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Might as well block.

>>18201714
Have you tried being indifferent and ignoring him until he goes away by himself?

I want to say you might as well block him, but it could send a strong rejection signal that potentially made him go into you HARDER than you possibily wanted it to be.

>>18201836
I have ignored but he tags multiple friends at a time

kill them all

You gotta let out a release for the anger or you'll end up like this dude

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z8A85cl5w3s

Unlike most folks, my girlfriend and I only seem to get madder and more irrational when we "just let it out". An expression of anger like ranting or screaming does nothing positive as it only reminds us of why we're angry and makes us feel worse about it. I would suggest discussing how you feel with a close friend or perhaps on a Korean showtunes discussion board. Know why you're angry and see if you can change that.

>>18201695
look for other girl more eager to these kind of things

>>18201695
>all this freaky shit with random guys in the past
If you want to do freaky shit with her it'd help if you were a random guy in her past. Some girls are too weak mentally to risk embarrassment with a committed partner, so they'll keep it vanilla, but then once they're single they'll take risks with randos they'll never see again.

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>>18201695
She rode the cock carousel but now want to settle down with a """nice guy""" aka a beta bitch boy aka you.

>>18201602
Uh, why did she want you to get drunk?

>>18201602

how the fuck did you not taste it?

I don't think it's a big deal honestly. She spiked your alcohol with more alcohol. You were already ingesting it.

Obviously she shouldn't do it again if you didn't like it, but you've told her off now and that can be that.

Well there probably are enough hours, but it's not feasible. If you'd have a perfect schedule it would occupy all your time, you'd have absolutely no free time for yourself other than maybe a few hours in the weekends.

But the biggest problem is that you can't really combine the schedules properly. No matter how flexible they are work hours will overlap classes at some point. When you do both you'll probably have to miss a lot of hours from either your job or, more likely your classes, which will impact your study negatively.

Yes, stressing you out that much is unhealthy, especially if you don't particularly enjoy your work and study. Find an alternative, there has to be one.

>>18201585
I suppose its unrealistic to do it full time.

The alternative is PT with night classes or doing it online. The length of it is annoying but I suppose its unavoidable

>>18201576
I do full time job and full time school also I live in my own and have a pet rabbit and I'm 23 y/o. I still have time for fun but usually only on weekends. You can do it, but it gives you sleepy marks under your eyes

>>18201575
Why not

Many men carry a condom in their wallet at all times. Lube not so much.

>>18201579
Uh, i just wondered.

Im 18, never really dated before and finally decided its time for me to get out there.

Not lube, should the girl be wet enough naturally ?

>>18201543
Look you just gotta think, most people would envy your situation

>>18201548
Yeah but I don't know how to stop having these thoughts

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>>18201543

Not worth it man. You'll find out that sex without love is really kind of empty. Why do you think all these crazy sorority girls have to guzzle cheap booze all night before going to the club to find dick? Because if they were sober they would realize that Chad Thundercock will probably flop on her for 5 seconds and then pass out.

When I'm with my girl I fuck her hard for hours, I love making her cum. I couldn't do that after a night of heavy drinking.

Keep sex fun and intimate. The idea of you "missing out" is not yours. It's been injected in your head by marketers who want you to CONSUME. Form your own ideas, don't be a fucking sheep.

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This is the time to lift weights! Find a decent routine, hit the gym, count calories (IIFYM), go swole and she'll crave you like a motherfucker.

Everyone wins.

Genuinely leave her alone and go and do something you really, really enjoy. I guarantee it'll drive her nuts and she will calm down and want to be around you again.

You're giving into her attempt at playing the victim and giving her attention, which is what she wants (despite making out she doesn't want you to speak to her).

>>18201500
If she doesn't want to talk, just let her know you're there if she needs you, and leave her the fuck alone.

You're being a clingy bitch and making this all about you.

>>18201457
> we've been dating for quite a while.

No you haven't.

>He already considers me the most attractive woman he's ever seen

No, he doesn't.

>what can I do to make myself so attractive and tempting that he can't resist doing stuff with me?

Nothing.

Enjoy your shitty pretend relationship.

>>18201457
Just get him to your room and suck his dick.

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>>18201485
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>>18201405
Life on uni can be very fun. Just make sure you chat some dudes there and stick with them to gain social gains.

And remember, you sort of fucked your life, only you yourself can unfuck it.

I just finished law school. One of my friends from law school is literally old enough to be my mother. Of course being 32 when you finish isn't going to be a hindrance.

