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i live in il can you give me adderall script
i'm self diagnose adhd

>>18170163
Psychologist, not psychiatrist. Also, you're going to have an increasingly difficult time getting immediate release Adderall. The DEA has been going after docs with too many stim prescriptions, especially if they're prescribing immediate release in the absence of an XR.

And nobody is going to give you shit for a self diagnosis.

I have an idealistic image of myself in my head who possesses all the values I wish I had. What are the effects of me doing that?

Is it escapism? Am I just growing more comfortable with my mediocrity by imagining a better me, without actually doing anything to be that person? If I wanted to be that person, would it be wiser to continue the notion and allowing them to serve as a goal, or should I just stop imagining things?

if there's any information regarding this tyler-durdenesque behavior could you please provide a link
thnx

>>18170120
Yes, imagine if you were a little girl ad got those pants.

Shame! Don't return them.
But immoral to throw out perfectly good pants too.
So give to charity. Let the orphans have em.
Think of the children.

>>18170120
return them fuck society

>>18170071
>woman

Go full gay and fuck him anyway

Or get fucked by him, whatever is your preference

>>18170103
why not both?

>>18170044
you have low self-confidence and think the girl would have dumped you anyway so you preemptively cut things off to save yourself that emotional pain. pathetic.

You did the right thing. You realised it wouldn't have worked out and you stopped yourself from stringing her along.
You are not being a hard ass, senpai.

>>18170057
What gives you the impression that I have low self-confidence? If anything, I'm probably too full of myself.

Your bedroom.

>>18169957
Good choice.

Don't know if she'd go for that though.

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>>18169950

>Where to take a woman on a first date?

"Woman" isn't a species of Pokemon. There is no designated universal place where they all love going. If you don't know enough about the girl you're asking out to make a semi-informed decision about what kind of thing she'd enjoy doing than you have already failed at developing a relationship, OP.

>>18169940
You aren't that fucked don't fall for the 4chan meme my dad is 5'8 he makes 100k a year and he has had many gfs it's not a height thing for most women it's confidence and being comfortable with yourself

>>18169940
it's fine
i am a tall girl and height really isn't something i pay much mind too when i like someone, the only turn off about it is when it's clear a guy is insecure about his height so just learn to accept it since you can't change the circumstance anyway

>>18169960
>dad is 5'8"
>most women are sub 5'8"
>OP is sub 5'8" cause genes
Manlets, when will they learn...

Right here, big boy.

>>18169923
RIght here, big boy.

Right here, big boy.

You can be honest without automatically being "mopey" or "moody."

>>18169864
Sop I want to be with him eventually but you want to be friends? You're overlapping here.

Well depending on what you want out of him.

If you want to be in a relationship with him tell him the truth. I'm a dude and I find that telling me the truth about how you feel makes you more attractive in my eyes because it shows you're willing to open up to me.

If you just want to be friends with him then lie.

Either way friendship will come before the romantic part so it'll kinda be up to his response ( if you want to be more than friends.)

But if you lie you can always tell the truth later if you two become partners so it's kinda a win win!

>>18169887
He has some complicated relationship going on with an ex girlfriend that I'm not interested in getting in the middle of. I haven't really been able to look at him as a viable partner since discovering that.

I also think I'm in bigger need of good friends right now than dates.

That said, because of my interest, I don't want to say anything that makes me ridiculously unattractive, even if I'm 100% fine with nothing happening now or in the future.

Maybe I'll tell the truth but downplay it - like I won't mention "depression" and just say I was tired or something.

It doesn't happen that often for a typical male. They just don't know how to react.

>>18169820
dont compliment if they dont like

>>18169820
>Is it bad to say you're physically attracted to a guy?

It's always unexpected.
Even if you're hoking up with them.

Guys are more used to being treated like "creeps" who "just want one thing".
It sucks, but we know how to deal with it.

A girl actually liking a guy and showing it, is often unexpected and fucks with the status quo. We're not exactly sure bout what the appropriate response is other than a rather shocked "thanks".

