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What are some good sex meetups website ? I mean, kinda like tinder but focused on sex hookup.
Anyone of you already use some one of these ? Did it works well ?
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>>18698972
What made you think Tinder isn't a sex hookup app? That's basically what you use it for, you rate people on looks and then you fuck them if they like you back. Going there for anything else is 90% percent of the time going to end in disappointment.
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>>18698972
Tinder

Unless you mean guaranteed sex in which case one of those escort/whore sites
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Not OP but, at least in my area Tinder has just become a source of validation and "boyfriend shopping" culture for every girl. Just a little dose of validation they can keep in their pocket so they can feel attractive whenever they need it.

Tinder isn't what it used to be is what I'm saying.

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How do i deal with a breakup from the girl i loved more than i imagined i could ever love someone
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>>18698959
Realise that breakups happen everyday. You cant get rid of the emotions, just ride it out and you'll think of her less and less everyday
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>>18698959
I wish I could feel what you feel op, to love someone so much it hurts to physically. Must be nice
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>>18698986
Heartbreak is completely shitty you knob

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Can a cat 5 hurricane destroy a 10 story building? I'm supposed to evacuate I'd rather not if it's unnecessary
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>>18698938

Even if it can't it will fuck the water, electricity, and everything that makes living in your building comfy, nay possible. Unless you're a well prepared survivalist it is time to go.
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If the authorities tell you to evacuate, you do it. Otherwise you'll become a Darwin award.
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>>18698953
You mean, or else youll GET a Darwin award.

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People said moving put and living on your own makes you feel independent and turns you into a stronger, fuller person. I just moved our and feel nothing but fear of being alone and away from family. "Fight or flight" happens every morning. The second I'm not busy with school or something it comes back. I don't want to be scared anymore
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>>18698935

You tried it, you don't like it. You're allowed to be proud you gave it a go and also stop doing it.
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>>18698935
Relax a bit. There's a strong element of homesickness in your panic, and that is both normal and temporary. Give yourself at least a couple of months to settle in, get used to the neighborhood, meet your neighbors, find your way to local stores and the like, have some friends over, and generally begin to feel like this is "your place"
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>>18698946
I cant. My parents will die eventually. My sister will want to have her own life too, and I'll be alone again. I have to do this eventually.

I want to prove to myself I can do this

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I (F) need some opinions on a birth mark I have, regarding dating and saving up for removal.

The birth mark is dark brown (I'm white), flat, about dime-sized, and on the side of my jaw parallel with my last, lower molar. I can cover it pretty well with special make-up meant for birth marks, tattoos, vitiligo, etc. and I don't think you could notice how it doesn't completely match my actual foundation unless you knew it was there. I'm otherwise fairly pretty and get guys flirting with me whenever I go out with it concealed.

I haven't gotten a quote on the cost of excision yet (it's too dark for laser therapy), but online estimates places it at about $2,000-$3,000 total. I work 30 hours a week for $13/hour, so that kind of money is not insignificant to me.

I want to start dating now that I'm out of my parents' house, but I don't know how to handle it with my birth mark.

Should I start dating while I still have it or wait until it's been removed?
If I start dating before surgery, when and how should I tell dates about it?
If I start dating after surgery, when and how should I tell tell dates about it?
If you were dating me and knew I have or had that birth mark, how would it affect your opinion of me?
Should I live as frugally as possible (rent's stupidly expensive, even when splitting one of the cheapest two bedroom flats available) to put about $250-$300/month towards removal (taking about 9 months), or only save $150/month or so, taking me about 16 months, unless I got a boyfriend to share a studio or one bedroom apartment with for less and/or pitch in.

FWIW, I turned 21 last month and am still a virgin and I don't want to keep delaying that part of my life, but will if the majority of you think it's the better decision.
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>>18698899

If you have tits, guys are not going to give a fuck about a birthmark
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>>18698899
Some guys actually like imperfections, like birth marks. When I see a pretty girl with like a big mole on her chin I only think she's prettier, and it's a good sign they're a decent person I think.
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>>18698899
you're making it sound like you're hiding a dick and don't know how to tell them etc. guys don't give that much of a shit just be cool and date with it and don't worry about it. most likely you're over focused on it and most don't care

