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So can/should people eat their useless fallen teeth for a tiny bit of extra calcium? If so, why don't we? If not, why?
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>>18218145

i made a movie about that

https://vimeo.com/211116375
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>>18218164
Oh shit, you made this? I've seen it before!
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>>18218181

were you the one who reported it? youtube took it down cuz someone reported it.

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Hi /adv/, I don't come on this board often but I figured I would for some actual advice if possible.

I can't seem to stay focused on certain things such as reading. With books, I am barely able to retain any information, and often have to re-read everything at least twice very often. I tried audiobooks, and sometimes I am ok with just a single listen to get it, and other times it's the same thing. My mind just doesn't pick up, and I have to go back a few minutes to re-listen to a passage or part.

Mind, these are books related to topics that I am actually interested in learning, so it's not like I'm forcing myself to read something that is bad in my opinion. It even happens when I am doing certain training courses to learn new things related to my work, which I normally like and am interested in. I can learn hands on just fine, but reading or doing video training is hard for me to retain.

TV and movies I can stay focused on, which I try to watch less of overall. I have completely stopped watching TV, and movies only when something good is out in theaters.

I've often thought my attention issues were related to my diet, so for the last few days I have been cutting out added sugars completely which I've read could help with increasing your mental health.

Other than that, I am considering to go see a doctor once I am financially able to, and see what they say. I've tried adderall in the past as my sister used to take it, but it had literally no effect on me when I took it.

Sorry for the long stupidly posted topic, but if anyone else has personal experiences or tips to share I would greatly appreciate them. I really want to become more well read and successful in life and this hurdle makes it very difficult.
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>>18217955
I actually had a very similar problem. How much sleep are you getting every night?
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>>18218005
I often feel like I don't get enough, or get too much. I can't really recall a time where I've felt like I got "enough" sleep. I also work graveyards currently so that makes it harder, but even before I did it seemed like I never slept well. Again, thinking it's diet related as many people have brought up that a bad diet can cause many other issues.Guess I'll just have to wait and see how it goes in the next few weeks.
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>>18218011
what worked for me was getting a solid 6-8 hours of sleep. Just try and squeeze in as much as you can, though; a good sleep schedule will work wonders for your focus.

If you aren't getting 6-8 hours of sleep, at least try to get a decent sleep schedule going. That will be a life changer, I promise you that.

I know how rough the graveyard meme is; I feel you and wish you luck, Anon.

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Alright so I work for this company and recently they cut hours as a temporary measure so I now work 20 hours a week only (4 hours a day). I'm thinking about applying for another job in the meantime but by the time they get back to me I probably would've already gotten my hours back. Problem is that for now my schedule is mostly empty (afternoon till bedtime free) and I don't like to just sit around doing nothing, drives me crazy. What to do??
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forgot to mention that i'm on nofap so i desperately need something to keep me busy lads
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>>18217926

if you need the money id apply for other jobs anyway, if they cut once they will cut again and its not really fun working for a place that says 'yeah we know you rely on this paycheck, but were not paying you as much this week :)'
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>>18217958
Yea i can understand but i like the job and i'm not short on money. I live with my parents and the only bills i have to pay is for my car. I barely ever spend money other than that.

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My main goal is to be a software engineer, WHERE THE FUCK DO I START!!! help btw
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Go to college and study computer science.
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>>18217856
>study computer science
Or, you know, software engineering
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>>18217866
Pretty much the same thing.

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Is it wrong to "long " for a little girl? I know it sounds creepy but I feel really alone right now . I have a girlfriend and I really appreciate and love
her but there are certain things I deal with on my own. We're both 18. I don't mean to come across as a creep it's just how I feel, I want to cuddle with one etc.
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sorry it is creepy. if you need one that badly just find an 18 yo that is passable.
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>>18217857
would it be wrong to cuddle with a little girl that's family?
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>>18217849
whether it'swrong or not depends on your system of beliefs. But it's certainly creepy, socially unacceptable and one step from illegal.
never, for any reason, inform anybody personally about it. *especially* your gf

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>20 years old
>Dad put house in name
>Have never had a girlfriend before
>Fear that I will one day have one and forcibly remove the people I really love from house

I doubt I'd ever allow such a thing to happen, but I've never felt love towards a human being outside of my family either.

I don't know what it does to the brain and mind. I see my sister has a boyfriend, and she's acting brashly, but I'm not her.

