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feel a bit stupid complaining about something this "stupid" when there are others on the verge of death, but this isn't stupid to me.

in my family baldness is common/uncommon, how do i avoid it? i've noticed my hair not as thick as it used to be, and if possible i want to avoid losing any more. Is there some way? tips/tricks?

pretty sure somebody has lived through this.
plz no deal with it (orz) my heart can't bear it. pic unrelated obv lol
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>>18166108
If your dad is bald, you will be bald in time too. Blame testosterone and your dna.

You can try to slow it down with shampoos with coffeine, but ultimately you will most likely go bald.
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>>18166123
what about other family members such as uncles and such
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>>18166135
Who is your dad? Your dad or your uncle? And with whom do you think you share more dna?

Only exception is grandad from both parents side. Then it can be like 50% bald 50% not bald.

But i have found out one thing: only soon to be bald guys and bald guys seeks information on hair loss. So my magic crystal ball predicts future for you, where you are bald.

Sorry anon. At least it is not cancer.

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I'm 19 and currently sitting on my sofa in the living room doing nothing. How can I make my life richer? What are all the things that you old fucks regret not doing when you were younger? What things can I do now when I'm young that I can't when I'm 40. Help me out anons.
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dank image
just passin' through
much obliged
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>>18166095
eat healthier
take more chances and ask out moar girls
lift weights before your joints become shit
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meet more grills

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Hello adv.
So I have reason to believe one of my parents stole my identity at an early age.

Yeah I know its fucked. USA btw.
>I have my fathers same exact name
>I think that when I was very young either one of them or both, took a car out in my name
>We're poor-ish.
>It wouldn't surprise me if my family did this thinking nothing bad could happen
>found out was this was like a year ago
>I was filling out a college FAFSA
>One thing to verify my identity is it was asking me previous addresses I have lived on and stuff
>One question was "which of these cars is under your name"
>Every question gave a none option, sort of like a trick question
>for the car one my family actually had one of those cars
>At the end of that survey it said "your information does not match..."
>long story short i completed that fafsa
>but I've always been left wondering if my parents took out a car in my name.

How can I find out whether they did or not?
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Just be persuasive when you ask them about the stupid real info. Also get timing done right.
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>>18166075
why dont u call up some gov numbers like social security?
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>>18166075
Get your free annual credit report (search for that phrase) and hope it dates back far enough to include the car loan/purchase/thing.

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How do I stop hating women after reading and listening to red pill/MGTOW content?
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Realize that 99% of it is horseshit? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and collectively identifying woman as a conspiratorial corporation instead of, you know, one or two girls who shot you down for a date or something?
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>>18166058
Basically what he said >>18166066 all those mgtow people are just delusional about the general population all those groups are like that they basically see a minority and say it's the majority or all and blow it up
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The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference.

Getting mad over women being women is just going to stress you out. Just internalize that they are goldfish or something and move on in life.

Serious just ignore what women say, and/or just fuck with them. Their tears are crocodile tears, their love is fake, their smiles are insidious. I've gone on a spree of emotionally abusing girls I fuck and it's hilarious seeing their crocodile tears knowing they're going to be in a COMPLETELY different state of mind in 20 minutes. They're quite fascinating really, if you treat them as subjects for social experimentation.
Take an emotional knife and poke at them until they pop and watch the sparks fly.

You are the boy with the magnifying glass and they are the ants to burn.

The irony of it all is that they prefer this behavior. They enjoy being dicked and fucked with, women were biologically programmed to respond positively to all sorts of fucked up shit. Hell the reason why women are so good at convincing themselves of bullshit is because it was a biological necessity to brainwash themselves to feel love for their rapists' children.

Enjoy life my friend.

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Help me /adv/!

I've been fapping to porn since I was a kid, pretty much everything you can imagine, over time I even got into gay porn, even though I have never been attracted to guys in general, now I'm no longer sure what the hell I am anymore. Obviously being straight and being aroused by gay porn is a contradiction, but so is being gay/bi and not being attracted to any guys at all, and its driving me insane.

What should I do? Experimenting isn't an option because of my beliefs. I just want to stop worrying about it, but its bugging me so much.
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>>18166018

People whack it to all kinds of nasty shit, without it meaning they actually want to do it. Porn and sexual attraction are two entirely different things. Go without porn for a while and see if you still think of it, if it bothers you.
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>>18166026
>People whack it to all kinds of nasty shit, without it meaning they actually want to do it. Porn and sexual attraction are two entirely different things.

Yeah this is what I think too. I've always been into weird taboo porn, if only for the novelty of it. I never thought "I'm fapping to scat porn, I want to play with shit!" it was just some freaky porn for me to fap to, but its hard to convince people you are straight and like gay porn.
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>>18166018
>Experimenting isn't an option because of my beliefs

Explain.