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So I don't get high that often and my friend and I split this massive blunt last night and I felt like I was inside of a point of infinite gravity and started having closed-eye hallucinations of spinning colorful patterns which I believed were dreams that I had from the ages of 1-3. Because of this I thought my life was flashing before my eyes and I belived I was going to die. Is this normal? Should I see a doctor? Has anyone else experienced similar things? The reason I'm concerned is I've seen that psychiatric literature is beginning to support links between THC and schizophrenia and I'm within the age range for schizophrenia to be developing.
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You just took too much. I had that happen to me when I took my medical weed oil I took a normal dosage of the bottom of it and turns out it was extremely strong at the bottom. I ended up seeing shadows becoming dragons and floating Snoopdog heads singing to the dragons.

You prob just took too much at once.
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>>18698726
I've never had smoking weed even come close to hallucinating but closed eye you could have been close to falling asleep or maybe even had salvia or some shit mixed in there. if you only experience it while high as shit I wouldn't see a Dr
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>>18698745
>You just took too much.
This. Same thing happened to me once, with almost the same kind of hallucination. it was fine, and nothing has happened to me since. The key thing to remember: it was just a bad dream. Seriously, it didn't mean anything, try to move on.

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How do I get a masters degree in something?
Does it have to be related to a bachelor's how does that work

Interested in masters of chem. Have CS degree
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Generally you have to have the associated Bachelors, unless they're very similar. CS -> Chemistry is probably too far of a stretch.
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For chemistry, it's rare to get a masters in it. You apply for a PhD but if you leave early you get masters as a "consolation" prize in the US.
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>>18698603
Professor writing here

While most grad school applicants naturally enough majored in the same field, crossing fields is perfectly possible. You'll just have to make the case in your application letter/essay. ("Although I majored in CS as an undergrad, largely because I had committed to it before I began to lose interest, the two chemistry classes I took opened my eyes to my real passion.......")

I went and did it, I got into a long distance relationship. I'm a guy, 21, she's 20.

We met through a friend and had a weird will they won't they for a few months because i thought distance would be too hard. I finally decided to just jump in and do it and it's been about a month. She seems extremely genuine about it all, we're making plans to meet in a few months, basically video chat every other day. I think we also have a good grasp on our mental states, maturity, and have the best communicating I've had with a partner. We started of as amazing friends so it just feels like a step uo now. Do you think this could be a serious long lasting thing or am I fooling myself? I've heard the argument of "you love their online persona not them" but i feel the video and meeting up will solve that. We're also both done with our trades and ready to move on, so possibly we could move to the same town.
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>>18698582

Of course it can be a serious long lasting thing, long distance relationships do work, you just have to take the extra time and effort to invest in them honestly. As long as you're both honest, mature, caring and communicative enough you can make it work. Careful with the rushing into things, moving, etc.
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>>18698582
Yes.
It can work
No.
It won't be easy
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Wait, have you met in real life or not? If not, it's not a relationship. Meet up asap.

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>>744427094
>> when i was a kid my babysitter made me lick hger pussy
>> remember her telling me how good it felt
>> parents came home i kept trying to lick it and she slapped me
>> she grows up and becomes the special ed teacher at the local high school
>> probably molested 100's of retards
>> kept this a secret my whole life
>> thinking i need to report it
>> want to ruin her life like she ruined mine
>> want her to die alone and in shame
>> caused me to have trust issues and made me have fear of the vagina
>> see a vagina now my mouth automagically goes on it
>> start getting scared i will get slapped
>> have you ever seen a 50 yr old man flinch when he sees a vag?
>> want to sue her for medical bills all the shrinks i have seen cost me a
fortune to work through this
>> hope she dies alone, shamed, and penniless
>> when she would babysit me i knew what was coming
>> piss myself when my parents left
>> to this day when i get slapped by a woman i get an erection

My question is should I report it? If I dont she will just keep raping retards right? Scared people wont believe me!
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It's probably been to long Anon and if you also won't have proof of it. Sorry but you had to do it when you where still young.
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I had an older woman abuse me as a kid too. I was too afraid to report her because she is good at hiding evidence. If I were you I watch hercaregully to see if she is still doing it and make evidence of it. Right now it just be word of mouth.
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>>18698475
This is so fucking hot. I wish I had your life. I would've loved that shit.

