You can break up over it if you find it -that- important to have a girl who always covers up all of her tits, otherwise you have to accept it.

>>18161966

humans are biologically programmed to have sex, if it wasn't one of the TOP PRIORITIES for humans, it would have resulted in us dying out a long time ago.

women are programmed to only want sex with someone who can 'take care of them' as if they just let everyone fuck them, no one man would want to stick around and they and their child would be in danger, so they are naturally more selective about partners with a lower sex drive.

men on the other hand are programmed to compete with each other to PROVE they are worth it to the man, and as such are designed to be as horny as fucking possible and seed a woman as much as fucking possible, which is why its pretty normal for a guy to masturbate once a day.

now take away that mans orgasm, which is not only part of his evolutionary drive that says hes succeeding, but also provides pleasure and a release of hormones that make him comfy and happy, and you would likely have a very depressed man, a man who lives for no reason other than to withhold his own happiness.

the reason 'nofap' exists is because there are thousands of people who have an addiction to porn that prevents them from getting laid or being there for their girlfriends, or are even just spending the large majority of their days wasting time.

but for the average man, masturbation is no different than having dessert. completely fine and well within reason with no REAL consequences.

I stopped masturbating for about 2 weeks once... It was the longest I ever went without it since I discovered it

Ended up feeling way more confident and "manly", and ended up being rude to a grocery store cashier who asked me to donate $1.00 for childrens charity. I told her that if the store really cared about the children they would just donate the money themselves and not try and guilt already paying customers into spending more.

Walked away completely surprised at what just happened, as I usually never say things like that...

Then I eventually started whacking off again regularly and since then Ive never felt as ballsy as I did that day.

>>18161966
my mood doesnt change if i fap or not fap
also i never found fapping fun

>>18161960
>I need advice on not being a pedophile
Turn yourself & your computer in to police with a signed confession that you enjoy watching children being raped.

>>18161960
Go on a 1 month hiking trip and nofap at the same time. Transformative experience.

>>18161960
what?

>>18161954
Give up it is hopeles, and the word you wanted was piqued

Befriend her, enjoy friendship.

>>18161978
>>18161979
Not very helpful advice guys

CHeck with your doctor if you can lower your dose.

>>18161959

No taking them at the moment, 3 months after the last dose. What can I do?

>>18161968
Get back on them.

Forgot to say that there are times when when can have like 2/3 times great sex a day, but usually after a party or when whe smoke pot together.

I have no idea but bumping because my boyfriend is the same.
He is never horny or turned on around me. It's messing with my head and I'm actually losing sleep over it. He swears it's not me or my body but I've really had enough of his dick being soft all the time.
Now I find myself going out on my own just to get some attention to see if I am still attractive. This is fucking with me.

Any young guy complaininf of lack of libido should first stop masturbating. Once you haven't masturbated in a couple weeks, I dare you to come back and tell us that your libido is still low

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I feel you OP. My gf of 2 years left me a week ago. I've been thinking about her non-stop ever since to the point that I'm getting mentally sick...

I don't have any advice for you but since I'm in the same situation I thought I would drop by and seek advice too

Man I wish a guy would feel like that about me

What made you like the girl so much?

>>18162120
She was funny and cute and kinda understanding in the beginning. I met her right when my depression was getting pretty bad and she helped me through that. We were both kinda damaged and found solace in each other, but she got better and stopped loving me.

>>18161918
Go to a hair dresser.

>>18161937
This, then ask for the "back and to the left".

>>18161937
Yup problem solved