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Ok so lomg story short. We had plans made before spring break after he did not uphold these plans the neighbor convinced me he only viewed me as a hookup. "Bestie" is super adament that is not the case. Kinda wanna end what we've got right now and say "Ok ive honestly been so fucking down today about our situation. Even the solution suggests that im just a hookup. And thats FINE. But you need to at least be honest about that. People who have feelings and think about eachother throughout the day dont take hours to text back minutes. Half an hour. An hour. Maybe. But things have changed. I used to get a lot more out of this and now constantly wondering where shit went wrong is fucking with me. Either we need to find a way to get back where we were or we cant do this. " but also dont want to. Im also considering taking a friends advice and no longer iniating the relationship as well as being very straight forward about the neighbor telling me im a hook up etc. He knows the neighbor has been trying to bang since i moved into my apartment.
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all caps means it's over
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>>18233045
Ive seen him since
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>>18233042
Like do i just stop iniating? Tell him im not satisfied with the "solution" we came up with to our problems? Send that text?
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Fuck, I got a problem
I'm 2 years into uni, and I was doing just great. Plenty of friends, always got invited to parties and to go out for drinks, now i'm the boogyman
Thing is, I was a fucknut back when I was 15. I constantly got into fights, and built up a reputation for beating people up.
I escaped that when I went to uni, and never really told anyone about it but now someone from my hometown was placed into my class and told EVERYONE who I used to be and now everyone is afraid of me. I dont understand why the fuck they are afraid of me, after knowing me for over 2 years, and just because some tool from back home told everyone what I used to do
Fuck this shit, the only people that still talk to me are basically me, big guys with a history of getting into fights; but I dont like them.
How do I turn this around?
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dude fuck their shit you cant make everyone happy
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>someone from my hometown was placed into my class and told EVERYONE who I used to be and now everyone is afraid of me.
Pretty shitty thing to do, but if you're a cool person now you should be able to rise above it, no problem.
>now everyone is afraid of me
Are you sure they're afraid of you? What makes you think they are?
>How do I turn this around?
Stay calm and let go of those negative feelings. Maybe you're right and everyone in your class has been poisoned against you, but one class isn't a whole lot of people.
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Go big or go home. Start a rumor he's a pedophile and he molested kids.
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How do you get rid of violent fantasies? I'll be walking down the street, see someone, and think about how it would feel to break their legs with a shovel or shoot their car up. Things like this happen all the time.
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The healthiest way to conquer a fantasy is to act it out. Find an easy target and have some fun. It's the current year ffs, don't let the patriarchy define you. Go get 'em tiger.
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>>18233015
Covered this in a psych course.
That shits common. Also I do it too. It can cause great distress but chances are very good youll never act on it especially if its bothering you.
If its a real problem seek a medical professional. Medication may help but its not likely to ever go away without chemical intervention.
Your best option: just deal, mang.
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you dont really. we all have them, most people just dont admit it. but men are supposed to think about the best way to hurt someone, becuase if not for law, they'd all be hurting us. its healthy to think of how, its just not healthy to act on it. and by not healthy i mean to your well being in society, not mentally.
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Hey guys. Been super annoyed / confused the past week, finally decided to ask you guys for advice.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2+ years, and have a super solid relationship, even though I'm super high achieving and he dropped out of uni because of depression and other issues and hasn't done much since. We just have really similar personalities and interests, everything from music to religion to family background. Planning to get married as soon as I graduate and we can be financially stable, plus he's working to fix his depression and get a job.
We also share a strong friend group we've both been in from before we started dating. They all know we're close, but not that we're more or less engaged already (without the label).
The other day, one of these friends and I were talking while waiting for the others to show up. Mutual friend starts talking about how he is academically stable, has good connections, blah blah blah. Then starts talking about how he's surprised my current relationship has lasted this long, he expects it to crash and burn as soon as we get married, etc. Says he would be a much better match for me. Willingly admits he's trying to steal me from bf.
I blew him off, and later told my bf about it. He was annoyed at the guy, but didn't want to make a big stink about it. I'm mostly wondering how I should interact with him moving forward - we used to just chat about history and RPG characters and random stuff, but now I don't really trust him. Should I have an honest talk and say that trying to steal me makes me not consider him an honest friend, or just ghost-freeze him, or block him completely, or just ignore that and keep him friendzoned? Any insight would be welcome. <3
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I'd keep my distance from him if I were you. Sleaze-ball to the max.
Because he's in your friend group, would it be hard to block him out of your life, sans drama? Otherwise, I would try to not engage with him; if he gets uppity and pushes the issue, just blow him off again.
