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>>18704922
And who's choice was it to get drunk, anon? You got popped at 21, life goes on still better than the majority of sluts who do that at 13

>>18704929
Yes I'm aware it was stupid to drink but I didn't think he was the type. I'm not saying I'm going to have him arrested or something I just want to know what men are thinking when they take advantage of us like that. Because it makes me think he just doesn't care about me and isn't invested at all.

>>18704929
He can't honestly think a girl won't feel shitty about losing her virginity while wasted...or are men really that emotionally blind?

Because it's not actually about preventing bad things from happening and instead all about the perception of being a good person.

>>18704907
Please go back to /pol/, you're not asking for advice.

>>18705001

>everything I don't like is from /pol/

Grow up, kiddo

get some help, go pay a visit to your local psychiatrist

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Join the fuckin Marines

>>18704899
fuck off shill

>>18704829
Literally no need for that unless you're a fag or transgender. Think about your ancestors and how they did just fine, you're making it sound more serious than it is.

What's your issue (you don't have to divulge specific details)?

>>18704861
>think about how ancestors handled it
They fucking died. I assume that OP does not want to die, right ?

try some crystalline motivation. a little bit goes a long way. self medicate. u need willpower for it


>2017 and not using methamphetamine

>>18704867
You made me kek a little

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Join the fuckin Marines you degenerate, or un ironically toss yourself out of a helicopter

Probably bait but...
No (I would never beat my dog). But that is a really bad idea if you want to earn your dog's trust.

If he attacks you or someone else, he will be put down.

>>18704712
the fucker always disobeys my commands. he runs away and starts growling when i confront him so i beat him with a broom.

>>18704714
he runs away and starts growling when you confront him because you beat him with a fucking broom you moron

>>18704792
Even if I've been alone my entire life?

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>>18704840
You've been alone but you haven't learned to be alone

>>18704700
swallowing the fact that your parent is a burnout piece of shit is hard, but not the hardest. You can do it. The important thing is to focus on making a life for yourself.

>>18704700
Welcome to being an adult.

A good parent will make sure your their kids are on a path of success and won't draw an arbitrary line at 18.

>He didn't bother saving up any college fund and instead spent it on lottery tickets and casinos

Sounds like your dad falls in the category of bad parent. Sucks for you but I'm in the same boat. He's an alcoholic who hates my mother for divorcing him and by extension wants nothing to do with me because she got custody. I'm on the student loan train as well because there is no other way.

It's just a fact of life that some have it easier and some have it harder. The most you and I can do is make sure we don't follow in their footsteps when we're parents.

If there is a possibility you might have a depression, se a doctor. Teenager, might just be teenage angst, it will pass. Else do some good.

>>18704674
porn and lotion

>>18704685
But what about when you find out you have depression? Anyone have tips for dealing with "off days"? It feels like I'm back to square one

>>18704623
Fuck bitches, get money.

If you were just admitted to university then you're likely young. You may have met the love of your life but you likely haven't. You likely cling to this person because of your loneliness. Its a comfortable feeling to be around someone else. You will meet someone else.

>>18704626
>>18704626
I've been with other girls but never met one more sweet and nice with me like this one, I want to dump her but how, why this summer fuck I've been single for years why this fucking summerrrrr

>>18704612
Kick your dads ass, throw him out of his wheelchair and tell him you're the boss now. Then steal his alcohol.

Can you get a scholarship to study in another city?

>>18704612
Ungrateful prick.

>>18704599

It's a trap man, don't do it.

Not in the military. Had a few friends and acquaintances join the service, and 4/5 of them regretted it. But they were enlisted, so their experiences may or may not be relevant.

They joined for similar reasons as you. I ended up asking them if though their time, they really discovered what they wanted to do in life, and again, most of them said 'no'. They said the military will gave you discipline and a broader perspective (take away your nagging first world problems), but at a severe cost of your sanity and individuality. You'll learn how to be punctual and do your duties, but they'll break you down, and it'll be like coming out of a trash compactor once you're done.

Things you may already know. Most NCOs and enlists will hate your guts for being the smarty pants guy in charge, who didn't have to get his hands dirty. Obviously, you'll no be paid as well as the civilian business world, but if you have any loans, then at least they'll repay them (it's sitll not a worthwhile trade off).

You're best of trying to connect with any current or former officers. Look up military forums/subreddits. They will be able to give you a more complete answer on whether it'll be worth it for you.

US Marine vet here. Go army SF, just don't join the Marines. Best thing I ever did, yet would not wish that fate on my worst enemy

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>>18704562
In addition two new “teachers assistants” have joined who we haven’t met.

The result being last night I found my four year old looking in the mirror going “You don’t RESPECT and you don’t BELIEVE” over and over, and I was of course like “what in the everloving fuck is this?!” to myself.

So in the ensuing discussions with the kids, my spouse and our occasional nanny today (no school) basically the subject (respect/believe) brings my kid to tears, can almost certainly be traced back to their full days without Ms. A and that someone (Ms. B, Ms C, Aide D, or Aide E) is an authoritarian who cannot conceive of a generation not taught to blindly respect God and therefore all his proxies.

So the natural reaction is to get my helicopter parent on and go have a chat to find out where (who) this phrase might be coming from, get the story from the horses’ mouth and see if it syncs up with the childs’ reaction. The problem is, as we saw with the lunch ordeal is we will have to get all the teachers together at once, and probably the aides so nobody can go, “ah well it must have been Ms. Not me” again.

But you pile that on top of the whole lunch thing and the serious damage that has already done to my kids’ formerly excellent eating habits and salt it with the fact that one of my kids is literally just crying at the mention of the subject and suddenly it’s more of a “what the fuck they are never going back” reaction.

They are back Tuesday, and the only course of action I see is honestly to go in Monday and ask for a refund and withdraw them entirely. Anything else would be an attempt at mitigating, and no matter what we do there will be no separating them from Ms. B or the aides all the time. I haven’t met the new aides, but Ms.es A, B and C are older and all seem pretty entrenched in their style so reagardless of lip service I don’t expect anything to actually change. We’re taking the weekend to consider it and so I’m asking /adv/.

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>>18704566
So the first question is: does pulling them out of pre-k without warning seem unwarranted? I understand they’ll have to deal with idiots and bad teachers their whole lives, but it’s clearly still early enough that these things are having lasting impact right now in ways that already may never be undone. I can only guess what is happening in the black box which is school but the effects are severe and may already affect them for life.

Second is, if I do pull them out, how important do you think it is to find out exactly what happened with the respect/believe scenario? I mean am I going “just give me a refund and we’re gone, we don’t need to discuss” or “just give me a refund and explanation and then we’re gone”. Do I care who/why/how, do I care if it was all a total accident/misunderstanding if that led to my kid in tears? Does it matter what happened in the box, or just removing them from it?

Any other helpful thoughts or insights?

If you aren't making the adjustments in your life to home school your children you are fucking up.
Either do it right or just send them where the fuck ever because it's not going to matter at that point.
Don't let any school system raise your kids for you.

>>18704548
Kill yourself slowly with drugs and maybe your ocd will go away. It might cost you some brain cells, but "no pain, no gain."

Do it faggot

>>18704548
fuck the retards here. hang in there man

"No means yes party" on Craigslist lol

>>18704521
Buy a copy of the anarchist's cookbook.

>>18704531
Don't want to resort to violence just yet. Just want to fuck with their minds a bit.