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Beginning to highly suspect I'm bipolar. I used to think it was just depression, but lately I've noticed I rapidly switch between being generally happy and incredibly depressed throughout a single day.
Thing is what I've read about mania seems too exaggerated for my happy episodes, although I do get feelings like "anything I wish for will happen" occasionally. Is there anybody else with bipolar/experience with the disorder that can shed some light on the condition?
Also most of my mood changes are centred around a particular girl, her actions seem to influence my mood throughout the day. Could this just be reactions to a oneitiis?
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>>18188132
Yes, it could be
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Yes. You are not a doctor. Go to a doctor and tell them your concerns and I promise you they will not diagnose you with bipolar.
If you were bipolar, at least one person you know would have highlighted your odd behaviour by now. You might get diagnosed with borderline personality disorder but don't worry, this just means an immature asshole. Perfectly treatable.
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>>18188228
I don't think I interact with people enough to have someone point it out.
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Im supposed to go get my taxes done today and I haven't been able to find my W-2s from 2016. Ive looked through a lot of other papers and mail and found nothing. I guess I can reschedule, but how do I get my W-2s? Anyone else have this happen to them?
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Self bump.
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>>18188947
Can you go into HR and ask for another copy? Can you download a digital copy off the employers website?
Where do you work?
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What kind of idiot waits until April to file taxes?
Call a company contact and see if you can get a copy.
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Did a bong hit a couple of weeks ago had a seizure and ever since I havent felt right. Went to doctor, everything is fine got my vision tested. I constantly feel out of it or "floating" It's worse when I'm in my car driving though. It sometimes looks like the road or environment wobbles and then I get a sense of panic. Whats wrong with me?
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Happened to me over the course of a few years of smoking. If you don't smoke again it should eventually go away according to others. I just didn't stop kek.
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>>18188089
First time I ever smoked I had a massive panic attack. I felt exactly like you do now for 3 months straight. After I got back in the right mindset (and was in a quiet environment with people I actually liked) I tried it again and gradually got adjusted to the feeling. I feel fine nowadays. Idk weed hits people in different ways
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how the fuck? first time i smoked, i sat on my friends couch and fed fritos to his dog. i was like 14 then.
What will my doctor try to give me if I tell the cunt I need something to help me sleep?
I keep sleeping late fixing it then going back again. Will they give me gud sheet or some stupid sleep study meme?
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Just take melatonin dumdum
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>>18188019
>if I tell the cunt
Now, now. Is that the most productive attitude to approach him with?
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>>18188019
You fix your sleep routine by
>making habit of going to sleep at the same time
>fixing your life style
>getting healthy
>blocking all light in your room (even the street lights)
>adopting sport so you are actually physically tired
Popping pills will only blocks symptoms of your shit life, not cure it.
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I felt something pop on the left side of my head, close to my temple. Is this something I need to worry about?
Pic unrelated, obviously. Too lazy to find a better meme.
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>>18187973
Just go get checked you fucking retard.
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>>18187973
If you are not dead already, have no neurological defects- facial droop, one sided weakness, or slurred speech you probably won't die. Should probably schedule an appointment with your GP though.
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>>18187997
To add to this there is a massive chance that it is just sinus pressure, but don't take chances with your life- the only real way to rule out infarcts, or hemorrhage is interpretation of a CT scan.
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I think i been depressed for over the past 7 years. I'm 23, i got lump on my dick for jacking off too much like 7 months ago. I wanted to loose my virginity thinking it would boost my confidence up, so i got an escort recently.(i'm not good at talking to people, and i see the escort thing recommend on here a lot) I couldn't bust a nut. The lump made the condom painfully. The escort didn't mentioned. At end end i could not finish. The escort was nice about it. At end i just went home. I wanted to try again so i got another escort. Again i couldn't bust a nut, at one point i was staring to get soft. The escort got annoyed and offer me a handjob to finish the job. I couldn't bust a nut. She got mad and told me to get out. I said, I paid for an full hour upfront , still had about 20 minutes. Then a black dude came in the hotel. He showed me his gun and told me to get the fuck out so i did. My self-esteem is destroyed, still got a lump, cant stop watching porn. So i went to 2 different doctors and they told me that they dint know what the lump is. The only solid theory they got is a busted vein. I'm currently waiting on a call to see a professional. I think i got the lump from jacking off too much. I stopped for 2 weeks because i got this cruch at this girl at work( i been with this company for 2 years and i always had a cruch on her) . I used her to motivate myself. But she starring dating this chad from work. I fall in love easily. I really thought i had a shoot with this girl. But i never asked her out. No she getting fucked by someone else and i just wanna fuckig die. I know is not the end of the world. But i just wanna to talk to someone and not be depressed anymore. i dont know what to do. So do therapist or psychologist work. Sorry for the shitty English.
