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>>18214321
Lifting weights doesn't make you magically a neanderthal. Are you really stupid? I think you are.

>>18214321
Why cant you get a gf?
You cant change a girl who likes muscles into liking someone who looks like a boy.
Are you not attracted to the girls who are attracted to you?
Usually the girls online who like girly men are either fat or older.

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>>18214321
>i want to look like a cute boy
I'm sure you're a pretty, pretty princess.

>>18214315
Girls: how attractive is musicianship? what instruments are most attractive?

>>18214342
Singing, guitar, all the other instruments. In that order.

>>18214354
Kind of surprised guitar would be up there since literally every guy plays guitar and it's such a cliche that men will learn it to impress girls.

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Im so fucking confused as to what you're looking for.

>>18214307
I heavily suggest you to not drop from high school and drop steroids. And it is very good thing to obey parents.

And no, you dont need steroids to impress girls. Just dont be fat, dress nicely, be semi confident, treat girls with respect and they will be all over you.

Also steroids will make you impotent.

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>>18214312
Good advice from the picture thanks!

When I'm rich and famous I'll drop some bling ur way brah

>>18214302
Wow! It is NOTHING. Carry on with your life.

Looks like a brown tabby. 30 years old is impressive.

>>18214305
oh guru how can I focus on relevant things while continuing to post on 4chan?

Sure, if you give the key to somebody, which would require trusting someone enough to tell them you caged up your dick.

otherwise there would be no point because you'd always have access to the key

>>18214280
Hey, OP. >>18214287 What that guy said. Mail me your cock cage keys. <3

>>18214280
Hey, OP. >>18214287 What this guy said. Mail me your keys.

>>18214270
no either break up and never talk to them again or quit being a bitch and get through it
everyone has problems, if you walk away youre just too childish to handle it.

>>18214270

depends on the definition of a 'break'. but generally speaking when someone says 'we should take a break' they meaning 'we shoudl take a breaking up'.

Imagine "let's take a break" from work. So the bills pile up and you both die of hunger. Imagine you're married and take a break while you have kids in the picture...

What is a break but an excuse not to say "you drain me, you bother me". The older you get, the less patience you have for that weak shit. It either works, or it doesn't. And that "break" to go off and fuck other people is called cheating.

>>18214196
You should be embarrassed about it, it drives you out of that place. It's a normal reaction. But don't worry, this is very very normal for people our age. Can't tell ya how many I've met who is in the same position as us -- guys and girls.

I live with my mom and I'm 30. I make about $50k/year and drive a really nice car. I also have about $35K in investments/savings.

There's loads of people your age and my age living at home still but they have nothing to show for it. At least you're going to school. There's nothing to be ashamed of, and anybody that would shame you is an idiot most likely and probably financially illiterate. I could afford the mortgage on a house but why when I live comfortably where I'm at now.

I moved out when I was 17 and lived on my own for 10 years. In a way I think it probably set me back quite a bit because I was always struggling financially. I really think if I had just stayed at home till I was at least 19-20 I would have gotten to where I'm at now by the time I was 25 instead of 30.

I'm 24 and recently moved in with my grandparents to help them out
Granted I have my own car and job and essentially live alone on a separate floor

>>18214140
You can start by simply thinking about what you're all about in this current moment. What do you enjoy? What do you dislike? What are some experiences you'll always remember. Etc.

>>18214149
In this current moment? Music, I'm teaching myself how to sing and retraining myself on guitar, Reading, and trying to separate myself from the opinions and influence of other people, because even if they aren't pushing their ideas onto me, I pick up on what should and shouldn't be and the third one is my main focus because I can't even sing properly for fear of what my neighbor is thinking of me because I sound meh at best right now. This sucks up and impedes me severely. If I think about something I immediately remember something a critic said or something my friend said or how someone I admire acts in relation to what is happening at the current moment and how to apply that confidence I see in their actions into my current action. I appreciate the advice but it's not about my likes and dislikes. My question pertains more to the expression of me, whoever that may be.

>>18214194
Expression is natural not forced.

Depends on the rules and boundaries you two have set.

Me and my partner are open books. Both big believers in if you have nothing to hide you wouldnt need privacy. The whole point of having a significant other to to share everything with them.


But there are plenty of people on this site that like to hide shit from their partner under the geis of "they need to respect my privacy"

either get over it

Tell her to put your mind at ease ofor youre leaving.

