Tl;Dr girl that actually looks good is interested in me, we get along, but friend has me questioning whether it's all a prank or not. What to do.
I've been taking to this girl lately, and we've been getting along. Imo she's a bit out of my league but that just might be because i used to be skinny, socially retarded, etc. Now I'm in the football team and I'm decently built, parties and all that stuff.
Just turned 18 this late last year too so puberty has done a massive job lately.
To cut a long story short, this girl has been hitting on me/ being nice. I'm not used to that, especially from people as attractive as her.
My mate tells me that another one of our common friends has been talking to this girl and apparently she said that she was looking for someone to go on undateables with.
Me being insecure as i am i let this get to me and then he insisted that he was joking around after he saw i was physically distressed.
I guess you could say i have mild aspergers. This guy loves to mess with people and within that group of friends I'm usually (mostly voluntarily) the butt of jokes. Idm it, i do stupid shit on purpose at some points even.
So now i cant tell whether he's lying about it being a joke so I'd let it go on, or whether he was actually lying.. both possibilities are quite likely with him imo...
What do you guys think. What should i do? I don't plan on asking the girl out but she might as well have asked me out and i said no, I'm not looking for a relationship rn. I really don't want to keep talking to someone who might be faking the conversation.
It feels so fake now. We've been talking for 4 days full time i guess on Facebook, and i go out first time since we started talking, get a message saying " why do i miss you, what's wrong with me".
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>>18172937
So... do you want to try with her, or no?
You either find out it was a prank and you get over it, or you find out it was real and you bang a hot chick.
Either way there's not much to lose.
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>>18172937
I'm not too badly built. It's not like I'm completely pathetic. 6'2 , really soft wavy hair. Decent short haircut, somewhat modern.
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He sounds like a jealous fag tryna hold you down. Also neither of you are going to get on TV or whatever the fuck undateables is. Ask her out.
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How do I climb out of the "autistic virgin" hole and start living a normal life
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Alcoholism
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>>18172940
That just makes me want to kill myself
I also tried weed and it makes me more social but people still see me as below them
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>>18172958
For me weed makes me want to kill myself in social situations. Alcohol turns me into the real me. Pretty much whatever gives you the most self confidence. Honestly just working out regularly makes me feel better about myself
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How worried should I be about this isp bill that passed? I dont visit horrible sites (just some BDSM porn is the worst I can think of)
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No, everything you do and browse is already being tracked by everybody and resold in the first place.
Get a VPN and stop using Chrome if you're scared.
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>>18172897
I figured that everyone already knew that I was a degenerate. But I blow everything out of proportion .Thanks man
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>>18172893
Let me give you the lowdown of what this means for you, the consumer, and your personal information, as an advertiser that buys millions of dollars worth of this information to get in front of you.
It means basically jack shit.
See, I don't give two everliving fucks, that you, Anon P. Anonerson, visits a BDSM site, or Googles loli porn, or that when you were 11 you took a shit in your sister's panties and rubbed them on the family cat.
I care if within the foreseeable future, your ass wants to buy a hotel room in one of the cities in which my company sells hotel rooms. It used to be that I'd have to buy data from a company like Google or Expedia or something to get reliable data that existed in your cookies/IP/device ID/magic that showed that you were looking to book a hotel room. They have all of your data shit and could sell it to us because you opted in by using their site. Then I can serve you ads.
Now, I can get more accurate information from an ISP with more real-time data from cookies that don't expire, from data you can't really delete or opt out of as easily as you can cookied information. And I can be more guaranteed of who I'm actually advertising to, since your ISP knows exactly who is paying for the bill, rather than predictive modeling off of your browsing habits.
Anyways, you shouldn't worry.
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Apparently attractive 2017-03-30 01:20:57 Post No.18172847
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I have spent most of my life alone and homebound(6th grade dropout). Now I'm in college and to my surprise people think I'm attractive.
How do I use this to find love? I'm pretty socially awkward and have been struggling to converse with people. I don't seem to say the right things for most people to engage in a long conversation with me.
Honestly don't even know how people ask each out or do relationship stuff.
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>>18172847
Everyone does it differently. Talk to people to improve your social skills, it may be awkward at times but if you can make a friend or two who will help you out with working on the awkwardness along the way, you'll do just fine. You'll probably do just fine even without the friends. Just have a little self-confidence.
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>>18172955
I have 1 guy I'd consider a friend but he's more awkward than I am and we can both say whatever we want to each other. Conversations between us aren't like those with normies so I don't think I'm getting practice from it.
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So I just found out today that my girlfriend cheated on me. It was only a one time thing and she admitted it to me herself a few days after it happened. she regretted it and still wants us to be together. I'm more than a little pissed and told her I needed time to think. she said that she it was with some guy in a driving class and the farthest they got was making out. I really trusted this girl and idk if after this I will be able to love her the way i did. wat do??anyone have experience from a similar situation?? all advice is welcome!
