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When women call me good looking (not that they're wrong) it's usually because they want me to fan their ego in return, and I hate that shit.
What's the correct response other than telling them to fuck off?
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>>18186071
"Thanks" and then move on with life.
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>>18186075
Now what if I want to fuck her?
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>>18186209
1.) If you have to ask, you probably need far more help that we can give
2.) If you want to play the game to get laid, play the fucking game. But don't bitch about the it like you're taking the moral fucking high ground, and then directly after ask how you shortcut past it.
3.) You sound kind of gross, fuck off.
When is it obvious that I should just give up?
I'll keep it short and simple: i dont have any friends, never have, likely never will. Here's the thing though, I'd like to have friends, I'd like to have people to care about and that care about me.
Every time I try to reach out to other people, like at work or wherever, they start pulling away and treating me coldly. Afaik, I don't act exceptionally creepy, they just don't want anything to do with me that doesn't involve me doing something for them.
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>>18185972
I know dem feels.
Insist. If they feel unconfortable, fuck them, you did your best.
Just no rapey rapey ok?
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>>18185972
>at work
Work is work, it's not a social event. You need to do this in your free time. Try to pick up social hobbies that involve other people whom you frequently see and interact with. Friendship doesn't happen when one party wants it to. It happens over long-term exposure, similar likes/interests and after some time that is spent to get to know each other. For this end hobbies are a good option, but you still need to make the effort.
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>>18185983
I understand work is work, but I see how the same people that i try to be friends with and react poorly are all buddy buddy with just about everybody else at work
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Her
>I was trying to like you and i really enjoyed the time we spent together, but... I don't know, i don't know if i want to stay with you.
Me:
>Alright, i'm not gonna waste any more time with you, good bye.
Her:
>If i finally make up my mind and decide that i want you i'll run after you.
A bit of info: I'm 24, she's 23, we study in the same college (where i met her), we went out three times and had sex once.
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Oh, i forgot.
What do?
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don't bother
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She's scouting the field for other cock. Sorry anon but do you really want to be some bitches second pick? The others will turn her down then she'll suddenly come back to you.
She needs to know you're number 1 or she can fuck off. Do yourself a favour and dont give her the time of day
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Need some help deciding my future bois. College isn't much of an option for me since I can't study unless it's short term, so my moms been telling me to apply for water and power.
I don't exactly mind if it's a boring as shit job as long as it pays for my hobbies (video games and anime), my motto is live for your desires.
I've done some research and it looks decent enough, what does /adv/ think? If it helps I was happily going to join the marines and was a month from shipping to Camp Pendleton
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>>18184994
College isn't hard man. It just takes discipline.
If you won't go that route then find a trade. I recommend apprenticing as an electrician.
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>>18185079
Did you read just ops first sentence or some shit
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>>18185079
I lack long term discipline, if its for a test I can somehow force myself to study about a week before. I was gonna join the marines to get discipline beaten into me
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Depression and wild spending
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As the title says, I have depression, and not meme "I feel sad :(((" depression. I've been diagnosed with major depression AND bipolar since literally as long as no can remember. There's a fairly decent chance that I am also schizoid, but I haven't been to a doctor to get a proper diagnosis for that since someone said I meet the symptoms.
Here's the problem: I spend money like it's going out of style on random shit, and it varies from little here little there to "oh God why did I just spend $100?" kind of shit. I don't know how to stop, either. Like, I know I need to stop, but I just don't care enough not to. However, I have other shit I need to spend money on, like getting my car inspected (which needs 4 tires to boot) and owing my parents $200.
I only make $12.85/hr, which is about 360/week after taxes, so $1440/mo. Rent is $570, electric is usually about $40, phone is $50, Internet is $90(I need to call them about it, actually), car insurance is $60, and I spend about $35 a week in gas for about $950 in bills before food and shit. That's $600/mo I'm just straight up losing to nothing, and its incredible that I can't save anything.
It's giving me anxiety thinking about the money I waste, and yet part of me doesn't even care. I just don't know what to do, /adv/. When I'm manic, I spend because fuck it, and when I'm down I spend because fuck it differently.
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>>18184562
What about giving your money to somebody mentally (parents?) so they hold the bank and you dont go full retard?
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>>18184575
There is literally no one that I would trust to handle my money because I have been burned before by people I thought I could trust.
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First forgive yourself. You know this is because your mental health isn't the best right now. You should still work for the solution but try to not stress about it.
Talk to professional help about it. Also make a second bank account and only have limited amount of money on the card you use for shopping. Make a day or a week budget. Try to avoid going to places where you spend a lot of money: Buy your food at the smaller grocery store.
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What is the quote/maxim that is central in your life? 2017-04-02 06:15:49 Post No.18182378
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I'm trying to find a philosophical or spiritual mindset to adhere to that will make life easier to bear.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OyYnstGB3rM
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Everything is empty.
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>>18182378
Act like the person you want to be.
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Is dick a good term for my own penis? I always think of Richard Nixon when I call it that. And when I say cock I feel like my wiener is a gun. I don't like either words. And the word penis is too anatomical. Any advice?
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Kidney Tickler if you're long and curved
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>>18189521
That makes me feel like a fool
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dong?
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How do I stop watching degenerate porn?
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Just b yurs
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>>18189489
But I'm submissive of myself, but it wasn't that much of a problem until i found increasingly humiliating porn. This is going the wrong way and I don't know how to stop.
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>>18189498
Maybe you are submissive by nature. The next step is spreading your boypussi on tape. It's probably over, anyways.
