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>>18223059
>bi but prefer dudes
so you're gay? why not just say it instead of complicating your sexual preference you slimy guacamole smelling dingo.

>>18223080
Man I don't want to get on the LegButt high horse but Kinsey Scale muh dude

If it sounds like leading on....
Smells like leading on....
Has sex that's unsatisfying....
It must be that these women don't appeal to you, yet you continue to date them.
If you don't like them, reject them.
Then date skinny girl or hot guy.
> Dating big women
> Complains about dating big women
>????

>>18222979
If you ask me, you're already cheating, OP. Just do it.

>>18222983
Why would you say that? And I don't want to fuck this up. I actually care about this person. Just want to get rid of the taboo urge

>>18222979
Try to talk to your gf about cheating. Tell her everything you told /adv/ and that you are scared of not being loyal to her.

I say your fear shows how deeply you care about your girl that you are afraid of your future self. Pretty romantically if you ask me.

Use power of love aka placebo. That each girl you manage to refuse to sleep with is a proof of your love for your qtie. Also tell her you need to drain your balls regurally so you can resist this urge of yours.

Be honest. Tell your girl that you are afraid of yourself doing fail and losing her. Maybe it will help.

are you a woman or a child

>>18222844
Ughhhh I don't even know anymore

>>18222844
Are you an idiot or illiterate

>>18222815
Show me pics of convos and I'll see if you're doing anything obviously wrong

Also why do you think they don't try to see you again

Your persistence is an asset and now is NOT the time to give up. Now is the time to evaluate and adjust your method because there's obviously something off

If you're getting rejected that much then you haven't learned from your mistakes.

It's not all about numbers if you keep banging your head against the wall.

Hundreds? Wew, I've only ever really tried once. Do you really need someone that bad?
Besides from a few kisses and hugs I've never touched a girl and I don't really mind, believe it or not.
Sure I'd like to lose my virginity and see what sex is all about but I have way bigger problems to deal with right now.

Maybe you should take a break from everything girl related and just focus on your own life, you're obviously doing something wrong and you need to change your mentality somehow, you're probably coming off as desperate right now.

>>18222784

As someone who has been a NEET for the past two weeks, and has taken extended gaps between jobs before, it can wear on you quickly. Right now it's alright, but I'm also sober and on a diet, which means I'm basically doing nothing but vidya, TV, comics, and sleeping, maybe sitting by the pool.

I'm slowly going crazy because I can't do anything with friends, and even if I weren't restricting myself to these things, I'd have to be saving money to make sure I can still live and eat and shit.

Being a NEET is overrated.

Being neet sucks. I've been neet for years now, and I'm just becoming more and more withdrawn from society. Depression and anxiety have only gotten worse. I got on disability 5 or 6 years ago for psychiatric issues that I didn't actually have, and now I have all kinds of issues that I never had before. Sometimes it's fun when things are good, you wake up and do what you want when you want, but it's not worth the tradeoff. Unless maybe you have a social circle... which I don't. Don't be a neet without friends.

>>18222804
This

I'm showing early signs of schizo after years of neet reclusion
Not worth

You just do it. I've got a specific kind of brain damage that makes it easier for me to learn languages, but I still had to put in the time.

>>18222676
>learning a useless language

>>18222676
I would start by having good reason to do so. Otherwise it is wasted time.

So why OP?

>>18222623
Put less nicotine in your vape. Whether thats the cause or not, it's a win win.
Does vape juice even have a standard nicotine dosage or does it vary by brand?

correlation does not equal causation

>>18224278
You're right I checked erowid and looked at nicotine dosage. My dose is far beyond normal. I use 3mg juice but I'm vaping constantly throughout the day so my nicotine levels are high as fuck.

I'm gonna switch to 1.5 juice and limit intake.

Real sex is more comfortable because you're not angling for the camera.

There's lots of porn that is like real sex.

Pornstars are like athletes.
Porn is literally a stage for the pornstars to perform on.
Real sex feels good, but in my case it leaves....more to be desired.
Like when you drink something, and you wish there was one more sip to go....

