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>>18193979
Drink and cry at home, mostly

>>18193979
play pool and go to the gym

>>18193992
Almost forgot about the gym. That's a good idea but it's not a very social activity. I'll probably go to the gym but I'd like to socialise too.

when you have to ask questions like this, is an indicator that you already see it to be a potential problem

>>18193910
I think short term you may be able to keep it under control but it's only a matter of time before you spiral out of control and keep making excuses to get high one more time. I usually indulge 1-2 times a year when on vacation or celebration

>>18193952
This

It's a true addiction when it begins to interfere with facets of your life you don't want it to, such as your career, friendships, or family.

Sounds like you already seem like you like it a little too much though. Cut back or quit for sure.

so, what's exactly the problem? you get off to childporn and you want to stop?

>>18193913

Yes. Please help.

Go see a therapist, man.

But whatever you do, don't let society shame you. You were just born with (or developed a problem). You're no better than some sociopath or sadist. you're not some sick, twisted, or evil. As long as you're not actively trying to live out your fantasies IRL, you shouldn't feel ashamed. You know it's wrong and that's enough.

>>18193871

ehh. its a little odd these days, but that sort of thing used to be hella common. my boss calls me 'babe' which used to drive me insane, but hes from a differnet time.

and while your boyfriends friend might be from this time, everyones different. at worst id assume he was trying to 'sisterfy' you. its common when someone starts dating a girl as the friend thinks that treating that girl like a really close friend will mean he doesn't get iced out nearly as much.

>>18193871
You're reading too deep.

>>18193880
Well I've been dating my bf for like 4 years and there's definitely no reason for him to feel like he will be iced out. I just felt like it was really odd for him to say it when he could've just said thanks and that's it

I'm pretty sure mailing weed it still illegal. Regardless of state laws. If you end up getting caught, you'll be fucked big time.

>>18193918
I'm not worried about receiving the mail

It is classified as a 'personal amount' and is totally fine unless you're selling it.

I really doubt if my mail was opened and they find one ounce I'd be taken to court over it.

I'm specifically concerned with the social consequence. I'm not at all worried about legal/criminal consequence.

>>18193869
Selling an ounce on the side is hardly being a dealer, you wont experience any of the social isolation or stigmatization,
>cant make friends with pot smokers
If you are selling that little amount you will be limited to sell to your friends and friends of friends, how are you expecting to find people to buy, put a sign at your door?
Also if it was so easy to get weed from the darknet everybody would do it and people wouldnt need an imbecile like you to be the middle man at a premium price, you will get caught.
If you are caught selling I'm pretty sure its a lot worse than 150 bucks, the decriminalizing laws were made mostly to prevent traficing, wouldnt make sense to just give you a slap on the wrist.

You sound like you have no clue about what you are talking about desu

>>18193814
>crave chips
>take out packet of chips
>open packet of chips
>place three or four chips on a small plate for yourself
>replace the packet of chips in the cupboard
>take your plate of chips to another room and eat them
>don't go back for more
>don't keep the open packet next to you where you can just reach in and eat mindlessly

>>18193814
Force yourself to do twenty jumping jacks or w/e every time you eat a chip.
>>18193821
Also second this.

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Yo, see this pic? this is your reminder of what you will become avoiding shit food, it has worked me wonders for me. Just remember this pic. Everytime the temptation comes, look at this picture.

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>>18193808
Brothers, sisters, I need help
I posted this in the last thread, reposting it now

I consider myself a good man for my gf. Everytime I'm with her and I see her smile, I know she's happy. I hug her, she hugs me, and it truly feels like something...else. Now, long story short, one of her kidneys is failing, and I do not know how to handle the fact that she is extremely sick at this moment

Right now, she is going to get herself some treatment for this shit. But I feel like today will be the last time I ever see her smile again

I need to overcome this paranoia that she wont be alright, any helpfull advice?

some bitch I matched with on tinder the other day just asked if I wanna get Mexican food with her right now, even though its fucking 11pm. Should I? shes like a 7/10 but idk man that seems like a lot of fuckin work right now

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Jesus fucking christ I am so depressed, help me...how do I approach a girl in my class, a somebody who I never really talked to(very small contact during a class)?

I'm so fucking pissed right now, because I know I have a chance with her but I threw it away by not doing anything when she stared and smiled at me the whole class, but what was I supposed to do?
Now I'm afraid she literally threw me out of her list because she believes I'm a spinless faggot.

I thought I would finally get to say hi this time, but she arrived late to class and didn't sit near me, class ended I had to ask stuff to our teacher and then she disappeared...

So how do I fucking do it?
I can't arrange things up, I don't want an awkward situation where I go to meet her like a creepy fuck.
Actually I had an occasion, she was sitting alone in a hall, texting her friends.

But I didn't go for it, because I don't want to come by surprise or that she has this impression I stalked her until she is alone...please tell me I did good.

Ideas :
-Ask a classmate on facebook, who knows her to give me her number.

-Add her on facebook even though she will ask herself why I'm adding her out of the blue and no balls to talk to her.

-Wait until next tuesday, the only time I see her.
Problem is the more time pass and the less turned on she will be...actually I don't think she looked at me once today so I may have already fucked up.

