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Stop masturbating and start being mindful. Reading Buddhist scriptures and other religious texts is good.

>>18236836
I don't see how moderate masturbation can be harmful.

Your body doesn't know the difference between masturbation and sex, ya know

Read books. And is it more of your short term memory that is affected or long term memory? From there you can readily minimize the effects.

Short Term: Flash cards of interesting facts or words with definitions. You could even play one of those cheap toys like BOP-IT

Long Term: Reading books as mentioned earlier. You could also start writing a diary and going back to read entries to help recall old memories.

>>18236807
Look up rules in your state/country on being fired vs quitting. Talk to union rep if you have one. Look for another job. Being fired isn't end of world. Just make sure you ask your old supervisor for reference

>>18236807
Look for a new job but don't quit. It has no benefits over getting fired for you.

Thanks anons, job search is underway.

>>18236793
Because humans live in packs

>>18236793
Humans are social creatures. Human contact is essential

>>18236797
What about people who throw themselves into working on things? Surely there are people alone in the world?
Can you not be satisfied with your hobbies and interests?

>>18236767
Well, my gf hates if I put a finger there, imagine my whole cock. The thing is that it's really painful, uncomfortable and many girls don't like the idea of covering their partner's cock with poop. If you don't believe me try it for yourself. The only way is to install the idea in her mind, talk about it, train her ass with your fingers and when she's really horny try the real thing. Although I heard that it requires preparation to be done properly.

Depends on the girl.

If she is a virgin and hasn't tried anal yet, you gotta give the best anal for her in order to make her like it and never hate it m8.
But if she is a non-virgin, then you should try to convince her to do it and do it just like any virgin girl: do it properly so she will like it.

Also some non-virgin girls that like it is because some girls do have some nerve ending there that makes it feel great for them so not every girl will like it even if you did your best OP.
Hopefully the girl you will settle with one day will like it desu, or at least give anal sometimes just for you.

Also 2D tsundere girls love anal.

I might have cancer, I'm going to post just to nimmy your jimmies but I used to be into it. But it was only because I thought it was hot. I didn't enjoy it. It sucked. If I had a choice between anal sex and eating horseradish off of the ground, I'd be conflicted.

I'm sorry anon, that I can't be the one person in your life who accepts the consequences of my mistakes.

I am surrounded by so many people like this too and I am so sick of it. I don't even know you but just know that you're a VERY strong person for trying to grow and learn despite the shortcomings of the people surrounding you.

You win as long as you come out of it alive, and you were honest with yourself the whole time. And I love you for even trying to acknowledge this because most people are too proud.

>>18236763
A real man admits when he's wrong

I dont really prove people wrong anymore, instead I try to convince them because people are too afraid to admit defeat these days, hell, showing weakness in general is considered taboo in some cultures.

Not doing anything wrong, but probably it's the culture in your country that is like this,
At least you're trying to learn from your mistakes OP unlike some people.

I guess you gotta get used to it anyway, since you're already living there so, keep being like this but know already your country is like this.

>>18236734
Smoke four ounces of weed in a car with the windows up and doors closed, you'll be
>super-high man

>>18236739
^:)

>>18236734
There are plenty of ways to do it. If you're rich, you could go the Batman route and get martial arts training and buy some body armor. You could be like the punisher and buy a lot of guns and then go on a killing spree of criminals. You could try going to a nuclear plant and bathing in radiation, but that's more likely to result in a painful death than anything else. You could go to the zoo/museum and get bit by a rare spider. You can do steroids and get really strong, which would be the equivalent of super strength. You could then combine your steroid strength with full body armor and learn martial arts. You could even call yourself Anabolic-man

>>18236720
Start eating healthy food that you like, i had your problem and started eating (well filled) sandwiches with things like lettuce, cucumber ham cream cheese and the likes. Combined that with walking everywhere (sometimes up to 20km a day, 10km on average) and got back to healthy within two months

SS+GOMAD
>>>/fit/

Literally SS+GOMAD, but don't just drink only a GOMAD like that one retarded anon that could've died.

Or just start eating plenty of meat and do some bodyweight excercises in order to increase muscle and a bit of fat so you could get healthy again.

Basically my question is this, if I hook up with an ugly ass chick just to get my rocks off and then try to let her down easy that I'm not really interested in being her boyfriend, obviously, I'm probably a dick. A horrible dick. But at the same time I'd like to not hurt these girls' feelings too much. So my question is, what's the best way to go about it if you're just looking to fuck around with a girl a couple times and then let her down easy when something better comes along?

Just have sex with them OP, if you're into Tinder or related then most likely you're there just for sex and not seeking a LTR.

And just be flirty as fuck with the ugly chicks and say you want to fuck or something, not seeking any LTR or anything.
It shouldn't be that hard, hell, you could even find a sex friend there.

Why are you jacking off five times a day? Twice a week is plenty....but everyday multiple times? How are you alive?

Most likely you're
>out of shape
>balding
>Poor skin
>low energy
>No hobbies
>less than 3 partner count

am I right?

>>18236653
>But this one is kinda my priority.
a girl who can't straight up tell you shes in a relationship is your priority?
hmmmmm idk man

Dont try too hard at this. Closure is nice but don't bet on her being your answer. If she still has a bf, she a hoe. If she did it to scare you off, it didn't work and now she knows you're interested.

