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Sister kissed my boyfriend 2017-04-12 11:17:12 Post No.18215659
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I posted here about a situation that happened between my boyfriend and my sister last week, while I was away for business. He said it was her who initiated the kiss and she said it was him. Got home on Monday, did what a few people here suggested, put them both in the same room and started asking questions.
Sister soon crumbled under pressure, admitted it was her who flirted with him and kissed him. I couldn't deal with that shit, so I just told her to get out of our home. I feel so fucking betrayed, so fucking pissed off, I had to get her out or I would have killed her. My own sister tried to get my boyfriend to cheat on me.
She tried calling me to talk, but I just blocked her number for the time being. But now that I had a day to cool off, I realize I can't avoid her forever. More so because I'm bound to meet her at our parents at some point.
Boyfriend's been understanding like hell with my initial suspicion towards them both, and I love him for it, and he's taking all of this like a champ, helping me cope with it as much as I can, but I still find myself getting angry like hell when I think about my sister.
One person in the last thread said I shouldn't hold this against her because apparently being 21 year old isn't enough to be considered adult? What a load of shit that was. She's old enough to know right from wrong and she did my boyfriend and me wrong, on purpose, just because she felt like doing it.
Like I said, sooner or later, this is bound to get our family involved further, no idea on how our mom and dad will react (haven't told them yet), so how the fuck do I make peace that I can't remove this little shit from my life?
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>>18215659
It takes two people to kiss you dumbfuck. Leave your bf.
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>>18215663
>takes two people to kiss
No, it doesn't. My sister just kissed him, he pushed her away, and right away called me to tell me about it.
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>>18215659
Now THIS is a good thread.
I have no idea how to interpret this, this girl always messages me first, and normally we will have a convo but she takes so fucking long to reply, like 10 mins each message, she can reply faster because she does it sometimes.
She will be super into a convo about new music, or her job promotion and the texts will just stop, and take 10 min intervals for like an hour and then start quick replying again.
She could be doing stuff, but she lives with her parents and has little-no chores, its really fucking annoying and is a massive turn off for me. Do you think shes doing it because shes not into me? Im so confused
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Have you made any effort to express your interest in her or make any moves to get closer? Or youre just on the "haha hey you see this new show on netflix?" level.
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No, i don't really know if i want her or not. Although i do want a friendship, and we are friends, pretty close friends especially considering that we have only known each other for around 3 months, she knows a lot about my past that others don't and i do her.
But we can be talking about something like her suicidal thoughts and she will stop for like 10 mins, it gives me a fucking heart attack every time, even mundane shit like talking about lunch and she just stops, then power messages later.
Its one of those things that is really getting to me,
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>>18215658
Also, she will randomly just stop a convo when its mid flow, she will be like half way through explaining something and just leave it and then continue it the next day. its super frustrating
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How different can intrests be in a relationship 2017-04-12 10:57:35 Post No.18215626
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We have the same umbrella interests, music, movies, anime, art, memes etc, but we like different stuff, i like rap music she likes pop, i like romance movies/anime and she likes mystery / crime.
We enjoy the same food (both vegan) and both have lots of common dislikes (hot weather, crowds, spots)
We get along pretty good as friends, mainly see each other at parties or talk on social media about our work (we both work retail, share stories etc)
Are those differences too much to have a good relationship ? or am i overthinking it
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Im sorry, what were the differences? Music and TV? I dont know dude, why dont you try answering it yourself. Will her musical tastes stop you from pounding that vegan vagina? No? Yea i didnt think so...
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It doesn't matter if you have differences desu.
As long as you get along and enjoy each other's company and you are attracted to each other then its all good.
Your partner isn't supposed to be someone who mirrors all your interests... There's bound to be some differences. And to me it sounds like you guys have heaps of stuff in common.
Me and my bf for example have very different tastes in music and movies, tv shows, but we also enjoy some of the same music/tv shows/movies...
The main thing is, "Are you happy?"
Do you crave for someone who likes your music or your movies? Is that very important to you?
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>>18215632
Well no, but music, tv and gaming are our main interests. We enjoy some of the same music and tv but no games.
I just feel like we would run out of shit to talk about, or stuff to watch that we both enjoy.
The relationship isn't about sex, i actually have a very low sex drive, esp for my age (19), like i would fuck her but i want the relationship to be more like a close friendship with sex/hugs/cuddles/romance. is that weird ?
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How do I stop this? Sommer is coming soon and Idk how I will resist them this year
Help /adv/
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From one guy to another, what do you see in them?
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>>18215649
It has something to do with my "dominated by women" fetish.
When I see some pretty feet in public, I immediately want to suck her toes and lick her soles. But I can't
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H-help
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Any alcoholics here?
I've been drinking 1 liter of vodka a day for the last 2 weeks
I'm afraid if I stop now I might die from withdrawal
How do I stop?
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>>18215567
You dont die from alcohol withdrawal...
You do die from massive liver failure..
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>>18215572
>2 weeks
Damn i didnt even read that part.
You probably wont even have withdrawal. Stop drinking, stupid.
