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>>18177023
No?

>>18177023
You should feel some pleasure from penetration and tit sucking, but it's still fairly normal.

>>18177023
I wouldn't want to date a chick who didn't make me feel good in bed.

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>Girl just gave me an invitation to crash at her place after a night of drinking

Am I going to hump tonight?

>>18176991
Go straight for the clit, manny.

Girls:
How would you personally rank the first date activities in the OP?
>coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery

>>18176946
is this common amongst femanons?
I swear every time someone here posts about their vagina it's either vaginismus or 2 inches meat flaps or both

>>18176972
Can't say. If I was passionate enough about getting aquaintanced with other girls' stuff, I probably wouldn't be interested enough in men to have this problem in the first place.

>>18176988
what's the symptom so far?
Pics would help.

>>18176785

welcome to life. the best you can do is try to make every day matter. by the time you get to 30 you'll feel worse than you did at 20 but still saying 'I STILL GOT TEN YEARS LEFT TO ENJOY AS MUCH AS I CAN CUZ BY 40 I MIGHT AS WELL BE DEAD'

this is kind of how life owrks in general. you assume the end is a lot closer than it actually is.

me though i choose to party hard on birthdays, cuz i know i wont always be able to.

>>18176785
Your worries are well founded.

>>18176785
Stressing over it is a great way to speed up the aging process.

If you take care of your lifestyle and diet, you should have no problems to keep your looks till mid-late thirties with minimal changes and if you're unhappy with what you have, well cosmetic surgery is a blooming enterprise.

Things will be more fun since you'll have more experience of playing the game, until late 40s-50s when your body starts going to shit at least.

>>18176658

this is nothing like a job hunt, by your own admission you can get laid you just choose to back out.

and its just a hook up, not a relationship so it doesnt matter if you are bad at it, so go do what you're already doing, but just go through because the only way you learn is by doing.

no one gets an experienced sex teacher. you gotta do what the rest of us did and just have awkward clumsy sex.

also
>i cant have a relationship
>but i can get laid

one of these is a lie, so you better start explaining so we can understand

>>18176712
Op is trying to impress up by saying he can get a grill, problem for him though is that we all know he can't.

>>18176658
you should contact the local government, ask them about this issue and they will give you some form to fill out. Then a few days later they will set you up with a girl and she will have sex with you. The girl also has similar issue.

You probably won't get validation from strangers on the internet. Go find a boy you like and ask him on a date - there you have your answer.

>>18176555
There's no certain way of finding out. You will ultimately have to figure it out for yourself. Some people will find you attractive, and some won't. Being a model doesn't necessarily mean that you're attractive, there's plenty of average-looking models out there that I don't find attractive at all. Also, some guys might lie to you about how hot you are in order to seduce you by giving you direct or indirect compliments. However, if they're already trying to seduce you, they obviously consider you to be attractive to some degree.

You might try posting photos online, but even that isn't guaranteed to give you an accurate answer, since a lot of people will feel bad calling you unattractive or average.

My advice would be to try not worrying about it. There's no purpose to it. Even if someone gave you a straight-up answer, you would probably still doubt them and would continue looking for more validation from other people, for more compliments, "likes", followers, etc. It's healthier to not focus on these things. People who obsess about being attractive are never satisfied with the answers they get even if they're being constantly bombarded with praise and compliments.

>>18176555
No one knows how attractive they are, or how unattractive they are, in both physical appearance as well as any other form of appearance. We-re humans, we seek out validation from others. You're not the only one.

Having that said, you'll find out with time. You have an advantage though, as you're a girl. You don't necessarily need to seek out attention from a boy (other than maybe smiling at one or saying hi). The way society is, the guys have to flirt up the girls. So no matter how attractive a guy is, he still has to have some level of charisma, while society doesn't demand anywhere near the same level from girls.

Wow, you're a fucking cunt. I've heard of people being worried for their significant others sexual activity, but you just straight up hate him for it? Guess what; leave the relationship. You're obviously what's wrong.

Learn to love without binding it to lust, you fucking slut.

Get bigger titties?

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>>18176446
Fuck off, man.