Does anyone know anything about this?
I value my immediate family above all other human life.
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What?
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>>18217817
If anything, I'd simply never state the property is in my name, but I suspect it may one day slip through my mouth if I ever get drunk with my hypothetical girlfriend.
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>>18217817
why the fuck would you force your family from your house just because you got a girlfriend? are you retarded?

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When I was 13 my older sister got a job as a Hooters Girl. Previously I had recognized her as attractive in the non-sexual way that most brothers with attractive sisters do, but seeing her in the tank top, booty shorts, and tights numerous times a week eventually changed that.

Many nights she'd come home when our parents were already asleep, take her socks and shoes off, and crash on top of her bed still in the rest of her uniform with her door slightly ajar. I could easily sneak in and lightly fondle her legs and feet while kneeling on the floor next to the bed jacking it. I'd always blow my load into the same dirty pair of her tights I swiped from the laundry and stashed away because it both contained the mess and felt amazing. A few times I managed to slide her shorts down and grope her ass while sniffing her crotch, and each time I did I had a hands-free orgasm. She usually worked long shifts so she would be out cold.

I used to be the typical bratty little brother before this, but after discovering these urges I started easing off with the teasing and being friendlier. I guess she just took it as a sign of maturation because she reciprocated. Eventually we became really close friends and I stopped my late night sessions out of guilt, but the feelings didn't subside.

Now we're in our 20's and she considers me the model brother and one of her closest friends. I keep up the facade but it feels like a lie because of my past actions I've kept secret as well as my sexual feelings for her that never did manage to fade. I truly love and care for her and regret what I did.

Part of me desperately wants to tell her how I feel, even though that would more than likely ruin everything. Another part thinks she'd be better off without me, but if I lost her for any reason I'd probably off myself. Yet another part thinks the facade is better than any possible alternative. I'm lost and terrified of how much knowing what I did could hurt her. What should i do?
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>>18217812
>What should i do?
Not make obvious bait threads on /adv/
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>>18217837
This shit is real. I've tried going to a couple therapists but my anxieties and insecurities about opening up about this to a complete stranger in person have prevented any progress.
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>>18217922
>This shit is real
No it's not

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I have about $5,000 in my account. I am 25, live with family, and no job. Tried to go back to school, nope. Tried to get a job, nope. I hate my situation and want to just go away. As you can tell it is a very depressing time in my life. I have the sudden want to bleed. I hate being a crybaby and I wish I could afford a therapist (another story). I've tried meditation but I cannot rid this sadness. What should I do? Should I pack my bags, take the little money I have, and go somewhere far? If so where? I hate being in this limbo so much.
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You can't run away from yourself, anon.
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>>18217762
op here.

i never got this. im ok with myself except the whole depression part. im pretty sure most of my problems are external.
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What problems will be fixed by you leaving and what new problems will be created? Make an honest list. Why would getting a job be easier on your own?

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Am I balding or is it just a cowlick or whatever? I seem to be losing a little bit in the front too. Would you go on treatment?
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Let me guess, you're about 25 years old? Yeah, it's happening. Pills and foams will only slow it down. Welcome to the club.
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>>18217664
23. Just noticed it a month ago and it sucks. You on treatment?
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>>18217675
Bro that hairline is fine lmao take some biotin daily to thicken it. Use a small needle size derma roller to heal bald areas. Avoid minoxidil and the likes.

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So I just got dumped by my bf and I'm feeling really terrible. Now that he's gone out of my life I'm basically going to be completely alone. This thought frightens me more than I know how to express, I'm feeling so sorry for myself right now. Can anyone offer me any advice on how to best cope with these feelings?
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>My biggest fear is having to take care of myself
t. the modern woman
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I'm not talking about money, it doesn't involve that. I just can't stand the thought of being alone in the world. Btw, I'm a guy, not that it should matter either way, the pain is real just the same
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>>18217655
>>18217671
If you are afraid of being alone, take steps to not be alone. Whatever that means, for you. Look to meet new friends or a new BF, or join a community for a hobby or religion or something.

Once you know you aren't alone, you won't have a reason to worry about it.

>be me
>go to college
>there is one autistic guy on our college, nobody hangs out with him but some people tolerate him, he is socially awkward and mostly doesnt even go to classes( or subjects i cannot remember correct english word for it), and always asks for favours from my friend, my friend doesnt fuck him off because he tries to be a good person and feels sorry for the idiot
> autistic guy asks my friend for some help about college
>i told my friend not to help that guy bc he is using him
>stupid friend helps him anyway
>autistic guy somehow broke in his facebook account, or idiot friend left it logged in? I don't know bc i wasn't there
>autistic guy read all friends messages, with all conversation
>reads my conversation with a friend
>we were mocking autistic guy sometimes, autistic guy read it
>next day autistic guy tells me about it, says never talk to me again, stuttering all the time
>kek.jpg
>laugh it off and walk away from the autistic guy
>all our common friends told my friend "told you so" about helping the autistic guy


My question is did i do right? Or should i have done sometihng else in that situation? Only serious replies
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... Did you do right by walking away?