Same boat as you op

had close to no life before I turned 27 years old, low wave slave jobs, no skill to speak of, not a big social life

went for a master degree, will be finished when I'm 32, I'm 30 currently, only done with bachelor

I used to think this would be pure suffering but I enjoyed studying and learning the skills I needed for my dream career, and being surrounded by kids was fun in its own way, I tried to keep a positive outlook on things and to not focus on the feeling of alienation

Can't say my love life improved, but that's largely because I focused on studying a lot.

Overall now that I'm close to the end of it I feel a strong feeling of exhilaration and I can't wait to start my new life. I started gaining confidence in myself, taking care of myself better, and I'm starting to look into dating again.

Overall my advice is to not focus on your age or how old you feel. You're 30 years old, you're barely out of your teen years by society's standards nowadays. Just accept the fact that you'll be a bit older than the average at your job positions and focus on being good at what you do and good with yourself. There's no point in beating yourself over the head with your past mistakes or hesitations, focus on whats ahead of you.

You might feel like your best years are behind you but that's basically bullshit sold to you by marketers that aim for teenagers and young adults. You'll see that it only gets better from now on if you take things positively and work on yourself.

Good luck and don't give up, we're all gonna make it.

>>18201384
just kill the little fucker

>>18201384
When you are retarded, you mostly lack the skill to decide what is good for you and what is not. Like a stupid child.

You help these people by basically becoming their parent. Are you willing to do so? Or you can always just watch them drowing in more and more misery and self destruction.

Also, is he black?
>>>/pol/

>>18201452
I was thinking more to get him help from someone else. Obviously getting a diagnosis or evaluation might help him getting a legal guardian and living assistance, but I have no idea how to go about achieving it. He doesn't want help because he doesn't believe he needs it.

He is white.

>>18201373
Become curious

>>18201373
Sincerely, you just have to put yourself out there. Friends, interests, hobbies.... all of them just kind of... happen. Try getting out more and doing stuff. It'll help. If you're feeling really bad and want someone to talk to, I'd be down to talk to you if you'd like. Promise, you'll find fulfillment in something

>>18201373
Start by asking your parents to help you get daily routine and job.

After few months if your situation wont improve by having firm daily routine and job, ask us again on how ro proceed.

Godspeed NEET!

Yes, just let it go, man. If you liked one girl, you can like another.

This whole post is so fucking beta. Let her find a real man.

>>18201281
Better, you should BLOCK HER and FORGET HER.

Adopt some sport. Use exhaustion as weapon against sadness and improve your body / health.

>or should i trust her?
You act like us telling you to trust her will solve all your insecurities lol

obviously you dont trust her if you're doubting things. So fucking dump her, sounds like a sticky situation waiting to happen anyways

Where there's smoke there's fire, literally every single time.

>>18201044

assuming you go to get the same education as everyone else, yeah, its fine.

actually knowing how to animate in america isn't really necessary anymore though, most shows just happen to get made by people who went to animation school simply because thats where the passion is, but a lot of writers who can't make it in live action often find themselves doing animated stuff as well. as of late animation is become more of an 'artists' sort of thing so they do tend to hire more legit animation majors.

depends what you want to do ultimately. animation training is the best way regardless, but certainly not necessary. in america no animation actually gets done though, we tend to do the storyboards and maybe the 'key frames' but the actual animation is all done overseas unless its 3D (and even thats going to change soon im sure).

honest truth here: you will have better success creating animated shorts on your own than you will going into the field of animation. theres like less than a thousand animation jobs in american TV. and most of them will allow for no actual animating. the best position would be a writer or storyboarder, everything else is just kinda like... drawing props or redrafting.

depends what oyu REALLY want out of the process.

source: animated web series.

>>18201069

Thanks, both for the encouragment and the warning.

I think I'll go back to school and puruse art, maybe for a commercial job as the end goal but to further my skills for animation. I can always fall back to fixing shit if I fail.

>>18201076

if thats the case, my advice would be to invest first in some basic animation software and hardware, and try to create an animated short.

most of the basics of animation can be easily self taught / looked up online. im not saying create anything rmeotely in quality to what oyu see on TV.

but more like a 90s anime or 80s american cartoon, something thats mostly stills with lip movements, a little motion here and there but nothing on going.

its a good way to train your self, realize what part of production you actually like, and most importantly, whether or not you want to sink money into an animation degree.