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>>18235708
Oh.

>>18235723
>not answering with はい
ur fukt

According to /adv/ if you liked her you should have asked her out before you even exchanged words otherwise you're a bitter neck beard who is low confidence and is waiting for a flashing signal above her face saying please ask me out

Sorry man you're too late, better off never talking to her ever again about anything

>>18235700
Just talk to her about it. If you're good friends and you date, but split up, you'll be rocky for a while but you'll be able to be friends again eventually.

If she rejects you, you'll feel like shit for a while, but eventually you'll be fine and you'll be friends again.

>>18235700
Ask her out for coffee or something casual. Don't make it seem like a date, play it like youd be doing it anyways if she wasnt there. You'll be able to guess what's on her mind if she agrees, but expect a no.

>20
>graduating with a bachelors
wot?

>>18236592
nigga mustve went fresh outta high school yerp

>>18236613
??? Average age of a highschool senior is 18...
17 at the youngest, how tf did he graduate highschool at 18

Remind yourself that you're far likelier to die driving to the airport than on the plane. Nearly 100 people are killed in vehicle accidents just in America every single day. There just isn't a news story after every accident like with a plane, it really is the safest way to travel.

>>18235685
Might be able to get something from your doctor for flying anxiety.

I was almost in a plane crash. Was trying to land during a snowstorm. The plane started swinging like a pendulum, and all of a sudden it swung way harder, to the point where it seemed like it was about to start spinning. People started screaming. The guy sitting next to me gripped my hand, I was 14. The pilot pulled the plane up and all of this happened within maybe 10-15 seconds, tops.

I'd still get on a plane so I definitely don't have flight anxiety. Because in all honesty, if the plane crashes, you get to get high on oxygen so whatever is happening, you are more or less okay with it.

Do you really have the choice not to do the right thing ?

>>18235675
suck it up and improve yourself, if you give up now it'll get worse and worse without you even noticing

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>>18235675
Take it in bite sized chunks of learning
Set a certain amount of time aside a day to study and promise to yourself that you'll do it no matter how much it sucks and hurts to do
Reward yourself at the end with some video game time.
Do this twice a day and you'll pass the GED

If you don't do it now it 3 years you're going to be hating yourself for never making yourself do it now. You do not have time to waste. Don't let your future self down.

>>18235662
Don't drink alcohol, don't eat fat things.

What are you getting?

More meat on the point of contact, less painful

So biceps, less painful
Elbows/Ribs/Neck, very painful

I myself have two on my biceps, reasonably sized, took about 2 hours less probably each.
I might recommend bring a friend so you can talk to someone the whole time.
Places might differ but my process was like filling out forms, making sure the image was the one I chose, shave the area where the tattoo was going, they turn it into some purple paper replica sort of the tattoos you get as a 5 year old, place it perfectly, then the actual tattoo starts.

>>18235611
Are you retarded?

>>18235621
Why? If I use the standart knot I will probably use too much of the strap. There must be a better way

>>18235611
Put the rope in the key's hole, then the dangler in the rope's hole

>>18235563
>they are surrounded by people with similar problems who co-dependently enable each them.
This is the biggest problem. I've never once seen a fat person get thin when they're surrounded by other fat people.

>How do I as a lone assburger with shitty social skills save this person from themselves?
You don't. Sad to say it, but your friend won't get any better until they want to help themselves and are willing to put in the effort to do so.

>>18235563

the best ways to help people in this situation is to control them. it may sound extreme, people tend to think 'well if they can't take care of it themselves than whats the point?'

but food addiction isnt that different than drug addiction. perhaps just as bad really considering that you HAVE to eat and that makes making the right choice harder.

if they are willing, the best thing you can do is move in with them, shop with/for them, and monitor all their food. and if you are unwilling to live iwth them for at least a week to accomplish this,. the best you can do is monitor from afar. but once you do that you know that they can lie, they can run off and buy something else, etc.

You have good intentions and all but it is a bit contemptuous to think this way, and as your friend picks up on it it's likely to make them resentful towards you. Adults in general don't like to be controlled and want their friends to have faith in their judgement. Same goes for you, as much as you want your friends to help you out in various situations, you also probably don't want any of them constantly harping on you for this or that flaw.

At the same time this feels like wasted energy. As in good intentions that could be put to good use to genuinely help this other person. So I personally wouldn't say it's best to do nothing, but to do it in a way that shows you still respect this person and their boundaries. For example, if a friend was approaching you to help you with your social skills, how would you want them to go about it and how could they do this in a way where it still showed that they respected your overall judgement?

