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Hey /adv/. There's a girl I've been talking to for a couple months now, we've gotten closer as we've started talking more in real life as well as over social media. She's one of very few girls that has shown some sort of interest to me, as well as one of the only ones I feel comfortable around. We've been flirting a bit more as of late and she's responding pretty positively; I was all set to ask her out this weekend when someone tells me that she has a boyfriend. I'd seen them together before but I figured they were just friends; they didn't seem like they were dating to me. Anyways, now I'm caught in a situation I've never been in before. I figured that I have three options: be honest with her about my feelings, cool off and just try to be platonic friends, or keep talking (and flirting) with her like I have been. Weighing out the pros and cons of each choice is kind of difficult; of course I still want to pursue her, but objectively that may not be the best idea. Simply telling her how I feel would probably be my way out of this situation, but I have no idea how she'd take my confession. I'm lost here; any advice?

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My ex is still friends with me on my social media. I dont think id want to date her again but i keep her as a friend because i see her life going down the tubes and i want her to see me achieve my dreams as revenge. But seeing pics of her at clubs etc makes me feel bad. Should i just block her and forget about her? I dont think i should date her again but blocking her make me feel like its actually over.

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I have the day off, am an introvert and need to socialize. What should I do? In return, have some melted hamsters.

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I just lost my virginity to my girlfriend who I love a ton, but I didn't feel anything. I just didn't feel good doing it and ended up having to come after sex with my own hands. My girlfriend has had sex before but it was only once and was very long ago. Is it normal not to enjoy it the first time?

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>Have a very high sexual tension relationship with the wife of a not so close friend
>we've fucked once before
>she's DTF any time, blows my phone up occasionally asking for dick. I've always declined since the first time it hapened.
>talked a lot of shit back and forth over a sporting event
>my team lost
>In a drunken stupor I literally told her I wanted to hate-fuck her
my exact words were, "I wanna hate fuck you"
>she was completely open to this

should I not?

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I do not fit in anywhere nor do I feel like I have any team to be on.

I'm Jewish but not religious. Most secular Jews are left wing, but I'm on the right. I'm a Zionist/Israel supporter, but most of them do so for religious reasons.

No matter where I am I feel hated for one reason or another, and I'm sick of it. I'll be hated on here because 4chan loves to hate Jews and post the happy merchant picture everywhere. I'll be hated in the real world because antisemitism has been all but bred into the human consciousness.

I've tried talking to other local Jews at the synagogue, but I just don't like them. I was the odd man out growing up in Hebrew school, and none of those people were ever my friends.

Why can't I just be okay with the fact that if I'm not religious, I'm not Jewish? I feel so tainted, like there's a target on my back. I hate being the descendants of victims.

And yet I keep coming back to 4chan and baiting people into insulting me. It does not feel good in a masochistic way, but I can't stop doing it. I want to be accepted but I have this obsession with the toxic places and believe that the meanest people are right about everything. If they deny the Holocaust, they must be right despite my grandparents going through it. I feel like they can alter the fabric of existence just by willing it so. I just wish I wasn't me and wasn't born to such a hated minority.

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What the fuck do I do /adv/? My parents sent me to rehab and I'm finally out. I spent three months there. They put me in not really because of my use, but because I stopped going to university and to work and because I was delving deeper into my depression as days went by. My use made all of it worse and I even went though a psychotic break a couple of months before being institutionalized, but the main cause of it all was my depression, not my use. Anyways, I'm dying to have a drink and go partying with my friends, but I'm obviously prohibited from doing that. Right now I'm stuck at home and feeling lonely as fuck. I'm not psychotic anymore due to antipsychotics and the antidepressants are helping with my general psyche, but mentally I still feel depressed. Right now I'm waiting for my work to call me in again, so I'm spending my days doing fuck all, browsing /adv/ and watching movies. I don't know how long I can go on without using anything. Not really asking for advice here, just venting and writing off my situation here because I have nothing better to do, but I would appreciate if someone would give their two cents and tell what they think about it all. Right now I'm feeling lost in my loneliness, my depressionless depression and the lack of things to do.

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When I was going through the Puberty phase in my life, my voice got a little bit manly (deeper) and it was all cool until i turned 19, since then my voice just got even extra deeper and frighting, everyone is complimenting it especially the girls, but theres one problem, its insanely deep and i cannot do high pitch voice sounds, i cannot even scream, whenever i try it sounds fucking retarted, just like i am choking or something
anyone with similar problem? share experience adv

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I'm so fucking sick of dandruff. I never want to have an itchy scalp ever again. How to I accomplish this?

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How many job applications did you send out before landing a job?

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I love my best friend more than i love my boyfriend. Simple as that.
I've lived with her during the uni for the last 5 years and it was awesome, we argued from time to time but also understood each other completely. I started dating my current bf like 3,5 years ago. I care about him deeply but living with him or pushing our relationship beyond anything more than weekend dating terrifies me. I tried moving in with him one summer and I was utterly unhappy. I came back to living with my friend and got better immediately. Now that Im moving out to another city and Im going to live on my own I realise that its in fact her I feel happy living with. I could move anywhere, do anything as long as shes by my side. She gets me, I never feel lonely around her.Can it be? Was the love of my life right under my nose the whole time?
Disclaimers:
I have no prior experience with girls.
Shes single for like 6 years now.
We did fool around once or twice back when i was still single.

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I'll make this quick greentexting:

>meet this girl (she is not that cute but i really like her personality)
>things are going really good but then I say something bad and fuck up (still don't know what I did tho)
>fast forward to 7 months (now)
>go out with her and some friends, chat and have fun
>mfw I realize I still like her
>mfw I have fucked up and now I probably have no chance

So how do I forget her or how do I behave now if I still have a chance? (Keep in mind she didn't want to see me for 7 months and I had to kinda "force" her to get back as friends at least).

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Can a east euro poorfag that makes €850 / £700 per month ever stand a chance to get away and live in a decent house somewhere in the country (preferably north-ish)? I long to escape it all but I wouldn't make it out in the wild on my own.

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Cruel reminder that people have friends to take pics with, go places and take part in community events, etc. They look nice (at least in pictures) and have the confidence to dress how they want and not give a fuck about the stares on the street.

While i'm stuck here playing on my computer, dreaming that one day I'll have the confidence and strength to put myself out there and fight the paranoia that hits me whenever I go out.

And if I did, at the age of 27 I have no story to tell and no life experience to talk about with others. I can only listen and that's stupid enough to be a red flag.
Is there any chance left?

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I met this girl at school, she was gazing at me almost all the time, she added me on facebook and we started to chat. We decided to go out and everything was going good. It ended up by a french kiss from her which was kinda rushed. When i got home she asked me how it is between us, i said its fast that we should slow down. Since then she is playing hard to get.

The problem comes up now, im really over jealous since she rushed and i felt in love. Whenever i tried to make her jealous she was like giving me attention and everything. She used to send me photos of her legs and ass and everything.

I made her mad and i did hurt her because of my moods, i basically told her that i had better opinions and that she is not the only one. She did cry a lot because of me and we werent a couple yet. After this she told me she just wants to be a friend. I also asked if there will be any more chance, she said no.

I told her that i couldnt do that, i would try for her all the time because im in love.

I asked for last chance and she did give it to me because her female friend gave her the talk. The chance is only because she wants to see if i really change for her, because thats what i told her. I also told her that my moods will stop and also that i wont be over jealous.

Now i know i have the chance, probably, but she treats me like a shit. Also she said that she doesnt know if she will ever trust me again.

We are going out this week, do you have any tips to make her believe that im sure about it?

We know each other for month or so.