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Immediately drop ALL contact and go ASAP to file a court ordered PFA or restraining order. If she tries to take you to court this will be a good look for you.

>>18165223
Tell her that if she keeps harassing you that you're going to file a police report and have a lawyer write up a cease and desist letter. Break all contact with her, don't acknowledge the accusations, and move on. If she continues, actually follow through with the police report and c/d. If she persists, sue her for defamation of character. Make sure to document everything, including texts and phone calls. Get her to admit that she was the one who took advantage of you and not the other way around.

Do not capitulate.

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Oh boy, you're fucked. Females fucking suck, anon.

>Lawyer up ASAP
>If you keep talking texting her, be very clear that she's full of shit. Just say "Why the fuck are you lying? You got me drunk, you know I didn't rape you"
>Tell your close friends and family that you're being falsely accused. If they're smart they won't turn against you if this all goes to shit and does end up in court

This: >>18165230 is probably a better option though.

How serious does she sound? Does she seem like she'll actually take it to court?

Have Adress , Facebook, Phone Number ect

>>18165194
tip the police

>>18165202
How without any proofs ?

yes you godamn fucking idiot. She will have the worst fucking time from now on waiting for her period and you better do to. Use any form of birthcontrol in the future, you idiot!!

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>>18165193

You are of the perfect age to be a dad.

im just impressed you're 18 and not only are you fucking, you know when the most fertile days are of the menstrual cycle. R u a wizard?

If you need to ask this retarded question, and if you need to ask this question on this goddamn website of all places, then you're beyond all help.
Enjoy being the strange kid everyone avoids. Looking forward to hear about your school shooting/murdering spree/aloha snackbar.

>>18165159
Too little information
Too shit advice
>bee yourself

Make friends with as many people you can find and have a great personality. Get out often. Meet bitches. Be funny. Go to parties. Simple. Make yourself known as that awesome guy everyone wants to be around

shameless bump

>>18165089
Hey dude, this is an overplayed sentence but it's true. It does get better.

You're rock bottom, things can only go up. I used to tell myself that if things go really, really bad I can just kill myself and get it over with. That helped with my anxiety a lot. One day I just realized that I don't even want to.

>>18165435
>You're rock bottom, things can only go up.
my fear is, what if they stay down?

> I used to tell myself that if things go really, really bad I can just kill myself and get it over with
I used to think so as well. It really calmed down all of my stress and anxiety and would actually give me a few chuckles sometimes. But now it's different. I'm actually afraid of dying, I don't contemplate suicide anymore (or haven't for a while).

Why don't you love your partner anymore?

Try to revive the love you had before.

you grow a pair and say i dont love your anymore
then figure out if you 2 want to work to find that again or part ways

SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO

>>18165077
>ldr
Nah

Dude go find a real girl. Fuck long distance

if you dont get butthurt over a rejection you increase your chances of getting laid

that doesnt mean you should be a friend

as long as she sees you as a wolf around the sheep she might get wet from it

you got butthurt

(leave taken girls alone though)

>>18165075
What are you saying?
English isn't my first language
I thought I'd be kidding myself if I could ever see her as only a friend again and not wanna jump her

>>18165067
>I want to stay friends
Reads as
>I want to use you for the emotional needs my bf isn't fulfilling
On one hand you shouldn't be talking to some other guy's girl, and on the other she's probably trying to institute some mental gymnastics into justifying this relationship. It's fucked either way and you should bail.

When I have a crush, I smoke pot and jack off thinking about her desu. Sometimes I have sex with my gf thinking about her.

>>18165051

I have no idea what doing drugs has to do with anything. And him masturbating to the thought of her would hardly make it easier to go away.

Oh and that last thing you did is just fucking disgusting.

>>18165047
You seem to have a beautiful and healthy relationship, and a crush can't really affect it.
Usually silly crushes disappear by themselves. She likes him back but she knows your bf is not single - this should stop her from making any moves anyway.

>>18165035
Hello i remember your thread from yesterday.

Have you finally been at doctor to check you? Have you finally considered to literally grow up?

And as that problem with a girl. She may be too much tight / nervous / too problematic hymen. Have she considered to go see gynecolog? Have you tried to finger her first?

:-D

>>18165035
You probably shouldn't breed, actually.

>>18165035
>I bent my dick from floor humping in high school
explain

>>18164992
Please believe this - there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating, unless you do yourself some physical damage.

Your guilt and shame about it are FAR worse for your mental health than the act itself.

>>18164996
But I can't help but feel guilty, it does lower testosterone levels and I blame that for my lack of confidence

wear pants and a belt all day till you go to sleep

shower quickly

get fully dressed again after shower

go to public places

disconnect internet service and wifi, hide phone.

No. Stop being a pussy. You're just looking for excuses for why you don't need to try getting into a relationship.

>>18164985
Yes, you are. You can keep trying to improve yourself all you want, but the fact is that you've already been fucked over socially, and now you're going to have to deal with it for the rest of your life.

If you want to end up like most of the virgin s after 20 just wait and keep telling lies to you.With age the expectations will go higher.

After you talk to them the way you posted here, telling them how you truly feel. Long relationships tend to get boring after a while, and we sometimes get confused in the virtue of our passions. Make sure you are truly aware of your feelings, cause It may be just temporary emotional crisis, and you may regret your decision otherwise. Are you interested in someone, or willing to be single and mingle?

Thank you for your reply, I appreciate you taking time to advise me.

I agree that it's difficult to trust my emotions - I have felt this way before, and things turned out fine. School has been stressful and we have been dating for a long time.

The thing I'm worried about is, It almost seems that I have these feelings all the time, and they just happen to reign at the forefront of my thoughts during tough times with her.

These barbs that make me resent dating her are not the kind of thing I feel I can't reasonably ask her to change - they're things like being much less 'ascetic' than I am (in terms of frugality, health, studying, etc.) and a differing sex drive. Letting go and not growing annoyed by her differences from me is becoming increasingly difficult. I just feel as though this desire to break free is always prowling in my mind. She loves me so much. She cares about me. She is so kind. Agh. So conflicted.

I know if I wait these hard times out, things will be ok again, but I think just 'ok' - not happy, exciting, probably just ok.

I'm not interested seriously in anyone else. I think I would be ok with being single, but I would also be ok with staying with her. I'm at a strange crossroads.

>>18164950
you should listen to your heart i know it sounds cheesy. but it seems like there has to be a change either in the relationship or by a break up. do you see each other too often?

Yeh, a few times. What do you want to know?

Which country?

Got an Antibiotic resistant uti from one, can't recommend. This was with protection.

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>>18164928
I don't have Kik but I'm truly sorry about how you feel. I don't enjoy seeing people suffer.
Is it a woman my friend? How old are you?

>>18165015
She is. I'm 19 years old and it just pains me so much that I'm loving someone who will never love me back.

>>18165052
I'm 19 years old and cringing.

Kys desu.

This is highschool shit, grow uo