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>>18208396
Sounds like nothimwg to really worry about op. But she might just wanted to feel like someone still wanted her. Has she got a bf

>>18208561
Nah, she's never had a bf. I fell for her when she was pure I was too pussy to make a move... So chad stepped in and ducked her up and she's been on a slippery slope.

If i had a chance of sleeping with her i wouldn't even though a bit of me will always like her like that.

Sounds like she's not currently exclusive at all. You might be a sidebitch to her currently, but so long as you go in accepting that there's no reason you shouldn't give her a try.

You've got a good chance, go for it.

>>18208378
Okay, what the fuck.
She's probably cheating on you, yeah. You think that facetime is enough for her? Probably not.

>>18208378
You want to know, so your options are to wonder or to ask her. You don't want to ask her because you don't like the answer, it sounds like.

If you go ,and ask her ,will you regret going if she's been banging dudes while you weren't exclusive?

>>18208365
Why do you feel ashamed?

I suppose you could get some software that you can use to block select websites, like StayFocused on Chrome, put porn sites on them, and just try to wait it out. Of course, you would still have to practice discipline to keep from simply uninstalling the software, but it may help you with the impulsive component of the temptation.

But this doesn't get at the root cause. If the idea of watching another man fuck your women gets you hard, I don't think there's really anything you can do about it. And again, why would you want to? It's a kink, and an extremely common one at that. Who gives a shit?

>>18208417
because it's degenerate and disgusting

Your shame is keeping your fetish alive. Don't be ashamed of it and instead embrace it. Eventually you will find a new thing, or just get borred of cuckold porn.

It's your choice and your life, although you may find it hard to find someone. It's totally within your rights to want a virgin, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.

Provided you're not being rude to non virgins you're not hurting anyone.

You can expect whatever you want. However you need to ask yourself whether your expectations are realistic and whether you'd be a hypocrite for refusing to settle.

Then again, it's not like someone is really missing out on anything by not dating you.

I've had similar feelings OP. I don't necessarily feel that way anymore, but I'm at a point where I might be getting back together with my ex, but I'm teetering on brushing the whole thing off because she's been with other people while we were seperated. Even though we have 6 years of history, I feel like it's just not worth it for some odd reason.

I feel like alot of my self esteem was tied up in me being the only man she's been with... and now I'm sort of really turned off mentally. I almost have disdain for her throwing away what we had.

I wonder too myself if I've done the wrong thing.

>>18208316
That sucks OP.

1. Don't watch previews/trailers
2. Turn off search suggestions.

I don't disable search suggestions for this purpose—I do so because I don't want fucking google thinking for me—but it achieves a secondary goal, which happens to be your primary concern.

Also, if your pic related is the sole spoiler, at least you don't know when he (she?) will die. It could be many seasons away.

Its okay, it was a shit show going for a 2deep4u twist that had no point and no meaning, nothing of value was lost

Don't look shit up then.

If you're coming to an advice board to ask about how to avoid spoilers you need to get your shit together.

You have to be 18 to post on this website

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>>18208233
There's obviously a part of you that doesn't want to continue living like this.

My advice would be to vent everything out - every thought, every feeling, everything that's ever gone wrong - until there's nothing left to say. Then look over what you've said.

This can be overcome, but it will take a concerted effort.

>>18208253
I'm 27

>>18208190
You just know

Be honest. You'll need some friends in the area. If you're not pretending to be her friend, then it won't be your fault if she thinks otherwise.

>>18208190
i dont see why not.

(meanwhile i'm also stressing about infinite jest because I finally bought a copy and I'm very early on into it and i've wanted to read it for years but I'm already putting it off cos I'm too stupid/rushing too much to understand what's going on in the current chapter and feel it'll take me months to finish if I act like that + no time to cos of everything else)

I started dreaming that me and this very laddish close friend person I don't even have in real life started getting tracked down by essentially slenderman. this thin figure would appear, point in another direction, then this other hooded figure would appear right in front of us with a red line smiling mouth and then something horrible would happen, can't remember what now

at some point we started thinking the solution was we had to physically cut away at their spiritual presence whilst starving them of attention so we went to the bathroom and started chopping away at ourselves, mostly our fingers and it seemed to work, they suddenly disappeared

but it didn't matter because somehow these things framed us for some horrific murders, suddenly the other friend dude was gone, so I had to go explain to my family I was probably gonna get arrested for shit they don't understand, broke down crying in front of them, and then suddenly this creature appeared again, I ran outside, it was raining down heavily, a bunch of cop cars were there to arrest us (the friend was suddenly back)

but then I got back into talking with one of the cops, he explained this was all an elaborate set piece, me and the friend sat down and started thinking things through. and then we realized all those figures we saw were literally blow-up dolls put up by other mates as a reference joke to some video game urban myth that looked oddly similar to minecraft. we got really high, started joking about imagining if it was real, then I guess we started taking it seriously and yeah started perceiving this joke as something way more sinister

