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ITT. People with good schedules 2017-03-28 12:17:51 Post No.18166821
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ITT. People with good schedules
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2017-03-28 12:17:51
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I am looking for people who are either students (or autodidacts) that could say their lifes are in order so they can advice me on fixing / making a proper studying schedule so I can fix mine.
I know it sounds weird, but I am having trouble trying to set my priorities properly whenever I think of my long term goals, so my entire studying life is a big mess where I have to do a lot of things per day but end up not doing them because they are a lot in the first place (because of procrastination etc etc).
So if I could just have a talk with any of you who could consider themselves apt to be some sort of a ''life coach'' that would really really help me.
Hopefully I am not asking for much? Well hopefully this will get a reply. Thanks.
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What's your current schedule?
How many classes are you taking? What days? When do they start and end?
Any tests or projects coming up?
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>>18166857
I was more concerned with my self study schedule.
If you think of yourself as one as those I described, would you like to talk with me on a faster medium? Perhaps Discord?
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A month and a half ago I suggested my gf and I take a break from the relationship to deal with some issues,4 weeks later we got back together and she told me that she had sex with someone else during that time, when we got back together and I decided I'd try to just ignore it I know rationally that she had no obligation of exclusivity during that time but I still feel betrayed,it's not like my feelings for her went away and she says she still loves me and was thinking about me during it all but that doesn't help me feel any better, Im still angry and I feel betrayed, I'm in therapy and addressed it with my therapist today but we could really work on letting go of it due to time constraints,what do I do adv? I do love her but holy fuck man I can't even really articulate the mixture of emotions I'm feeling
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If she automatically fucked somebody that fast then she's a w h o r e
Fucking dump her, she's just gonna cheat or manipulate you into going on "break" again
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She used this "break" to fuck another guy, setting the standard for your relationship at "I'm going to sleep around if not given constant attention and probably even then".
End it.
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Weve been together almost two years now, it's not just some fling I really have feelings for her
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IM NOT SURE HOW TO RESPOND TO THIS, PLEASE HELP
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Send a dick pic, John
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Say "nah (winky face)" if you want to bang
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tell her to stop enjoying it
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How can I get a job when nobody will hire me or call me back after an interview?
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Stop being an autistic sperg during interviews
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>>18166782
Can confirm this.
You MUST make a script to answer at least 10 obvious fucking questions, rehearse until you aren't a stuttering, shaky mess, dress properly, and bullshit your way in with as much confidence as possible.
Fake the fuck outta yourself until you ARE Chad Sextington...for those few precious moments.
TL:DR, it's true, go big or go home, holmes.
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Do you have a good resume?
Are you lacking a college degree/work experience?
My boyfriend won't break up with me for real but it's clear he doesn't wanna be with me
I pretty much initiate eveyrning, he never calls me and just give short answers for everything, he's not really including me in his life, he said he was Unhappy with me many times and tried breaking up with me twice but I was sad about it so he still stays with me.. And I just feel ignored and not cared for all the time and idk what to do.i wanted to be with him so I can't see myself breaking up with him but he's starting to treat me pretty bad and idk what to do? I don't wanna start dating other ppl while im with him but I'm constantly ignored andi don't wanna breakup with him I have no idea what to do..
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Give him a reason to break up with you
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You have to do it. From what you're saying, he doesn't want to be with you and that fact is causing you pain in the form of him pushing you away. You're unhappy, he's unhappy, and in the end the one who's going to be worse off is you.
Why be unhappy with this guy ignoring you when you'll be unhappy without him anyway? Leave him and look elsewhere, cause there are people out there who'd be happy to be with you.
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Why dont you want to break up with him if he makes you feel unloved and ignores you? Those are perfect reasons to break up with him. Who cares if you THINK it makes you seem like "the bad guy"? You deserve to genuinely be happy. If someone makes it clear that they dont want to be with you, it's time to just end it yourself.
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I find myself getting too infatuated with womenIm around, any tips on how to stop being into someone?
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Why don't you want to have crushes?
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>>18166759
Get real friends. GO to parties. Meet girls you have an actual shot with.
Crushes are born from loneliness.
