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Start fresh nigga. That feeling will haunt your relationship and never allow you to be happy. Also if she got laid that fast then she probably had a dude on standby (classic whore tactic).

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>>18172449
If you're the same anon from last week, yes, break up with her. She cheated on you. Think about it.

If you're not, still break up with her. She likely used the break up as an excuse to fuck someone else

Plus, if you're this much on the fence about her, why even ask? Break up seems like the only real answer

You have to decide for yourself, but whatever you do, stick with it. If you decide that you want to be with her and she's worth it, don't allow yourself to wallow in self-pity while picturing her with someone else. If you choose to leave, accept that you could not deal and don't keep wondering what if you would've given it more time, what if you could've accepted it.

Shave head

hahaha im obese and ugly.. but atleast i still have my hair. full head of thick and healthy hair

>>18172419
>implying it isn't greasy and straw-like

>>18172282
drink the whole thing and be done, i promise you wont panic anymore

>>18172282

How about listen to your fucking doctor instead of strangers on the internet. If you get serious side effects from the meds, then discuss them with a medical professional to find a solution.

You're only going to really notice withdrawals if you take it daily

Haha! Fatass!
*motivates u*

Idk man, lifting weights is boring as shit and progress is very slow. If you just want to get in shape, then explore another althletic option thats actually fun, like sports or martial arts. If you want to be JACKT ask your friend to get you some steroids and start working out with him.

>>18172276

The only sport I'm any good at is football, and it's too hard to get people together for that. I don't want to learn martial arts because I'm not going to be able to maintain a timing for a class coming up here - I need something I can do on my own time.

It's more important to me to look aesthetically pleasing and healthy than it is to be strong, at the end of the day.

>I struggle as a fee-male
lmao

>>18172238

Maybe they are not your scene. It's like saying "how can I enjoy a D&D night?". Just try to get in the mood, but don't feel bad if you don't.

>>18172238
VILNIUS
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stop interacting with both of them

>>18172210
If she tells him before you do she can spin it however she wants.

>>18172225

Unavoidable for the next fortnight. Afterwards, it won't be an issue. I wasn't that close to them.

>>18172226

However it's spun, we both look like shit. Don't think she'll spill though, she seemed quite ashamed and a week has passed without her saying shit.

Just start fucking people you meet at parties/bars/clubs. If you're not socially retarded you'll be able to tell pretty quickly what girls are the type to have a ONS and what girll's arent.

Don't force yourself to hook-up with people just because you feel societtally obligated. It's not for everyone.

>>18172198
Well im a straight man so naturally i want to fuck all the time without having some emotional commitments on top of it. I feel envious when i hear about people sending dirty texts to multiple women at the same time, picking them up every weekend and shit like that.

Problem is that ive never been to a club or a party and approached a woman, im not completely socially retarded, finally leaving that phase but still of course dealing with the remnants of my asburgic past. Any advice?

It's not that great OP. The grass truly isn't greener in the other side. Relationship sex beats hookup sex 9 times out of 10. The only advantage to hookups is variety, but after half a dozen one night stands you'll realize that a pussy feels like a pussy no matter what body ups attached to.

I've actually had more luck in Tinder than picking up girls at the bars. You may try that route, but it's a numbers game. Slept with two girls off tinder after trying to initiate conversation with probably 50 matches

>>18172174

>muh sweets

God you're a faggot.

Water is literally the only refreshing, wonderful drink out there.

>water tastes bad

I dont know man, keep drinking soda till you drop dead.

>>18172174
Make a goal of drinking 2 bottles of water a day. Then increase it to 4. Then increase it to 8.

Get in a routine of drinking water at a certain time. Down a bottle when you first wake up. Down a bottle before you go to bed. Drink before meals and during meals.

>>18172157
Help with what?

Call some friends who can back you up on not being violent

>>18172173
She calls the cops. Cops question where he was the day she got her injuries. He has to come up with a story that his friends would also have to recite to the letter. >>18172173

Move on.
She was a good practice gf, but now you can do better.

Maybe in two or three years when she's with her next emotional tampon you can be that ex she's obsessing over while she's with someone else and fuck her again. But for now, yeah your best move is to GTFO.

>>18172042
Give her space and check up on her. but honestly leave it and worry about yourself. seems like she has bad taste in men

>>18172042

She's grieving. It's a process non sociopaths go through when they lose something.

Ask her if there's anything you can do for her, if she says no, give her space and time. Be patient.

>>18172005
she doesn't wnt to talk to you.......
move on

>>18172005
Yes it is acceptable, take the hint and move on.

Idk Man. She may have you blocked. I don't get why people can't talk it out rather than just ignore

>>18171946
Nice situation OP. I think you are on a crossroads. One way leads to you being homeless and other leads to being better you.

I would personally start by going to uni and try to catch up with materials.