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I need some serious help. I feel exactly like the guy from the catcher in the Rye. All I see is how selfish everyone is and how they always just act in their own self interest.

I've completely lost any hope that I will ever find love, that I will ever find someone who genuinely cares for me without something to gain themselves. I've been dumped /cheated on by every single girl I've ever dated. I've completely given up hope of finding happiness in life.

I don't want to an hero, I would never hurt myself because that would be too painful for my family and stuff but I am honestly at a point where I wouldn't feel sad if I knew I was going to die, I would just feel relief.
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>>18166013
do what holden did
grow up
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>>18166021
How do I do that? I've graduated college and am working full time in a nice job, I'm exercising regularly and keeping fit. What if a girl gets my hopes up again only to destroy them once again? I don't know how many more times I can handle that
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>>18166013
You're probably just a loser. Change that. It could be that you're desperate for female attention, it could be that you're unsuccessful in life, whatever.

My guess is that you're probably both. You're probably very giving to everyone because you desperately want approval, which is why you think people are selfish. I bet you're not very successful, either, and are bitter about people who are because they had to act in their own self interest to get there.

There's nothing wrong with acting in your own self interest. If you think that's wrong, life is going to suck for you because you'll never do anything for yourself.

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Some whore is blatantly flirting with me. She's a friend of a friend. Her tit game is amazing and she looks like she gives killer blowjobs but she's been with more guys than the average porn star. Also I'm in a long term relationship. I'm more than happy with my gf but the dick wants what the dick wants. Should I give her the D?
Also, chances of my gf finding out are pretty high, since we have 50% of friends in common
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>>18165998

>Morally judging a woman having casual sex while considering cheating on long term partner

You'r gf will forgive you, you're such a stellar guy after all.
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>>18165998
Yes do it. Don't ignore your basic primal instinct. You are human after all.
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Alright, I need some advice.

Recently, at my job (I work at a retail store as a custodian) I've noticed this woman who comes in for a very short period of time to check our alcohol inventory/stock and I've become.. Kind of smitten with her.

She only shows up on Tuesdays and I do casually chat with her when I get a chance.

Thing is, I know nothing about her, I don't even know her name, she's fucking beautiful so I'd assume she's either got a boyfriend or is married or somesuch.

I haven't attempted this sort of thing in years, is it creepy just to ask her what her name is?

How do I get to know this chick? She doesn't seem adverse to talking to me but I sincerely doubt she'd be even remotely interested.

What should I do? Should I just try to forget it and move on?
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Dude you're a custodian at a retail store. You really think you're going to pick up girls on the clock?
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>>18166006
Nah, not really.
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>>18165991
>Should I just try to forget it and move on?

Do you have a social life? At all?

You don't need to "forget" her, you can talk. But if you are too lonely, then don't make a move. Go out more, work on building some friends around you. Then, when you are less lonely and need less attention, think again about dating.

Is this a "normal" son and mom relationship? My bf is super close to his mom, he actually lived in his mothers house until the age of 24. Upon our first date, he brought me back to his house where I thought we were just gonna get it on but he brought up meeting his mom if she was there...which was a little odd to me since I lieterally just met him that very day. Said if she didn't like me then he couldn't date me. Fast forward 8 months of dating, his friend needs a roommate, basically begs bf to move in with. Bf does it but keeps saying every month the whole time he is there how he is gonna move back with his mom. Anyway, ends up deciding to not do that when lease is done but rather he wants to live with me but the catch is he wants to live right by his moms house which would make it so his drive to work is longer and I am an hour away from my school. Basically has this big fight but he finally agrees its unreasonable to expect me to move in with him and drive that far to school. So we move in a place closer to his job and my school. Now he saying how after this year he is gonna move back into his moms house.

He also now keeps wanting to bring his mom on all our dates which is getting. If I reject he claims I am making him chose between his mom and me. He also now all of the sudden lets his mom dictate his mood. Ex; has upset stomach while moving, bf is understanding, gets towards end of the day, suddenly bf is beyond mad at me, asks why, he says "well my mom is made at you for being sick so now I am." Now I'm scared if his mom suddenly stops liking me its going to make our relationship unbearable.

Is it reasonable for me to be upset about this? How can I go about expressing my concerns to him without making it seem to him that I dislike his mom or whatever? I really don't want to make him chose between me or her, I just want it so she basically isn't the third wheel in our relationship.
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Wierd. I had a girlfriend that did the same shit.
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>>18165975
Your boyfriend has heavy mommy issues, but perhaps for a decent reason. What do you know of the boys father, and the mothers relationship status? Often times, before a father dies he will instruct his oldest son to take good care of his mother (traditionally). If his father is dead then I say he has decent reason enough to be so attached to his mother, but that doesnt mean you have to deal with it anyway. Your life is your choice.
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Why/how are you still in this relationship
Are your standards really this low?
This is SAD.