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Yeah man, I think therapy works best for the people who think it's going to work.
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No, they don't! I had depressions myself, so I know this! You can talk with me about it if you want or not, if you don't!
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>>18187921
Did go to a therapist yourself?
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My younger brother was conceived via rape. The man who is his biological father was my mothers ex boyfriend at the time. The story goes, she had broken up with him because he was very abusive to her and myself, and for months after she kicked him out he tried getting back together with her. One day I guess he raped her, which then conceived my brother. From what I understand it was textbook sober aggressive rape, none of that bullshit "i was drunk and decided after the fact" rape. Surprisingly she never pressed charges on the rape, but did file a restraining order after he broke in once after my brother was born. He denied he was the father and never wanted anything to do with my brother. My mother just recently told me the truth about his biological father. I always knew it was her ex, but never knew the story behind it. But just recently my brother's been questioning my mother a lot about his biological father. She's told him who he was, and that he's legally restrained, but never how he was conceived. He's in high school he's a pretty happy kid. He's had plenty of constant father figures in his life, such as our grandfather, 2 uncles, and my father who accepts him and treats him as one of his own. My brother doesn't know he's a product of rape. My mother broke down one evening after my brother kept on prodding information about him. The whole ordeal with his biological father was a very traumatic period in her life. My mother and I had a heart to heart after she calmed down and told me everything. She told me "she never want's him to know" and asked me if I'll keep that secret; I said I would. I'll respect that for as long as he's still a minor, but I feel like that's a secret too deep for me to bear about his own existence. I'm torn, should I leave it for my mother to decide and respect her wishes, or does he have the right to know and should I tell him when he's legally an adult?
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>covering for a lying cunt
Your brother is already your bro. That means he's covered by the bro code. Tell him the truth NOW.
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You don't have any stake in this. Your mother was raped by him and has to bear that trauma. Your brother was the product of rape and, if told, would have to live with that fact and come to terms with the fact that his father was an abusive piece of shit who raped her and that he exists only because of that and is related to that man. If he is told that will affect his relationship with your mother and his relationship with himself.
You have no business doing any more than making a case for why she should tell him, because frankly this does not affect you significantly on any level regardless of what you do and only involves your ability to live with yourself. You will also directly be betraying your word to your mother about this. She shouldn't have gone to you for comfort and support in the first place, that's not an appropriate role for a child to have with their parent, but you will definitely hurt her if you do so. If you feel you must involve yourself in this making a case for why she should tell him or how she can let him in on the truth more or respond to him is preferable, but again this is not a role you should take upon yourself nor one she should ask of you.
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>>18187767
If he's in highschool, he's old enough to know. It's better that he find out now rather than later. He'll grow resentment over not being told, continue to pester your mom, and then one day she'll lose her shit.
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Anyone have experience fighting bicuriousity?
I firmly, in my heart, want to remain straight, but lately I have found myself seduced by traps and thinking more and more about doing gay stuff.
How do I halt this degeneracy? I know it will just make me a faggot in the end.
>inb4 traps aren't gay
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There's nothing you can do about it, you can't suddenly make it stop making your dick hard.
You can also only fap to and fuck women if you like, assuming you still like them. It shouldn't really be a problem.
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>>18187712
Just say 'no homo' after sex. It's totally not gay if you do that, especially if the trap has a feminine penis
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>>18187712
Then stop looking at trap stuff idiot. Your preferences shape what you look at which shapes your preferences which shapes what you look at
... etc. Halt the spiral. Anyway irl gay stuff is pretty disgusting and usually not what people expect, from what I've heard from people in a similar situation to you.
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All I want to do in life is get married to someone I love and have children.
As the years go by I have yet to have a serious boyfriend, they always say they just want to be friends after we get together.
