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Is it possible to find a nice girl on tinder or okc?
I'm really wanting to get back out there and start dating again, but i want a girl who actually likes me! I've gotten many cute dates from tinder, and they all quit talking to me, most likely because i didn't say "i want to cum on your face after punishing you". All i really want is a gf. I can hook up with someone at parties or bars fairly easily, usually i just wait for a drunk one that i like to initiate things with me. If a girl is drunk and finds you attractive, usually she'll let you know and it's a greenlight to play with her as you please. But i want a gf. Someone who cares about me. I don't think i'll find that on tinder, but i need to start fishing again.
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>>18179510
Yes it's possible but abandon hope for a virgin
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>>18179523
I don't really care as long as her pussy isn't destroyed and she won't cheat on me.
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>>18179510
Meh. Don't think so, Anon.
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I've seen quite a few girls photos with finger pointing to their mouth like pic related, does it have any meaning behind it? either intentional or just something you do without noticing
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same thing as duck lips, a particular expression intended to convey coyness
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>>18179449
what exactly is coyness? I'm not english speaker so it's tricky for me
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they are being flirty or just doing whatever, some are truly stupid and do it out of habit
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Do you have anxiety?
What advice can you give other people dealing with the same?
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>>18179410
find a therapist and a friend who will help you deconstruct your fears and push you to move past them,
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Overdose on your meds, then go off them and get Discontinuation Syndrome.
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I've been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years and our relationship is like.. ridiculously good. Tons of affection, amazing sex, we just get along really really well.
The sticking point here is life goals I guess? I don't want a lot but I would like to have kids I think. He doesn't. He said he wants to be 60 and live in a cheap apartment somewhere and do the same thing we're doing now. That's dandy until he drops dead at 74 and I spend the next 20 years of my life alone because I no longer have a family.
Current plan is to test myself for fertility next summer when I get my IUD out, if that's possible. Im just really upset about this because it feels like staying or going... they're both the wrong choice.
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>>18179400
does he have a job that can support a family?
most of the time when a guy says what your dude is saying it means he currently lacks the ability to jump to the next phase of life.
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>>18179400
It's a common problem and it sounds like in your case it's a dealbreaker.
You want kids, he doesn't, and a healthy relationship doesn't involve pushing your partner to do something they really don't want to.
So, you either decide you'll go without having kids, which sounds like it's not going to happen, or you move on.
Don't pressure him into having kids, it's just going to leave you in a toxic relationship or a single mother.
Ultimately, this is one of those no real middle ground issues which make or break relationships, and it's pretty apparent the latter is the case here.
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>>18179417
He makes more than both his parents did while raising him, so technically yes. He grew up white trash though. I think he'd put no water in the idea of life phases though.
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I'm so depressed lately that I want to quit my job and move out of where I live. I can barely eat and I've felt sick for weeks. It doesn't seem to be getting better. I dont know what to do with myself. I cry for no reason when nobody is around. It keeps getting worse. I don't know what to do. I've tried counseling and medication, but it never worked. I feel helpless. What should I do now?
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why are you depressed?
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I just feel like life isn't worth living. Depression controls my life. I dropped out of school because of depression. I push away friends. I feel like the world would be better off without me.
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>>18179398
it takes balls to kill yourself. if you got the balls to do that, you can reach far in life
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Hi /adv/ filing for divorce soon. Crazy ex cheated on me and got pregnant and lied to me saying kid was mine. Anyways, once shit is dealt with and I'm free from this whore what are some things I should focus on to get back out there and start fishing? I think I'm okay looking, I do have some fat I gotta get rid of and shit. I think I need help in the woredrobe department, I did move back with my parents because the apartment I had was lost to that whore(she stopped paying rent so she was evicted) I have a stable job and a car... And I also have a 4 year old whom I was granted full custody of by court. So, any ideas?
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>>18179348
What her name Brittany?
Specifically, what kind of ideas are you looking for
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>>18179354
Really anything in general, the person I left was my first and only girlfriend I've had my whole life so I lack the skills of the game. I'm 29, latino, and I'm an animefag(though I don't talk about it publicly) play games on my PC and I draw a lot. Over all I think I'm boring as fuck. OC attached.
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>>18179363
Thought about going to anime cons and meet people there but weebs annoy me
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I offended a friend in highschool and i feel shitty about it 10 years later
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I had this really attractive female friend in high school, who took an interest in me (as friends and because we were into the same music). She even said she was interested in meeting more of my family after becoming friends with my cousin at her job. She even became worried about me when got into problems in schoo with friends and grades.
During the same time, i just had a bitter break up with my horrible gf, and was petty enough to be completely over showing respect to women. I also heard her talking about leaving our group of friends once high school ended. Out in public i cringily hit on her while she bent out to take something out of her backpack.
I still feel terrible about doing that because it was really obvious that she enjoyed hanging out with me because i was clearly not like that before. When we became friends two guys came to hit on her, she was clearly used to dealing with the unwanted attention. I feel like i let her down.