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>>18233014
Do you realize that in order for a boy to have sex/relationship/steal gf the girl (you) has to agree to it beforehand? And if your bf isnt super insecure jealous faggot, he would need hard proof in order to install a wedge between you and your soon to be husband?
Keep him friendzoned and dont let him spike your drinks / get you drunk.
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>>18233061
Yeah, I don't want to make a big deal out of it in the group. So far I've just been ignoring his advances and when he tries to start text conversations with me and ignoring him when when we're not in a group setting.
>>18233075
Yeah, it's more that I don't like the fact that he even tried. Totally goes against any kind of "bros before hoes" principles.
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>Senior prom in 10 days
>I don't really know anybody at my school because I never take my earbuds out (yeah, i'm that kid)
>Even so, i'd really like the pride of knowing I took a girl (really, any girl) to prom instead of posting on 4chan all night like I usually do
Is there any hope in asking a random from one of my classes?
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>>18232994
Do you even do english?
Pick up any random girl at class and ask her on prom. Once she denies you, ask her which girls are still free. Repeat unless the stress from rejections grows so strong you kys inside class using your pen and table. Or until you find a girl.
Remember, it is your prom, not mine.
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No
Girls want to spend prom with their friends or not go at all
That being said, life isn't a movie, romance isn't now or never
You're fine
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Stay at home and listen to music with your earbuds. About hope? Yes sooner you ask the more chance there is
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Is the hatred I feel from every stranger real or imagined?
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>>18232966
Strangers are just friends you haven't met
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>>18232966
99.99% of people do not give enough of a fuck about you to be anything but indifferent towards you
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>>18232966
It depends, is there anything about the way you dress or act that might give a bad first impression?
If you're a vocal vegan who never goes anywhere without your MAGA hat and custom vape and greet everyone you meet with a slap on the ass, you might not be imagining it.
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Do I look fat /adv/?
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You made the picture small so you wouldn't look fat didn't you?
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>>18232965
You need a better pic and not wear too wear black if you want us too be able too tell
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that was the size of it friend
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here's another one
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How to protect others whilst avoiding violence.
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Hey adv,
I'm fucking SHORT guy at 5'5. If people pick or get aggressive with my friends or a girl friend what would y'all suggest I try to resolve said situation.
NOTE: despite my height I CAN fight. I have boxed for years and I know how to protect myself on the ground too. Plus I was a short fat nerdy kid all the way through highschool so I got used to fighting people bigger than me when bullies would try to start shit.
Intimidation doesn't work when you are looking up at the aggressor so that method is shot.
Im not a clever man either so taking around a situation isn't my forte either.
What do y'all suggest? Pic kinda related.
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>>18232963
Become witty, learn how to read people, and hit them where it hurts
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>>18232963
carry a gun
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I would just prefer ways other than sleeping niggas. The ptoblem is if they aren't intimidated by me then they're more lible to keep pushing till they cross a line.
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Tried every possible anti-dandruff shampoo but them dandruff still keeps on coming back. I need help anons
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drink water and work out
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>>18232909
dont use shampoo so much., dandruff is dry scalp flaking, and shampoo, even anti dandrug shampoo affects that. if you want to get rid of dandrugg cut your hair really short so you get rid of all of it thats in your hair, and apply moisturizer and use shampoo not so often, and try not to keep your head in the water so much
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>>18232909
shower more often instead of once monthly. seriously.
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>boyfriend makes me feel loved, makes me feel good about myself, makes me fall in love
>suddenly starts ignoring me for weeks
>depression comes back, I start skipping classes again
>ruining my life 24/7
>finally decide to snap and ask him what he really wants
>"I don't care who it is I'm with, I just don't want to be alone"
>"Anyone will do as long as they don't annoy me"
>proceeds to call me his sweetheart
>mfw
wat do? I'm trying my hardest not to break down over here
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maybe he's just not that into you. Be alone for a while
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>>18232888
Yeah, taking the advice. I let myself be deceived for long enough
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>>18232863
Well, I don't blame him. Girls aren't very interesting besides their bodies.
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My boyfriend is Chinese and he has a pretty K-pop face and a nice body from working out every day. He's smart and plays piano and shit. He can cook.
But
>farts 20 times a day
>burps a lot (family too)
>wears clothes for 2-3 weeks without washing them except for underwear
I don't know what to think of this, should I accept it since he is amazing on every other aspect or tell him it's gross?
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>>18232847
It's...it's almost as if...No...It couldn't be. Holy fuck you dumb sack of shit!!! It's almost like he's a human being with flaws.