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>>18166768
I'm not OP but what if you don't really attend parties
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With 12 years of experience, and 5 companies worked for, is it sensible for my resume to be two pages? Or should I find some way to cut down to one?
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Very few people in HR read more than one page
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>more than one page resumes
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Cut down to one. An employer usaully spends about 4 seconds reading each resume, so they like it short and simple.
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How I read better?
It takes me hours to read anything I'm not interested in. Gotta read textbooks? Read some, get distracted, delay progress. I've tried to implement the "imagine this is the most fucking interesting thing" strategy to it but it doesn't work long. I try to think that reading will benefit me (which it will) but I still lose interest in a few minutes.
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>>18166746
*How do I read better?
Help me fucking spell sentences right too
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Have you tried the Pomodoro technique? Might work. It's basically 25 minutes working, 5 minutes break, and so on. There are online timers and probably apps for it too
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Mindfulness. You are probably a habitual mind-lurker. Once you train the brain to exist in the present moment and not just ruminate over shit you don't need to, reading becomes a cake walk. And a lack of assertion in real life has probably led you to becoming alienated from your true interests, which has made investing yourself in things you think you like hard because they don't actually interest on a fundamental level but you are convinced they do.
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>meet girl through friends, we get along well, she's sleeping on my shoulder the first night
>weeks go by, we get a little closer
>kissing, holding hands, sitting on my lap, etc
>attempt to ask her out
>rejected
>find out this guy she's known long distance for almost 3 years is coming to see her in may for the first time
>suddenly remember her telling me about him before, but just that he was a friend
I don't even know why I'm posting. I just feel shitty and confused. She wasn't even a bitch about anything either, and I don't know if they're even a thing. It just seems like the obvious thing, cause why else would he fly across the country to see one girl?
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He's going to be deep dicking her the first night, op. You had your chance... had
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>>18166717
you ask out immediately, not after a few weeks. that's your mistake. she showed you that she was interested and you didnt make a move. you fucked it up. dont blame her.
asking her weeks later was just too late. she already had time to crush on you, feel rejected, get over it, and find another guy.
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Go find another one. This one isnt worth the effort.
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Advice time, friends. I started seeing this girl and it seems like we're headed toward being in a serious relationship, but she has the following going on: Her """ex""" of 6 months had a """""""mental breakdown"""""" and is """""""""bipolar""""""""" and so he has to stay with her for a few months because essentially no one else in his life wants to deal with him. OK, maybe he's a good dude and she's just trying to be compassionate.
She assures me there's nothing going on between them any more and he's 'looking for his own place', but today I went to her crib for the first time and this fucking guy was there. He'd trashed her entire house basically, with his laundry and guitars and shit literally everywhere in the house, dishes all over the place, and was just waking up at 11am on a monday to hit a bong and play guitar. While listening to bullshit techno music. The entire time I'm there he's knocking on her door and telling us he wants to 'hang out' and he's been wanting to spend time with her (she'd slept at my place a few nights in a row). So we spent probably 20 minutes talking with this guy, and literally the whole time he spends talking about himself, his delusions, how he feels, how he wanted to make things weird for me and how I'm just there so that she'll realize he wants to be with him.
Yeah, what the fuck? I thought this had potential, but it's still early enough to where I can safely bail (only issue being I work with her but w/e). So, bail?
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If I were you I'd tell him to hit the road and leave my girl alone asap,, he sounds like a bum
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That's really disrespectful to you. I'm surprised you put up with that?
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>>18166702
Do you have any info on how long he's staying there, or if he's got a job or place of his own?
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Was just on /b/ when some sick fuck flooded the thread with illegal shit.
I reported the images once I saw what it was
Do I report this to authorities?
This just happened and I don't want to get in trouble.
What about my browser cache?
What if this shit was cached by the browser or Clover?
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Ur fucked son might as well wipe your computer now
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This is too much information. How do you anonymously report this shit?
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..this is the first time you've been here, right?
There's not a lot you can do in the sense of reporting to authorities. After all, what would you say? 'Some guy on 4chin posted bad stuff'?
Nah, if it's really that bad, the mods will trace the IP and report it to the authorities. Not the first time that's happened, won't be the last either.
