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I could use some advice here. This will likely end up pretty long-winded, but I hope some kind anon will try and help.
I live with two friends. One guy, one girl. Girl moved in as my friend, and as time has gone on, we've become incredibly close. Even slept together before, and we've often been romantic with each other, though we aren't together. She's recovering from a nasty break-up, and we'd discussed the idea of us being in a relationship, but we agreed the time wasn't right. Fine, whatever, but the occasional romantic times didn't end.
Fast forward to last week. Both roommates get drunk alone together while I was at work, and they end up sleeping together. I'm naturally extremely upset by this. Since last Friday, she's been away from home, but has called me (and only me). She gave me permission to use her laptop to access her Hulu account to look up a show for us to watch together when she returns, but as you might expect, Facebook is up when I open the laptop, and so is her messages with other guy. Maybe this was wrong, but I couldn't help but reading a bit. The general gist of the messages since the day they slept together was that I had somehow been leading myself on into thinking her and I could be together. Of course, this has me extremely upset.
So, what exactly should I do now? The two of them decided to not get together because they've both got a lot of other things going on, but there's no way that everything her and I have done together was just me imagining some kind of potential romantic bond. She'll likely call me again tomorrow afternoon, so how should I bring it up? What do I do from here? I really think she's special, but she might not feel the same about me. I could really use some advice on what to do going forward. pic unrelated
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>>18187863
The girl is a ho. You're being a trick. Find someone that shares your values
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>>18187871
what does being a trick even mean? I'm not sure I'd call her a ho, but I'm not sure about anything at this point. I still need to know how to bring it up, and I suppose I should add, I can't just walk away from this. I don't make enough money to live alone, and we're in a lease until October, so it's not like I can avoid talking about it.
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>be not-dating girl
>have a mutual agreement that you won't date
>get upset that another guy slept with her
I'm sorry, but did you think you had an exclusive right to her and that she wasn't allowed to sleep with anyone else or something?
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I think I was date raped 2017-04-04 07:40:28 Post No.18187791
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If such a thing is even possible for guys.
I was watching a movie with a girl at her place and what It comes down to is that she started groping me and I dont remember much from after that. Ive been feeling sick since and she hasnt returned any of my calls, only a text saying I shouldnt worry about it.
Idk what to do senpai she was a really good friend but all this is so weird
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That's strange, but as long as she didn't hijack your semen and get herself pregnant for whatever reason, I see the big deal. Keep an eye on her over the next 9 months though.
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Depending on how long ago it occurred you could test to see if you have any drugs in your system.
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>>18187791
>I dont remember much from after that.
Well if you don't remember, there isn't much you can do about it.
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Forever alone Asian female here. One of my Asian female friends just got engaged to a white man. I think white-Asian interracial marriage and biracial children is a bad idea. Should I say something and save her from this? Or am I being jelly cunt because she's about to start a family and I can't even get a Asian boyfriend?
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>>18187686
>I think white-Asian interracial marriage and biracial children is a bad idea.
Then don't do it yourself.
>Should I say something and save her from this?
No, and you're not "saving" her from anything. She's going to get married to someone she cares for, have a family and be happy.
>Or am I being jelly cunt because she's about to start a family and I can't even get a Asian boyfriend?
Most likely. It's causing you to reflect on what you think you're missing out on. Work on yourself instead of trying to trample on your friend's happiness. Ever hear of crabs in a bucket?
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>>18187697
I already know what I am missing out on: companionship, marriage, children and a family
But her children. They'll be half Asian and half white. Surely she and I can both have a family and marriage, but with Asian men
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I mean, is this really that horrible? Half Asian children who have mixed identity? Am I just being racist and jelly?
Is it ridiculous to pull her aside and tell her to break up with Mr. White and that we should look for Asian husbands together?
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What's the acceptable level of "mean" you can be to your girlfriend before you should just break up with her?
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Assuming she is giving you a reason for being 'mean,' Well the most vague answer is enough not to get you in jail? so abstaining from sex, hiding shit in plausible deniability or ambiguity, and just stop giving a shit about her.
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>>18187672
if she allows u to be mean to her then she a keeper
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being mean to your partner isn't healthy but I'm assuming you're in your late teens - early twenties and quite a ways off from a healthy relationship.
Best of luck
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whatever the fuck is wrong with me 2017-04-04 06:05:45 Post No.18187622
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whatever the fuck is wrong with me
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i feel like killing myself after realizing that im probably going to definitely fail 1 of the 5 classes im taking, it's the same every fucking semester, it's taken me 4 years to complete 2 years of college, im trying really fucking hard to do better but here i am, same story as every. fucking. time.
and i dont want to ditch college to get into some amazon call center, the best shitjob i could possibly in this 3rd world country, i rather just kill myself, the whole point of going for a CS degree was that it offers the most versatility to move the fuck out of this shithole, but i don't think im ever gonna fucking make it, maybe in another 4 years? but what's the fucking point, it's not worth it to live like this
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someone ease this pain
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>>18187622
another victim of the "hurr durr lets go with CS"
you should have just gone with applied mathematics or some form of accounting and learned a few programming languages as a hobby.
