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what do you mean by "dating" Are they currently together or what? That changes what the person should do.

>>18164839
i think he means "dating" by "she wants to run away but he is stuck to her and she cant do anything"

>>18164190
btw you don't have to write your name...

>>18164179
As far as I can tell that's one half. The other half being taking responsibility for your actions and life.

It's everything, life is everything you could ever think of

>>18164179

no, its realizing that you have one of the cushiest existences in the history of all of existence and that you should enjoy every moment of it possible while still paying what little dues are expected of you and trying to pay it forward.

If you can't communicate effectively, then your STEM degree is next to useless.

>>18164182
But I already speak English and have the ability to demonstrate knowledge as a result

>>18164250
Being able to speak English and being able to communicate effectively are two different things.

Also it wouldn't kill you to be a little more rounded in your education either.

>>18164132

make a list of meals you enjoy then google
>how to cook X (wherein X is the name of one of those dinners)
>print or write instructions
>follow them

don't skimp on ingredients otherwise you end up with just a tasteless hunk of meat.

>and exercise

create a check list of exercises you need to do. then do them. then check them off.

>>18164139
thanks. about done!

where can you buy fresh ho - fun from?

similar situation, but i just got rid of him. i probably would have faked something but if they're as bad as you say they tend to do something that cant be overlooked.

in this case my guy was 1) embezzling and 2) masturbating at my desk

>>18164134

jfc. nice, anon. Was he caught on security or did you walk in on him?

>>18164151

for embezzlement he just wasnt hiding it very well, i was able to figure it out after one ismple conversation. he told me we owed his boyfriend 500 dollars in updates on our website, for two updates. the updates are to the calendar and they take 30 seconds to do (i know because now I run the entire website in house). so i asked for proof and he quickly changed his tune.

as for the porn id just come in, and my keyboard would be slippery, becuase hed have just washed it with windex, AND there'd be two hours of porn history. it was previously his work station.

>>18164114
>What's the point in approaching women if they already have dozens of guys approaching them?
Haven't read the rest of your whiny post, but if you don't want to, don't. Don't complain you don't get any women either.

>>18164121
If you read the rest of my "whining" you'd see I actually asked some legit questions.

>>18164130
I just read the rest of your post. It was everything I expected, a "how do I have everything handed to me without having to lift a finger myself?" thread

>>18164056
Kill yourself. Or get a job and start gaining work experience so you can get a better job later and work towards moving out so you can spare your parents the shame of having you live with them.

Might even accidentally make some friends on the way, you never know

>>18164056
>"I am convinced I am the only person alive with it"
wow people thinking autism is unqiue to them

Idk start doing some fucking hobbies and maybe you can even make a living off them. If you really feel like a useless piece of shit go join the police, fbi, military. A dangerous but necessary job will give you meaning.

I'm in the same situation dude! Honestly the one guy was right. Get a hobby!!!! I play softball on thursdays and I'm not like magically better but it's a start! As for school honestly learn a trade! They pay good and usually you only need to get a certificate for a community college.

>>18164024

>a bitch who forced herself on you will leave you alone if you admit no fault

sounds like a good deal anon, tell her to fuck off

Apology to avoid the rape accusation.
Then slowly but surely remove yourself from her life without her noticing.
Treat these kind of women with care as if they were bombs about to blow out.

>>18164042

>admit you raped her to avoid a rape accusation

no

>>18163995

dunno, you're a qt. maybe its because you look kinda losery despite it. tooth brush isnt a great DP

Ur pics suck, that's why

Girls want legit 9/10 guys with nice bodies and tons of friends

Tinder is fucking brutal for men, don't bother if you're not Chad

>>18163884
Be a teacher, only really work 9 months out of the year, decent salary, easy way to meet people, and form lasting relationships.

>How important are romantic relationships in life

Well that depends. In terms of what?

>>18163912
OP will get bullied
Being a teacher is not something for people without a talent for dealing with people

Hmm.... You think it'll be fun now but when you're old you'll really regret it. Just saying

What did he look like? Was he a chad?

>>18163960
He was probably about 6'2 not tiny but not extremely muscly. Black hair pale skin. Just an average guy I guess. But very mean. Manipulative. Controlling. Abusive.

>>18163850
You want to hurt him, as he has hurt you. An understandable feeling, but one that is best not acted on. Wanting to do thing in spite of him only shows him, and us that you aren't over him. I just got dumped after a year and a half, and the same thing happened in my relationship before this one. I was the asshole you describe who was abusive. I regret being a fucking dick, and I do wish I could change things. I don't really know why I did it, but that's that. I cant say if he feels bad for it, or what, but I'm giving my 2 cents from a viewpoint similar to his. Don't be spiteful

Both are shit people. But if I had to pick one, I'd go with B. Fucking someone who is in a relationship is not okay, why would you shout it from the rooftops?

>>18163839
explain further.

>>18163849
What's there to explain further?

>socially unacceptable
>shooting guns

where tf do you live?

>>18163750
The US. Despite the facade that most girls put up for their bfs and husbands, they actually do not like guns. I'd be OK with one that is apathetic but would allow me to keep and enjoy them but that is impossible to find too.

>>18163744

as a general rule by the time a girl finds out about this sort of thing it should be 'too late' and they will already be too invested to get upset.

>be me
>only white gun owner in all of los angeles
>tell gf
>she doesn't even approve of me having a pocket knife
>'i guess its okay.. as long as you only use it for self defense'
>me: 'no, im just gonna go round stabbing and shooting people, stop acting like you're telling me what to do'

and thats the end of it.

>friend finds out i have a gun
>'YOU CAN'T DO THAT!!'
>says he thinks its scary
>Says he thinks its not smart
>on my birthday i bring it out and he holds it
>he decides he wnats to go shooting now
>bugs me every week to take him to the range.

everyone secretly likes guns.

Cry and take a class in knots.

Speaking in vague bold statements does nothing mate.

>>18163743

by starting to do something with your life asap.

>>18163743

By not wasting anymore time. Get your ass in gear, mate.

>>18163689
Pic's more interesting than the question. Also, >>>/g/

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>>18163717

Don't suggest /g/ to him, they don't even talk about troubleshooting network stuff. It's more a fucking wank about AMD or Intel.

OP, you can spoof your IP address but I assume you should find out who is also posting on 4chan on your network. I assume you are on a school / college network? This is the only time I have ever hear about this happening

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>>18163734
No, home one. Personal. I've reset my router like I normally do if I have to change IP, but I still get pic related. I'm not very tech savvy desu, so I feel dumb.