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>>18180542
members of the group half-assing their commitment causing resentment within the group, or bringing in others who would half-ass it.

Cons:
>socialism
>high capital investment
>leadership struggles
>too small a group is unlikely to be able to sustain itself
>too large a group is unlikely to be able to organise itself efficiently while remaining cohesive

>>18180542
Small socialist communities and hardly self sustaining especially as far as medicine, electrician, plumbing, and other professional work goes. You can't pay someone to do it because you have no money unless you trade and then haha welcome to capitalism.

Just pooped and it had blood again
Although i had a really strong bellyache earlier today that could point to stomach ulcer, the blood on the feces was light red so it didnt come from the guts

>fucking goats/sluts without protection
Brought it on yourself famalam.

bellyache is coming again, i think its sore

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Pic 2.

Turns out because she drunkenly facetimed me 5 months ago I actually do have her number. Do I text her or move on? I really liked bee

>>18180521
Fair cop. Deleting her number was childish, especially since here you are again talking to her.

>>18180526
Eh I mean she cut it off. Didn't see the point of having her number anymore

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>>18180504

It's probably important to ask: how much gay furry porn do you look at? If the idea is exciting then you are probably already looking at some sort of gay porn and are in denial about repressing your cocklust.

> pretty much straight

Have you had sex? A girlfriend?

Yes: you might be bi, and/or the taboo of gay-anything may be arousing. OR you've just been in deep repression.

No: you have some soul search to do, and it might involve taking a dick.

>>18180504
Boy, you better sauce that if you want any /adv/.

>>18180539

Lana Rain

you're welcome for the wingman help OP

>how big of a role did my parent's break up affect me?

not very big at all. other people in your same circumstance come out fine. its not about what happens at you, its about how you react to it.

>who do i have to blame now?

no one but your self. my dad just up and left us for a year when i was a kid and then came back and acted like i was a bad kid for not being okay with it.

if you don't want to talk to your family for what they've done or continue to do, thats fine, but to wail about how its fucked you up in the long term is just excusing your own behaviors.

by your own logic your parents can't be responsible for what they did, because they are only a product of their own environment, so you cant hold it against them, they only made those choices cuz their parents raised them that way, and their parents raised THEM that way, and so on and so forth. you can really only ever blame the first ever life form that developed in this particular way.

grow up, affirm your self, and do what you want.

>>18180345
Well seems pretty shitty that your dad kept pretending and it also seems pretty shitty that your mom wasn't strong enough to deal with it, litterally both are at fault for their breakup and only you are to blame for picking up the negativity your mom had and turn into a shitpile of depression.
Turn your life around rather than waste it on these stupid thoughts, questioning who is to blame for your own shit.

Let me ask you a question in return, what do you think your life is worth?

>>18180362
I like your point but you can't deny that the environment shapes you some way or another. Of course my parent's parents affected them. Of course the environment affected them. Of course my dad lying on my mother had long term impacts on our lives. Of course you are shaped by things you can't control dude, it is extremelly naive to think otherwise.
Not sure why the grow up affirm yourself etc shit. You apparently just pictured me as a weak cunt in your head because I wrote I have depression lol.

>>18180335
Wow, i was actually looking for that exact picture from /lgbt/.

>>18180335

you know thats not true stop victimizing your self

>>18180335
Why? Is the hoomins over where you live?

Keep approaching women, see what you do to fuck up the interaction, stop doing that

>>18180321
>I'm 6'0 with a /fit/ body and a good face, yet I can't seem to pull any pussy, online or in person.
personality goes as far or further those things, especially the older you get. case in point, your own comment about it was easier in high school.

>>18180321
If looks arent working, its your personality

>>18180192
I think you might have messed up your vagina nerves ending.
Did you go through labiaplasty?

>>18180205
No

>>18180211
how visible is your beef curtain?

>>18180048
>heroin
>1.5 years
>4 days withdrawal
http://www.narconon.org/drug-information/heroin-addiction.html
well, it says that around ~7 days of going cold turkey you will be fine. So that is one thing.

But since you are here with this cool question
>supposted to do?
I can try to give you some simple directions.

1) do try to not consume any more drugs. It is like alcoholics. Once you break the addiction, you can never try it again or you will fall back. Life can be very boring / hard / colorless. You have to deal with shit via any means just not by drugs again.

2) secure your ability to survive.
So you have to eat (some druggies ignore this fact), have some shelter to not be homeless and some activity to distract you from being nervous / bored so you dont go do drugs again.

I suggest you to recontact your family or some non drug friends. Dont expect them to believe you or pity you, but it is worth a try.

And finally, get a job. I know going to work sucks, but you sort of have to to survive.