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>>18187666
> another victim of the "hurr durr lets go with CS"
what the fuck is this supposed to mean?
>you should have just gone with applied mathematics or some form of accounting and learned a few programming languages as a hobby
can you go tell my 18 year old self then, thank you very useful.
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What happens if you stop masturbating?
I hear stories of lifestyle changes.
Who here has done no fap?
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>>18187603
>what happens if you stop masturbating?
depends on every other detail surrounding that. first and foremost, what you try to focus on instead.
most of the 'nofap' success stories come from people who already had the pieces to a successful life in front of them but were hardcore addicted.
by which i mean they had all these relationships and opportunities, but became so obsessed with porn that they couldn't put energy into them, most noteably their girlfriends.
by cutting out porn they reduced their orgasm to a healthy limit, usually only when their woman was willing.
this gave them the tome to focus on their opportunities as ewll.
but if you have no opportunities, and no girlfriend, or prospective partners then just cutting out fapping means you will get blue balls.
the issue was more about porn adicction than anything else. i masturbate daily, usually more than once. but i still manage ab usiness, make movies in my spare time, date, have sex, and spend copious amount of times with friends.
the difference is that i dont let the orgasms control my lifestyle. i dont spend hours a day on porn.
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>>18187613
Not masturbating = you'll try harder to get a girl to fuck
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>>18187619
not neccessarilly. for every success story about how it pushed you to fuck a girl theres a dozen or so stories of guys just getting blue balls and not sure how to eve ngo about getting a girlfriend, let alone a one night stand.
really if you could get a girlfriend masturbating isn't really whats holding you back.
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Redpill me on birth control
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Pls guys someone explain to me
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>>18187538
Dude are you serious?
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>>18187538
Birth control as in birth control pill?
Works wonders if you take it every day at the same time and you never throw up, shit yourself or take antibiotics.
Might make you fatter, might make you lose your libido, might make you have mood swings.
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>>18187550
Is it safe?
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Broke up with boyfriend of 4 months due to us both being busy and not having time. The break up was amicable and we're still friends but we still like each on a te quiero level. Couldn't have asked for a better break up. Still, I'm very depressed. I don't know what to do to bounce back and move on. How do I get over it?
Pic related this scene is how I feel right now
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>>18187537
Cut contact with him and move on with your life.
If you keep him around, you will never move on.
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>>18187541
Is that really the only option though? I am friends with most of my exes.
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>>18187537
You fucked up OP. That fact that the breakup was very soft indicates that it was probably a good relationship and that you were with a mature guy. Odds are you just lost your chance with one of the better ones
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How do I convince my shrink that I actually have mental problems that need to get looked at?
He uses circular logic to insist that I'm fine, and chews up all my proof into such little shreds that there's no hope of defending all of them, and once I give up on one, they're all lost.
He insists I don't have mental issues just because I can't tolerate sexual situations, because not everyone likes sex with strangers. My difficulties to even start a romantic relationship can't be because of this inability because relationships aren't just all about sex. That I should be dating other asexuals, who do not exist in this town which I can't leave because I have no proper higher education.
I can't be stuck in this town against my will because I have no career-applicable interests and I can't manage studying a subject I have no interest in (my last attempt put me into a mental ward for a week before I gave up).
He has decided I don't want to be loved and I don't understand how to tell him otherwise.
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Get a professional second opinion.
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>>18187475
we had this thread last week. just get a new shrink.
as for your sexphobia, either get over it or get over dating. everyone has a cross to bare, this one is yours.
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>>18187480
How? Where?
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What are some ideas for making money working from home or under the table off the books?
I'm not legally allowed to work, but I want to start making money to work toward a better life.
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>>18187439
Lol fuck off you illegal immigrant.
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>>18187447
or underage b@
either way pretty much the only work you'll get illegally is cleaning lad(y) or construction worker.
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>>18187447
I'm US born white guy. dios mio...
I was on a date last night with a grill, my first date in many years (kissless, handholdless virgin, all previous dates ended in disaster during high school, but thats not relevant).
The grill was kind of tired because she didnt sleep the night before. Towards the premature end of the date we were sitting next to one another on a bench, I was to her right, and she stretched her left hand over to me. I was confused and asked what she was gesturing towards. She insisted that I understood what she wanted. I didn't.
So, in my confusion, I thought she wanted to shake hands for some reason, so I shook her hand.
Thats when she suddenly got mad at me, and left, date over, no discussion, wouldn't talk to me, and still won't. I don't understand what happened or anything. Did I mess up, and if so, how?
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ples help
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Poor bait
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>>18187450
This isnt bait dude, I'm being actually serious. I suck dick with people due to an overly sheltered upbringing all the way up till I was 18
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Do you guys ever feel that life is too short? I recently turned 19 and just realized that being 16/17 felt like yesterday. Literally only 40 years left until retirement and likely only an additional 20 years before death. I know 19 isn't old at all but I feel my age approaching, getting faster and faster. How do you oldfags cope with this?
