Anonymous
Getting ghosted by women? 2017-04-19 01:55:00 Post No.18238638
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Getting ghosted by women? 2017-04-19 01:55:00 Post No.18238638
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: IMG_0043.jpg (11KB, 227x227px) Image search:
[Google]
11KB, 227x227px
Getting ghosted by women?
Anonymous
2017-04-19 01:55:00
Post No. 18238638
[Report]
[View this topic]
So many times now I have been ghosted by women. I am not too mad about being ghosted, what I am mad about is that I can't learn from whatever mistakes I am making so I can become a better dater. I know I am boring but how am I boring?
Like, I can't get any information from these women so I can grow as a person. The most recent woman told me she liked me. I liked her back. Have not heard from her in a month. I texted her 4 times. One time a week for that month. No responses.
So how am I supposed to learn if people don't give me any info? Even just a "I don't like you" would have been good.
Why do I get ghosted so much. A while back one girl did tell me she did it because she didn't want to hurt my feelings.
I understand that but honestly, it still hurt me.
Help
38 Posts / 4 Images
View this topic
>>
there a giant wall of dicks on Tinder
Unlimited Cock Works
yours can only hold her attention so long
>>
Same, across different apps i have talked to chicks for like a day and then a day later, they disappear.
Im currently talking to 2 but they are underage so i burned that bridge.
>>
>>18238638
I know this feel. I just want some feedback. I'd rather hear brutal truth than nothing at all.
Anonymous
How long should you wait to be friends with an ex? 2017-04-19 01:24:49 Post No.18238563
[Report] Image search: [Google]
How long should you wait to be friends with an ex? 2017-04-19 01:24:49 Post No.18238563
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: Foggy City.png (2MB, 1920x1080px) Image search:
[Google]
2MB, 1920x1080px
How long should you wait to be friends with an ex?
Anonymous
2017-04-19 01:24:49
Post No. 18238563
[Report]
[View this topic]
So, me and my now ex gf (of 2 years) have broken up. We both agreed that the reasons were valid, however it wasn't a mutual break up, she broke up with me and I think im definitely more affected by it than she is. We both had agreed that we would like to stay in contact/become friends after a while because we were still pretty compatible, esspecially in humour.
Right now I'm getting a lot of impulses to reach out again but I can understand that these are because I miss her and want to be with her again, not because I want to form a friendship.
I'm just wondering if there is any general time frame I should look towards before actually reaching out again and doing things as friends.
Pic unrelated
11 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18238563
Don't do it. If only brings you more pain that will never end.
>>
>>18238563
You probably shouldn't, but best case scenario, it's going to be YEARS before you can actually be friends. If you can at all.
>>
>>18238563
You can be friends with her again when you have absolutely no desire to have a relationship with her outside of platonic friendship.
If you want her back the let's be just friends route is filled with many a heartache.
File: 13746768_dianna-agron-margaret-qualley--morgan_8727eaa8_m[2].jpg (64KB, 640x342px) Image search:
[Google]
![13746768_dianna-agron-margaret-qualley--morgan_8727eaa8_m[2].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/VK5zE5S.jpg "13746768 dianna-agron-margaret-qualley morgan 8727eaa8 m[2]")
64KB, 640x342px
What is the most and least you've done for pussy?
MOST:
>Bought a girl a $200 necklace for Christmas. She gave me a blowjob and I fucked her for 45 minutes
LEAST:
>Took a girl to Taco Bell. She also gave me a blowjob and let me play with her thick ass
84 Posts / 4 Images
View this topic
>>
a guy once paid 1000$ to fuck me.
on the other hand, i've fucked guys that had spent zero $ on me.
guess it depends on the situation.
>>
Most:
>I went to Europe with her and her friends
I did want to go to Europe, but man were they boring. I just split up with them after I realised she was only worth fucking and not dateable.
Least:
>literally just talked to her
Became a proper relationship.
>>
>>18238145
>a guy once paid 1000$ to fuck me.
Story time Miss Proz
File: 1464071987880.gif (2MB, 395x313px) Image search:
[Google]
2MB, 395x313px
I made the mistake of becoming intimate with someone from work.
Initially, we clicked really well, but two months later, she broke it off because of politics. I've seen her from far away a few times in a large office that we work in because her cubicle is a few rows away from mine. Today was the first time since the breakup that I directly encountered her. I was walking into work, turned the corner, and she was walking toward me. When our eyes met, she immediately smiled and mouthed the word, "hey," (very similar to how she would greet me before the breakup) but this time, she quickly looked at the ground. Aside from walking, I didn't react in anyway and stared at her for the most part. As I was getting ready to turn into my cubicle aisle, I simultaneously looked away and made a minor move with my lip as the acknowledgement of her greeting.
How should I behave around her? Was my response written above appropriate?
pic semi related.