>>18236657
I guess I just found that I really liked her. The other girl I'm taking on a date this week, I thought she was cool, but I didn't feel the spark. I'm just giving it another shot just in case my feelings change the second time around, and if they don't, I'd love to be her friend.

But the one I'm kinda stuck on... I dunno, I've never clicked with anybody else so well before. I was sure about her after the first date. When she casually mentioned a boyfriend, I was taken aback, because it made no sense how she just casually mentioned him, as if her having a bf wasn't new info to me. Like, none of the possibilities make sense:

1. She was dating him at the time I took her out, and she was cheating on him.
Why would she tell me about him, then? Wouldn't she want to keep him a secret?

2. She got with him in the time since our first date.
Why would she just casually mention him then, instead of saying "sorry anon, I'm seeing somebody now"? Saying "haha actually I'll be with my bf that day" isn't how you break things off with somebody.

3. She made him up in order to let me down "lightly"
My response to the above scenario still applies. She would say, "I'm seeing somebody now etc etc." instead of just casually sliding him into conversation.

Not really knowing what's up is kinda why I plan to just sort of take her out again and feel things out from there, instead of making things awkward by interrogating her about it. And if she brings him up herself, I'll be happy to address it and how it confused me. Otherwise...

I think I have experience but I can't remember

>>18236604
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>>18236581
it works
but the withdrawals aren't worth it. also you start forgetting shit

try a medical psychologist first.

This is why these are banned in the US.

>>18236562
top kek do tey get them in Ausland? if they do that makes no sense

>>18236562
Also why OP shouldnt shove anything but a cock up her ass

>>18236518
how old is your child?

what do you mean by disrespectful behaviour? give concrete examples pls

if it as anything to do with the relationship, i think that the it'll only make the bond between them stronger, so it's counterproductive then

There is nothing constructive that comes from a punishment like that, they learn nothing except you do not trust them or respect them enough to make their own decisions, even if they are bad ones, and they will ergo lose respect for you as their parent as well. If they are old enough to have a significant other then you cannot simply forbid them from contact. They will find a way to see each other and if not they will despise you.

Bumping to get this over with

Those aren't japanese.

>>18236504
He's definitely an /a/non desu.
But I seriously hope he already thought about it well so you could sell them senpai, because I hope you aren't being an asshole and selling them just like that.

Anyway, there isn't many places where you could sell it like that, but if you have plenty of volumes you can always sell it on a bunch on eBay anyway.

Also you should do some research about manga shops near you so maybe they could buy them in a bunch too so you don't have to worry about the expensive exports, tax, etc.

>>18236500

I'm right there with you on this question. Completely garbage service, insanely expensive... I want to cut the cord too, but FS1 too.

I'm paying for the 50 Mb down though... even worse. Shit never works.

cancel television
get sling TV or some other internet TV service

>>18236508

Dang man. Crazy to see someone else in the same situation.. Yeah it sucks. Luckily I've never had problems with the internet dropping out, I would be pissed if that happened to me after paying for 50mb.

I looked up satellite internet options and it just doesn't seem viable and is relatively the same price, maybe a little lower but with more hassle and way lower speeds.

>>18236513

>cancel television

I would, but there are two or three programs I like to watch live and I doubt I could watch them on sling TV.

Also, I'm almost positive I can't just have internet alone, everything comes in packages. Like I have to have TV and internet, or a phone and internet, I can't just get internet alone. I remember asking about just starting with internet when I first signed up and I got talked into getting a TV package with it because it would only be a little bit more a month, and I would get faster internet. I think I got rused hard.

You should get a doggo man if you're feeling that lonely, but for god's sake I hope you have a nice job and a house too.

But anyway, you should be thankful that you're alone now, since some people have it a lot worse than you, like getting just divorced and losing all their belongings or having a shitty wife and a shitty job they fucking hate with all their fury and are really close to really kill themselves, etc.

So, it's either forget about it, get a doggo that will love you and care about you or move your ass, get more interesting and stop being an asshole and find a good girl in some church or w/e place you hang out somewhere.

Since you know how the saying goes: better be alone than in a bad company.

>>18236606
>Nice job and house
hah, jobless in college and living with family
we have a dog and a cat but you know that's no loving relationship, just a fun companion to have
I know and am trying to live by >better be alone than in a bad company.
but it's nearly an invasive level of thoughts about it, I know people go full single and don't feel like this and I know that relationships aren't that good, the problem is my subconscious didn't get the memo

You sound like you're in a rut. Best plan of action? Stop looking at 4chan until you get out of your rut. You aren't in a place mentally to be absorbing all this bullshit.

Start watching RSDtyler, coreywayne, etc type videos on youtube and learn the proper mindset when looking for a gf. Basically:

>Focus on self-improvement and keep the idea that you'll get the perfect girl at the perfect moment. Become the kind of guy that would attract your dream girl. List the qualities in your dream girl and think about them everyday, and you'll start to notice more girls that suit your type. What you focus on expands.

>Avoid porn! Never ever ever look at porn. In my experience as long as you are watching porn more than once a month, it becomes extremely difficult to get a girl. You're wasting useful energy on images and videos that could be spent working out, meeting women, focusing on your goals, etc. Porn poisons the mind and ejaculating too often results in low energy and sex appeal. Try to keep masturbation down to once every 4-5 days and never watch porn.

>Don't chase women, instead become the type of guy women want and you won't ever have to chase. Way too much to write about this, but check out the youtube channels I mentioned. They changed my life.