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Why do I keep fucking up things, /adv/?
Basically, I've been in this relationship for about 3 months or so now. Things were going good for the first 2 months, even lost my virginity to her, and vice versa. Everything was going smoothly until her parents found out. So now we can't really see each other in person anymore. Plus, I moved farther away, so even if I could see her, I would have to go a very long way by bike, since I don't have a car. Yes, I'm 18. My gf is 16.

Anyways, the past week, I've felt rather lonely and depressed, since I can't be with her, and I've realized that the spark and love that I've felt towards her is nearly dead. Like, I almost don't feel anything at this point, unless we both start going down memory lane. I know that if we were to be able to be together in person, this wouldn't have become an issue.

To complicate matters, I decided to reach out to one of my exes that I've always been good friends with. We've had our fights, our breaks, but she's a good person, and I honestly still have heavy feelings for her, even if I bury them most of the time. She already knows what's up here, and she says I should just break up with my gf if the spark is dead. No point in leading her on just to keep her happy, right?

Anyway, to the real meat and bones of why I'm here: Lately, the old spark that I had for my ex has started unburying itself, and she said that she feels the same way towards me. Thing is, I really want to try to fix my relationship with my current gf, even though due to her parents, our relationship basically is gonna be long distance/over text for a few years. What do I do, guys? Should I stay with my current gf? If so, how am I able to fix my relationship? Or should I just be with my ex, who has no strings attached?

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> try and turn a new leaf by being more outgoing at a new university
> make some friends and acquaintances
> semester goes into full swing. increased workload.
> naturally everyone becomes busy.
> slip back into sperg mode where all I do is go to class and stop talking to most people.
> notice that people aren't as friendly or bubbly as they used to be or they try to avoid me.

Help?

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Trying to date someone in your class: yeah or nah?

Is it worth it? Will it just lead to a lot of problems?
Any general advice on the topic?

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hey, im sorry for posting this and I dont want any shit as much as ive already got on me now but I really need 10 bucks for a bus ticket a few cities down. Its for a job interview and im really down on the dumps and desperate.

my paypal is [email protected]


sorry and thanks

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little update: I used to date a girl (3 weeks earlier) who is 4 years older than me (I'm 20, she's 24).
She broke up with me because of our age difference.
We were supposed to meet up this friday, but I canceled it because I still love her. But actually I still want to see her.
How do I turn this situation around and tell her that I do want to meet up, because I already told her.
I know, I'm pathetic.

Pardon my English

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Im doing a 12 week internship right now. Only 3 weeks + 1 day are left and its ok.

BUT:
There is this one little cunt. This one guy who think its funny to insult people to call them fat, idiots and a lot of other stuff. to insult their family and friends. He only shows respect for people who are higher up the ladder and i swear to god i want to punsh him in his fucking face with the force of a million nuclear bombs.

I have to see him everyday for 4 hours and hes driving me really mad. Im bigger than him, stronger and older and i want to break him like a fucking small stick.

I've recorded some of his insults and will send them right to HR after im done there. I hope he gets fired and loses everything.

How not to get fired and in trouble with the police the next 3 weeks?

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Any tips for someone with insomnia due to their mind racing? I always think about things at work that are unfinished and pointless stuff like that, gets me agitated, and obviously I'm trying to sleep, not like I'm going to resolve that thing at work any time soon. As each hours passes, I get more and more frustrated with myself, angry at myself for not being asleep yet and that makes it worse.

I don't want to take any sleeping pill drug. They all have bad side effects and are linked to Alzheimer. I've tried some natural supplements and things but they haven't helped much.

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Is a slight alcoholic withdrawal syndrome possible if I've been drinking like min. 3/max. 12 pints of beer/long drinks every 2 or 3 days for a month?

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So I recently renigged on a job offer.
I was given an engineering position with a space contractor and they low balled me at around 55K, I renegotiated to 57K. But my back ground was in the power industry where 62-67K is the gold standard for starting wages, in Engineering or Crafts.

I kindly called the company 2 weeks before my start date and told them I had been recruited for another position and that I could not morally come into their job site and leave a month or two months later at the drop of a hat. That I stood behind integrity and the decision was not easy for me, I understand how hard it is to get a job and the value of a dollar.

They told me to call them if anything changes, (HR)
So do you think I burned a bridge ? or do you think they would consider me if I applied again ?

Yes, I know that 1 in the hand is better than 2 in the bush

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Can someone help me find this one song I jist saw on MTV? It was an album from 2001 and in the clip there was this guy lying and a little girl came and poisoned him.
It was called "tele-" something I think.
I really can't find it and forgot the song title and the name of the album ight as I read it
thanks

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I can't stop looking at instagram thots. It's not even porn, yet i can't seem to get a grip. I even hate that kind of people. And if i don't do that then i read hentai. There have been periods of time in which i managed to stop, for a week or two, but after i broke up with my girlfriend some months ago, unless i'm not away somewhere i find myself in this situation.

I want to stop this, since i always feel exhausted because of it. Any suggestions?

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I know that this is just the internet, however I am just looking for some advice on what to do with my current situation.
I recently accepted a job offer from a major company in my area and declined another job offer from another major company. But the last few days before making the decision I couldn't decide which company to go with. Now that I've made my decision I feel like I've made a big mistake. But at the same time, if I think of it the other way, I feel like I'd be missing out on a big opportunity. I can't seem to make up my mind on what was the right decision. It's been causing me to have trouble sleeping, I feel like I want to cry nonstop. I wish I could work for both companies but I can't since they both want to hire me for full time.

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bromazepam prevents me to have erection?

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How do I gain weight? I've always been somewhat skinny and I'd like to gain some weight, I've started working out but I think i need more mass to show it

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Ok, so I'm not supposed to give a fuck about rejection, right? But isn't the whole point of this to be in a relationship? And doesn't wanting to be in a relationship require me to care at least a little bit, otherwise the relationship won't work out? What the fuck, this makes no sense to me. I'm so confused.