Whatever you do, remember you made yourseld to fall into this mess and only you can help yourself as well.

And that part about killing yourself. Life is too short to end it prematurely. Dont give up. Contact your family now, say you are sorry and ask if they are willing to help you.

You've already made it through the hardest part Anon. It's going to be very difficult but you made the right choice to stop. Hard drugs like heroin will only lead you to certain death. I was addicted to Xanax and Crystal meth for a while and I wasn't able to stop until I nearly killed myself when I fell asleep behind the wheel and flew off the highway into a ditch. When I got out of the hospital I decided to never use again and have made it six months so far without using.
Heroin is very difficult because it has some of the worst withdrawals. Have you tried seeing a doctor for Suboxone or methadone treatment?

>>18180048
I've heard weed really helps with opioid addiction. You could try it, I mean it's better than heroin.

dear femanon,
just approach him with a smile :) and cuddle him with ur perfumed hair and he'll blast the computer off the desk

>>18180057
About the only thing I can tempt him away from the computer for is meals or certain TV shows, but even then he doesn't always come right away.

>>18180064
u know
just act nicely and differently and he'll notice, like croon and purr him :), try to make him laugh to blow the stress away

be supportive make him feel that he's smart

all of that just for a couple of days and everything will be fine again

>>18180007
u know
just go and talk to ppl and have some good time

>>18180025
Thats the problem. Nobody chats with me or even speaks to me for a short period of time

>>18180007
>I'm 16 and I continuously feel depressed. What am I doing wrong.
probably reading too deeply into things to be honest. i remember being that young and thinking my life was a total nightmare, and now i just look back and laugh.

>>18179928
Don't. Be a bigger man. She's shit, you know she's shit, why lower yourself to that shitty level? It's not going to make you feel better, it's just going to make you feel worse knowing you've allowed yourself to be a shitty person.

>>18179928
>how do I fuck her over the hardest ?
completely and utterly ignore her, and that's it. don't talk to her or explain why you are ignoring her. just do it.

Do not respond, you'll just give her what you want. Move on.

he just wants sex from you, that's it.

t. man

>>18179925
Um what.

Z girl

>>18179934
pretty much what i said.

t. = regards in finnish

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put it in the oven. heat will be of halp.

Leave it out in the sun for a day or two

>>18180429
I could do a day but I don't know about two, I don't have any other chairs to sit on.

>>18180426
Yes :)

yes sex is 1000× better in a relationship, no you're not still a virgin, yes there is hope, no you didn't fuck up

stay away from the feminists, they're not worth your time

what gives you trouble when it comes to talking with girls?

>>18179850
I dont know, I just freeze/mumble or talk fast when talking to girls im interested in. Heck, im too scared to even ask to hang out. When it is girls whom Im not attracted to i just act cold and they will leave me alone. Actually i do that too with the ones im interested in.

For some later i come to regret not asking out. Flashbacks of realisation of what i shouldve done happens and the same shit feeling happens.

I got to say, i can tell (at least i think) when a girl takes interest in me. They would usually smile and laugh in a way that i suppose we can tell. Or share eye contact or try to have a glimpse e.g. Looking without or trying their best not to turn around their heads.

I guess im a very shy person. Girls in general are shy too i think.

Why stay away from feminist? I think i know why but could you explain? What about hiv aids stds, what are the chances?

Sorry for the long text.

>>18179903
hmm. k try this for a while: once you determine you're interested in a girl, tell yourself you aren't ever going to actually get her. not "i can't get her", just change what your goal is in talking to her basically. if you're talking to her only for the sake of talking to her and not because you're hoping it'll lead somewhere between you two, that takes much of the pressure off. if it turns out you don't connect, so what? you just wanted to talk to her; mission accomplished. if you spill your spaghetti somehow, so what? you just wanted to talk to her; mission accomplished. and etc etc.

approach it that way for now. you'll get yourself comfortable with talking to girls you find attractive. when you feel ready to pursue something further, do it. trust your instincts.

feminism fills girls' heads with a bunch of conflicting ideas that have little to no actual grounding in reality
>women are victims of oppression
>women are stronk and capable of anything
>women deserve special treatment and provisions and protection
>women and men are completely equal in all regards
as some major examples. then there's all the nonsense about slut shaming, fat shaming, gender identity, "diversity", etc. then the disdain for marriage and celebration of single motherhood. those aspects all contribute to fucking shit up on a societal level. on a personal level, what's going to derp relationship dynamics is the attitude of:
>you're acceptable exactly as you are and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise
that they take on. that's a great way to set a person up to be incapable of EVER even considering they might be wrong, and to feel entitled to treatment and rewards they did nothing to earn, and to find it immensely difficult to consider things from any perspective other than their own. feminism a shit.