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>>18243440
How old is this girl?

You're too old to be screwing around with teenagers.

21 is usually the max age for a highschool prom.

>>18243443
She's 18. IDK man, I just feel uneasy. She says I need to respect her and shit. She promised she wouldn't dance, kiss or do shit with him and she will come home to me that night. She said she is only going to enter prom with him and then split to dance with her friends.


The kid is skinny, weird looking and looks like he would get eaten for calories 200 years ago. Why do I feel threatened by this? Am I just insecure? I don't get why the fuck she doesn't just respect my feelings for this shit.

keking so god damn hard

>I'm graduating next year with a BA in Poly Sci

Switch majors to something viable to the world, for the sake of everything holy

>>18244013
I tried. I live in Florida, they make you pay double the tuition if you go over your credit hours. This includes double majors (my advice to everyone is to stay out of Florida).

>Getting a degree in a hobby
Might as well get a certificate in Video Gaming Ideas for all its worth.

>>18243403
What country are you in? A lot of countries have employment services where they can help you find a job if you're having trouble. Might be a bit shit, but it's better than killing yourself or going hobo mode.

Keep things in perspective. You haven't been diagnosed with some life-threatening illness or had something traumatizing happen to you. You're just struggling to find a good job.

My advice would be to take a lesser job just to sustain yourself so you aren't bleeding your savings dry. Like, work at a restaurant or maybe do some kind of labor. Job job. While you do that, you'll be meeting people and making connections while simultaneously applying for more stuff.

It's gonna be OK.

>>18243452
>Might be a bit shit
Tried those, they gave me jobs that were 3 hours away, I'm not about to do 6 hours of travel a day for work. Plus the closer jobs I applied for and they never got back to me.

The email included this:

"[Anon], (This is Jim addressing you now)

What, you're just going to be a little bitch and give up because someone hurt your feelings? Let me clue you in on something - you'll never make it in this industry if you're going to act like a child.

Don't bother responding to me - your script is rejected. I don't have time for idiots like you."

Keep in mind I did not even reply to the rejection email - I was working. I was so flabbergasted by this email from a professor at a major state university, that I was just at a loss for words. I responded the only way I knew how.

"Professor [Jim],

I'm sorry, but I was at my production job at [address]. Please contact [director] at [number] for details.

-Anon."

He write back a third time and gives a LONG winded email about how unprofessional it was to not respond to a Hollywood producer (this is his fictional Xmen character he's talking about) and used some terrible, derogatory comments.

I don't go to class the next day - my advisor called me and said it wouldn't be such a good idea. I hear from my classmates, though, that he went on a 15 minute tangent about me, personally, and told my classmates to avoid working with me. Not only that, a couple days later, at my other production job, my producer pulls me aside and says "Matt? Who is [Jim]?"

Turns out Jim found my LinkedIn or Resume or something and contacted my producer and told him that I was an incompetent worker and that I should be fired. This is less than a month into a 3000 level class.

I suffer from some pretty extreme depression and anxiety and when all this happened, I just fell apart. I ended up in the hospital and I dropped the class. I had a meeting with my department head at the university and he was very understanding and caring, and mentioned he gets complaints about Jim a lot. He made it where I didn't have to take the class until Fall of '17 and that they were getting a new professor for the class.

Nope.
(con)

Between Fall of '16 and now, Jim had been telling the entire department about what a jackass I was and that I should be graded accordingly. I think because I talked to my department head about him, he set out with a vendetta against me. I was a broken man - I had taken up hurting myself, spent that time in the hospital, and was just... done.

This past month, my advisor informed me that the plans fell through with the new professor, and I'd have to take Jim in Fall of '17. I have to go back to his class.

I am utterly terrified of this.

I have a meeting scheduled with the department head tomorrow; I don't know what to say, but I'm vomiting and freaking out. He knows all the horrible things Jim has done to me (and to other students; I have receipts), but they do nothing. Like, the Department head has the emails. I don't know what to do or say.

I'm 100 credits in, need 120 to graduate. Without this class, I cannot. But I am honestly considering dropping the program. I can't deal with someone like that - I'm not emotionally equipped to do that.

Is there ANY advice out there at ALL that an anon can give me? This is very, very tough.

Whoa lordy...
That's a character of a man.

I don't know man, sounds very shitty.
All i can tell is that my dad was in a similar situation when he studied national economics in university.
He questioned the teacher regarding the factuality of some things his professor was lecturing, professor got pissed and failed my dad (along with shittalking him in various ways)
This in turn pissed off/frustrated my dad so much that he dropped out of school.
I don't know how he could have managed the situation better as to not drop out, but know that he deeply regrets not sticking to it and find a way to solve it instead of letting it get to him and dropping oit.

This professor Xavier of yours sounds like a dude who has mental problems and i have no idea how you should work with this, but you CLEARLY seem to want to work with film and a competent/talented writer and should NOT let this individual stop you from doing what YOU WANT to do with your life.