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>>18187356
everyone does. thats why they say 'life is too short to do XX'
whats worse is time is relative. which means the more time you experience the faster time goes.
for instance a poor man might see 1000dollars and think its a lot. a rich man sees 1000 dollars and its not much at all. time is the same way.
they say the first day you are born is the longest day of your life. than the next day is only half as long. thats why time days seemed to last forever growing up.
they say that, relatively speaking, by the time you're 20, more than half of your life has already been experienced.
your entire year at the age of 73 will be the same as your summer at the age of 17.
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>>18187356
I feel the same. I'm 18, turning 19 in July, and it scares me. It really doesn't feel like it's been that long since I was 15/16, but actually, the years are really racking up. It's terrifying. I don't want to be considered "old".
It's probably just because we're at that transitional age between adolescence and adulthood. My guess is that it's normal, but damn, is it it scary. I guess the one thing that comforts me is that I know the direction I want to steer my life in, and as I grow older, I'll grow closer to my goals and sharpen my skills further.
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>>18187356
>Do you guys ever feel that life is too short?
No. Life is literally the longest thing you will ever do.
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What's it like to work at McDonalds? 2017-04-04 03:55:08 Post No.18187319
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What's it like to work at McDonalds?
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So I've got an interview for a job at McDonalds tomorrow and I'm wondering what it's like to actually work there?
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shitty. but its work. its not super social and most of the jobs tend to be taken up by foreigners or older 'lifers' so you dont have much to relate to there. its non stop work, you come home smelling like mcdonalds and feeling greasy.
but its a job.
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>>18187319
It really sucks, if you can speak good English, you will likely get assigned as the cashier or the window person. If you are an introvert it's heavily straining and you go home smelling like shit and feeling like it too.
But it's a job.
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it's as nice as your coworkers
keeps you busy, time goes by pretty quick
it's a huge company so if you want a promotion you can always move up if you throw yourself into the job
t. used to work there for like 2 years
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Been meaning to make a thread about this at different stages of the mess.
I've been in a relationship for 3 and a bit years and I live with him. We're 19, been together since we were 15ish. For most of this time I've been kinda into his friend, to different degrees at different times and know he liked me too. Really drunk a few weeks ago I was told by someone else that the friend had been in love with me for years, and so being drunk, I went to the friend and asked if it was true, and he said it was.
I was real happy, and I went home and the next day broke it off with my boyfriend and tried to get into a thing of some sort with the friend, following my heart and all. At first my boyfriend was like "ok that's fine I guess, like we had lots of problems but this was just a catalyst of us breaking up really" which I agreed with.
But over the next week or so he just got really angry and essentially convinced me to stay with him (after a few weeks of hanging out with the friend, but living with and sleeping with a guy I was trying to break up with which obviously is stupid). He said he'd change and I was so sick of all my emotions from the whole thing I agreed.
Now I'm not talking to the friend, and I'm just back in this unhappy relationship with my boyfriend who I feel no real spark or emotional connection with. I feel really lost and angry but we're acting "back to normal' I guess so I don't even know if I can handle trying to break up again. I've brought it up a couple times over the past week and he just gets mad and is like "no that's finished now" and won't let me talk about the feelings I have.
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What I'm really asking:
Should I bother trying to make it work with my boyfriend because I "owe" him or whatever or commit to leaving properly?
Should I try to get back in touch with the friend? - I obviously shouldn't call him that because they're not really friends now obviously.
Should I just try to break up and focus on myself for the first time in years since I've been with this guy since I was so young? (this is the advice all the mature people in my life eg my parents have given me).
How do I avoid being a selfish dick?
What would you do in this situation?
Sorry for the long post guys.
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>>18187222
I'd break up and make it stick, if the interest isn't there there's no point prolonging it.
As for shacking up with somebody else right away, eh, perhaps just enjoy single life for a bit. If the other party is a golden opportunity which may close soon perhaps jump into it, but finding your own independence has its merits. Enjoy being single for a bit.
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>>18187240
I literally have no idea how to break up with this person. I bring it up and he groans and is like "omg just stop", and when we did break up properly a couple weeks ago he'd just guilt me into sex and stuff so I'd feel attached. It's so shit.
I'm not used to being single and I'm really worried about it. To break up with him, I'd have to go live with my parents in the country and like never see anyone and I'm just worried I'd be really lonely.
Finally got over my job anxiety and walked into a local temp office today, I was hired immediately for a position that pays exactly what I asked for. Problem is that I have eight dollars to my name and it'll be three weeks before I get paid. I have enough food to last me for another ten days, probably, and enough gas in my car to last five days. I'm looking into selling my blood but I'd really appreciate some other ideas for making $40. I won't mooch off friends or family.
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>>18187201
go to your bank and ask to take out a line of credit, you'll be approved by tomorrow.
you should always have a credit card or line of credit ready for this type of situation.
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Just explain the situation to your parents and borrow it. $40 isn't a lot of money, and you could show them the paperwork to let them know the job is legit and you will actually pay them back.
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>>18187228
Do not do this