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>>18215567
>You dont die from alcohol withdrawal...
False. Sever alcohol withdrawal can be deadly and is actually one of the few severe withdrawals that can kill you if you go cold turkey.
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I don't have any real hobbies, I generally just shitpost on 4chan and watch tv after work. What's something I can focus on when I have free time?
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Interpretive dance
Hackey sack
Tantric massage
Stamp collecting
Whitewater rafting
...shall i go on?
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>>18215570
Yes, preferably things that I can do at home or don't take a lot of energy.
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>>18215571
Why do you want to do something if you dont have any energy to commit?
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I need some advice, I'm 19, live in rural Texas, in an abusive home and want to get out.
Problem, I have no job, no license, can't afford car insurance, and no job. For me, everywhere I've applied has turned me down since I live far away and can't reliably get there and have to rely on others.
DMV's miles away, bus stop is also far away with no sidewalks and roads/highways populated with semis, so biking isn't much of an option unless i want to become a grease stain on the side of the road.
(which in retrospect, doesn't sound too bad )
Parents aren't going to help get me a license AND we're poor as fuck so they can't pay of insurance for whenever I DO get a license.
103f+/40c+ weather in the summer, unsafe conditions and joint problems make walking 7+ miles to get to a bus stop to get anywhere nearly impossible.
So, for someone who needs a license and insurance to be able to drive to get to a job to get money to pay for insurance so I can drive to get to a job to get on with my life, where do I start/what do I do.
Because this predicament is something that I've been trying to figure out for years.
Also, for someone who wants to at least get away, how much should I need to make to live on my own/with a roommate, pay for car insurance, and general living expenses?
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>>18215556
Sounds bad. If you have no family or friends that you could move in with and aren't willing to walk or bike the 7 miles to a bus stop you are in trouble. You mentioned joint problems but would you be able to join the military. A lot of people use the military as a way of leaving home. Room, board, and a paycheck. If not what does your family do for money. If someone in the household works how do they get there? Could you get ride with them and at least be closer to employment? Maybe try to get a job with them or even a fast food restaurant nearby. Another thing you need to do is build up a little savings. Do you have neighbors, try to mow lawns or do odd jobs. Good luck.
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Friends have no time to help, no one else in the family wants to volunteer their car as something to let someone practice in.
I've considered the military, but I would NOT come near passing physical or mental evaluations.
For money, my parents are self employed and one works at an insurance thing on the side, but makes like, $10/hr, about all our money goes straight into bills, food, etc.
And with pretty much all the interviews I've gone to, they see that I have a state ID, not a license, and wince at how far I am and can't even drive there. One manager was a bro and just straight up told me what I'd need to get employed from that far away, which is just to be able to drive/have a license and BS being able to actually drive to give the impression of at least being reliable and not having to rely on others to get there, especially with how many people our parents tote around already.
There's no fast food near by, and the closest one is near the high school and are always overstaffed and still miles away.
And my neighbors are Mexican and really take pride in doing their own work and doing it how they want, so they turn down offers. The rest of the people on the general area are somewhat reclusive and stick with themselves, and rather not have some random person do it for them since there's an abundance of yard care business around.
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Do you have any funds or resources to call upon?
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when every i am with my family on a god related holladay thay drive me insane 2017-04-12 09:34:28 Post No.18215494
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when every i am with my family on a god related holladay thay drive me insane
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my sister is a sjw my mom want to bleam all sick ness of prosesed food and my dad cares 2 much i moved away multiple times to get away from my mom and sisters bullshit but thay all ways try and find an in thay know i hate them yet thay dismiss every thing i say or say stupid shit thay cant take me for me and the olny rezen thay dont hate me is blood what do i do
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Don't go on holiday with them. And maybe stop smoking so much weed.
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>>18215498
i dont smoke weed and i dont but thay are invaceive
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*they
I almost killed myself
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>go out to hangout at big park with chick
>we end up sitting on a bench where no ones around
>she is 20 and super shy physically, she talks but never looks at me.
>talk to her about kissing, put arm around her and she crosses arms but doesn't push me away
>end up slowly getting close enough to her face and kiss her for 5 seconds.
>she acts weird saying uhh.. Im confused and all quiet etc etc.
>im not fussed but i was her first kiss and its the first time we hung out.
>i have no time for shy girls so i use my magic to get kiss
Issue is she acted weird when we parted later on she said "ill see u around work" while looking at the ground, i responded with "hah, okay cya"
After the kiss she seemed less talkative even tho we kissed twice. Im not surprised but anyone know what shes thinking? Wondering whether i scared her back into her away lol.
Also i txted it was nice hanging with u n no response.
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wtf drop her
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>anyone know what shes thinking?
No. She's acting freaked out. You freaked her out.
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>>18215470
She said that was her first kiss? Idk man, shes gonna be a handful... ESPECIALLY if youre coworkers. You can deflower her pussy if you want to deal with the headache, but if youre looking at this as a purely sex thing, be prepared for extreme fallout.