Also, don't worry about getting into trouble. Merely viewing whatever-it-was (I can guess what it was though) isn't a crime in itself. Just delete temp files if you're that upset, go to the Winchester, have a pint, and wait for all this to blow over.
Some other anon might be able to tell you how to do a 'deeper clean' to remove all traces of the evidence, but honestly, it won't be a problem (unless you plan on doing something illegal and have your computer seized by the police).
Should i read into this at all /adv/ ?
>Dated 4 years
>Broke up early Feb
>NC for 3+ weeks
I'm 50/50 if I want her back or not....anybody have any insight and/or advice?
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Not enough info on the nature of breakup
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"I've never been to a mall in my life, you're out of your goddamned mind."
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OP here.
She cheated (3-4 month affair), i found out in Nov, moved in with her to try to make it work, was pretty paranoid and controlling, eventually tells me "doesn't love me anymore" and breaks it off
I had cheated on her very early on in the relationship (transitioning away from previous gf)
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How the do i learn Spanish? 2017-03-27 11:07:25 Post No.18166633
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How the do i learn Spanish?
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2017-03-27 11:07:25
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Currently at uni 2nd semester
I have had 3 years of Spanish in high school
Most classes/courses are in Spanish now, and i still suck cockhole at spanish
I learned fuckall in highschool. I hardly learned anything 1st semester, nothing sticks. I hand in the grammar assignments and portfolios and all that, but i learn nothing from it.
The only reason i'm not completely fucked is cause we do not have to speak in spanish yet or write full papers in it.
Only in one course do we have to write in spanish, but even in that class we write very little.
But shit's about to hit the fan, by 3rd semester everything will be in spanish, classes, assignments, projects and everything, and i just know i don't have what it takes to keep it up.
Atm i hardly understand my professors except the very basic thing about the subjects they are talking about. My reading isn't that much better either.
How do i learn spanish so it sticks?
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Honestly, just talk to people who know spanish. Being friends with them is key here. You're not practicing everyday so it's not gonna stick unless you keep at it.
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you should never learn Spanish in a classroom. every Spanish speaking country has their own dialect. you put a Mexican, a Dominican and a Columbian together and they will only be able to speak the very basic language. everything else will be a cluster fuck of slang and curse words
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>>18167144
*Colombian.
Also, as a native speaker, that's not true at all. We can understand each other just fine, not just "the very basic language". Some slang words might cause some confusion, but that's it.
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currently studying & meeting my gf of 4 months at weekends. have yet to actually cum through sex with her.
I watch quite a lot of porn but never thought it would be an issue.
what should I do
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>>18166560
are you still masturbating?
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>>18166562
yeah, I'm cutting down though, from once a day to maybe three times a week, holding off for at least a couple of days before I see her
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>>18166569
maybe kjust stop. even if you hold off 3 times, yourb ody is still adjusting to having sex.
so what you're doing is
>not masturbating for 3 days
>trying to fuck her but no cumming
>then masturbating after the fact
your body is still thinking it has to wait til masturbation. instead, just dont masturbate. if you fail at sex, dont try cumming again until the day you fuck agtain. eventually your cock will get the pictuer
I don't even know how to explain it, but my social skills, or desire to improve them, or something, basically deteriorated.
When I finished high school I had a lot of friends but never really went out much or partied
I had a terrible time in college, and by the time I graduated I was burning every bridge I could but could still function because I got a lucrative job right out of school
couple years out now and I am now interacting the bare minimum needed to not lose my job
today the greatest relief I felt is when I realized the door to my bank was automated so I didn't have to hold it open for the person approaching from the other side, in fact I will go around a building to the least used entrance in order to avoid having to do that
I have no desire to perform actions like that anymore, I stopped talking to anyone outside of the coworkers that I absolutely have to day to day
I am so fed up with the little song and dance of social interaction that I'm afraid I'm going to lose my job and shut myself in my room
is this something /adv/ can help with? How do I fix this?
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I'm at least that bad and don't even have a good job. fuck it.
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>>18166580
My central assumption is that I was able to graduate college and get a job and stay in it at least up until now is because at some point I was more willing to put a mask on for the day or that I actually had some level of social skill
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TFW no gf.