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Something like this has yet to happen to me, but I would break up with her
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>>18172822
could you explain why you would break up rather than give her another chance. Would help me make my decision thanks
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>>18172828
she doesnt respect you. if she respected you she wouldnt have done that. why are you dating someone who doesnt respect you? why are you dating someone that you can no longer trust?
So I got a girls number today... now what should I text her?
after a LTR breakup, I forgot how to initiate convo here
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>>18172784
Don't even start conversation. That's how you get friendzoned.
Just confirm it's her then ask her out on a date.
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The greatest way to initiate conversation via text with girls is to just send them random cute pictures. For example, just send a picture of a cute puppy and say it reminded you of her. After that exchange, immediately try to setup a date.
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"Hey, femanon, its anon from (day I got your number). How you doin'?"
After she replies you can talk about literally anything you fucking want. Ask her on a date, or just convo and ask on a date later. DO whatever the fuck you want, and with confidence.
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My husband is emotionally abusive. I want to get out but I don't have family nearby.
I know every couple fights but this is beyond that.
He has a bad drug habit and his mind is stuck in high school. He just identifies me with "female authority" (aka his mom) and treats me like an angry, angsty teenage son would treat his mom. It's too much. I feel so alone and trapped.
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>>18172782
call 911 the next time he does drugs. that should put him in jail and give you time to sell shit in the house to skip town.
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Mine is emotionally abusive too. He also likes to play psychological warfare with me. He has turned my family against me and my friends. When I'm out at the store he will have his friends mess with me too, like say things that pertain to us or stare at me. I have an infant also and the only way out would be to pack a bag, hitchhike, and leave the kids and everything behind. My life is good other than those things. Two weeks ago he choked me and hit me a few times while I was holding the kid. We were arguing at the time. We should have split up 8 years ago but he said that it would have been too messy. In the beginning of the relationship he was playing psychological warfare and I should have left then. The relationship is like Dr. Jekell and Mr. Hyde, when it's good it's but when it's bad it's bad. I didn't take the relationship serious and lied about things because I didn't think things would go as far as they went. And now he lives to make my life an absolute living hell. So, I feel you honey and good luck. Keep me posted. When things get bad for you just think of me, my situation is far worse. I don't need advice, I have accepted my situation and choose to stay til death do us part.
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>>18172782
If pic related you can come and move in with my girlfriend and I.
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Need a laptop under $300 that can run csgo and terraria.. any recommendations?
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bump again
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pls help
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help poorfag out
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Should i go through with it? 2017-03-30 12:50:20 Post No.18172776
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Should i go through with it?
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I'm going to keep this short: i met a girl last year via my roommates, and we got to being best friends. Or so i think, since, even though we're in the same campus, she barely calls me to hang out or just check on me(but she does so with our mutual friends, as far as I know)
I've grown fond of her, and last year, when those feelings peaked, i told her i want to talk to her about something, and today is the day(3:48 am now, I'm meeting her this evening to talk)
Basically, i want to tell her i like her a lot and see what happens. I don't want any secret gestures, or quirks i can use to make her into me, i want a simple answer: should i do it, yes or no? (And why, optional)
>Pic unrelated
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>>18172776
Worst case she says no and you both go on with your lives.
Best case GF
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>>18172776
>we got to being best friends
>she barely calls me to hang out or just check on me(but she does so with our mutual friends, as far as I know)
You do see how those two statements would seem to be at odds with each other, right?
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Yes, you should do it in any case.
Because being rejected will allow you to move on instead of wondering forever how life would be if you had asked her out
What can I do about being unattractive and balding?
I'm 25 and my hairline is receding. I also have a huge brow bone.
I get disgusted when I look in the mirror. Fuck me for having shit genes I have no control over, right?
This makes the things I want for my future all the more difficult to achieve.
I'm about to say fuck it and go bald until the day I die and leave this all behind me but I really don't like the bald man stigma.
Not to mention that I generally don't like the way it looks.
This fucking blows. Should I just go out into the mountains of china and be with monks or something? At least I would fit in haha
pic only somewhat related.
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How far back is your recession? Research "finastride."
Also, a big brow ridge is actually an attractive trait for most people
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>>18172772
The possible side affects are pretty bad.
Also, I don't want to take a drug for the rest of my life.
I'm actually at the point right before it gets bad. If I were to take finasteride I'm sure it wouldn't be an issue regrowing my crown but yeah.
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>>18172785
It's your choice. There's always a trade-off.
Have you considered hair transplants or consulting a doctor?
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I'm definitely either an ENFP or and ENTP. What is the definitive thing that places those two personalities in the weirdo tier? Will I ever make it?
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>>18172704
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ri7RXWVxxSA
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>>18172704
>Natural Warrior in an age where barbarians are extinct.
AND
>Fairies in a world ruled by barbarians.
Hahahaha, at least make this bait a little better, mate.
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>>18172704
Get this /r9k/ shit out. There are 10 of these threads there per day on that board, go post in one of those.
