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/adv/, how do I get qt white gf?
I'm depressed, suicidal and lack self confidence but I make up for it by being black and having a big dick. I'm mainly depressed because everyone oppresses me because I'm black.
I'm not LARPing. I need a gf, but mainly what ostracizes me from girls are my views, I'm a communist and often say something about it.
Pic related, it me.
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Hey it's the same image but the exact opposite problems the last guy was facing! This one is straight and has a big dick... oh wait it's the same fucking communist retard.
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>>18203793
Communism is stupid.
Imagine you have a million quarters in a pile
You have 300,000 people who are told to take just 3 quarters.
Do you trust every last one of them to take just three?
Who would notice if someone took four?
Or five?
Someone will always take more than they should.
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>>18203793
GO AWAY YOU PSYCO
Hey can I ask what you think went wrong with this tinder convo?
It started out really positive and changed so fast. Will be about 4 screens
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>>18203778
Here here profile said she studied history and theology
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>>18203784
The next couple are just arranging
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>>18203787
Ok now here is clearly where things start to go wrong, but she seems like she's kind of drawn to the idea too
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How do I talk to women? When ever I talk to a girl I just met, I run out of things to ask/say/talk about. Is their some sort of formula to this or what?
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Can you talk to guys? If you can talk to guys, you should be able to talk to girls
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If you run out of things to say you're probably just a boring person.
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>>18203777
I really am. I only like collecting milsurp, working out, firearms, drinking, pot, and geeky shit.
>>18203775
Yes and no. Some guys I click with, others think im weird.
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I'm going through a really weird couple of days here, following a really weird couple of years, and I really just don't know whether I am in the wrong, or whether this other person is just manipulating me to think I am.
Around three years ago, I met this girl on 4chan. I know it sounds bad, but I was going through some awful stuff in my real life, as was she, and we really bonded over a few months and became really close. We had a sort-of internet relationship but I was too poor to actually ever visit, and she was too, so it wasn't really anything official. She told me she'd love me forever no matter what, and that she'd wait and stuff, which was all cool. We kind of made it an official thing for a few months but broke up with basically a promise of getting back together when we were in better life situations.
Anyway, around a year ago she sort of straight-up ditched any idea of that completely out of nowhere, instead going after some random guy she just met. This pretty much just broke my heart, but they too eventually broke up without ever meeting in real life, and we started talking again.
Eventually she started asking me if I'd still want to go visit in real life and do some things together, and I was seriously considering it. She wanted me to pay for the flight or whatever but I had a free one and didn't care.
Then a few days ago before I could actually consider doing it, she revealed that she outright bought a plane ticket for a guy to go visit her, and I just blocked her on the spot for basically manipulating me for a long time.
Then she turned around and shit talked me on her social media for "tricking and manipulating" HER.
Should I feel bad or is she just an awful person that I should forget? I don't think anyone else will ever even pretend to care about me, gonna be honest.
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>>18203758
>interpret years of social interaction and make judgements on context you don't know about to understand a person you've barely been told anything about.
I think I'll pass.
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>>18203758
Hope you never meet someone like that. Seriously, she sounds pretty crazy, and even if it did work out it probably would have ended horribly if that was her response for not deigning to meet a stranger on the internet AFTER a breakup :T
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I don't mean to be rude here, but are you an idiot? Why the hell would you trust a person's love, especially on 4chan? And if that wasn't enough, you didn't let her go after she went with someone else. I'm not saying that relationships are bad, and I'm not saying that internet relationships are bad (mostly though, they are), but if she says she loves you, then goes with someone else, that is a huge red flag. Even if she was faithful to you, the confessing her love to you was a red flag.
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Hello /adv/,
I am looking to rent an appartment with my girlfriend.
Here is the rundown:
>I just finished school and started a new job making 17$/h for 40hrs a week
>She makes 13$/h for 30hrs a week
>The rent costs 780$/month
I always paid my credit card but I have a student loan of 5k but I always paid interest in full, was struggling going to school and working part time to feed myself and pay tuition so I couldn't pay my loan correctly.
We just signed a consentement letter thats letting the person do a credit check on me.
What are the chances that I am refused?
Me and gf co-signed.
Thanks
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It's REALLY unlikely you won't get it bro :T
Some people keep student loans for friggin' decades. My PARENTS have some student loans.
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>>18203844
That's quite a relief
I'm losing my mind.
Every night, every single fucking night I have a dream about my ex, sometimes several times in one night.
In the dream i'm happy, then I wake up alone and it just kills me.
I've tried everything.
not sleeping for a few days
a cornucopia of different sleeping pills
lucid dreaming
Nothing, NOTHING stops it.
What the fuck do I do? I am borderline suicidal at this point.
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>>18203733
Go out and live you colossal retard. Sitting alone feeling pity for yourself won't help you. Go spend time with friends, start a new hobby, just do shit to occupy your mind.
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>>18203733
Please explain your previous relation ship with your ex, and the reason you broke up with her. That way, I'll gladly help you out
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>>18203736
Excuse me? When did I say I didn't do those things?
I'm in three bands, and meet up with friends twice a week minimum. I'm asking how I can do those things without being so tired and stressed.