Who cares? You don't give a shit about this guy.
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>>18217688
Yeah, fuck that guy, i think the same, im just little mad about my friend being so careless because i dont like people reading my private conversations even though it wasnt my facebook, but i dont know how much that idiot read
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As a stutterer It's insulting to have someone laugh because of it, dealing with a stutter is damaging enough.
Add to that knowing the guy has some mental issues, but despite this he built up the courage to ask your friend for help.
I have no clue how he read the messages on Facebook, but if he was left signed in on a public computer...then that's on your friend.
Otherwise the guy is at fault.
He came for help and felt betrayed and ridiculed by the same people he asked for some help or guidance.
Take it as you will.

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how do I know whether I should change jobs?

how do I go about changing jobs if I've been doing the same job for 6 years?

I feel like I'm capable of more but I'm stuck
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Apply to other jobs. That's it. You'll have to take time off of work (and maybe lie a bit) in order to attend interviews.
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>>18217592
the very thought of that makes me nervous

I've heard that even if you fuck up and end up in a worse job, that can still lead to progress because you will eventually find something better...
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>>18217581
>work at sams club for 2 years
>pretty much hate every day because how the scheduled associates in my department
>wanted an entire 16 pallet produce truck broken down by 1 guy in 3 hours (lol?)
>get fired because I'm always in the wrong spot and didn't defend my writeups until too late
>get new job
>make less than other job (now more)
>have to drive all over town
>muh knees
>muh gas
>only good thing is the managers/supervisors are nice
>realize sams wasn't all that bad

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Had some surgery December last year, and I've got some scars as a result. I used Mederma every day for eight weeks, but the scars are still pretty angry looking. One in particular's been giving me problems, it's raised up on my skin. Just recently scratched the fuck out of it and had to stop everything and think about what I'd done while riding out the pain.

What's the best way to reduce/fade scars? And is my situation one that will get better with time?
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>Scars
>Fordyce spots
>Cellulite
>Dark eye circles

I can go on and on about shit that isn't solved by any cream that keeps getting sold to retarded women.

You can get surgery to remove SOME of your scar tissue, but otherwise you're just going to have to wait for them to fade. By the time they do, you're going to be too old to give a shit.
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>>18217602
I'm fine with most of them, it's just the one that's especially red and raised up on my skin. I apparently can't absentmindedly scratch my stomach without my nail getting caught on that one scar. It's more about how it's raised than how it looks. Not looking to get surgery to remove scars less than an inch long though
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I would try polysporin or something similar that would help with redness and iratation. I'm not sure if it would completely remove the scar for that I would ask a doctor they would probably get you scar reducing cream that works.

Hope this helps

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I'm 23 years old and I've come acrossed the money to get myself a college education, but I have no clue where to start. What do?
Pic unrelated.
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>>18217501
Well, what do you find yourself reading about in your free time? What is your current job, and do you like it?
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>>18217501
what kind of career field are you interested in? that's a possible first step

another first step is searching for local community colleges and 4 year state universities you're interesting in transferring to.
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>>18217501
Start out by taking stock of what you actually like and are interested in. Then take steps to actually try them out to see if they might develop into a passion.

I'd consider taking classes at cheap community colleges first, just early on, to try stuff out without having to pay out of the ass like in a larger university.

Try and keep an open mind about it. I hated art when i was young, tried an art class when i was 22, now im an illustrator.

I have a huge speech tomorrow in front of 500+ people.

My nose decided to be a faggot this morning and is nonstop running. I *need* to be recovered by tomorrow. What do?

I've already steamed, taken nap with dehumidifier, and ate a clementine. What else?
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Nasal steroid. Spray it up there. They're available at any pharmacy without a prescription IIRC.
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Echinacea and chicken soup

If you are truly a madman and have a death wish then steep the tea in the chicken soup.
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>>18217488
Eat a pickle fermented with whole mustard seed.

Eat a whole jar of gourmet pickles if you need.

Remember to thank the political left for advocating fermented foods as an effort towards sustainability in the food supply.

You are welcome.

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