She isn't saying she hates the guy, she's just upset that he isn't fucking her as much as she likes. Like any man wouldn't feel the same if his woman wasn't putting out.

Have you spoken to him at all, OP?

>>18176085
There is no shortcut in fixing things, although you could consider buying a new version the shortcut but i doubt you have enough spare money to buy yourself anything you just mentioned losing.
Start with one thing at a time, the most important thing first, because this is the only logical thing to do. Now you can bend and twist your mind to find a reason to disagree but at the end you will always arrive at that conclusion.
Ignore the painful demotivation and sit on your butt.

>>18176085
After my breakup the only time I really felt no pain and just down to earth was after a workout. Do some sports nigga

>>18176093
Also watch what you eat. I tend to eat too little and like shit when really depressed wich makes the situation worse. Maybe you're different, but it could be an aspect making your situation more difficult

>>18175842

the first three aren't mutually exclusive.

>>18175842
pissed--->laughing--->worried and tell her she needs to seek help--->sad for her insanity

Just tell her that she needs some real help and if she keeps cutting herself then show her parents the pics she is sending you if she still lives with them.
But expect she might kill you if she is THAT crazy maybe, be ready.

Shes being manipulative. Take the images to the police station. Theyll send a psych and an ambo to her house. And either she will get help or she wont pull this shit on anyone again.

I hated college because of people like you

>>18175777
No experience on frats but why not berry your dick on average/ugly chicks? Or you want a LTR with a 10/10?

Anyway, dunno if you will get a good answer from someone with experience though, since this is 4chan and dunno where you could ask this.
Only board I can think of is /fit/ since /soc/ are just a bunch of awkward camwhores.

>>18175777
>Unfortunately at a college like this, you cannot just go up to random hot girls and talk to them out of nowhere because 99% of the most attractive girls are in sororities and really wont mix with anyone who is not on their social level with a fraternity or something. I am down to try pretty much whatever but it seems like I am almost immediately barred off because I don't have the social backing of a high tier fraternity.
are american universities really like this? this sounds like hell, worse than high school.

Invite her over, then kill yourself right in front of her.

That PTSD, hah, get her good.

Stretched?
you clearly didnt do biology or sex ed you dumb fucking idiot. All youre doing is giving her a good time before she gets fucked by another dudw.

Lol stretched. Fucking retard.

You know how to rally fuck her over. Dump her out of the blue without a reason. Just text her "yo it ain't working out, I'm out" and block her

Yeah when i was 15/16 i had the same thougths, because i think i was comfortable in my home, on my chair, in front of my pc, but growing up i began to feel some kind of "social needs" which everyone has because the human itself is a social creature, so do not worry, unless you're authistic, you will find friends who you'll want to spend time with outside

>>18174938
Well I'm 24 so I'm probably a little bit late in the friend-making business.

>>18174925
My parents used to tell me that as well and I replied I don't want to nor I give a crap about it, and went back to maths and video games.

Id say cut the "work in progress part"

and narrow what you always think about to like two things, that are interesting and reveal somehing about your personality

>>18174837
terrible facial hair is what's wrong

your first photo is really small and far away
haircut doesn't match your face

>Beard of no beard?
grammar

not smiling is a huge deal, esp. if you aren't an 8/10 or higher

>>18174799
can confirm this is how i feel very often. im also so scared every male thinks im stupid and less than him and basically worthless. i think that's not really far from the truth and i often feel really distressed because of that lmao

>>18174799
I'd assume that's how attractive women feel. Speaking as a butterface with shit for brains, I'm paranoid that anyone who is desperate enough to date me is just using me for practice.

Sorry to say, but thank Christ you're worried.

I'm worried about dudes tricking girls into getting pumped and dumped,
while all I'm looking for is a girl with enough self-respect and wit to only settle for someone that actually loves her for who she is.

I hope there's at least 3 billion more women like you on Earth.
Fingers crossed.

I already did my bench presses today.

Every morning when waking up for the past week, I stick my gun to my head and contemplate pulling the trigger.

>>18173640
There wouldn't be a reason to put a gun up to your head in the first place if you weren't already planning on pulling the trigger. There's nothing to contemplate.

There's no need to rush, man. Life will always end too soon, you can count on that.