That's fucked up OP, I'm sorry. Also sorry there is no quick solution. Time heals all wounds. Not what you want to hear, but true. How about everytime you feel sad, you go for a jog or in some other way exercise? Then by the time you feel better about the situation you'll also feel better about yourself. I'm just assuming you don't already work out because you're posting here.

Cucked because she knew you liked her?

That's not cucking. She wasn't with you. You didn't have the balls to make the first move so she went with the guy who had the balls to.

Best way to get over a girl? Forget about her. Pretend she doesn't exist. Laugh that someone is so stupid they didn't realize what they lost out on, because you're a good person.

Never contact her, delete her on all social media, NEVER CYBERSTALK HER, and move on.

Next time make the first move. Never wait for a girl to initiate anything, you have to be the one who makes the moves.

>>18169773
yeah, I've started going to the gym and it helps a bit
>>18169788
I wasn't very clear in the OP, but I meant the guy was my friend and knew I liked her.
I see your point though, I should have said something. I did stop following her on everything and haven't talked to her at all since.

You are 99% chance SOL OP.
Tell us more, but sounds like you are in a losing battle.

>It's a long distance relationship btw
So you don't have a girlfriend then.

We talk everyday but lately we haven't been talking as much as we'd normally do
She's attractive and ik as a guy I'd befriend her just to fuck her.
Maybe I'm overthinking

Try everything

Get a therapist, try medications, up your exercise, have a healthy diet, take meditation seriously

I recommend the following books
- the happiness trap
- the power of now (ignore the spiritual stuff)

>>18169697
Oh, and I'm rooting for you anon :)

2nded on the happiness trap.

I have been on meds for 10+ years and done therapy on and off. To be honest I still deal with depression 99% of the time, but you just gotta keep going. Every once in a while I have a moment of clarity and shit's going pretty damn well. You can fumble through life into great things. I don't think I'll ever stop thinking things are shit but I do have a badass $10k motorcycle. Hard to feel like shit after a ride.

>>18169543
Make sure you keep your katanas and kimono at least

>>18169543

This is a really boring, unimportant question, OP.If you're not smart enough to figure out how to manage two pieces of luggage for a few hours than you have no business moving anywhere.

>>18169554
thank you. I'm already feeling low enough

Start lifting. Why wouldn't it be a good idea to go to a brothel by yourself? Are you supposed to bring your bro and fuck him? My tip is that losing your virginity to a whore is going to make you feel like a loser and even if you later decide to have normal relationships and fuck girls you will never be able to change the fact that you had shitty awkward sex with a prostitute your first time.

>>18169506
OP here.
I don't have time to lift because I am aiming for a high GPA at my engineering degree and some classes are really hard. Apart from that, I don't think having more muscle on top of me would really help me get laid. Muscle is temporary and goes away when you stop exercising. Why not spend that time trying to be in the top 5 of your promotion? Pays off much more and doesn't go away. And yes It'd make me feel like a loser. But that's just how I feel every day already.

>>18169532
There is no person who literally has no time to exercise. It can take as little as 30 minutes a day. If you can't then you need to decide what to change or cut out of your day. The muscle isn't temporary if you don't stop exercising. You shouldn't stop exercising til the day you die.

I don't understand the "being top 5" part. You don't think the benefits of working out would give you an upper hand in every aspect of life? Are you planning on graduating and then spending each day studying after work to get promoted? That's retarded.

>>18169404
To avoid coming off as rapey, it's probably best to abide by her wishes. Maybe wait for a signal to indicate a change in her feelings on the matter. But for now, respect her. It's good of a girl to let you know upfront. It's rare to find ones not leading you on for fun.

>>18169404

>Is it worth it to flirt with a girl who said she didn't think of me in "that way" when I asked for a date around 2 weeks ago?

Is it worth it to try to pursue a relationship with a girl who has specifically said she isn't interested in a relationship with you?

You really need us to answer that question for you?

>>18169410
Hm, I can see it this way and absolutely agree on giving her props from being upfront.

I was mainly thinking this way because she said she goes for someone more "bad" and I thought maybe I ought to be more flirty or sexual but that's probably just the lower head talking.