Good luck!

>>18171946

motivation is defined as the 'desire to do something'. that desire can stem from anything. intrinsic motivation is the need to do it to feel fulfilled. then there's not wanting consequences. a lot of people do good cuz they're afraid of what happens when they don't. then theres reward as motivation, doing good cuz you know the reward.

but in many cases, like yours, you have become too complacent with a life that doesn't challenge you so you dont see any reason to challenge your self.

the truth is, motivation is garbage. you dont need to want to do something in order to do it. the people who are successful do all sorts of things they dont want to do, but they do it because they know it will be worth it in the end.

>>18171946

You just fucking listed all the things wrong in your life, which means you know exactly what you need to change. No one here can magically turn into motivation for you, you just have to get the fuck up and start working on it. What advice do you expect to get? "Go to your lectures", "get a job", "get out of the house and get a life"? Those are the things you know you should do, but for some reason you are not doing it. Well, do it. Only you can improve your situation.

>>18171945

most people don't get the definitions right for introversion and extroversion. and the few who do still dont realize that its rarely ever a one or the other type of situation.

its kind of like height. tall and short are just vague terms used to describe people in relation to us and the norm. but in reality most people just fall somewhere on a scale.

introverted simply means recharging with alone time. extroverted simply means recharging wtih social time. for most people you recharge with both. its like sleep. when you're tired of the day you want to sleep. and when you've slept too much you want to get up and move around. even a massage begins to feel like 'pressure' if it goes on for too long.

on top of this, most people don't realize that its simply a 'recharge'. most people here claim to be introverted, but that being introverted makes them miserable, which means they're not actually introverts, they are simply extroverts who aren't socializing. its like a gay guy forcing himself to sleep with women.

the only way to truly get over social anxiety is to
1) practice
2) acknowledge the consequences (or lack thereof).

practice speaks for itself. the more you go out there, the more experience you get.

as for acknowledging the consequences, a lot of people in your situation tend to think there are some. that any failed interaction is a mark on a scoreboard that god will judge you by when you die. in reality even the most embarrassing of moments mean absolutely nothing by the next day, particularly with strangers or people you havent developed any friendships with.

the chad gets rejected more than the beta simply because the chad isn't afraid to ask a woman out. he knows that a rejection means nothing and is not a judgement of him or his worth. the beta does not. he takes any perceived awkwardness as confirmation that he is a sub-human and worth less than a career criminal.

>>18171945
Do you have parents who care? If yes, you can always try to talk to them. If not, you can always try to be better yourself.

Anyway you sound like typical usa high school student who snap someday and shoot the school.

So you have to deal with your problems.
>bullied
You have to find out reason why. Is it because you are just the weakest in class? Is there really nobody around to help you? Can you tell teacher that they bully you?

>social anxiety
You deal with this by learning that everybody have this fear inside their head when they are about to leave their comfort zone. You really have to learn how to overcame it. It is part of growing up.

>distance from everyone
Dont be that sad kid. Try to make some friend. Look around class, find the most sad looking guy / girl and chat them up. It is not that hard. Maybe if you manage to squeeze into some social group they will stop bullying you.

>health problems
Like what? You have to be strong. The natural selection is still in works. You can either deal with your problems or live a very sad life full of suffering. You have to be strong.

>off myself
Dont. That would mean your bullies have won.

>>18171994
i am way past school, i have graduated, and i still get bullied at work. its because im ugly. theres nothing i can do about it.

>>18171833

>am i just being stupid

maybe. depends on the context. tell us the story.

>>18171836
It happened a lot. Ever since high school I would have a talk about something that's a little high brow, join into a high brow discussion or the class would be talking about something that required technical validation. There would be a woman overseeing the topic, and as soon I come to ask a question or provide any sort of commentary, she just bows out and thinks its okay. Saying something like, "yeah, well I guess," or just completely ignoring the fact that someone asked her for her opinion. It doesn't make sense. Why would you pretend to be smart? You can't pretend to be smart. It's an oxymoron.

You see someone visibly trying to make friends, especially with those who are smart or intellectual and you make that ten times harder to do by making him seem like a chauvinist or some overly intellectual brocade. It's stupid. This is the reason I don't have a lot of friends in intellectual society, because the women who always introduce me to them validate me first by proxy.

Sounds like you and your partner show houses to potential buyers, partner says something related to buyers job/ hobby, leaves you to finish the conversation you didn't start.

I'd imagine she is trying to get your reputation put under scrutiny, give it she's leading you and what is your career into a corner.

>>18171741
He isn't pissed that you fucked her, he's pissed you fucked her instead of him

Stop having the sex with the girls he likes, Or at least hook him up with a girlfriend, so it won't be a problem anymore.

>>18171741
Fuck him so that he'll have fucked her by syllogism. STI's prove that the fucking equivalence relation is transitive.