How about (just as something to make this chapter in your life into something creative and give some perspective) write a story about all of this? Maybe it will help you manage it better by putting it into the context of a story, something you know how to do.

That's all for me, i gotta go to work.

Be strong, anon
Peace

>>18243378
You're gonna end up getting mugged kek

I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum: I do girls with my bi gf. There's only two questions to answer there:

Are they both ok with it?
Are you ok with it?

If it's two yes'es, do it. If not, don't.

>>18243378
It's a fag lol
Just trying to jerk off to your twink cock

>>18243355

>Boyfriend doesn't like sex is it normal?

What kind of retarded question is this?

>>18243355
T. Roastie

Virgins have a lot of trouble cumming from penetration. Maybe he was one?

And let's be honest here: I love fucking and cumming in a pussy as much as the next alpha impregnator male, but hand and mouth are more accurate stimulation wise

I say don't worry, tons of girls don't like penetration and put up a show for they bf's, he's just the opposite. If you're both ok with it, you both are good.

sup /ck/, just eat delicious food that is healthy instead

what sorts of foods do you crave?

>>18243347

This isn't even self-medicating, it's just being fat. At least booze has some kind of effect. You're just being a sad sack.

You know how you stop? Put down the fork. Nothing is easier than NOT DOING something. Don't buy shitty food, don't eat shitty food, the end.

I can understand people who can't keep up the discipline for the gym or exercise, because that requires time, effort, and pain, but this shit drives me nuts. It's literally the easiest thing in the world to just not go do this. Sure you might feel a little uncomfortable or hungry, but you'll get over it. People in this world don't seem to understand that they're not going to be comfy 100% of the fucking time anymore.

>>18243375
>You know how you stop? Put down the fork. Nothing is easier than NOT DOING something.

You have no concept of addiction.

Focus on one of those at a time. They're all HUGE goals, and anyone attempting to tackle them all at once is going to find themselves more stressed and depressed. Pick one, and then establish goals within that list and focus on that.

Instead of "I want to get /fit/," say "I want to lose 15lbs." Focus on the latter, not on the nonspecific, difficult goal of the former.

It sounds cheesy but it works.

oh and
>go to college

>>18243330
How old are you OP?

>>18243225
Three things

1) Do the work. If I'm working, I don't feel anything

2) If I can't work, then I read a book. If I'm in a book, then I can forget reality for a while

3) If I can do neither, remember that the present is just a memory of the future.

>>18243225
There's a loop of highways and backroads that takes about 30 minutes for me to drive through in my town.
I go for a ride, windows down, radio off, phone away.
Usually what happens happens.
I've cried before, decided to pull over, turn around, take another loop, whatever.
By the time I get back to my dorm I'm fine.

>>18243225
I eat that fucking stress like a man
Then it tears me a new asshole and I feel like shit

>suck at cleaning

>suck at identifying dirt and removing it

no, you're just a lazy faggot.

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>google how to cook
>google how to clean
>google how to drive
>google ways to entertain self while in house
>google

>>18243223
Is there a reason you can't learn these things? You obviously have an internet connection. You can't watch a youtube video or download a cookbook? How can anyone suck at cleaning? You literally just move the cleaning thing over the dirty thing. Driving, if your parents won't teach you, you'll have to learn from a relative or friends who have their licenses.

There's no way you can be an adult and think learning these things would be hard, except for the driving, which even that's not.

High school or college?

>>18243066
College

>>18243070
Email your professor and inform him/her that your partner(s) have failed to complete their part of the assignment that the group has agreed to. Its a 9/10 chance that your professor will understand, and either
A: grade you upon the quality of the work you HAVE done.
B: Give your group an extended amount of time to complete the full project.
C: Give YOU a greatly extended amount of time to do the work on your own.

>>18243025
Bestiality is generally something you keep to yourself, friend. Not really socially acceptable.

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In what universe did that make sense to say???

>>18243025
Yeah I got lucky with my boyfriend not running for the hills when I admitted I had a little bestiality fetish, but 99% of the time you don't ever say that stuff. That, pedophilia, and necrophilia are pretty much "take it to your grave" business

>>18242854
Too meme question.

Ask her on date asap to see her IN PERSON. And buy condoms.

I'm butchering this story really bad, but its basically the Brad Pitt scenario. Imagine you're brad pitt. If she got a text from brad pitt, you think it would go minutes, hours, or even days without her responding? No. So she isn't interested.

>>18242857
Okay okay but what if you have already met up and hung out? Cause it's been a week after and we still text all night. Is it just something I'm not doing?

>yfw they dont smoke

>>18242858
They do

Nah go for it

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Bump im in the same situation here

>>18242840
go up to her and say hi nigga

>>18242840
Go near her and throw yourself on floor like you forget how to walk properly. She will open conversation for you
>are you alright?
and you will just be
>y you too

Just say her hello you dum dum!
ASK THE BITCH ON DATE!