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>>18184021
What? It's nice to try and sound smart, but you should learn to try and communicate your issues first. I don't understand what kind of rhetoric would cause these issues? Do you even know what that word means?

>>18184069
No I'm taking a college writing class so this is just how I talk or write right now. It's like an angsty 4chan writer to ignore the post just because I used a big word. "Rapport" is a better word.

>>18184069
And also you're wrong. Rhetoric in the modern context is just talking without sincerity, like if somebody comes up to you and references a meme to make you like them.

>>18184007
hes horny you fucking retard

>>18184007
This conversation makes no sense. Hes probably drunk. Calm down

Uh I think it means he misses you and wants to talk to you. Also to fuck you.

>>18183995
Your parents are paying, right ? If so, your say is limited to what they are willing to shell out. If money isn't an objective you should do what you want but remember to visit them as often as you can .. I guess they want you local as you go to Texas in a years time

>>18183995
>I'm on the west coast
>transfer to UT

LIBSHITS GET THE FUCK OUT REEEEE.

>>18184033
Yeah they are and they said they would pay for both cases but they seem really upset about the prospect of Glasgow

>>18183946
Depends. How often do you talk? How old are you? Does he ever talk about heavy stuff with you? When you say distanced does that mean he's moved on and got his own life whereas you haven't?

>>18183946
Are you a boy or girl. If you are a boy no ones gonna give a shit about your depression. many people are depressed and have no idea they are and go through the phases. honestly being diagnosed with depression is far worse than having it.
If you are a girl he'll listen but think you are crazy and avoid sensitive topics with you. If you are a boy he'll think you are a fag and tell you constantly to man the fuck up.

>>18183976
I'm 19, known him since kindergarten, I was probably around 2 or 3 years old when i met him

>How often do you talk?
Everyday, we play videogames together and we go out almost every weekend

>Does he ever talk about heavy stuff with you?
Not really, he has hinted some stuff but when i inquire he doesn't go deep about it, not sure if because it's not deep or because he feels the same as me

>When you say distanced does that mean he's moved on and got his own life whereas you haven't?

Meant it as i'm afraid if i tell him he would distance himself from me, we live in the same city

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Second bump

How the fuck should I know. I'm the very opposite, my crush is probably fucking somebody else rn. Mesnwhile, I lay here alone for years. Sept my crush is only from 2 months ago.

its never too late to get an education, study what interests you

Do you want to work with your hands?
Do you want to work with your mind?
Do you want to work with people?

How do you feel about how much risk you put yourself in? Both physically & monetarily?
What is your ideal $ range? (if you don't know, then what do you want to do/get which costs money?)
Do you want to 'do good'?
Do you want respect/renown/power?

What are higher priorities than others?

>>18183958
No preference
No preference
No preference

I do not like physical risk at all. Some monetary risk is acceptable.
I just want to be able to do whatever and buy stuff without thinking how much money I have
No preference
No preference

I don't really have any priorities or anything. I would just like to have a reason to live or to actually enjoy life.

I shave my chest and belly occasionally, it makes me look more buffed because you can see the definition of the pecs more without the hair in the way.
I'm a pretty skinny guy but the difference it makes is quite big.

It doesn't look weird to me.

>>18183900

not really. look at other men and we have different types of hairy bodies.

if oyu have any sort of definition in your chest than just shave up to where those muscle start, thats what most men do you'll notice.

others shave their stomach entirely but leave their 'treasure trail'.

as for ass and legs, its actually normal for hair to get thinner and brighter as it goes up the legs, i have very hairy lower legs, kinda hairy thighs, than a smooth ass (save for the crack).

experiment. remember that the only people who see it will be the ones who see you naked for sex generally.

>>18183916
Yeah, but my issue is that my legs are really hairy all the way up my thighs :/

why do you even bother?

>>18183891
because the emotional side is perfectly fine, it's just the sexual stuff that's infuriating.

>>18183885
BREAKUP

how sexually interested are you in her or girls in general?

your anxiety sounds like the reverse many guys have. for example anxious at first meeting an attractive female. sounds suspicious to me. like maybe you are gay.

>>18183692

I find girls sexually attractive. I assure you I'm not gay.

>>18183694
>>18183694
Ok, then maybe you just have aspergers or some mild autism. sexuality is a heavy thing and flirting makes me uncomfortable as well. i just bit the bullet and went in or a kiss on this girl i knew liked me. she was decent enough looking. it was a little unexpected for her but she didnt mind. you want advice? hang out with that last girl and then kiss her. dont choke her with your tongue necessarily, but kiss her.

Did you go to the police?
How are you holding up?

