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How repulsive cellulite really is to guys? I'm only 19 and i already got some even though i can't at all be considered overweight. I feel like it's ruining my otherwise ok butt and tighs.
>inb4 post pics
Not gonna do that

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I have been with this girl for one and a half year, we both love eachother and can see ourself having children even. She is my soulmate you could say, but yesterday I got so drunk and ended up doing the worst choice in my life... cheated on her with some random i dont even know the name of. Me and my girlfriend made a promise when we became realy close to never cheat since we both know the feeling of that. And i am afraid to lose her if i tell her, and I regret it so much and realise how much i care about her. WTF should i do?

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A gay man at the gym approached me and asked if I wanted to go on a date with him
I was about to explain that no, i'm not gay, but all at once I thought
>I'm bored with how things are now
>I've never been on a date before
>Does he really think i'm attractive?
And I impulsively said yes and gave him my number.
I'm not attracted to men at all. I'm just excited to eat dinner with someone other than my dog.

Is this wrong? Am I leading him on?

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Went out on a few dates with a guy. We're very into each other - he seems like an amazing person, he's very smart, great sense of humour, pretty hot. We share tons of interest and spent nearly all day together over the last couple of weeks.
We had a talk about kinks and sexual stuff and he's into mildly gross stuff.
Is it worth it?

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Is it a cruel idea to crash at a friend's place if I suspect he might have a bit of a crush on me? I'm going to his city to visit him and some other mutual friends who live there. I'm crashing at his place for two or three nights. Sometimes he sort of flirts with me and he once told me he finds me attractive. Also, he Facebook-stalks me, so I think he might have a bit of a crush. Is it cruel to sleep next to him in the same bed if I think he might have feelings? Mind you, I have no absolute proof. If he has feelings, will they get worse?

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If a non-tenured professor is doing semi-blatantly incredibly corrupt stuff, is it worth reporting them to student services?

In the past, a professor I knew would humiliate me and get classmates to stalk and threaten me for her personal amusement. She was the psychopathic pseudo-feminist type.

I live in another state now.
My dad told me it'd be pointless to report her because the entire school system is corrupt anyways and student services is probably working with her.
He also it can be somewhat dangerous considering how corrupt she is she might get revenge but seems unlikely as I live in another state far away.

I have enough evidence against her I almost guarantee I can get her in trouble and probably even make her lose her job (assuming they aren't also corrupt)
I also feel like I have moral obligation to report her, as well as person revenge driving me.

Opinions?

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Why is it that so many people (or at least that's how it comes off) preach to others the need to learn empathy? Yet show no empathy to whom they're lecturing towards?

As in, often they admonish the importance of being empathic to others, but don't take in account how those very others might feel and react towards such lectures. Sometimes, at least in my experience on both sides, feeling condescended and talked down to like they're a child, or an idiot, or simply as if they're not a person or human being. And walk away feeling disrespected and belittled (even if the lecturer in question did not intend to demean anyone).

Just something I've noticed a lot these days. 'specially with SJW movements, or even on here.

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Nearly a year ago my ex dumped me over a text, I assume she was cheating because she started dating this new guy almost instantly. I don't want to sound egotistical but all of our mutual friends were dumbfounded as to why she left me for this guy (he's really not the most charismatic/good looking guy), and I never really found out.

I haven't really bothered trying to talk to her at all since then, aside from a few times when I had heard some bad news had happened in her family I asked to see how she was doing (with virtually no response) and I haven't seen her in person for nearly a year until earlier, when they came into the gym and just froze when they saw me there, and I could tell they were contemplating even leaving.

I never did anything to hurt her (as far as I'm aware) and things were perfectly fine up until that day. But I never got any true closure, and on the incredibly rare occasion I would text her after that, just to see how she was doing, she would only respond with one-word texts and was really dismissive. I'm not trying to get her back or anything, I just want to be able to talk to her about why things happened the way they did and just get a proper answer. I don't know why she seems to hate me so much when we were so close not too long ago and we can't even just talk maturely, but I really just want to know where I could've gone wrong.

How can I go about actually trying to get her to talk to me about it? I don't want to come across as beating a dead horse, or sound like a creep and still seem interested, but without the closure and reason I've lost a ton of confidence in myself overall.

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If I watch nothing but gay porn would I eventually start to like it? would I become gay/bi?

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Guys I think i fucked up my dick. Normally i jerk of about every other day but recently i've become depressed and have been jerking off at least 2-3 times a day. The problem is I think my foreskin is growing calluses. It is has a bit of a blister, I've tried rubbing Benadryl but it still feels sensitive and painful. What else can i do? is it possible for dicks to grow callus?

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I'm trying to get (more) addicted to anal. I've been smoking when I do anal related stuff to we if I can get the addictive effects to associate with ass play. It seemed to be a lot easier while smoking.
Can this work and are there other ways to get literally addicted to anal?

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>tfw went from super friendly with a girl to very friendly to disgusting over the course of 1 week exactly due to my self destructive drunk self embarrassing myself around her and now I won't see her for another 2 weeks and want to die

I am almost entirely certain there is no way I can redeem myself after she acted towards me today but is there anything I can do to still be friends with her before we end up parting ways this summer

I just don't want the failure of knowing I'm such a fuck up that I pushed someone so amazing out of my life to hang over me forever

I have never felt this way before from any kind of rejection implied or otherwise but I wish I could just stop existing for a while

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I'm sick of tihs. It has been four months and I haven't been able to get over my ex. I never wanted to break up with her, she broke up with me after a discussion. And later, she cut all contact with me after I went crazy on a panic attack and started spamming her phone with calls. I truly didn't want to do it, I feel like I don't recognize me when I remember what I did. I never had done it before with anyone, not even with other exes. It was just the idea of losing her made me go desperate. I wanna apologize but I fear she won't hear me. I can't move on because so many things I like and do remind me of her (mainly because we used to do or talk about that shit together). Stop doing those things would mean stop doing the things I love, but I can't keep doing them without being reminded of her. I don't know what to do.

Thankfully this isn't affecting me while studying, I still can concentrate and study and stuff, but every single free moment I have, I start thinking about her. I don't want to turn my life into endless studying. I want to get her back, at least I don't want her to hate me. I genuinely want all the best for her. Not even sexual (although I wouldn't reject it), I just want to make sure she's always happy. And most importantly, I wanna stop feeling this horrible feeling that she hates me.

What do I do?

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I live in fear. I am "male" but not a stereotypical male, so count me in with females who fear sexual assault (outside of prison.) I've been abused countless times, especially by women, even strangers (mostly women). I hate being around women because you never know their hidden pervertedness they don't show until they find an attractive male and I especially hate gay men. Recently I quit my job because of sexual harassment and I didn't feel safe.

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Posted this on /fit/ but i fear trolls.
How much should the foreskin retract? All the way down?