The way I see it, I simply cnan't "just go say hi" without looking awkward or insecure.
Or at least will she think I'm a fag for waiting until she is alone somewhere?


I seriously don't want to pass this class without at least talk to her.

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I'll gladly help you with this though, my skype is fortune.cookie7 feel free to add

oh you are so le wdgy and so le better than le normie

you know what would really shock them?

kys and livestream it to the page.
on second thought, kys is enough already.

>>18193735
That's a different person you fucking retard. This is some faux ass tumblr bullshit. The only thing I can imagine a tattoo would do to a scar is make it more noticable and gross. The tattoo would also come out horrible

>>18193761
I think this.

I don't know much about tattoos, but I've seen tattoo coverup shows and they always bitch about the original tattoo having scarring, cuz it's hard to put new color into the scar, and it's hard to do anything with the scar without just aggravating the scar and making it look worse.

But then idk, I've also seen people who got tattoos over their mastectomy scars and those turned out fine

>>18193761
Wow, two different people, really? I've never seen two people with completely identical freckles, fucking retard.

nofap? its a subreddit

>>18193628
Tough hell you're in my friend.
You need to read all the articles and texts from the various nofap boards and subreddits.
You don't want to cheat or hurt your partner. You're being brainwashed to think this by porn and masturbation. It is real, you must resist.

Admit the truth in your thoughts, accept that you've in a bad situation and you will do anything to fix it.
Remove any easy access to porn you have. So any bookmarks or apps or content.
Try to masturbate only to your partner, it's fine if there is some residual ideas included. But you must not look at porn.
Tell your partner you have an addiction to porn and you want their help. You don't have to tell them what type of porn.
This will take time and you may slide back many times, you will keep trying until you succeed.
This is a big task, you're rewriting your brain to fix the brainwashing.

Goodluck anon

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>>18193731
>>18194513
Please just leave us alone.

>>18193616
>watches a lot of movies
>boring
how did this happen? normalfags enjoy movies anon, unlike vidya gaymes.

>>18193632
He probably watches vapid normie trash not kino

>>18193632
Consuming movies doesn't help one to be less boring if one can't use the information for an interesting conversation. And most conversations about consuming media aren't interesting for long.

>>18193616
Get more hobbies? Which doesn't matter, whatever strikes you as fancy works. The more you do, the more you offer and the less boring you become.

Nah you're not autistic, I'm the same as you. I made out with some girl at a party, there was a cardboard Trump on the wall and she ripped it down and stomped on it. I said I didn't agree with that and it wasn't her property and she stopped talking to me. I really don't want to believe it but most girls act like children

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>>18193610

>Maybe I'm just autistic?

Yes, no one wants to be around someone who thinks that everyone who disagrees with them are stupid. You can call it "being honest" or "calling it out" but the truth is you're just a bit of a cunt with a superiority complex and no one likes it.

You're obviously not that smart or this wouldn't be so perplexing to you.

>>18193621

>I really don't want to believe it but most girls act like children

>>>/r9k/

Back to your containment board, kiddo.

What do you expect to achieve by letting him know this? Do you think it can be fixed?

If yes, walk him through the steps, and act hornier as a reward to him. If not, just break up.

>>18193579
I think he believes it's a hormone/depression problem, which it isn't. I don't want to be deceptive about it. I'd rather put it out on the table sooner, rather than later. Half of me wants to break up and half of me doesn't. I guess I feel nervous bringing up the issue.

>>18193567
Is it him you aren't attracted to or is it the bad hygiene?

Not attacking you, but it says something about you if you actually got this far with someone like this. Did it get worse as you were with him or what? Why did you let it persist to the point where it affects your relationship?

A bonus story for your entertainment: this girl eats mac and cheese every single day for dinner. I'm not shitting you. Every fucking night, it's mac and cheese. The sound of pasta hitting boiling water is enough to break me out into hives. She reuses the pot daily without cleaning it. It has a film on it and has somehow become a triangle shape. "It's only starch and water, so it's fine."
Ah... I-Is that so...?

Contaminate their food with something rancid and make them get food poisoning and say "I fucking told you so"
Or wipe rabbit shit on the inside of their pillow case so they get pink eye.

I bet if they have physical consequences that show how disgusting they are then it might change. Or embarassing them to people they know irl. Or move.

>>18193550
That's disgusting as fuck.

Leave them. What the fuck is wrong with you?

>>18193507

weird? yes. but what most girls dont realize is just how weird it is for every guy who has ever approached them. you see it from the other side, which is if you find them attractive then it just doesn't feel AS awkward, or its the 'good' awkward.

id say go for it. maybe throw in a few lines before 'ithink you're cute' but even if this doesn't pan out and you guys arent compatible hes going to enjoy the experience and so will you probably.

Try talking to him more. If he is not autistic he will pick up on the fact that you are interested. By doing this you can gauge his interest as well. Make it easy for him to ask you out, walk with him after class ect.
Also, do you have his number?

>>18193507
>Would it be weird if I just walked up to him and said "I think you're cute, here's my number. We should go out sometime"?
Yes, because HE is supposed to be the one that asks you that

Talk to him. If you see anything that raises a red flag in his personality, instantly drop him