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I spend a lot of time in bed due to chronic dizziness. It sucks the joy out of my life and makes everything feel like a chore. Even sitting up in front of my computer is hard. I recently went 4 days without even showering. It might be part of my fibromyalgia. Sometimes it is accompanied by crippling pain. It started years ago but has grown progressively worse. Being in bed all the time is boring and sad. I see a neurologist and recently made an appointment with a doctor who specializes in dizziness. I saw my primary about it and she ordered 6 different blood tests. The neurologist has tried every migraine treatment on me. I am doing everything I can to solve this but was wondering if anyone has any advice for me. Whether it be how to make it go away or cope with how I can't do the things I love anymore....
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id go to the otolaryngologist to check my vestibular system
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have you considered not being a beta?
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>>18189419
It might be diabetes or thyroid.
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How do you restart and set up new goals for yourself?
I'm 30 and recently left a pretty high powered corporate position for a big company for my age. But the stress and anxiety were ripping me apart at the seams, and when they asked me to take over a big operation I have no experience in for our biggest market, I told them thanks but no thanks, and left to a smaller startup... which was a disaster, so I quit within two months, and now I'm unemployed.
Now I don't know what I want to do. The stress wasn't worth it and I didn't like my life where I was, so I don't want to go back to that corporate lifestyle. I don't want kids or a family, either. I basically don't have anything to aim for anymore, and all I want to do is sit here.
What do I do to set up goals again?
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>>18189032
>no kids or family
Sorry OP, but that is what is written in your DNA. Also what for do you use money if not for securing some qtie and providing for your babies?
Look for job and gf at the same time. With your age and money, i bet you will find gf sooner than job.
>>>/okcupid/
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It would to know what your job was and what skills you have...
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>>18189040
Wtf kind of advice is that, lots of people don't want kids.
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Am I at a major disadvantage for casual sex if I'm not a big guy?
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>>18188772
well two things first
you can still use emotional attachment to get casual sex, you just have to make sure that you don't a.) emotionally manipulate them in an unfair way, or b.) get emotionally manipulated in an unfair way
which can be difficult. maybe above is not good advice?
>not a big guy
can you clarify?
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>>18188784
>can you clarify?
I'm not tall or muscular
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>>18188795
>not tall
>not muscular
dude
be more specific?
>send out a bunch of job applications
>one gets accepted
>go in for interview
>get my first job, at a hotel
>they give me my uniform t-shirt
>request to wear a longsleeve shirt under it
>they deny my request and I say "it's okay" (it's not okay)
>can't handle the open air touching my arms and constantly go to the bathroom trying to get ahold of myself, spend over 2 hours total in bathroom in 1 day
>no social skills to quit
How do I quit my job over this? I like my manager but she wouldn't understand that I don't like showing skin. I don't know how long I could maintain composure in a conversation as important as quitting.
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>>18188647
get a burka or some shit, claim your islam.
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You could just no call no show, but I wouldn't recommend it since they'll probably want their uniforms back.
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>>18188647
Grow up. You're going to have to do things in this life that you aren't necessarily going to like. Welcome to adulthood.
>be 27
>girlfriend same age
>living together for just over a year
we both have our own business and work a lot. So I think there is a lot of stress always.
Past week or so girlfriends been less affectionate.. moreso than usual
last night she made a comment about me wanting to have sex every night
this morning we went back and forth and then she told me
>youre on another level of clingy
>god damn
>are you an extreme clinger??
>convo ends now
>goodbye
not sure if i should respond to this childlike behavior or just ignore it
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I should note that I've been trying not to watch porn lately
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Write me in your will, and then kill her then kill yourself.
Everybody wins.
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>>18188623
Congrats, she found a second who's more enticing and she is distancing you on purpose to make the breakup "your fault" down the line when she dumps you for problems that she's making up.
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I have been fucking this fat asian prostitute who lives in the apartment complex I live in, and who works at a gas station. She has been asking me to come over more since doing that which basically means I've been fucking her for free... I'm thinking of asking her to move in with me, should I go for it?
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>>18188617
Are you falling in love with a hooker?
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>>18188626
No, I just like fucking her.
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>>18188637
Then leave her where she is. Why would you move a hooker into your apartment when she lives in the same complex?
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The root of my problem is I was around too many women. Nothing is wrong with women, but when you put a little boy among several women for prolonged periods, they can get warped. I had no male role-models.
I can't stand people, but I'm also lonely. I don't attend to my emotional needs because I consider them too vague to take seriously. The result is I have emotional outbursts and I burn bridges "suddenly".
In the first place, it doesn't help that I think more objectively than most people. I'm not saying I'm smarter, just less emotion-driven.
The typical victims of my outbursts are
>Navel-gazers
>Prospectors (people who go on and on about trivial possibilities; dogs chasing cars)
>People who babble
I've been told I'm "intimidating" and I drive people away. In my defense, the people I drove away were draining.
Am I too edgy? If so, what am I supposed to do about it? I've tried being nice, but it's disingenuous.
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>cold
>objective
>intense
>unemotional
You were raised by trannies, anon.
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See? This is what I don't get. People sure act butthurt in real life when I bully them, but when I make an effort to stop, nobody gives a shit. I can't get any feedback.
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>>18188578
It is easy to throw blame on other people. It doesnt matter that you think you have right to behave like bad boy.
The first step to improve yourself is to identify your flaws. All you posted are almost uselles information.
Either tell us what do you think is wrong with you or go from where you came.
>Am I too edgy?
We dont have crystal ball.