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>>18174276

You only get one life.

Who cares what people think...shaving isn't the worst thing. Hair grows back.

Go for it.

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>>18174276
I, too, want to be a cute boy who looks after his man and gets fucked in the ass bareback.

I want to do the same, still working up the courage.

You have 2 options:

Do what you love

Do what you hate, to earn enough money to do what you love


Choose your destiny

>>18174265
Here's a joke for you: how do you get a musician off your porch?
>you pay him for the pizza

Stick with nursing, find a different major that will actually be useful, or drop out to minimize debt. Music should not have money thrown away on it at the college level.

>>18174326
My desire for money is entirely dear based though, a distant worry about the future. When I look at my current lifestyle, I realize money is a low priority in terms of happiness generated. When I got 2k from tax returns I just sat on it because there isn't much I wanted to buy. I want to study music so I can actually learn the principles of music theory and production. Whether it generated a lucrative income only matters when I think about other people's standards, which I shouldn't be doing anyway.

Weigh the pros and cons of each option, research the lost opportunity cost and make an educated decision.

>>18174245
>Lost opportunity cost
>educated decision
What did he mean by this?

>>18174241
Supply Chain Management (sounds somewhat similar to yours) graduates have good opportunities in America.

I wouldn't teach though man unless you really have a passion for it.

did you try breaking your nose?

slam it into a door again and if it breaks, then it confirms that at one point your nose was not broken

>>18174203
>Bleeding nose
>Bruise under your eyes, around your nose
>Stiff nose, it's hard to breahte
>Pain when you touch your nose
>Feeling like you're fainting

You didn't break your nose, you can definitely tell when it happens and you don't need to search online.

>>18174203
You should have heard a small crack noise at the time of impact. Not sure if bleeding is always a symptom, but it's definitely a sign. If your nose gets swollen, then it's definitely broken. Your nose can heal itself though. One time my friends accidentally broke my nose by both bumping into my right and left shoulder, never went to the doctor for it.

Selfish whore, just go jerk your dick and ignore her. If she asks you why tell her exactly why.

Does she give you a reason for it?

>>18174169

>I know she sucked other guys in the past.
>I'm her first boyfriend

How do you know she's slurped down other men's cummy into her tummy?

>>18174130
I see the same things everywhere I turn no matter my location in this world.

Why do I need to go anywhere to be more knowledgeable and experienced? There's so much information where I currently reside.

>>18174130
You certainly do know a lot about people in places you've never been to.

And ultimately, you're right in a way: People are people no matter where you go. But their experiences may actually be different than yours.

And there isn't any reason you have to travel the world. People do it because they like to. They like to see new things. Taste new foods. See new sights. It's enjoyable.

>>18174130

The world is a beautiful place. It's full of life and culture and history and we live in a country that doesn't have much of any of those things.

My argument isn't for traveling around the united states.

I have a job that has flown me all over the country and there are several parts to see...I think it's good to see the west coast and the east coast and compare and contrast life styles and cultures there.

But my argument would be that you need to see places that have history and places that have a rich cultural heritage based purely on the amount of time that they have existed.

I loved Europe - seeing how their various cultures have developed over time and how the architecture, religion, art has all flowed into daily life wasn't life changing like people want you to think...but it certainly opened my eyes to the possibility of what is possible in the world. Meeting people that had passions and professions was legitimately inspiring - people that don't just work a 9-5 like you do lit a fire under me to set goals and achieve things that I didn't think I would ever do pesonally.

So I find inspiration in travel and meeting new people and I find appreciation for the things we have understanding where things like our language came from...and visiting places that were obviously less fortunate than us made me appreciate our way of life.

Now...you could argue that you can get all of that from watching tv or reading books or magazines....but intellectually knowing something and viscerally experiencing it are two vastly different things.

I say go see things, meet new and interesting people and enjoy life outside of your town and your parent's house.

You're young and you can save up money to travel now.

Go do it!

>>18174122
Figure out something that you would like to do, then just bring her.

She seems to be fine with what you're doing ,because she keeps going out with you. But I'd be more concerned about her getting bored with going out with a guy that won't even hold her hand. That isn't a "work up to" event.

>>18174122

You've been to dinner and a movie 7 times?