I can't accept this fate, I want to have children so badly, I love them so much, and I long so badly for someone to cal my own. I'm at University right now, I want to go into childcare, but I just want children of my own more than anything in the world.
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You must be unattractive, work on your appearance and you'll get wifed up quick.
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>>18187674
I get a lot of offers from guys, but it seems the ones I choose get bored of me after a week.
I will work on my appearence more however.
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>>18187678
The appearance thing was mostly regarding wanting kids, less and less guys are having children as the years pass, but looking like you'll give him some really attractive kids will definitely help persuade him.
The love thing is more regarding personality.
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>be me
>have crush on sister's friend
>be crushing on her for a while
>invite her out for ice cream
>sister comes along
>notwhatiwantedbutwhatever.jpg
>go to order
>crush pays for her own ice cream
>notwhatiwantedbutwhatever.jpg
>(found this part out from sister later, didn't hear it at the time)
>(sister knows i have crush on girl; this happens while I order)
>"anonnette why didn't you let him pay for ice cream"
>"I don't want free ice cream i want to break his heart"
>me not knowing this happened proceed to act like normal and eat ice cream with them
>find this out later
wat do?
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>>18187573
How old are you?
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Act uninterested from this point on. She'll feel like she did something wrong.
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No matter how I look at it or who I date.
I always have the same problem.
I'm only attracted to old women.
Not only older but "old".
And I mean women between 30-50 (more if they still look fine to me).
I'm myself 26yo, I have a girlfriend and I dated many other girls before but all younger or about my age.
I have told nobody about this, and I don't want my girlfriend to think I don't love her even though she noticed recently that I'm not as attracted to her as I used to(I still like her as a person and she is really mature in mentality for what its worth I know this is why I like her).
Problem is, I've been put into this mindset that I have to respect my elders(I don't mind my education though) and I can't help but be nice to aged women and never "cross" the line.
In fact I either tend to sexualize them a lot or just be too afraid to try something and end up losing my self-esteem.
The other day there was this single mother with her kid in the bus.
We couldn't stop making eye contact and I could see that she was attracted.
But I soon looked away because I didn't want the little boy to see me or catch his mother like this...
I know it sounds pathetic but that's really how I felt.
Actually it kind of surprised me she wouldn't mind giving me this kind of attention in front of her kid, I couldn't even believe what it was the first time, but I have no doubt she at least liked me looking at her.
It isn't the first time I had this kind of sign from a single mom, and I can say I had many older women look at me with desire but I simply had no idea how to approach them.
My question is: Is it possible for me to date one? If so how should I pick them up or initiate a discussion where I can make her understand what I am up to, and where I can meet them?
I have some friends who managed to date and have sex with milfs, but I'm too ashamed to ask them how they do it and I don't think we have the same standards or goals.
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Just wait a few years, till your girlfriend is 30 herself.
Everyone will age.
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>>18187531
Sound advice anon
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>>18187531
Maybe that wasn't clear.
But I'm looking to fulfil a fantasy.
My gf is currently 23yo.
When I become old who knows what I'll be looking to do or end up liking.
But one thing is sure, the kind of relationship I'll have won't be or feel the same.
I know many young guy manage somehow to date older women.
I'm asking how.
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Ever say something to someone that just comes across wrong and doesn't really sound like what you were trying to say in the first place?
I wasn't really trying to do this, but I implied to someone that she was a diversity-obsessed Tumblrina, kinda by linking her to something I wrote and saying she'd disagree, but only about one specific thing I brought up. I'm by no means alt-right or anything, and I don't think she's obsessed with this kind of shit, so now I feel bad, because she thinks I basically just called her a crazy woman with shitty opinions.
Any idea how to apologize on this one? I already tried backpedaling but really just dug myself a deeper hole.
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what did u specifically say?
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>>18187526
Well, it was an online discussion about Marvel comics, so I basically told her "I wrote something you're probably gonna disagree with but take a look" and linked her to these next two linked posts:
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>>18187536
The "Tumblrverse" out there is the very vocal minority. Just like your Gamergate alt-right worshippers, they're going to shout the loudest and make all of your social media sirens blare at HQ and make you think you're in the midst of the world's greatest PR disaster, but from a sales perspective... it's really not true. So you have all of these Twitter warriors out here complaining about diversity, an overwhelming amount of white males in comics, complaining about revealing art and that people of color aren't fairly represented, and Marvel makes this huge shift to appease this vocal minority, and at first it works. You get stuff like Ms. Marvel, with a well written, appealing protagonist in Kamala Khan. You get Miles Morales, who is flawed in a lot of ways, but regardless, still sells. Maybe you create some quirky titles, like Unbeatable Squirrel Girl, or Patsy Walker aka Hellcat... they don't sell, but you're not doing any damage by putting some feelers out there and providing people with variety and heroes they can look up to in their own way.