>>18235492
Just accept the fact that it can go terribly and you might never be with her. If that happens there's a bunch of other girls.
Stop putting this specific girl on a higher level

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>>18235498
Ok that's not a problem for me. I learned it the hard way when i got rejected last year when a girl stopped answering to my messages. Was sad for a few weeks but got over it. I learned allot from that experience.

>>18235510
Ok then just go up to her and ask?
You've already faced the hardest rejection (first) why are you waiting with this one

>>18235427
>If someone wants in on my life, they have to show me
Pretty much what every girl thinks
Even the most desperate

they usually do, they usually get interested and show interest at bare minimum, some might expect you to make the final step (by asking out, make a move etc) but its very easy to detect

the bad news is if you they show zero interest they usually have none

>>18235435
There are also girls who show interest and then ignore when you ask them out

>>18235389
First off, your nervousness will fade away in the first two minutes you talk to her when she arrives. So don't stress over it.
Second, because you are inexperienced you shouldn't even go on this date with the mindset
>I will fuck her
just try to have a good time.
Third, be yourself. I'm being fucking serious here. Be yourself. If you put on an act, you will just make her uncomfortable when she sees through it. She will even trust you less. She already agreed to go on a date with you, that means she likes you already.
And last, yes. Kiss her in the end. But make sure to flirt with her obviously. That is as simple as telling her that she looks pretty when you pick her up or touching her back when you walk somewhere.

Keep in mind, she agreed on date with you. That means sex with you went already through her head and she thought to herself she would want that. The deal is already sealed, so just be cool and try to enjoy yourself.

>>18235410
By the way, I'm saying that as 21 year old who lost his virginity last February. You can do this, bruh.

>>18235416
>>18235410

Thanks my man. Yeah, we are flirting over text close to 2 weeks now. I know that she likes me, and she knows that I like her.

You have some tipps for the kissing part? (I wouldnt have gone in it with a "I will fuck her" mindset anyways)

GJ to you on that kind sir!

TL;DR
>previous ex wrote letter to me
>I keep it around
>current gf is wary of ex
>gf finds letter
>understandably upset

What do

>>18235374
You kept the letter for 2.5+ years?
Nobody will believe you that you just "forgot it" there.

>>18235374
"The letter inside was innocuous. I kept the envelope because it had her mailing address on it."

>>18235373
How do you feel? Are you tired throughout the day or just feeling like everything is perfectly fine?

>>18235402
Perfectly fine. My body also doesn't make any problems. I'm just worried that it might change one day

>>18235373
Chocolade are sugars, fats and even some anti depresive things, cacao and vitamines. It is also very kcal dense, so if you overdo it, you may get fat.

Soda is pure cancer. With or without sugar, it is concentrated cancer in a drink. If you want to drink something sweet, go for orange juice.

T. Water masterrace.

it could be that your wife has personal problems from that past that causes her to be so defensive. Does she suffer from any mental health diseases? Maybe a lack of self-worth or respect? Could it be that she doesn't like herself that much so when you tell her something or ask her something, she gets defensive because she sees it as a personal attack? You'll have to do some research into this case and find the real reason for her acting in a unreasonable manner.

all women are crazy
they will put their crazyness on you and you will have to present the common sense solution and stick to it

they whine and complain but they will respect you for it

stand your ground, argue, reason and dont be a fucking slipper, its called shittests and its part of being a woman

im usually telling mine she is being retarded if she still wants to do the crazy unreasonable thing after long hours of discussion

>>18235361
>a third party(the baby) that will act as a catalyst for the "I DO WHAT I WANT, CONSEQUENCES BE DAMNED" aspect of her personality.

You can stay with her as long as you don't have that baby. Because she will toss any thought of trying to compromise with you right out the window if she thinks she has to for the sake of the baby, and she WON'T be thinking rationally, she will be excessively cautious.

People need to be loaded to have kids without this kind of thing coming between them.

>>18235345
They won't give them to you during the surgery. They will use a local anaesthetic and possibly nitrous oxide to put you under. They would only ever prescribe opiates for the pain following the procedure, which you can always deny.

>>18235357
This desu. They will send you home with a prescription for a bottle of percocets but you can just not get the prescription filled. Tell your parents you "don't believe in that stuff" or some shit idk.

>>18235357
>>18235446
Thanks a lot you guys, the possibility of this has been freaking me out since I found out I'd have to have them out a year ago and google searches didn't give me the answers I was looking for. My friends all told me about their experiences with the things they gave them during the surgery and it sounded like the high I would get before so I was quite rattled. I appreciate the help.