Geez, she must dig you to not be bored out of her mind.
Also - my last date and I held hands the first night during dinner and walking around town and on the whole car ride home (which was about an hour) - and do you know why? Because I just did it and she was cool with it.

A lot of things will depend on your income and where you are located.

I would find some cool local things that are going on - maybe a concert...even if it's like your friend's band - doesn't need to be some famous person. Maybe a comedy show if there's some place that does that around you - it's easy and stress free.

I would find a spot that's important to you or that you think is pretty and have a picnic up there. (Like on my last date I took her on a little drive up to this spot that over looks our town in the mountains, I'm sure there's something like that near you)

I don't know if you have your own place or not - but if you do, invite her over and make her dinner.

Keep and eye for local events...there's always some kind of something happening - I've been to stuff like Beer Festivals or there was even a mac and cheese festival where I live (It's kind of a touristy spot though) but something where you can go walk around and be together and talk.

You got this bro - she's into you - just keep it up.

>>18174136

Right? Isn't that the oddest part of this post?

Who works up to holding hands?

That's so out of place in the context of 7 or 8 dates that it makes me wonder if this whole thing is some kind of troll post.

Like...anon have you actually been on 7 dates with her?

Have you kissed? I already gave me advice on what to do - its just more for my curiosity.

HeiLHiTL3r

>>18174097
Taken :(

>>18174095
The Hackstreet Boys

Meanwhile the girl I liked first has said she's liked me and is open to the idea of a second date but as I said before it's hard to talk to her and while I like a lot of things about her I really can't get over that fact. Also I'm pretty sure judging from some comments from the best friend and things I've picked up on my own she might like someone else as well.

I guess what my question is should I even go after either of them? The girl who I, in theory should like, but can't hold a conversation with for the life of me or the girl who I connected very easily with but has repeatally said she doesn't like me in that way?

Are you in middle school?

>>18174086
One has already told you she isn't interested, and you aren't interested in the other one. This is not difficult.

Could possibly be a fungal infection or some nasty shit. Go to a doctor if it persists.

>>18174063
Go see a doctor, it's probably an allergy or immune problem.

You're fine dude. That's just from scratching too hard with the razor guards. Relax

How old are you nigga, if youre writing this past the age of 15, consider standing in front of a train

>>18174056
Oh holy fuck, i just read
>havent asked anyone out since highschool

Jesus christ man, its game over

>>18174040
People try to be very roundabout because they don't want to be rejected, and want to save as much face as possible if they are.

I often find that being direct here is key - A simple "Hey, are you free this weekend? Wanna go do X?" can really go a long way. It's difficult to be direct like this when you have a crush on someone because you tend to overthink what they'll think about the request, but it gives you a good indication of whether or not she's open to spending time with you in person.

That make sense?

Chuck E Cheese always worked for me

>>18174011
A bar with nice food, somewhere mature but avoid branded restaurants because they attract children and families who tend to ruin the mood

>>18174011
The vagina.

>>18173977
Yeah it's called getting old

>>18173977
i've never remembered my ears not ringing when listening to dead silence

Not normal to me at all. Yeah if it's really dead silent it can feel weird, some people apparently hear their own blood as well. But the ringing absolutely does not sound familiar to me, let alone hard enough that you can tell it's there with other noise going on.

>>18173971
>Yeaa
Lmao. Never gonna make it bro

>>18173971
Jesus, stop being 15 for half a second and realize that a "date" is just a hang out you've stuck a label on. Just go and have a good time and stop worrying about fucking labels.

>>18173994
>Just go and have a good time and stop worrying about fucking labels

I want her to know my intentions desu, should I just make moves with her and not worry about the label?

1 Obviously. That's only a reason he's giving for been a cheapskate lazy fuck.

5/7
robbery is taking by force, not withholding by dickery.

It's tough to say.

My analogy is like "stealing" music online. You're not actually robbing the music from the artist, they still have their music, and now you have yours.

The difference is that when you steal a bus ride, you're not only failing to pay fairly to use and fund the bus and the driver, but you're also depriving someone else of a bus ride in that seat/space. I'd say that qualifies as thievery and is thus robbery. But it's definitely pretty grey.