>>18222458
Watch amateur porn if you want to see what real sex is like.Notice most of these videos are like 10 minutes.

>>18222176
Be nice.

Fulfill your roles and obligations to the best of your ability, and improve any abilities that are wanting.
Act in the interests of as many people as practicably possible, or until you feel you're a good enough person.
Actively seek roles and obligations in which you act in the interests of others.

Be really handsome, have money, be fit, dress well, have a body language that makes you calm, be succesful and superior to most people in most ways.
The rest (morality, lack of envy, niceness) will come later as a result of a feeling of fulfillment, attention from the other gender & admiration.
Do NOT try the reverse way or you'll just be miserable
:)

You can't do anything. Just don't buy from them again. It happens to the best of us. Sorry man.

>>18222019

Call the police and tell them your dealer ripped you off.

>>18222019
knuckle sandwich

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>>18221841

>Is it normal for someone to love a fat girl

Yes

>is it totally weird and only considered a fetish?

No.

>Why can't I accept that someone can love me even if I have a belly?

Because you're insecure.

>Why do I consider every guy that compliments me a weirdo and a fetishists?

Because you're insecure.

Glad I could answer your question. Thanks for stopping by.

>>18221842
You didn't answer "How do I get over this" aka feeling insecure :c

>>18221841
I work with a girl that's just over 5' and if she weighs less than 300 pounds I'd be surprised. She's got a normal looking boyfriend that loves that tub for who she is. You just have to find the right guy. It's not for everyone, but a lot of guys don't mind dating bigger girls, and not in a fetish way either.

>>18220341

Is this with a girl you like? Does she have a BF?

I feel like this message is autistic af too. How do you just act cool and say stuff that will interest her? I wanna take her out but i have never done this date business before. How do you talk to girls guys and how do you reach that point where you ask them to be your SO and what do you do after you ask her to be ur gf.

>>18220365
Yes and no.

>>18220369

Man the FUCK UP and just ask her out to coffee or lunch! Don't chimp out over the stupid text and lock this shit up. DON'T BE A PUSSY! I want you to ask her out for coffee/lunch. SCREENCAP THAT SHIT SOLDIER! DO IT!

>>18219728
You forgot to ask question.

Is she on hormonal anticonception? Is she fat? Have you ever gave her orgasm? Isnt she just faking it? Do you even love her? Why are you together?

Not sure what to ask, really. I want more sex, she doesn't. Dunno how to proceed.

She's got a copper IUD, so no hormones the entire time we've been together. She isn't fat, but she has gained about 15lb in the past year.
I've given her orgasms but she's often not into having her clit touched. She doesn't masturbate or own any sex toys. Doesn't want anal, claims she doesn't have any fantasies. Despite this we had great sex for 2+ years.

She agreed to make Sundays our date/together time, but often flakes out saying she's too tired.
I love her, and we have a good, communicative relationship for the most part. We match well intellectually and
She's trying to start a business and I'm helping with that. We moved 800mi to start this ranch together. We could disentangle our lives fairly easily (we aren't married, so no divorce legality) but I'm not ready to take that step.

Sounds like she isn't willing to try.

>>18219602
Quit complaining about wanting to be a slut.

>25 and had sex with less than 10 women
Why the flying fuck would that matter lol

>>18219605
Yeah but dudes like that are actually happy. I know dudes like that. The type who never had problems dating in high school, maybe had a couple bad breakups but can always find a new woman and always have, the types who probably had a phase where they just ran through multiple girls. It's genuinely a crucial part of developing a man's ego and I look at my adult self, a man going on 26, and I still feel like I've severely missed a part of my development as a person. It's midlife crisis absolutely waiting to happen and I just want to learn how to feel better about myself and move on.

>>18216057
No one is obligated to talk to you. If she wanted to talk, she would. It's not your job to get her out her shell.

>>18216389
Not to sound pushy but what if I want to? And what if I know I could help her get by whatever is troubling her?

How do you know? You don't even know what the problem is.