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there's this "Taboo" things for them
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stop being christian
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If it makes you happy it can't be that bad. If it makes you happy then why the hell are you so sad?
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I am not the problem. my religion isnt the problem. Its his family that is so traditional

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>be autistic sperg
>only like 2 friends
>kissless virgin
>awkward as fuck
>have really nice and supportive sister
>sister tries to hook me up with one of her qt friends whos like polar opposite of me
>thicc, bubbly, qt, long beautiful red hair, hot af
>ohboyherewego.jpg
>spaghetti a little but we actually hit it off and she has the sweetest personality and we have a shit load in common to top it off
>want to see eachother again
>went on date last friday
>go to the zoo, movies, and dinner
>spend entire day together
>heaven
>she brings me back to her place
>dont do anything but play vidya and cuddle then sleep together
>really fucking sweet
>fast forward to yesterday
>get a call from her freaking out
>tells me i raped her when she was high
>???
>we didn't even drink on our date or do drugs or any shit like that
>wtf
>scared as shit
>try to calm her down
>doesn't work because she's insane
>she's literally saying shit that i have no idea wtf shes talking about
>hang up
>fucking spooked but i fuck up and dont tell anyone and assume it'll blow over because im retarded
>wrong.jpg
>already getting messaged/texted by all her friends and my sister actually believes her
>sister will probably tell entire family and I'll be fucked for sure
I didn't even go to class today because I'm pretty sure I'll get my ass beat. i have no idea what to fucking do because my entire family is probably going to hate me and i have no money for a lawyer or anything. can she even press charges? do i still need a lawyer if she cant/doesnt? i really dont fucking want to go to jail over shit i LITERALLY didn't do at all. i didnt grope her or any thing and we kissed on the lips and didnt even make out. im so fucking scared and dont know what to do because even if i dont go to jail i dont want to be deemed as an honorary rapist forever.
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Told someone else, get a PFA or restraining order ASAP. Go straight to your parents and sister, swear that you didn't do anything. You've never even kissed a girl and you were too nervous to do anything on your first date. You think shes out to get you because you're a nice guy and there's something really wrong under the surface, someone may have put her up to it. Failure to act is failure to prove innocence
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>>18165958
If there was no intercourse, she can't prove anything.
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>>18165977
ya but his life will still be destroyed just with the accusation

>probably/maybe/not diagnosed depressed
>can't get professional help.
>all alone
>wants to be happy again/once


What to do?
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We need info. Why can't you get help?
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>>18165920
That's the only thing I can't really tell, I'm sorry...
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>>18165928
Okay umm work out?

Did I Handle The Situation Correctly? So I was working at a restaurant with this one bitch. This bitch was constantly hating at me and being physical, anyways one day she throws a cheese grater at me. I get real fucking fed up and pissed and throw it back at her face. She gets all mad and says " AW HELL NAH NIGGA! " she than starts rushing at me aggressively. I get into full defense mode and put my forearm around her neck against a wall and I grab a knife from the counter and point it at her eye. Everyone starts looking at me like I'm crazy and one guy says " Wtf nigga? "( It's a very ghetto restaurant ). Anyways I don't get fired and I don't get charged for any crimes, but everyone thinks I'm messed up. So did I do the right thing?

>inb4 you say " why not talk to management? " like I said very ghetto restaurant, in fact the manager saw this shit multiple times and never did anything about it.

Restaurant looked like pic related.
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You did good for not taking anybodys shit. Maybe lose the knife act next time.. Unless your up against a dindu silverback.
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Nigs gonna nig
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>>18166242
Bitch was fat, like huge fat. So yeah I was up against a silverback.

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>that crippling feeling of anxiety on the evening before the first workday of the week

Why does this happen and how does one stop feeling it?
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what kind of thoughts cause this feeling?
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>>18165889
My thoughts specifically or in general?

If you're asking about mine then maybe it's because work makes me feel more dead than I already feel most of the time and the end of the weekend is making me realize just where I'm headed the next day.

If you mean in general then I dunno.
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>>18165882
go tell doc and get some benzos

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I have virtually no idea how people perceive me and sometimes it makes me worry that the public perception of myself isn't good.

Is it possible to get a better grasp on this sort of thing, or is it something everybody has to deal with and I just need to learn to deal with it?
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>>18165874
Mindfulness training
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>>18165874
Uh usually friends give you an idea how others perceive you, try getting one of those
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>>18165890
I guess I don't really know how.

I invited one of my work "friends" over one day to smoke and hang out once when she was having a bad day but she didn't come. Since then I haven't been so confident in asking people to spend time with me.

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