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same as usual but you dont need pants

I've never done one before, but if I were you I'd make absolute sure that you get the technical stuff completely figured out before the interview. Do a few test calls to make sure your mic sounds fine, webcam is working, etc. It might sound obvious but it's really good to check that before you waste interview time tinkering with shit.

Other than that, I can't imagine it being much different than a usual interview. Just pray to god that your internet doesn't go out or Skype flakes on you.

I've done a few. Also did a few phone interviews. Those places will never call you back or send a letter. Just letting you know in case your hopes are up.

Maybe.

>>18245073
No, it's entirely out of your control, and in fact a natural part of the life cycle of many humans, even some females.

Honestly you should focus on ways to better your diet and insure to massage your head daily to stimulate your scalp

Worrying will make things worse but if you feel you are doing what you can to help yourself then that's the best method to destress

stress causes inflamtory reaction and that can cause your body to react in bad ways your immune system can get affected u and it can go worse from there honestly try to organize your life have a system eat healthy biotin also helps as a supplement

Ofcourse I don't know anything about your life but follow some healthy people that can motivate you or friends that can inspire you if not you can ask on 4chan

>>18245068
24 and married for over two years? Jeeze louise OP. Maybe I just suck.

Have you considered getting counselling/ a life coach? Here in the UK we have citizens advice which is free and gives advice for people in your sort of situation.

>>18245068
knock up your wife, a child will unite you in matrimony.

>>18245079
I was young, I thought everything was pink and bubble. I went to my solicitor already for some legal advices since counseling do me no good.
>>18245085
I wish I can. But it's reserved, I'm the wife and I don't want children especially at this point of my life

>>18245062
fwbs are great because you can both open up sexually. you both will develop from this relationship

>>18245086
>>18245086
I feel like I will scare him away

I don't feel like my interests will help him be a better person, I think he'll just learn I have issues

>>18245062
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>>18245029
Stop overthinking and just date the bitch. All you have to do on date is enjoy yourself, get to know your partner better and make sure they know you are still interested in them. You dont need to even touch her to give her that information.

If you are scared of closer human interaction, there is no easier way then to simply tell her. Tell her you like her, but you are so shy and scared you cant even handhold her!

And she will laught like you told some weird joke and grab you by the penis and initiate contact herself. Or she wont and that just means you werent attractive / interesting for her anyway.

Tldr, date the bitch, talk to the bitch, text the bitch, expect nothing and hope for the best. And buy condoms.

>>18245029
I'd give her a hug when you leave

It'll build up from there

>>18245074
>All you have to do on date is enjoy yourself
I can do that. I generally don't drop my spaghetti when I hang out with girls and I did enjoy myself a lot on the last date.
The problem is that it always led me to the friendzone so far, and them people tell me "you should have made a move bruh". But I never got a "Press X to make a move" QTE. So when do I do it?

It's not fucked up unless you've lead any one of these girls to believe that you are currently in am exclusive relationship with them. You're just 'dating around' and that's pretty normal. I wouldn't doubt it if those women are dating other men too.

If you are actually interested in pursuing a real relationship, you just have to choose and tell the others that you no longer want to see them. It sucks, but idk what you want to be told.

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I'm going to ask a question myself since it's what I was thinking about. Should I go for the brown eyed burnette with good hips, good ass, and good tits? Or the blue eyed blonde with great hips, good ass, and okay tits?

>>18241050
OP here. I feel you.

>>18245020
Google career test online and see for yourself.

>>18245020
>good at math
Data science.
Economic risk management.
Statistics.

It's much easier to become good at programming than math.
It takes less practice.

>>18244990
Oh, I think I should have been more specific: everything started 2 years ago when my hypochondria had become relevant enough. It's giving me a shit ton of anxiety. I can control OCD now so thats not my biggest problem here, but I suspect everything else could be related to it. Only thing that helps me is going out so far. It's the continuous anxiety I have that doesn't let me lead a normal life that makes me feel so unhappy, last summer I had around 3 hour long anxiety attacks where I felt extremely scared of dying every night. Living like that is unbearable. If I don't go out properly in around 2-3 days everything goes to the fuckin trash and I start feeling like crap. The onset of suicidal thoughts have been triggered by an only 10 day holiday I had very recently.

