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Simply tell her that you're gay and you were using her to protect herself due the the social and political tensions, but with recent bills and acceptance you feel more comfortable being honest with yourself and those around you

>>18193501

>i cant pull the 'it doesn't feel right anymore' card.

you literally can. its not like if things had changed shed just be like 'WOW YOU'RE RIGHT, LOOK AT ALL THIS SCIENTIFIC EVIDENCE OF HOW THINGS HAVE CHANGED, HERE IS MY STAMP OF APPROVAL ON THIS BREAK UP'

'it doesn't feel right anymore' is just how people explain 'the honeymoons over and im ready to move on'.

stop making imaginary problems.

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>>18193501
>go out
>order tendies
>wait til she eats one
>"REEEE MY FUCKING TENDIES IT'S OVER BITCH"
>go out and try to get other girls
>miss what you had
>text her late at night while drunk saying you miss her
>she texts back that she met someone new
>drink more

>>18193477
Girl on top is hot but wayyyyy more pressure than other positions. If he is complaining about sensitivity do not suggest this. Sounds like he needs some rally time. If you still want to get off ask him to go down on you. If he is always done after the first load better ask him to get you off first. I'm usually good for at least two, but it's the law of diminishing returns. First erection the hardest, first load the biggest and then progressively softer erections and smaller loads. By the time 6 or 7 rolls around I'm spent and need to recoup.

>>18193477
Nope, only some freaks can. I very rarely am able to.

Contiue without interruption? 99% can't, there's the refractory period when there's a major loss in erection. Yeah ut sucks to be a man in this time

Continue shortly after? Hell yeah. I'm almost 30 and I've been getting ready for second round in 10 to 15min in the horniest days. Just don't count on me after that lol

>>18193467
Only way is up!

I wish that was the case but im crabing and only moving in the same plane

>>18193496

rehab.

if your answer is anything other than
>yes ill go check my self in now

then you're not really wanting to change, you're just wanting to be fixed.

>>18193409
You borderline can't write one without seeming that way. Dating online is 90% looks anyways, so if you don't look good you're not gonna match with women who are not single mothers are landwhales.

>>18193409
What kind of tired cliches are we talking about here? You want your profile to show your personality and give a brief overview of yourself.

>>18193409
make a female account and copy what guys in popular cities do. just insert whatever you do.

Get a motorcycle and come to terms with your mortality every time you ride.

>>18193396

coping is the act of coping in and of itself. it does not require any other acts. you cope by coping.

>>18193396
The whole death thing never bothered me.

>>18193381

>how do i invent something

is even more vague than asking how to write a book. both require you to have some basis of an idea, if you dont have an idea, you cant invent anything. its not as simple as having an idea though. most advanced inventions didn't get made because someone said 'WOW ID REALLY LIKE A MACHINE THAT LETS ME TLAK TO PEOPLE FROM FAR AWAY'.

instead they studied a particular field and while working in that field they learned about certain things and pushed their limits and combined them with other things to create something new.

because we are already so advanced that means most inventions that can be thought of, have been thought of. there's a reason we don't really try to improve on the mop or the sponge. this leaves only two options for someone who wants to invent

>extreme science
>extreme leisure

extreme science because most of hte inventions that came about due to the baseline of electrical technology have already been done. the next real inventions are going to be more extreme.

extreme leisure because, well, thats where python or any coding language comes in. you're really just finding new ways to organize information when you're using coding. software / apps that are designed to make your life more leisurely/ easy or even just to make it more fun. Tinder for instance.

so unless you can think of a great idea that python or another coding language can be used for, you're SOL.

>how feasible is it to create something for an absolute beginner iwth bython?

to create something, easy. to invent something? no so feasible.

>im looking at this for money

well you're fucked because most inventors don't get that much money or get to own their own work.

hell even great minds like steve jobs had their owrk stolen and used against them for decades before they were able to come out of that.

most great minds need someone to pay them to study before they can actually invent something, and as a result, lose the rights.

>>18193407
thanks for the honestly i really appreciate it anon. So im guessing im leaning towards leisure. It would be cool to create something everyone can enjoy. I know it seems like its my ego but I want to be that guy who made "x". I feel like I would gain satisfaction out of life if I made something even if it doesn't stand the test of time.

>>18193429

unfortunately thats barely more specific than saying 'i just want to be famous' or 'i want to change the world'. its a big problem our generation has.

they all want to be special, but none of them know how they want ot be special, and beyond that, when they choose to do something its never out of passion or anything of that sort, its just them thinking they will be special if they do it.

imagine a kid in school specifically doing something because he thinks it will make him look cool. does that ever work out?

and the fact that you're trying to reduce it to the basics is kind of proof of that. insisting that you will only use the very basics of python shows you aren't really dedicated or wanting to put in any real work. you just want to be special asap.

>>18193372

getting active in your community is a great way to meet girls and date, which of course leads to sex, but its not a good way to get sex in and of itself, especially if you're above the college years.

the best option for legit hook up is the traditional bar and club. thats where girls go when they're willing to have sex, and alcohol certainly helps

>>18193379
It's good to be involved in community activities. I honestly think people should be more involved in community activities, so it can become more normal and hip. I'm 22...I'm 22 and I just said hip.

Are people going to bars and clubs because they work? I always found it to be silly. I might be too much of an introvert to hook up at clubs. I've always gotten dates by just talking to women and being friendly with them.

>>18193389

>are people going to bars and clubs because they work?

some people. most people are going because its just a generic social place where you can just come as you are. even if you don't drink alcohol you're still welcome.

most people don't want a 'niche' activity. they just want to relax after working all day/week, talk with their friends, potentially tlak to other friends... and if they meet some ladies along the way, thats even better.

so why would they go anywhere else? on top of that booze makes people more uninhibited. you don't realize how much easier it is to get iwth women even with just half a beer or some wine. it makes them lower their guard, stop thinking in the societal way, and just want ot have fun. by the time they sober up, they've already decided they like you.