I'm awake now and yeah fucking hell that dream was intensely scary and I'm feeling very chill now. I'm just sitting here passively watching music production tutorials thinking about how fucked that dream was and how glad I am it wasn't real. My subconscious can get utterly bonkers lol, I think it's just tryna tell me I need to relax, I can solve most of these problems myself quite easily, and the (ex) ones I can't do a thing about can be solved by just not worrying about it so much.

also I think from reading back these messages I'm seeing maybe I have some deeper issues than I thought I did, just recovered from on and off periods of depression from the last 2 years and I've been feeling very happy these last few months, but I guess I gt more worried about little things than I want to let on.

What'd you lads think is wrong? Anxiety?

Jesus Christ at least give us a tldr

I'm not reading all that bullshit.

>>18208104
This tells me one big thing: you have never been to a gynecologist. Because if you had, and you were in fact "missing" a clit, they would have told you. Because that shit is very obvious.

So whether you don't have one, or yours is just busted, GO TO A GYNECOLOGIST. If you're old enough to be having sex, you should be going to the OBGYN at least once a year for a checkup.

>>18208108
Yeah, I've been to a gynecologist many times. The OP was a joke.

Could it have anything to do with the fact that I have been masturbating since I was 3? Is my clit dead?

>>18208104
op, sometimes i worry the same thing about myself.

Get yourself out there. Don't be afraid of rejection. Dress up and go places. Even if it's just the gas station

>>18208057
How will that help me? No one ever meets anyone like that.

Same question, San Antonio, Texas

>>18208057
I don't understand.

Not to mention you don't know how to ask for advice on an advice board.

>>18207921
I'm guessing you meant to post this on /fit/

Damn man those see-through tights drive me CRAZY.

It's too bad about your debilitation self esteem issues

>>18207932
I dont know if we're suppose to ignore them.

I just want to tear them down and fuck that thicc ass right there in the middle of the gym.

That just means you're an alcoholic "every other day"

>>18207820
Just don't exceed the daily recommended units if possible bro unless on the sesh Evey once in a while

Took me under 2 years to go from never having drank to doing about 10 ounces of liquor a day plus beers.

>>18207773
Uhh, that's to general. What kind of videos can you make? What kind of equipment do you have for capturing video?

>>18207773

dont do it if you dont have any reason to actualyl do it.

Why the fuck are you starting it if you have no idea what to do?

Ask her out. You either ask her and know, or you don't and don't know.
If you are too subtle she won't get that you want to date her. Ask her on a date, and be prepared for rejection. If she's as good as you think her rejection won't be mean, and if you don't make a thing out of it it won't be weird.
If she says yes that's awesome.

Do it, dude. Don't wait around wondering.

>>18207780
How should i do it just outright?

>>18207735

So you just met her an assume shes perfect because you're attracted to her? She could be all kinds of crazy. Don't assume you know everything about a stranger. Think with your mind, not your hormones.

>>18207511
It sounds like she isn't interested at all, and you are grasping where nothing exists.

Your next move should be to hit on as many girls as possible, and learn from the experience.
I get that you like this hot girl, but nothing you read on the internet will make her more interested in you

>>18207546
Let me just fill in some info. I've caught her checking me out a couple times at parties and at school and Ive also noticed she's come pretty close to me at times like when playing bp. Not asking for a secret formula just wondering what y'all would do in my shoes.

>>18207581
Mate, I'm in college and I've been to countless frat parties

Girls scope out every guy they see at these types of events, just like you probably look at every girl there.

Her standing close to you has more to do with alcohol and being in a social setting. All it signals is that she isn't repulsed by you.

Now it sounds like you haven't really made any moves, you might not even be on her radar. The thing to do is just talk to her casually at the next time you see her. Demonstrate that you're a chill, normal dude. Then try to make her laugh, and go from there.

However, my main advice is this. Don't get caught up on one girl. There are tons of chicks out there, some are hotter than others, some are more fun than others, my point is this: just talk to them. As many of them as you can. Then, you'll know where you stand, and you'll know plenty of people.