>worked up courage to ask out
>"nope"
How do you cope with denial?
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>>18203731
What do you mean?>>18203731
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Ask someone else, get denied again, Ask another person, get denied again. After a while the pain just goes away and you get more and more confident with it. There's millions more people out there, chin up.
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>>18203731
Cope? What are you coping with? You're no worse off than you were earlier. You've lost nothing. You will try again because you have nothing to lose, and plenty to gain.
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I'm thinking about creating a Bumble account, tomorrow.
Any tips for making a profile, or is it basically the same kind of setup as Tinder?
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>>18203723
Don't make an account. You'll meet better and more willing people on Ashley Madison.
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>>18203723
>not available in windows phone
into the trash it goes
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>>18205188
If they had just stuck with getting Android apps to run on Windows phone, you wouldn't have this issue.
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How come people can tell if I'm a 'psychopath' by my typing style?
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>>18203700
They can't. You aren't.
Thanks for stopping by.
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>>18203703
They can alright
I'm just looking for a psychological explanation, also this
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>>18203700
>>18203710
Seriously? You get worked over by a single keyboard psychologist and now you're worried? Fuck off.
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Hello /adv/.
I didn't realize it until I was in college, but I had a very atypical upbringing. Are there any books I can read or things I can watch that describe "normal" families and "normal" childhoods?
I'm looking for basic, basic stuff. Stuff like "what is a mom" and "what is a dad", or "what was primary school like"? Things that normal people totally take for granted and don't even think about.
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Psycholohy 101 textbook.
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I must have gotten the wrong text book, but I'll check out some others.
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>>18203663
There's no such thing as normal
Everyone has their own version
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Do girls like farts or burps more?
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Was I in the wrong here. I was in the car with my girlfriend, and I was talking to her. She offered me water, and I said no thank you, not taking the hint. She told me my breath smelled really bad. Fair enough, I'm sick, my breath probably smells pretty bad. But she always criticizes something about me. I have dry skin, I need to exfoliate. I have a blackhead I need to get, I have acne that needs to be tended to. I have hair that needs to be tweezed. I'm breathing too loud. I'm chewing too quickly. It's always fucking something. So I got irritated, because she always criticizes me. I've asked her to stop commenting on my physical appearance and things like my breath. She never stops. So instead of asking her for the millionth time to quit picking me apart, i just got quiet and looked away. Then she gets mad at me for being upset. Even when I calmly explain what is bothering me, she gets angry at me for being upset, like me having feelings about the way she treats me/talks to me is wrong. She always does this. Am I in the wrong?
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>>18203860
If your fathers didn't complain about your bad habits in the past, then something is wrong in here. Take care of your damn body, you irresponsible prick
Apologize to her
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any advice?
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what kind of coffee?
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>>18203658
Maxwell House probably saved my life desu.
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>>18203645
If you read Camus you'd know the answer
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How to find a qt3.14 gf 2017-04-09 12:36:39 Post No.18203620
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>be me, mid-20s guy in good paying STEM career, live alone
>had previous relationships, been lonely over 6 months now.
>spend most (20+hrs/week) of my time with pic related at coffee shops and tournaments
>5'9" 170lbs don't look overweight, good hair, good hygiene, presentable clothes, I think I look nice
>have friends only related towards pic related hobby
>I have a physical exercise hobby but it's a solo thing not at the gym
I don't know how to meet nice women. Got on OKC, got on POF. Met a girl on POF but she was legit crazy seeing a therapist. Most women are fake bisexual online, sexual degenerates, wannabe artists without realistic ambitions, few are like me.
I think I need some /adv/ice on how to accelerate the dating process, I want to find smart scifi/anime/tech/reddit/similar girls.
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>It's a chess picture for the OP
Fine, you have my attention
>I want to find smart scifi/anime/tech/reddit/similar girls
The library
The local tech-plaza
A local drawing school (I guess you could call it that way)
E3
Hang around those places and make your pick
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>>18203620
>5'9 170 lbs
you should start putting a little more effort into that hobby of yours
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>>18204652
Seems fat yea but could be built more like a bear and just be stocky. If he has moobs and a gut than I agree with you
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We dated for 4 months. I'd rather not get into the details of our relationship, but I wasn't feeling it. I didn't want to drag it out and hurt her worse than I did today.
I broke her heart and I saw it in her eyes. I feel absolutely terrible but my conscience was telling me that I could not give her the relationship she wanted. Our emotional (and physical) expectations were too different.
I dunno. I just feel terrible and don't know what to do with myself for the rest of the day.
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Why did you break up?
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>>18203623
We just weren't compatible, among other things. We were two different personalities and had different expectations.
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>>18203615
You're withholding too much info to give advice
Next!
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/adv/
My gf and I have been trying to get jobs lately, she trying harder then I. Last week we both applied to a water park, and today I got a call to book an interview, and now she's mad/moody/jealous that I got one before her. Is there still time for them to call her? They called maybe 2ish hours ago. Also, what can I do to calm her down?
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>women
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Don't bother, its not your fault and she will get over it.
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>>18203590
Tell her to keep practicing, and maybe one day she'll be as good as you at landing jobs.