20 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
bump
I think I didn't react because I'm still not too happy about what happened. Things were going very well, but changed suddenly.
>>
its over lad
you could try beating around the bush if you really want to
dont analyze these things, they dont matter
behave however you want, she either already have a boifriend like you were or in the process of getting one
>>
>>18237845
Just pretend that nothing ever happened, obviously
File: IMG_0192.jpg (78KB, 600x579px) Image search:
[Google]
78KB, 600x579px
Please believe me I'm not trolling. My boyfriend just passed 200 pounds and is really self conscious about it. He doesn't eat very well and I've been on his case about getting healthier. Not because I find fat unattractive but because his family has heart problems and I think he should watch what he eats and be more active. Now this said I have to be honest I've been having dirty dreams and thoughts since he has been gaining obvious weight. Last night I came really hard to thoughts of his fat body rubbing against mine and I wonder if I developed a short term interest in the fatness of my boyfriend or if I always had a fetish and now discovered it.
Now I really really want my boyfriend to indulge me with dirty talk. I want him to say things during sex like
>you love getting fucked by a fat guy don't you
>ugghh I'm so big Anon... you know you love feeling my weight
>etc
Problems I see with being honest about this fetish is 1.) he doesn't take it well and becomes insulted/self conscious, 2.) he loses his motivation to get healthy, 3.) it's just a temporary fetish and I get over it soon but reap the judgement/other consequences of sharing how I feel
What should I do about this situation /adv/, I get so horny thinking about him embracing me and smothering me with with his love and fat... should I let that go to waste?
19 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18237381
hahhaahhaahhahahahah
what's your number? I'm 6'0" 210.
>>
>>18237381
Fuck him lots that way he gets skinnier and you get fucked by a fat dude. Eat healthy with him and forget about the weird fetishy talk cause he's probably never gonna do that.
>>
>>18237381
I see the dilemma...
But his health is more important. I suggest you say nothing and encourage healthy lifestyle. If he fails or gets fatter you win anyway.
File: 17862767_1535065836503442_2231297430080812366_n.jpg (45KB, 500x375px) Image search:
[Google]
45KB, 500x375px
Had a talk with my gf a while ago. We plan on marrying and has stated that she would say yes to getting engaged if I asked. Recently, I told her about some agreements that I would like to make for our prenup.
>If found cheating, immediate divorce with no monetary ties
>If we have a kid, they will get DNA tested as soon as possible
>If kid is not mine, he will not be my problem.
She stated that she's okay with the terns but feels insulted that I would want a prenuptial agreement. I told her that I would push for the conditions no matter who it was I were to marry.
Should I feel bad for legally protecting myself?
143 Posts / 10 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18237148
It takes the magic out of asking someone to marry them, yeah. It's a double edged sword though, because a prenup is smart and you should protect yourself.
Basically, it's trying to use logic in what is inherently an illogical institution.
>>
>>18237148
No.
>>
>>18237159
If I were her, I would prefer being covered because it's a two way street. The only reason to be against it is if you think life is a fairly tale and people don't cheat or lie or if you are worried that you'll get caught.
Why even worry about it if there's not any cheating going on?
Anonymous
Get it off your chest 2017-04-19 12:27:31 Post No.18237008
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Get it off your chest 2017-04-19 12:27:31 Post No.18237008
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: say it.jpg (23KB, 500x440px) Image search:
[Google]
23KB, 500x440px
I didn't see one on the catalog. I also made this just to get it off my own chest, feel free to do the same.
Even though I've been a piece of shit these past few years, you still managed to put up with my shit. You never gave up on me and still loved me, I just want to say thank you, even though that's not possible now.
391 Posts / 34 Images
View this topic
>>
I wish there was a way to help you be more introspective. I want to be a better partner for you, but I'm not sure how to do that when most of my questions are met with "idk". I don't know how to satisfy your wants and needs if not even you know what they are.
Also, it really hurt me when you laughed at my insecurity last night.
>>
A while ago i was in a very fucked up depressed mood and visited "massage parlor" twice and got handjobs they were my first time with other people. I feel its broken something inside my heart. I am disgusted at myself and i deserve it 100%. I dont know how to move on or start a relationship knowing i have done this (only handjobs luckily) disgusting thing. God I have sinned, you were always right. I seek forgiveness every day.
>>
I'm so happy at the moment. I finally got a gf, I'm not a virgin anymore, and I just feel and look good now. You know how I got all of these things? 4chan. I know its lame asking 4chan for help about girls but you guys really did help. I feel smarter about the world because of 4chan. Seriously thank you, you guys got my life together. Love you, honestly do.
File: justfriends.jpg (8KB, 284x177px) Image search:
[Google]
8KB, 284x177px
Can guys and girls have a deep, meaningful friendship? No sexual intimacy. Just friendship.