Maybe i'm whiteknighting her because was really beautiful, with the same body as pic. I really like to not be a perverse kind of a guy, and i always remember having done that to her.
The last time i saw her was when i ran into her in community college and she hugged me, then the next time i saw her she was awkward and just said hi. I get that she couldn't have been too dissapointed if hse hugged me, i still am mad at myself that i offened her like that.
I remember being a kid and seeing other beaner kids being casually perverse and hating that kind of careless and direct disrespect. I feel like i've failed my childhood self.
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>>18179321
Realise she's been hit on 9 million times and experienced infinitely more awkward moments. It's unlikely she even remembers what you said or did. Why do you still feel bad about it? Everyone does awkward shit when theyre young dude.
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>>18179325
>she's been hit on 9 million times and experienced infinitely more awkward moments
and many of them actually led to sex which is at least memorable lol
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>>18179325
>Why do you still feel bad about it?
It's not rational, i feel like i'll make the same mistake, i hit on her in such a cringe way also. You're right i should move on.
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I have a serious lack of introspection in my life. I used to be a thoughtful person as a teen but in my mid-20s now I feel like a shell of my former self. How do I re-learn to be introspective, that at the end of the day it is up to myself to make me happy (not a girlfriend, or booze, or fame, or whatever)?
What should I do to "find myself" again?
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>>18179297
frequently, be it morose, drugs can be the answer.
psychedelics are intensely introspective and will have you delving deep into your very being.
also, do other drugs and record your experience, learn about yourself and your inner workings.
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>>18179312
Psychedelics didn't make me contemplate shit. I was just having an exotic adventure.
And drugs in general will make you blur out your vision of self rather then help you define it.
They're ok in moderation but that's it.
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meditation is usually the correct answer here. Go read up on how to do it.
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If I get drunk with a female lawyer and fucc her, will she say I raped her?
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Only if she dyes her hair a rainbow color or has odd piercings
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why would she put herself through that (hearing, questions on her) unless you legitimately plan on roofyer her or getting black out
don't let her get black out
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>>18179273
If you treat her as a person and will be generaly nice and caring to her, she may even date you OP! And if you keep up the good work who knows, she may marry you.
There are fates much worse than court and jail. Like life time commitment to single girl who basically owns you from your balls to your financial and laws assets!
So I've been in a relationship for 10 months with a girl whom I am very much in love with, let's call her L, L is a very good girl, nice and loves me very much and is very clingy which I find to be cute at times, recently however another girl has been hitting on me, we'll call her M, M is pretty out there, and has a "bad bitch" persona, but she's became a good friend of mine in the past month, last night however, M and I had a conversation about how we both like each other and we both thought each other as very attractive, but she said that I have a girlfriend and that she respects that, which I found to be very admirable, the chat continued and she said that she had a "little girl crush" on me for quite sometime, but again respected the fact that I had a girlfriend, but we agreed that we don't know what the future holds, I do not want this to interfere with my relationship and I don't want to break up with L, I'm very confused, can someone please give me some advice.
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>a) Stay with girlfriend, no more flirting with friend
>b) break up with girlfriend, start something with friend
Pick one.
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M is a total cunt. She must hate your current girl. Your choice to fuck up your life though.
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Choose one. Choose solidly though. If you're indecisive you'll lose both. Break up before you start something.
so this all started about 5 years ago. I started to take pictures of girls asses at uni. I also started to browse porn and find images that looked like them. I now use their social media to masturbate and have often thoughts about rape, although i have no intention of raping any of these women, i still feel guilty about having these thoughts. Any way to ease my pain/fix me?
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Do you think voyeurism is getting you any closer to having mutually enjoyable sex with ANY of these girls?
Or are you satisfied with watching them from afar like a creeper?
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>>18179241
Delete your fap material, stop consuming porn and fapping and get into dating scene asap.
If you too shy to direct contact, try online dating.
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>>18179241
Post pics. Think about why you take these photos and why you masturbate to social media stuff. Is it to replace something? Why do you feel that way? Observe your own emotions and you'll understand how to fix them. Delete the photos too after you post them.
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Help! My boyfriend is a total woman! 2017-04-01 02:30:09 Post No.18179218
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Looking for some relationship advice /adv/. I've been dating my boyfriend for over 4 years now, talks of marriage have come up numerous times... however I am starting to realise he is well, basically a mommys boy. He looks after me ok in practical ways, cleaning, cooking, but I financially support him despite being pretty broke myself.
I feel more and more that he is very self obsessed and emotionally fragile, like someone who was used to mommy always looking after him, so he became self obsessed, low in focus, and a bit of an sjw on top of that lol. I don't think I can possibly change him, I don't think any person can change anyone else, they have to do that for themselves. He also doesn't seem to appreciate any financial help I give him because my bank account 'will fill back up'
He is in a bout of depression right now, and the job hunt is going badly... I don't really want to break up with him at this low point, but basically my question is:
Can a man who's basically never had a proper male figure grow out of being just a spineless faggot (21)? And When is the best time to break up with someone? should I wait until after he's found work and gotten into the swing of things, or should I just do it now while he's depressed so at least he won't relapse once getting out of this bout?