But suddenly, at the height of your popularity among the masses since the early 1990s among your person that knows nothing about comics, you blow everything the fuck up. All in the namesake of forced diversity. Now the people who don't know jack shit about comics but love the characters from the movies are coming in to check out what they like and to get more and they have... what? Nazi Captain America? Falcon is also Captain America now? Female Thor? Hulk is dead but now there's a second, Asian Hulk? Iceman from the X-Men is gay even though he wasn't for the past 50 years? Iron Man, their biggest box office draw, is also pretty much dead and is replaced with a black teenager? That's not even all of it, just the stuff that matches popular movie characters. Why is this happening all at once?
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Me and my partner havent been the best lately, but we want to make this work. What are some things we can do? We've been together 4 years.
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Ew! Old people. Grow more wrinkles?
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>>18187435
Think of things you haven't done and then do them.
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>>18187435
Go on a trip..
try making art together..
spend some time apart?
practice yoga/meditation together
mostly traveling always helps.
would you want to watch the same episode of a tv show every single day?
answer is no!
try new things.
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Which engineering masters would provide the most laid-back jobs? 2017-04-04 04:36:12 Post No.18187427
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Which engineering masters would provide the most laid-back jobs?
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I have a BS in EE but I wasn't too happy with the amount of programming in it and practically every job has some sort of programming you need to do.
I'm thinking of pursuing a masters but still not sure if I should go into EE or choose something else. What's my best course of action for a job with more socializing and fucking around rather than actual work?
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MBA? I would do that or systems engineering.
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>>18187427
I'd like to lay her back. I have no advice for you, just thought you'd like to know.
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>>18187427
Who's the attention whore?
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Girl I Took Out on Date Has Boyfriend...?! 2017-04-04 04:30:32 Post No.18187413
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Girl I Took Out on Date Has Boyfriend...?!
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>See cute girl on campus, chat with her, get her number
>Take her out on date. Really good date, we really connect. Non-stop conversation, lots of shared interests and values
>She still seems real keen after the date, texting me often. If I leave the convo for a few days, she initiates the texts again, which is kinda evidence that she's not just responding to texts out of politeness, but is legit interested
>Try to set up second date for Tuesday
>"Is there any other day you're free? I reserve Tuesdays for my boyfriend. It's date night, haha. But I'd still love to do that activity with you!"
>What
>Did not mention having boyfriend on the date. We talked a lot and the conversation came to her parents, her siblings, her ex, her ex's parents, her upbringing... no boyfriend mentioned
It just doesn't make sense to me. Like, none of the possible scenarios seem to make any sense.
Scenario 1: She was dating her boyfriend when I took her on a date. But then, why would she accept the date? And if she were cheating, why would she tell me about her boyfriend?
Scenario 2: She started dating him/became exclusive with him in the time since our last date. But then, why would she just casually refer to him as if I would KNOW she has a boyfriend, instead of just being like "sorry anon I've started seeing someone, so I won't be going on any dates with you"?
Scenario 3: she made boyfriend up as an excuse. But this raises the same question as scenario 2. Why just casually refer to him as if this isn't a new development to a person who has taken her on a date? Why wouldn't she say, "I've started seeing someone etc"?
What the fuck is going on and what do I do? I really like her, it was the most I've ever connected with somebody on a date and I really saw this going further.
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Maybe she was planning to cheat but then decided she couldnt go through with it on a subconscious level. She mentioned the boyfriend casually to make it seem to herself like she did nothing wrong, and she's being upfront.
I think you should call her out, and ask why she went on a date with you if she already had a boyfriend, but she'd probably say something equally denial wrapped about not thinking it was a date.
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Why don't you ask her? There's many things that could be going on here.
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>>18187413
Is it possible she thought you guys were hanging out as friends?