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How do hide my anger? When I'm pissed off and I'm outside, I can't hide how furious I am. Just one look at my face and you can tell right away.
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Maybe you should get some dick in your life, princess.
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Why wouldn't you want them to know if something annoys you...?

Instead of trying to hide your feelings be open about them.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EfEK-Pmi7v0
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>>18698409

Like today, I just had a fight with someone close to me. Something has been going on for a long time and I decided to confront her about it, pointed out what was wrong so we could find a solution. She just went bonkers and deflected everything before walking out on me. The 10 minute walk to my car seemed like miles long. On the way there, I just couldn't contain my anger. Someone was like "Whoa, don't slap me, bitch!" when all I did was walk past her.

Some strangers feel like my anger is directed at them and sometimes, they react to it negatively.

It takes a while for my anger to subside and I usually need to be alone, but that's hard when I'm somewhere public.

I do try to make my facial expressions more neutral but it doesn't work. I just don't want to attract unnecessary negative attention.

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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Why do girls get weird and motherly when you get sick or injured?
I was in a car crash last week and broke my leg and some ribs and my girlfriend, mother, sister and my sister-in-law have all been doting over me non stop since I've been out of the hospital.
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>>18698367
This is a dumb question. Women are biologically predisposed to want to nurture. Because moms.
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>>18698367
Because they care about you...?

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So I dated this girl for a month or two beginning last January (our senior year in college). She tells me quickly that she's moving halfway across the US when we graduate in May & tells me to not get attached. Scared of falling in love & getting hurt I end things.

She comes back last weekend and we grab drinks at a bar and spend 3 hours chatting. She comes over and we stay up all night cuddling and chatting (no sex).

Now for why I'm here. For some reason I feel hurt - like a bad breakup. I never fell for this girl when we dated yet after one night I feel super depressed that she's gone.. why? How can I have these feelings after one night?
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You spent a whole night and you knew her before, whats the question here?
You can fall in love in 5 seconds.
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>>18698309
What confuses me is I saw her for a few months & we spent the summer apart and I didn't have any of these feelings. Now after one night I'm torn up - I don't get it at all.
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>>18698309
>>18698332
Also, looking for some advice on what to do? I can afford plane tickets & she's asked me a few times to visit but idk if that would be good or bad.

I just don't want to feel like this again and I feel like seeing her again would add to it

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> Be me
> New to 4chan, just moved from Reddit
>Used Reddit for a while but browsed /r/4chan a lot
> Towards the end of my use, I became addicted to /r/watchpeopledie
> Got to the point I fapped to it
> Always had an urge to kill, seen professionals but never stuck with them
> Convinced there's something seriously wrong with me deep down

Should I seek help again?
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>>18698256
Absolutely
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>>18698256
you have to go back
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>>18698256
>Should I seek help again?
Most definitely. Something must be seriously wrong with you for going on reddit

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Everytime I hang out with a girl, whether it be a friend or coworker, people look and glance at me all smiley and smug like they know something I dont. Do they find it funny that a guy as ugly as me is being accompanied by a girl at all? Do they think I'm a beta being strung along and find THAT funny? WHY THE FUCK DOES THIS KEEP HAPPENING?!?!?! WHAT DOES IT MEAN ROOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!
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Please someone answer. I'll fuck off after some decent advice. Has this happened to anyone else? What does it say about me? I hate being so socially impaired.
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>>18698253
why does it matter what people think, anon?
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>>18698253
they might not even be actually paying any attention to you.. could be hyper sensitive to shit and just kind of making it up that everyone's laughing at you etc

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Is there any other 4chan browsing loser here who managed to get a gf?
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Yeah. I have irl friends that are women and they set me up
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the regulars in /adv/ probably skew older than most people think.

but do you mean loser as in anyone who gets on 4chan, or a loser who acts out their loser-ness in real life?
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Yes. She was a short haired coworker that I thought was an effeminate man for two weeks until I spoke to her in the break room. As her hair grew out she started looking ladylike again so I made a move and for our first date she wore a normal t-shirt which unintentionally revealed she has a massive bust, and I also learned she was a khv loser like me. She had shaved her head to support a childhood female friend who had undergone chemo and felt uncomfortable about having no hair. Two and a half conflict-free years later we're currently mapping out a two week road trip at the end of which I'm popping the question and hopefully cherry.

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