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>>18210665
go to a doctor, seriously

>>18210665
1. That's a fucking scratch
2. What the fuck did you do?

That looks like some sort of concrete skid mark. I used to get those every once and a while as a kid. It's hard to tell how big it is from the picture but my guess is that wash / bandage should be enough. The antiseptic didn't make it worse, probably just stung really bad. If you're bleeding all over the place then I'd suggest a doctor, but from the pic you posted you sound like a big baby

>>18210660
Red flag anon. Shes gonna leave you and not care.

But seriously have you tried asking her about it?

>>18210666
Yeah but she just says thats how she is and doesnt want to push the conversation further, which is fine I dont want to force her to talk about if she doesnt want to.

>>18210673
I got a word for her, she's a cunt.

Saying that's just how she is with those behaviors just strike as a selfish person who only know and wants to take and take, never giving anything even a damn to others. Truly a cunt.

Stay away from her.

What's your question again?

Learn to handle loneliness, it's a useful skill. I haven't spoken to friends or had any meaningful social contact besides family and store workers in over 8 months and I am not dead yet.

I know how you feel. What you can do is interact with people on here, or maybe read or play video games.

>>18210695
Problem is I did handle loneliness throughout my twenties. After college I moved out and got over my social anxiety and dated a bunch of girls while hanging out with a circle of friends for a few years.
Now I'm relapsing into loneliness and I'm not ready for it. I'm losing mental fortitude with each passing day when I should be more active in hobbies and opportunities; all I want is a social function or date to look forward to. It's this feeling of being powerless, like an ostracized criminal in prison.

OK then do it, buy a shotgun and blow your brains out.

If you live in an unfree country that doesn't trust its citizens to own guns then buy some rope and hang yourself from a tree.

>>18210628
You don't want to. If you did you'd be dead.

You want help to not feel bad, that's why you came to an advice board.so go get real help. Get in therapy. Talk to a friend. See a doctor about your condition.

You are right that i want help but in my country there are not real therapists.i try talk to.a friend but they laught in my face ... And about the shotgun ,i am too big pussy to do it. All those fucking feeling are eating me inside and the anger is so strong.

>>18210512
Are you sure it's the right guy? You really should keep your nose out of something you don't know anything about, especially if you've never seen or met the guy.

>>18210512
You sure you got the right guy? I dunno if she knows or not about the man, but if she decided to marry him she'll at least know what's she's getting into. It's best to not stick your nose where it doesn't belong.

>>18210532
>>18210520
Yeah he's got a weird middle name and one of those odd faces that's very distinctive, lives in the same town, and so forth. I'm not gonna say anything-- I wouldn't quite say I feel creeped out by proxy but it's definitely an odd situation.

She's foreign born and also kinda childish in a lot of ways so I think she's capable of being taken advantage of. She's going to depend on him for a lot, she doesn't even drive and he lives out of the city.

Her friends say he's weird. I just hope it works out. By which I mean I hope she breaks up with him and either gets back with her first boyfriend (they were REALLY close) or finds someone else entirely, because I can't see it ending to well.

>>18210496
you can cope with being a woman by finding a strong man to help guide you and have a network of other women-who-are-comfortable-being-women to support your emotional nature. it's hard to find sometimes, but you might want to try going to church, even if you aren't religious. you can find great social groups there that follow a more traditional path.

>>18210496
You find someone similar?

>>18210503
And if, like in my case, I am not a woman?

>>18210409
No. If your stupid, don't speak much. Carefully plan the times when you speak so that you always say something important. If you are not 100% sure on something, don't say it. If you know someone is smart, act kindly to them and put a lot of faith and trust in them.

Be cool

>>18210417
And I think I should find a new group of people, because those who know me will still treat me like an idiot.

You've given zero details. With that description, yes. Of you mean moving to a new city or quitting your job or changing your personality, yes.

All that shit would be weird, and you can be sure your friend wouldn't do the same for you.

>>18210387
>Would it be weird for someone to pretty much change their life. Just to be close to a friend?
No, and more people should. Friendship is the best thing in the world, and too many people nowadays are willing to abandon their friends for a new job or a significant other. It's one thing western society is really bad about.

>>18210414
Yes but, a long period of time away for two friends can strengthen the friendship, and make the quality of time they spend together more meaningful

Try it. You may like it or not, it can end in many ways, but experience makes wisdom.

I'm a wizard. I've been asking women out and getting rejected a lot.

If you think this woman likes you, why not ask her out?

>>18210345
Why OP? Your literally so close to gaining the ability to cast low level enchantments (think enchanting sapphire jewelry in runescape), why would you throw that all away?

>>18210266
Did kung fu for 5 years, currently doing muay thai for 2 years. Tried judo, bjj and gymnastics

>>18210266
Wollow in self pity. Drinking, porn, pretty much it

>>18210271
Are you fit?
>>18210273
What porn do you watch?

>>18210265
no. and it's overrun by people who just see screencaps and then come over like me.

4chan is reddit, reddit is 9gag/ifunny/facebook. idk what the new 4chan is but it's probably some dark web shit i don't know how to use. it's like online gentrification.

Fringechan was pretty good but it got shut down because satanists overruned it.

>>18210211

>I have seen and met a couple single 30 year old females and the lot of them seem strangely unstable.

>What should I do?

I think that a 26 year old guy who has never kissed a girl and frequents /pol/ is one of the least capable people of judging how unstable someone is, especially women. You've never had a relationship. You know nothing about women, so it perplexes me how exactly you are at all knowledgeable about the instability of 30 year old women. Of course, there is the/pol/ meme about how women over 30 are emotionally damaged gold diggers but that is just as bullshit as the rest of their rhetoric Lets also not forget you are a 26 year old KHV; you're not exactly a catch yourself, brudder. Glass houses and all, huh?

My opinion is that you're terrified and critical of all these things you've never done before. You've never had a girlfriend, you've never been in a relationship, you've never had sex, you've never had a conversation about children so HOW do you think you possibly have enough information to judge how bad or good of an idea it is? Seriously dude, stop reading all these /pol/ and /r9k/ memes about the scourge of women and find this shit out on your own because at this point you, inherently, have no idea what you're talking about.

Get into a relationship with a woman. A good relationship. THEN form an opinion about children. Being freaked out about doing something you've never even been close to experiencing seems counter productive to the greater mission here.

>>18210222

I understand where you are coming from but I feel like I don't need to experience something to know if it sucks or not.

I have never hit my dick with a hammer but I know I would not like it.

Starting a family and having a baby and shit is just.. aids-esque? I feel it is something I should WANT but I feel rather obligated to have one. or so.

Don't have kids to pass your mental illness to.

You dont sound like you are 'completely in love' with him. Take as an adventure, maybe it will fail.and you may joke about it in the future. Maybe tou will find you like each other. Who knows, if you.both are willing, try. Its better to regret something than to regret not having done that something (unless its a murder)

>>18210192
Kinda sounds like you're gay OP

>>18210346
That's kinda what I thought as well. As I said we talked a lot about it and we came to the conclusion that we'll just see what happens once he's here, no promises, we'll just see.
>>18210354
I'm not sure, I'd still fuck a woman honestly.

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>>18210185
Sure, darling

>>18210195
w-why.....!?

>>18210205
Why? Don't ask why. Just receive it with open arms... And a pickup truck.

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She should GAIN not lose weight. Become he feeder and a chubby-chaser. My wife was 100 pounds when we met. She's now 600+ and bed-bound.

>>18210127
P-please no... I don't expect her to be skinny. I just want her to be soft not someone i can swim in

>>18210114
Just diet together.
Weight loss is like 70% diet anyway.