>introvert

introvert just means you recharge with alone time, not that you can't go into a bar.

>ive always gotte dates by just talking to women and being friendly with them

then go talk to women and be friendly with them.

>>18193215
If you are up for the challenge, do Rick's rant at the end of the first episode of season 1 or 3 of Rick and Morty
>Bring back the Szechuan sauce!

>>18193215
Stay away from Shakespeare but don't go to edge or modern

>>18193215

>I don't know who you are. I don't know what you want. If you're looking for ransom, I can tell you I don't have money... but what I do have are a very particular set of skills. Skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a nightmare for people like you. If you let my daughter go now, that will be the end of it - I will not look for you, I will not pursue you... but if you don't, I will look for you, I will find you... and I will kill you.

With dramatic pauses, motioning and gestures, this can be dragged to 60 seconds.

>>18193179
No idea.

Hire a proffesional to keep him disciplined and force him to do something with his life?

Also what do you mean by
>incested my younger brother
That sounds hot, post story pls.

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>>18193289
>Invite brothers over for weekend at my apartment.
>Nothing gay has happened before this point.
>However my two younger brothers were always "close" with each other.
>They're 20 and 21.
>Both are fat sacks of shit, one is 280lbs, the other is 300lbs.
>Feeling bored so I get ready to leave.
>Middle brother is playing "Digimon Story Cyber Sleuth" on my ps4
>Seems innocent enough
>I decide to leave and go talk a walk by myself for a while.
>Sometime later I return.
>As I open the door I see the middle brother has mounted the younger one.
>And they were assfucking on my kitchen floor.
>My apartment smells like poop as the middle brother covers himself in shame and goes to shower off.
>I leave and call Dad and tell him what a couple of flaming faggots they are.
>It figures that two childish fat virgin manchildren that spend that much time together alone do gay shit like that.
>How I didn't see it coming I'll never know.

>>18193361
We'll it looks like your middle brother isn't a virgin then. So there's that.

>>18193178
Real mental breakdown is when you cant even type properly on 4chan. To get nice advice you have to type reasonably long post about your problems.

Try eating something sweet. That can help.

>>18193235
I guess it's more like spasms of madness, lots of involuntary actions and inappropriate impulses like random laughter, tooth grinding, nail biting, bitterness and punching the shit out of my legs. Lots of self-hatred, destructive thoughts that cone and go and a big uneasy feeling in my chest and gut as I think about what troubles me. Not full on breakdown but I don't know what to call it.

If you can, find a mental health facility near you and check yourself in. I was considering it a couple months ago and I was not experiencing the same severity of symptoms as you described. Go get some help/rest. It's all confidential.

Obviously I need to address it again, but I just want to hear some opinions really.

Sorry it's the middle of the night over here.

Whatever you do, make sure you do it soon. I let my family and friends fall into alcoholism, once it sticks it is a lifelong battle against compulsion.

>>18193206
Right, thanks. Hope the people around you change.

>>18193151

First rule of computer security;
If it's easy to exploit, path it.

This is why you're having a hard time.
Anyone who can exploit it, doesn't want it getting out and then getting patched.

Studies computer science, software engineering, learn how to reverse engineer.

There's alot to learn and script kids only get basic stuff that gets patched out quick.

I understand that and I am learning right now. Because of work, I am learning very slowly. I understand the rule, however right now with this I could do a lot for people. My hardware isn't the best and I am still learning about linux, however while I learn and grow, I could really use this specific tool. Unfortunately if I wait to follow my course and so on, it will be a year or more before I can do this specific thing and by then it will be too late.

>>18193151
Holy shit just give it back already, Jamal

>>18193116
>since I can't go do fun things with my friends.

Why not?

>>18193124

Well, I mean fun things like go to the bar, go out to dinner somewhere, that kind of thing. Besides going to a movie, there's not really a lot of other activities that are non-drinking and non-food centric.

I dunno, bars/movies/dinner seem like pretty much all adults really do besides like working out/sports, which is impossible to get people together for, and isn't that fun.

Open to ideas there too.

>>18193116
My advice? Start taking classes for some kind of martial art (something practical, not kung fu or tae kwon do type shit). It'll help with the fitness, it'll be a useful life skill, and it'll be easy to focus in on. When I first signed up for my gym the guy told me, "Welcome to your new addiction," and it's true. It's really, *really* easy to just up and lose 2 hours on a martial arts lesson, and you can drag that out to an easy 4 hours or a hard-working 6 if you want to take extra time to work on your technique. Plus it'll help with your discipline, which will make the workouts and the restraint from booze easier.

>>18193042
You are overthinking problems. Your only fault was telling girl you love her FIRST. That puts her on strange position. Keep your head cool, keep asking her on dates no matter what and with high chance you will marry later.

Also
>chubby
>>>/fit/ read sticky, count calories and lose 1kg per week. Adopt sport you can do with her to stay healthy, in shape and sexy together (swimming).

>>18193042
Just be yourself. You already have so much in common. Just be confident. This can work if you try and give it your all.

>>18193191
>confident
Is that really all it takes? I'm objectively an ugly person, if both random strangers passing by as well as close friends confiding are to be believed.
Even my own father used to say "you got this, just not by the way you look"

Can physial attraction even be fixed?

>>18193031
She's hot, and people can be legitimately busy. Just wait it out or expect until the semester is done or spring break. If not treat her something close to campus or a coffee place.

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>>18193074
are you intentionally friendzoning yourself?