Wow, I wonder how your tiny brain will wrap around this quest.
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>>18232847
>>farts 20 times a day
>>burps a lot (family too)
Unless he does that in front of you with no shame, I don't see how it's a big deal. Every fucking person does this.
>wears clothes for 2-3 weeks without washing them except for underwear
That's a deal-breaker for you? Just offer to do his laundry for him.
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You can get him to wash his clothes more often. If you think you can make him stop farting you've got another thing coming, sister.
Also, disclosing his race will only attract unnecessary shitposting from the /pol/ m-muh redpill crowd.
>tfw 23 year old NEET
>tfw Our Jew Landlord (I say he's a Jew because he has curly hair and a big nose.) raised the rent again
I think he wants his old tenants to leave. Asshole. Anyways, what jobs can I get to help my family? I prefer to not work in places with food since I'm hairy as fuck.
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>>18232803
thats normal ? rents are raised by an index because of inflation. and in first world countries people can't just raise the rent because they feel like it. there are a lot of laws how the rent is calculated
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>>18232803
If you live in the US, what is your zipcode. I'll find some leads for you.
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>>18233541
43201
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I am a 28yo femanon, I recently got out of a long term relationship. Now I would like to meet a new guy. But my dating game is rusty as heck.
A few days ago I went out to a concert with a friend. There were a few handsome men that made me nervous, but I didn't do anything. I was too shy and I felt silly.
What would I even say? Do men even like it when women make the first move or does it make me look desperate?
Even if I would talk to them, what about my friend? I can't just let her standing alone and talk to a guy, can I. How does this normally work?
I never dated much and I certainly never picked up someone in a club so I have no clue.
Idk... if you have some lines for me that sound alright to say, or some other hints, they are much appericated.
Keep in mind that I am old and not a brazen teenager anymore. I can't just ask for weed and hang my tatas is their faces anymore. I'm old, he needs to think I have my shit together, at least most of it. oh god.
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>>18232801
Oh shut the fuck up. You'll be fine, bitch.
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>>18232801
>But my dating game is rusty as heck.
LMAO, just fucking stand around any public place until some guy comes up to you and offers to start buying stuff
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>>18232801
>Do men even like it when women make the first move or does it make me look desperate?
I was always happy and found it cute as hell when a woman made a first move
>go back 7 years ago
>ex leaves me for another dude
>dude constantly talks shit about me and says he hates me so much
>went as far as to call me and make fun of me and my family
>he got the impression I was a scrawny nerdy kid (which I was)
>come to the present
>ex and I patch things up and are friends
>he still hates me and loves to talk shit about me even though he isn't dating my ex anymore
>have started lifting and doing MMA since then
>I'm a bit more apathetic towards him because I've moved on with my life
>still feel enough hatred towards him that I wouldn't pass up the ability to confront him
>never have seen him in person
>finally do and I was literally bigger than him in height and weight
>he is somewhat stunned expecting a scrawny manlet nerd
>he tries to act tough and starts poking me
>tell him that if he tries that one more time his ass would be on the ground
>he touches me
>I hook him right in the jaw and he collapses
>his friends come gathering towards him and ask me "what the hell is wrong with you?"
Was I in the wrong for hitting him? I feel like giving him a warning was good enough for him to think about what he was doing and stop.
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>>18232791
topkek i hope you get ur ass beat
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Naw. Good on you. Fair is fair.
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>>18232791
you had every right to kick his shit in. you good
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Long story short I found out my girlfriend who recently moved in with me into the house I own was "in love" with one of my friends. After reading through their conversations she said she did not want to leave me but this asked this guy to come back and kiss her goodnight. She also stated that she did not want to do anything sexual with this guy but then an hour later started to sext him and went through her ideal first time with him. She ended up telling him she got off on the conversation.
So, I'm first off assuming I should break up with her? I'm curious to see any arguments against it. I do truly love her.
And Secondly what is causing her to be like this? She admitted I treat her like extremely well and am there for her when she needs it.
Thanks!
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>>18232774
Love is a feeling which goes against any logic. You can fight against it and supress it, but in this case the girl chose different approach.
She doesnt have to be cheating whore by definition, but she definitely isnt loyal to you and therefore you just break up with her and give her ~3 days to collect her things from your appartment.
And stop posting pepe memes.
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>>18232774
>your house
>"we can fuck, but I'll stay with my boyfriend because he's so nice!"
literally cuckold/nice guy tier. you should probably do what >>18232835 said.
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>>18232774
How often do you two have sex? I feel she might like the way you treat her, but she isn't feeling sexually fullfilled.