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How do I politely reject someone? I'm going to be hanging out with a girl I'm just friends with this weekend, but I'm pretty sure she's gonna make a move, and I just don't find myself attracted to her in that way. Shes an awesome friend, and I don't want to lose that
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Just be straightforward. Or if you want to stop the fire before it starts, while you're hanging out with her tell her about how you have a crush on someone else.
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>>18215436
Tell her pretty much exactly that.
You can't control how she'll take being rejected, but telling her that is a fine way to go.
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>first post isnt calling OP a faggot
Come on guys
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Struggle to Like Myself 2017-04-12 08:57:06 Post No.18215419
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I am a very self-loathing person. I have friends, a job, do mediocre in school and all that shit. But i cannot think positively or have confidence in myself. If someone asked me to name 3 good aspects of my personality, i would feel gross saying anything. This of course is reflected in my self confidence when pursuing things i want, like talking to women, seeking new job opportunities or achieving goals.
So has anyone conquered this state of mind or at least progressed from where i'm currently at? Any stories or advice would be greatly appreciated, cheers.
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I used to berate myself really harshly when I fucked up. It started as me trying to be lighthearted but eventually I realized I was starting to believe it.
Eventually I came across the advice that in hindsight should be obvious : you'd never talk to your friends the way you talk to yourself.
I still do it, but not at much and not as harshly. I try to recognize my flaws in proper perspective, and give myself credit for my strengths more.
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>>18215432
Thats a good state of mind but hard to implement for me. I suppose i have to force it.
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>>18215444
I know this is going to sound gay as hell, but we're on a Mongolian basket weaving board. Have you ever seen Neon Genesis Evangelion?
It might be worth a watch, if you like anime.
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Sup /adv/, so how do I beat the feelings of insecurity that come with having a gf with nearly all male friends?
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Why does she have mostly male friends? Is it a 'girls are all drama' attitude, or does she just naturally get along better with guys?
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>>18215323
She's your girlfriend, not theirs. And it isn't because of anything they did : it's because your are you.
She knows all those big dicked swole popular Chads, but she picked you.
How can you not appreciate the magnitude of that? It doesn't matter if you can't see why, she obviously can.
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You don't. You avoid such women to begin with.
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This is not a huge problem but something that bothers me.
My boyfriend never misses me, or he doesn't tell me that he does nor acts like he does.
We were long distance for a year and not even then did he tell me he misses me.
If I am away from him for a few days or a week, he still doesn't show signs of missing me or telling me that he misses me.
This is so weird considering I do miss him. My friends and acquaintances always tell me how much they miss me when I am away from them or don't see them for a week or so. It makes me want to run to them instead of him for some odd reason. I don't feel a sense of urgency from him, so I mirror that and put off seeing him.
Is he just not that into me?
Is there anyone out there who just doesn't have the pangs of missing someone?
Help me understand /adv/
>3 year relationship
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After one year every guy is sick to death of their girl. Accept the love hes giving you and be happy with it, you demanding bitch.
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Besides that do you feel neglected in some way ? Does he call you regularly, are your calls fulfilling ?
It could just be that he's uncomfortable expressing that sort of thing, or that he doesn't want to sound needy. I can miss people but still feel perfectly content going on about my life and not feel the need to go "omg I miss you soooo much".
Did you try asking him about it ?
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>>18215321
What if that didn't even happen in the first year?
>Accept the love hes giving you and be happy with it
I'll never settle for mediocrity
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I didn't realize it at the time until he told me, but I've liked this guy for a long time. He recently confessed to me. The feelings are mutual.
Problem is that I just got out of a long-term relationship (6 years) and he is moving away to the other side of the country post-graduation for work (to LA...we're in NY right now).
I kept saying I just wanted to keep things fun while he's still here, which has just been us fooling around. Every time we meet I just initiate fucking because I don't want to dwell on my feelings for him. He's asked to go on dates but I always turn it down and direct it to the bedroom.
When we both got drunk, he told me he wanted to go out with me and that he thought we could make it work. I confirmed things with him sober and he said he feels about that strongly.
I don't know. I'm trying my hardest to guard my feelings, but I feel myself softening up to him. I also have a very hard time opening up to him because he's been cold to me in the past. For context, he's older than me by 4 years.
Is it pointless? What the fuck do I do?
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If a girl is inviting you over and throwing pussy at you, 96% of guys would never ask to take your relationship to the next level. So if he genuinely wants to go deeper with you take the opportunity.
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>>18215317
This. Don't be a pussy.
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OP, how long is he going to be away for? How much time do you have left with each other?
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Married but have a femboy hitting on me 2017-04-12 08:00:40 Post No.18215287
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Married but have a femboy hitting on me
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So I am married but have a cute femboy hitting on me. Should I try to get my wife on board or should I just flirt back or should I try to break it off without hurting his feelings?
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>>18215287
Break it off with him unless you're wife's both a fujo and a cuck
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>>18215287
Honestly what kind of shit is your wife into? You gotta be two serious degenerates if you think shes gonna accept you banging some twink dude. But hey, if your dick is telling you yes, and you think your wife wont freak out, go for it.
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Can you just stop being a god damned fag??
Seriously... people and their weird ass fucking kinks these days.