You're not even asking for advice. To answer your question: no, you'll never make it
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Rate my video game idea bros!! 2017-03-29 11:41:31 Post No.18172634
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Rate my video game idea bros!!
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Influenced by 'floating hand' games like Surgeon Simulator, Job Simulator, etc:
The game will be a first-person puzzle solving Fix It simulator, with challenging gameplay mechanics, a personal storyline, and relatable characters setting.
Single Player, Multiplayer (Versus, Co-Op, etc), amongst other gameplay options will be featured.
The gameplay will have addictive Candy Crush-like instant dopamine gratification while solving the puzzles, with a Complaint Meter that’ll eventually lead to a Game Over if filled. Complaints result from breaking parts of what you’re trying to fix, eventaul breakdowns of completed tasks, along with delaying finishing the task. Finishing tasks with little damage, ahead of schedule etc will reduce the Complaint Meter to keep it at bay.
With just primitive help, the protagonist will be flying by the seat of his pants in completing the objectives, which will give the player a realistic sense of uncertainty in completing the tasks. Selecting objectives will be done on a Craigslist-like site, choosing any objective you’d feel like you’d be able to do, however repeatedly failing tasks that are surprisingly difficult will be a fast-track to fulfilling your Complaint Meter.
The customers will be memorable and have their own unique personalities, all of which will interact with the protagonist in a unique way, some will: Pay more/less than others, less likely/more likely to complain, will help cooperate, etc. The art style and presentation will be memorable
The protagonist is a funny looking, endearing and relatable illegal Mexican who’s an unlicensed General Contractor, working in America with the ambition to fund his daughter’s college education back home. Sporadically throughout the game, the protagonist's daughter will send letters missing him. The protagonist The an illegal immigrant will add to the tension of the Complaint Meter being filled, which will eventually lead to a deportation if filled.
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Bump!!!!!!
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what the fuck are you talking about
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wrong board
>>>/v/
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Get involved with someone who has BPD? 2017-03-29 11:37:15 Post No.18172625
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Ive known this girl for around 4 months and the both of us are starting to catch feelings for each other. We had the talk and all already about our feelings towards each other. But theres one problem (i think) - she had borderline personality disorder.
She gets really harsh moodswings everyday and her mood can switch from every existing mood in a few hour. She has some self image problem and also fears abandonment which makes her very insecure. This girl is also very impulsive and acts on her impulses which makes it very hard for her to handle her economy (she spends aaaalot).
Despite all this, this girl is a very sweet and a nice person, she just seems very lost. She for instance if very easily affected by others and let them shape her (music taste, opinions etc). She's been doing better since she started to get to know me but i fear that she will totally flip one day.
Do any of you have experience with dating someone who has BPD? Is it an absolute no, and should i just run while i still can or could it perhaps work?
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>>18172625
from my experience this can be fun at first but things do get more and more complicated, the closer you become (like moving together and stuff). it's best to Keep those on a friednship Level if you want my advice
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The amount of baggage people with BPD carry is more than the Atlanta airport gets in an entire year.
I can't judge this girl without knowing her, but you have to be aware BPD affects every aspect of her life and will take a toll on yours once she's decided to move on or is having a bad day.
I'm a bipolar and wouldn't trust a BPD with anything at all.
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>>18172625
It's going to hurt you so fucking much when she turns on you. And she will turn on you. That's all I have to say.
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How do I get smarter?
Do I only need to convince myself to study? Hard to find the drive for it really.
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Eat lots of vitamins, hang out with smarter people, learn skills. Just push your dumb brain a little.
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>>18172637
Barely passing college Tbh what's the trick to learning? I get really bored in classes and my brain shuts down.
Do vitamins actually work and what kind?
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>>18172661
Well what works for me is to start with the basics. When I upgraded my math it all looked like an ancient foreign language, but I took the time to learn the rules, and symbols eventually I got it. It also helps to find entertaining videos on the subject, because teachers usaully have a way of making it really dull. B6,b12, and folic acid are good vitamins for the head cheese.
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OK what the fuck /adv/, how do I fix this?
>be 20
>living alone for a year now
>previously lived with parents
>mom would always cook, fridge was always full
>move out, get my own place
>feelsgoodman.jpg
>keeping an apartment clean is hard but ok
>uni and life in general is ok
>regularly forget to eat though
I have no idea how it came to be but I just keep on forgetting to eat. I don't even get hungry, and then it hits me at midnight or the next day. And I feel that I can eat a lot less than three years ago and I'd feel just as full.
Here's why I'm worried: I feel like my body is slowly deteriorating, and it'll all catch up to me in one moment sometime in the future. Also, but this is less important: I want to get bigger (I'm real skinny - not anorexic skinny but still).
Have any of you experienced this before? How do you deal with it? Thanks anons
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This happens to me when I'm especially stressed out or depressed.
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I don't feel like I'm either of the two. Definitely not stressed, I do barely anything and have so few classes. Maybe a bit lonely but not depressed.
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>>18172635
set an alarm 2-3 times a day to eat, or just snack on stuff