I like him, he's funny, but we argue too much to the point I don't even know how to talk to him anymore (ex. I told him his support of using political violence against trump supporters was fucking retarded and he started crying and said that was tantamount to the same kind of abuse as hitting him) I'm showing him in a pour light I know ..but if I tried to make it more even I'd be even more longwinded than I am right now. Really any help would be appreciated as I have no idea what I should do.
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>>18179218
Have you tried talking to him? Be straight. Tell him you're getting less attracted to him and that he needs to get his shit together. Gauge his reaction and act accordingly.
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>>18179218
Leave him now. You are not responsible for his instability. There's no reason to prolong the inevitable. Your life is limited and time is valuable, don't waste it on broken people.
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>>18179218
>talks of marriage
>mommys boy
That right there is a bright red flag. I've known at least two couples whose marriage was in shambles because of constant interference by the boy's mother. One case even ended in divorce.
Mama's boys will never side with you no matter what. This will lead to further arguments and unnecessary mental stress.
An acquaintance told me they had to threaten their son in law with police complaints since he refused to listen to his wife, and was constantly egged on by his mother to ignore her.
You should decide your long term goals and act accordingly, because him being funny and constantly leeching off you isn't practical in the long run
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How do I tell someone no? 2017-04-01 02:22:05 Post No.18179204
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I just got invited to a party but I don't really wanna go, I'm just not a party type of guy it's just not my scene. Now the thing is though, I don't wanna tell him no I can't go. I don't know why but I always say yes to everything I just can't being myself to say no, my question is how do I bring myself to say no?
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>>18179204
Damn you'd be useful to have around and take advantage of if I wanted to "borrow" money off someone
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>>18179204
With this attitude you will go to party. Then some qtie asks you to buy her drink. Then to see your later. Then to date. Then fuck. And before you know it you will say yes on wedding and have more babies than you ever wanted.
Where is the problem? Sounds like fairytale.
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Shit! I'm in that EXACT fucking situation right now! I have to go to this party in 3 fucking hours and I do not want to go! I hate parties. Yeah, they'll be weed, but not immediately, so yeah. Why do I say I'll come to these things? I'm also going to have to go by myself which will make things even more awkward. Also there's a tiny possibility some guy who I fucked a long time ago and it's still awkward because autism will be there, or his friends will be there and act like bitches to me. Fuck this world why do I do this? Oh, because I'm a stupid bitch. Fuck. Anyway, cheers! Maybe it won't be so bad?
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How do I confirm that this girl in my office is actually interested in me?
In the beginning when she had just joined the place, I wasn't too interested in her and vice versa.
However, after a couple of months I noticed she used to ask me for help even though there were more experienced people around her.
One day we even spent 25 minutes discussing auto transmission cars(?) and politics among other things.
As the days progressed i started to feel something for her. I'm not exactly sure what, since I kept telling myself it's just a passing infatuation.
I need to know how to handle this smoothly so there's no awkwardness even if things go south. I'm scared of anything further happening since I saw another colleague of mine just lose interest in everything after a girl ditched him.
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I'd invite her for coffee
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>>18179200
Listen to him op.
There is nothing to lose if you dont expects miracles to happen.
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>>18179198
>scared
>since I saw another colleague lose interest in everything after a girl ditched him
What would you do if someone you loved ditched you, OP?
Does the risk mean you shouldn't love anyone?
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Gross health topic. You've been warned.
So I've got a swollen external hemorrhoid. Bit bigger than a pea. No blood or liquids. Can't go in due to lack of health insurance and I don't know what the whole trip would cost.
Got a few lines of questions I wanted to ask.
Firstly what are the causes of swollen hemorrhoids?
Another warning, next few sentences contain explicit information shared in the interest of avoiding this in the future. Recently I've started doing deep enemas frequently. Also been anally masturbating. I use pretty large toys and don't worry much about stretching first instead opting for lots of lubricant. Could either of these cause hemorrhoids?
What are a list of the things you should avoid doing while you have hemorrhoids? Please be sure to list anything people frequently miss.
My job requires me to be on my feet a lot. I work some janitorial duties and stocking. Anything I should beware of for worsening it?
Any recommendations on how to treat it? Got hemorrhoid ointment and it seems to do nothing.
Also I heard there is a chance this could cause a skin tag. What, if anything, can I do to reduce that chance?
Any other info would be helpful.
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>What are a list of the things you should avoid doing while you have hemorrhoids?
Here you go:
doing deep enemas frequently. Also been anally masturbating. I use pretty large toys and don't worry much about stretching first instead opting for lots of lubricant
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>>18179155
So helpful. Not. The web seems really on the fence about whether anal play can cause it. I assumed it was the cause until I read that. Now I'm not sure if it is what started it or just made it worse.
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>>18179160
The cause of something can also make it worse