104 Posts / 13 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18233549
Not that I've ever seen. One party always ends up infatuated or left with a bitter broken heart
>>
Yes. I have that with my boyfriend
>>
>>18233549
yes, but there is often some sexual tension, but thats normal. look at close straight men and you'll find at least some sexual tension.
the difference is a man and woman are more likely to act on it.
File: p1096120.jpg (37KB, 700x466px) Image search:
[Google]
37KB, 700x466px
I want to kill myself. I'm all alone and nobody cares, and pretty much everybody I ever cared about abandoned me. I've tried to suck it up and tough it out for years, but the past few have been progressively getting harder and harder
14 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18240820
If you're gonna die anyways, you might as well do something cool first. Go assassinate Kim Jong-Un or bomb ISIS or something.
>>
I'm unemployed and next week will be the last week I get an unemployment check. This morning I woke up and somehow my TV threw itself on the floor and was shattered. I can't even afford to buy a $20 TV from some dude on craigslist, let alone a plane ticket. Plus I don't have a car so that's out too. I don't really want to hurt other people, I just want a break from my life and there's really only one way to do it
>>
are you a us citizen?
File: 1485892301163.png (858KB, 734x804px) Image search:
[Google]
858KB, 734x804px
So see, ive always been kind of interested in getting into an exercise regimen and getting somewhat /fit/
But i also have some bad ADHD or something and can't force myself through the trouble to do all the research, calculations, scheduling, and other general work it takes to figure out how to get into it.
Isn't there an easier way? a generally accepted guide i can simply follow? Or should i really just drag my wimpy ass to a gym and pay for training?
Yeah, this ADHD thing has (and is continuing to) ruin my life besides, but that's something for another thread, getting exercise can only help.
12 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Getting fit is a process entirely dependent on self-discipline. From the looks of your post you seem to have none. Cut out the excuses and put the work in and you'll see results otherwise don't even waste your time.
>>
I can force myself to do physical labor on a regular basis, but that's not even really useful for me because i am so weak in the first place.
I guess ill just start doing what i think is right and go from there, or hire that trainer.
by the way, my "lack of self-discipline" is all part of my psychiatric disorder in the first place, im always trying to better myself, trying really hard, but for all my efforts i never actually get much done, and that's often a tough pill to swallow.
thanks for nothing though anon.
>>
Okay I guess I can give you some advice, but let's get things straight, I'm not a /fit/fag, I have general tips that worked with me when I used to do the things right.
I have ADHD, medicated on adolescence and kind of accepted it nowadays. So I feel you when you say it brings you some issues (although I don't think it is same issues)
Also >>18240817 is kind of right, but not at all in YOUR case. Why? Because obviously you need discipline and willpower, but you also need how to get into it. All said, here's my tips.
I get somewhat fit following just 3 general steps.
>Diet
>Workout
>Never cheat
Is that simple, you don't need numbers if you don't go full /fit/derp.
>Diet
Calories in calories out, I'm sure you heard it sometime and somewhere. Easy step in my case where going to medic (public sanity). "Hey doc I'm fucking fat what can I do?" Here, do this diet and come back every friday. It is the base of this, eating healthy. ALSO, eating healthy, is damn healthy, don't eat less, don't stop eating, and NEVER cheat. If you cheat, you have to compensate it with next point.
>Workout
This is what will give you that nice looking you're (maybe) looking for, and also is what will help you on your Cal out. Once again, you don't need serious numbers, test your body without going hurr. That is, trying to lift weights over the ones you're comfy. Let's say if you lift 10kg on each hand without any issue, you try 12 or 15. BUT, whatever you do, you MUST do cardio. That's a kind of exercise that have long duration that would burn your body fat. You can muscle at same time, but if your diet is low cal, you could be feel fainted or more tired than usual. The usual order is Diet To Lose Fat + Cardio => Diet To Gain Muscle + Lift
>Never cheat
In anything. Set up a simple schedule. Something like going 2 hours to gym or running on the streets for 90 minutes. But if you set it, do it. If you cheat on a meal, you do extra workout to burn that extra calories etc etc
File: 1476692582488.png (34KB, 633x758px) Image search:
[Google]
34KB, 633x758px
I want feedback
>Saw psychologist today
>Autist
>Telling her how I sperged out and told someone I ate soap
>As leaving
>Anon you need to get a hobby or something
>The communist party, I say
>Oh no no
>The NSDAP? I say
>What's that?
>The nazi party
>No oh god no
>Yeah it's ok I'll talk to someone else about joining something
>Leave
There needs to be a board for rating social interactions.
Was mine bad?
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18240765
they're your psychologist
they don't judge you retard
we judge you much worse.
Only reason you're comfortable here is you can't put a face to the person laughing at you.
>>
I don't know how you could have so greatly misunderstood someone in the moment and then know what they said well enough to post about it.
>>
>>18240775
Should I kill self?