>>18244990
>hypochondria
>worry about having a serious illness. This debilitating condition is the result of an inaccurate perception of the condition of body or mind despite the absence of an actual medical condition.

I doubt you have hypichondria when you are able to tell you have it. I think you are just supet lonely with shit parents and other issues with yout own personality.

Why arent you telling us important bits of your story?
>wont let me go out
>wont let me study
>wont let me see psychologist

Are you just another girl in 1st world country imprisoned by her religious parents? What did you not tell us?

Do you study? Work? See friends? What do you even do? And why do your parents behave like this? Tried to talk with them? Do you feel like they are abusing you?

>>18245021
I can assure you I do have hypochondria. People can be perfectly aware of having this issue and still be unable to solve it. Maybe you should investigate a bit more about it, it's not uncommon for people with hypochondria to be aware of it, but it is true some are unaware. The thought that goes through your head when something happens is "Yeah, this is it, this time it's happening for REAL". You're unable of seeing that nothing has ever happened.

My parents aren't religious, and I'm in last year of highschool but they've made clear they won't let me go to college, so all I do right now is go to class. My parents behave like this because my mom is crazy and my dad doesn't want to divorce her. She emotionally abuses me and I'm pretty sure her constant freaking over hygiene made me have hypochondria. When they won't let me do anything it's basically because either they're punishing me for stupid shit (example of things they've punished me for: sneezing like an old woman or "eating yoghurt the wrong way") or because they're very, very controlling and think I'll die outside or something.
I have like one friend or two irl, a few more online. And my irl friends are kinda shitty, and also don't like going out. If there is anything else you guys want to know, I'm pretty open, plus I want to solve this issue.

>>18244981
well technically it's illegal to drive without having your license on you.

why are you losing it? just put it in your wallet and that's where it will always be.

>>18244994
i lose my wallet a lot

>>18244981
what excuse should I tell my parents that I have to leave house for 2-3 hours?

Direct the creative energy into your work. Do creative things within the boundaries of your responsibilities. Im a musician and i write stories and draw on my piano sheet music to try to add my own style to it and not let creative energy drive me crazy and ill start composing when i should i be practicing.

>>18240549
He's talking about studying not "directing creative energy" or piano or sheet music. Fucking STUDYING.

>>18240568
Its the same concept directing your creative energy into your work to make it more unique rather than letting it take make you an undisciplined person. Think outside of my words anon.

Good question. Have a bump.

Try /r9k/

Nah dude. It's your life. Not some contract with rules you have to follow.

>>18244887
Have you gone to the army?

>>18245026
I've thought of it, but I'm a hotshot in my field at the moment. I've got a great job lined up and I don't want to give up this opportunity. Should I fail in the next while I'll give it more consideration.

>>18244882
i lost 30 pounds in 5 months with no excercise but that was through extreme fasting and unhealthy eating.

id recommend keto for an easier and safer experience.

you can find out more about keto on the /r/keto reddit

>>18244889
I looked into keto and im all set, I am just eating better all around instead of following a diet for a little while.

>>18244892
thats the best way to lose weight then.

diet is the second most important thing next to consistency. eat healthy and exercise occasionally and the weight will start coming off.

just don't give up, youre doing great so far from how it sounds

your relationship is already dead bro because it never existed unless you've pounded that damp train tunnel.

Why can't you continue the discussion on /trash/?

There's a general there called fapping together thread (/ftt/) that's all about ERP, ask them.

>>18244855
The past few hours have shown that there are no helpful people with a genuine interest in the subject matter around. That's why I asked here. /adv/ can be a real eye-opener at times.

How about becoming a fucking adult and stop pretending like your propensity for cowardice and lack of comittment can be justified by a Tumblr word like "polyamory?"

>>18244838
I'd gladly commit to her. I know for certain she doesn't want that for now, though

>>18244832
What the fuck is wrong with you OP.

Just think that you probably kissed your "girlfriend" just hours after she shallowed some other guys cum

Her pussy was still wet from his crreampie

Her thoughts were how much better Chad fucked her the night before.

How much better Chad's abs look.

Grown the fuck up and break up with her