Start taking back luxuries she has or start being secretive also.

Unless she is willing to compromise theres nothingonly 1 thing you can do to help your relationship and thats not worry abou t it.otherwise Only she can make this work.

Yeah but how can i not worry about it if her behaviour is a huge red flag 70% of the time. I mean she constansly says she loves me and how perfect i am and that she wants to be the rest of her life with me.
But then she does all the things that shouldnt be doing in order to not making me angry or sad.

If she was doing shady shit, don't you think she'd, you know, not give you her password?

>>18214078
Are you sure you don't have an extreme case of phimosis? also this is a blue board and pictures like >>18214087 and >>18214092 are not allowed here.

>>18214131
Oh I didn't know that I'm sorry

And I checked on phimiosis and I don't believe I have any foreskin at all. I literally don't have anything to pull

>>18214138
There's pinhole phimosis too, maybe it's that but just go and see an urologist, they can diagnose way better and are used to seeing dicks.

You in college? Just finishing up my final year and i've been living in a 9 person house as an introvert, can definitley appreciate alone time now.

>>18214058
Yeah, and damn that sounds rough man. It's just 5 guys here, which is enough to throw me off.

How did your first few days living with them go? Any tips for going about it?

>>18214076
I'm going to be in this situation soon too since I'll only be able to work part time once college starts and the rent is $500 with utilities included for a room in a 3 bedroom house compared to $1000 after utilities for a 1 bedroom apartment.

>>18214029
I can't tell you that since I don't know but I can tell you that if you go to berkeley, not only will you be surrounded by the worst liberals in all of the nation, any opportunity you get from there will most likely be filled with the same sort.

I've known good men and women who go to berkeley perfectly normal and fine individuals and come out completely illogical and liberal as fuck. I swear it's some sort of brainwashing college.

I'm not sure about the other 2 with regards to that but Stanford is, as you know, very well respected so I can't see you going wrong with that one unless one of the other is specifically well known for your particular field of study.

>>18214029
Search job market in your target area. Ask all corporation you would like to work in for a job. Ask them if they want you already and if not, what kind of education they prefer the most.

Tldr: ask your future employers, not /adv/.

>>18214029
>I grew up with 4chan and I respect your lack of bullshit.

So easy to spot redditors.

>>18213997
Say it casually in simple and not overblown manner.

I think it doesn't matter the style as long as you're being authentic with your actions. By that I mean you talk the talk, walk the walk.
Don't be like "nice guys" who said they'll make girl special and princess shit only to harbor lust and wanted BDSM sex with her inside their mind.

>>18213997
After the second or third date you can tell her how much you like her, not before.

>>18214023
But what if you have hung out and its not really in the context of a date

>>18214008
I almost did this recently but I felt too much feeling welling up in me and I think I would have burst into something cringey and overwrought

"I really like spending time with you and I want to do it more" is something like that okay or still too much

I used to get sleep paralysis like every other night, it truly fucking sucks. I feel for you bro

Melatonin helps. Exercise helps. Not going to bed too late and keeping a consistent sleep cycle helps. Sleeping on your stomach helps too, I'm not sure why you're adamant about sleeping on your back.

I used to have it every night, now i dont have one since last year, but i now it will come back one day.

Try sleeping on your stomach with your face to the wall if possible, it helps.

And if you find yourself in one, keep blinking your eyes very fast and move your toes.

>>18214019
Not him but sleeping in your stomach forces you to a swayback posture so for a person with an already bad posture and unbalanced muscles it's just making the problem worse and less efficient to fix.

Op, do what >>18214019 said. I too have the same problem (posture and sleep paralysis) and the only extra advice I can give is to learn to deal with it, just relax and don't panic, you can even turn it into a lucid dream and dream cute anime girls at your will. Also make sure you're doing the correct exercises to fix your posture, just sleeping in the right position won't help much.

>>18213984
quito

>high up in the mountains, high amounts of UV radiation
>constant 20°C all year round due to being at the equator, yet high altitude for spring climate
>low cost of living
>engineers in high demand because of developing country
go ask /trv/

>>18214204
Hard mode: first world country and/ or the US since I need access to treatment.

>>18214331
I live in Atlanta. Lots of engineering jobs in Georgia, it's almost always sunny, doesn't get TOO crazy hot and winters are mild. It is humid as fuck here though.