A customer of the shop I work in took a disliking to me and decided to complain about me on twitter to the head office of my company.
She made up a load of shit about how I'm sexist and my manager believed it and, without asking me about it first, apologised and made a load of concessions to her.
But I know she's lying, and I've looked at her twitter account and she seems pretty crazy - complaining about companies several times a week, taking photos of her ten year old son in dresses etc.
So basically next time she comes in I want some kind of revenge. I want to hit a nerve so she goes crazy and discredits herself so my manager might actually realise I'm innocent.
Any ideas?
9 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18240749
You're going to try to prove you're innocent by making yourself guilty? Doesn't seem like a great plan.
>>
Either your manager knows you did no wrong and just did what was required to shut the bint up or your manager knows you well enough that it's perfectly believable that you'd be a dopey fag wh9 brings sexism to the workplace.
Either way acting out isn't going to do shit to prove your innocence.
If you're looking to return the favor to that customer, that's a whole different thread. One not entirely unjustified either.
>>
>>18240779
Ok, how do I return the favour then? She doesn't have a job, she just makes shitty art.
And part of the problem was that my manager doesn't know me. I've only been there a couple of weeks, and this woman's bullshit could've got me fired
File: FB_IMG_1463634673015.jpg (30KB, 552x532px) Image search:
[Google]
30KB, 552x532px
What the do... /adv help please :3
So one evening I'm home playing some games and on discord with mates. The girlfriend goes ahead and blocks me on Facebook. (This is usual when she doesn't want to discuss an issues or generally annoyed about something. I cared and wondered why but these days, this kind of behavior from her does my head in when it fucking happens as I've got feelings for this girl...)
This time though a mate of mine could tell I'm annoyed bout this and throws a mobile number at me and says to message it, " it'll cheer me up! " he says. So I go ahead and do it. Turns out the number is a whore and she sends me a pre-made messages and a couple of nudes. I'm like " oh lol ". I ask if she is real and she says yes. I do mention that she looks great and I declined her offer. I go ahead and email that friend the messages and the nude. Told him, he was a moron and all he replies is laughter.
A week later and the girlfriend unblocks me and we are hanging out at hers. She goes through my phone as it vibrated, it was an email from work I think. She find that email I sent to my friend and loses it. Emotionally cheating she reckons. It got pretty heated that night and what I saying, she wasn't really listening. She's jumped to Facebook and posted me a villain to all on her page. Literally, white knights to the rescue with out really knowing the full story.
Anyways, we have been seeing a counsel about this but it seems like she really isn't taking in what the counsel or me for that matter is saying. I feel she just thinks it's "petty". I know how she is and that wouldn't be a far fetched thought.
I feel like she still thinks I did this in purpose. The fucking white knights and thirsty keyboard warriors on her pages are not really helping ether. A married guy is fucking talking to my gf and he even said that he prefers her company over his wife. Like ffs!
She must understand that blocking someone can some what effect them. What to do
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
cut off all contact with that dumb piece of shit you call the girlfriend.
>>
>>18240723
Quality example of acceptable human interaction in modern society. It's the story that matters dude, not the truth. Find a girls that acts like a human being and consider yourself luckier than winning the lottery. Here are your options:
>dump her, wait a million years before finding someone else that might be normal while she instantly fucks regularly with many different guys if shes not already
>stay with her because you caught a fish
>>
>>18240814
Damn this is what happened to me. I stayed bc I loved my ex but she put the thru hell. Then I leave, suddenly I'm the villian and she's fucking some britbong
File: memory-5.png (892KB, 3537x2850px) Image search:
[Google]
892KB, 3537x2850px
I need the best productivity tips! Anything, keeping in mind that I am a student. From organizing notes to just getting shit done.
10 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18240721
Adderall
>>
>>18240739
if only I understood that. Explain what do you mean Anon.
>>
>>18240752
lol Adderall is a drug. Google it.
Is it true that women will match with ugly beta men on Tinder so they can play a prank on them and upload embarrassing texts to social media and make fun of them? I got Tinder a few months ago and have around 300 matches but some of these girls are just too hot to possibly like me so I don't message them. They're not spambots because I read the bios and they're all legit. I don't message because I fear they only did it on accident or to upload it onto Instagram/Reddit to laugh at me if I do send them something. I've messaged maybe 10 girls first and only 2 responded. Am I paranoid or is this likely?
I've heard of it happening before and I've heard of catfishing and shit like that.
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
No.
>>
>>18240454
no they matched with you, and if you want to get more replies dont text a basic hey or something boring, make them smile when tehy see teh text, and also message them first. girls dont message first
>>
when i had tinder, id say racist/stupid/crazy shit and screencap reactions to send to my friend. it never had anything to do with making fun of somebody, or to do with the way that they looked. i think that if you do that, then you're a cunt.