>>18183673
Yeah its called Trauma.
I had a friend have damage from shaking baby syndrome and lost memory for the next 2 years

>>18183673
Attack some random person
Chances are that if you start a random attack chain someone will eventually attack the person who attacked you

>>18183642
Just laugh it off, its no big deal

I used to live with a roommate that moved in because i could use the extra cash for rent and it took 2 days before he walked in while i was bare dick naked standing in the room

<MYM|DayNine> nick doens't even fucking

<MYM|DayNine> go in a different room

<`DeadVessel> no because they know what im doing

<`DeadVessel> LOL

<mnm> ><

<MYM|DayNine> he just starts jacking off

<MYM|DayNine> if he feels lik eit

<MYM|DayNine> like i remember over the summer

<`DeadVessel> i gotta meet tasteless

<mnm> brotherly love

<MYM|DayNine> we set our computers up

<MYM|DayNine> like 10 feet from eachother

<MYM|DayNine> so i'm playing a game

<MYM|DayNine> and i finish

<MYM|DayNine> take off my headphones

<MYM|DayNine> turn around

<MYM|DayNine> and nick is like totally naked

<MYM|DayNine> jacking off at his computer

<MYM|DayNine> and honestly

<rushz0rz> this is going in the quote thread

<MYM|DayNine> if i interrupt him, he won't even be mad

<mnm> lol

<MYM|DayNine> i'll be like "uhh nick..."

<`DeadVessel> sean can i put that in the irc thread?

<MYM|DayNine> he'll turn around, dick in hand and genuinely ask "hey sean, how'd ur game go?"

>he shares a single room with a roomate

>>18183636
You have a job? If you're living at home, I can't imagine you're spending money on anything. So buy a ticket to Vegas. Stay 1 night if that's all you can afford. But at least you can do something fun, and honestly, you don't need other people with you to have fun in Vegas. It's actually obnoxious trying to make a group of people happy there. So just go and have a blast. Talk to/hit on everyone you see. Not like you'll ever see them again. Just throw away all your fucks for a day.

>>18183639
I'm saving up hardcore so I can buy myself a run down trailer and finally move out of my parents house. I don't want to spend a bunch on something like that.

>>18183636
Sign up to volunteer walking dogs or playing with cats at your animal shelter. its really fun and you feel good doing it for those homeless pets. The dogs especially get so excited when you open their kennel and take them outside.

>>18183600
>Am I being unreasonable in seeing this as a red flag?
just give up dude, right now marriage is completey fucked thats why nobody does it anymore
your choices are making a mistake or moving to a country with fair divorce

That's really for you to decide what your comfortable with.

I was about to walk from my current gf when she said 8, but I stayed.

Best relationship I've ever been in. Im a firm believer that people change. And if your worried about her cheating or something, being controling wont do anything, they will just cheat anyway.

Go for it. She seems to want to get back into her religion.

>>18183600
Kek are you serious why would you give her your virginity when she gave it up for free.??! You don't deserve to be with some whore who cleaned herself up for a man.

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How i look normally but with hair
Though i was somewhat dehydrated here aswell. I think i was drunk in this pic

Fuck man alcohol or benzo w/D's are dangerous as shit, you should try to just get into a detox for a couple days, if you have insurance it might not even cost shit, but please be careful, I'm 23 and 3 years clean off pills mostly opiates, and as painful as those withdrawals are they're not life threatening like alch

Truly bro seek medical advice,I know it's shitty but it may just help you get through this shit

Are you from Illinois? You look like someone I know........

What do you get angry about? Seems strange that'd you'd leave that information out.

No, you are just a punk. Cut that shit out of your life or shut up.

>>18183544
authoritarian
cunts
people who want my money
people who want my help
people who want to take away my rights
my family
random cunts i cross paths with
liars, i fucking hate liars
people who use numbers too harrass others
people who try to ruin things just because they dont like them
people who demand special treatment
people who never admit their wrongdoings and either look for backup from equally terrible people or act dumb
people who want a set of rules for them but a completely different set of rules for everyone else
politicians
people who strawman things
people who make fun of the things that hurt me but claim im horrible if i do the same to them
people who say never say that in public or you are getting beaten up
"friends" who demand i change because im "toxic" even tho i accept them for who they are flaws and all
people who expect things from me
people who feel entitled to telling me what to do
anyone who pretends to be better than me or know better than me
people who talk shit about the "uneducated" when they mean poor
people who dont like what you do so they pretend you made some sorth of mistake
people who offer help as a form of attack
people who assume they only reason you could possibly think different than them is that you dont know enough about the subject
even you prove you know more than them about it
people who just know they are right
people who try to shut me up
people who pretend anything they dont like is a personal attack on them
people who demand compassion out of you
while being horribly cruel at the same time
people who blow out of proportion any single bad thing that happens to them like its a horrible curse
people who try to start fights with me even when i dont want to

that off the top of my head