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I've only spoken to her once, and that was debate day in government

>>18242861
Just go up and ask her then.

I take it the problem is having to talk to her while her friends are around? If so, try and find times she's alone, however rare, and take the opportunity. Don't hesitate, otherwise the moment will pass and you will only regret. Otherwise, man up and just walk over to her and talk to her.

>>18242860
Sometimes I wonder if I've got more of the obsessions part but I don't really know diddly squat about it. What's your experience with it like?

>>18242860
Do elaborate. I hear people claim OCD because they showered twice in a day one time.

>>18243037
Yes. Do.

My sister has OCD. Freals.

You dont "think" you have OCD. It terrorizes your life.

>>18242680
a 1099 is a form you use your W2 to fill out for the IRS.

>>18242734
I think some people use it to differentiate between an independent contractor and an actual employee and I find it stupid. just spell it out in english instead of using this shit.

>>18242680
If you get a 1099 instead of a W2, it means you're a private contractor rather than an employee. With a 1099 you have to pay all the taxes that your employer would otherwise pay, and you're not eligible for the EITC, which gives you back all of your money if you make less than ~15,000 in a year. If you're making 10-15k this is a huge deal, because it's the difference between losing 30% of your paycheck or keeping the whole thing. If you're making 30k+, you'll be paying a thousand or two more, but that's a difference of 3% of your earnings rather than 30%.

>>18242734
You're thinking of 1040.

I felt the same way with my old group of friends. Then I realized they didn't care much for me, they questioned why I was down, and I told them, but they could never make me feel happy. Leaving them felt horrible but you get used to it. I'd just leave and see if they care much. Avoiding a situation that makes you feel bad should take that feeling away shouldn't it?

Been there.

Leave them. Not worth it. Some people are just garbage like that.

It's not that they're bad friends, I just wish they would go out of their way to text me and stuff like that. It's supposed to be like a family, but it's like they're a family and I'm a neighbor... I Don't know where I belong anymore. I know I shouldn't rely on them as much, any advice for finding contentment in myself?

>>18242627

>i know i didnt

good

>someone else

yes. when mobile you're sharing an IP with everyone else

>i posted last week and had no problem

you dont have the same IP each time your phone connects, and it actually changes every few blocks for me in the city. i can post on the first half of my bus ride but not the second.

>what wrong

you tarde

>>18242633

Thus. You are sharing an IP with randos when you are using data. One of them did it.

>>18242633
Oh, good. So I won't be party-vanned?

I'm in my house right now, and that's where it's saying I'm banned.

Just pirate it from a torrent you fucking mong

>>18242594
kat has been down, and I don't know any other places for torrenting.

>>18243158
This.
Where have people been getting their torrents. There hasn't been a decent place in a while. I've been using pirate Bay mirrors but it hasn't been what it used to be.

>>18242584
what happened to your back? can you walk?

>>18242584
>>>18242584
>what happened to your back? can you walk?
Same person. I hurt my back while at my job. I bulged a disc and I am in pain alot. I'm getting tired of being so negative and a mean person to be around.

Bumping for interest. But no back problems but a heart problem.

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Fuck off stoner. /adv/ isn't your personal classified ad service

Heard RI has some good stuff

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>>12412466

You put your name in the Name field?

Fuck off, normie.

>>18242486
You're responsible for no one's happiness but your own. As much as you'd like to help him out he can only help himself. You already know you have to kick him out, but you don't want to, understandably. Tough love is tough for a reason, but you have to give him the choice to keep going or give up. It isn't yours to make.
lol this post reads like a montage of shitty fb posts.

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>>18242486

>>18242486
I feel ya. My brother is a lazy fucking bastard who is living off our dad and he pisses me off with his complete inability to act as an adult and take responsibility. He's wasting his life away on being a bum. Anyway, I've sort of accepted that it's his life and if he wants to waste it then that's too bad. I've tried talking to him. I don't want to make this about me but I just thought that you should know you're not alone with being stuck with a shitty sibling. Can't imagine how much worse you're having it. I bet you've tried to talk to him about it and to be honest, what else can you do?

Life gets shitty sometimes, you may slip apart. Some things aren't within your control. I can't give you much advice though. Stay strong, buddy.

>>18242334
It means he likes you you idiot.

>>18242336
Yeah but to what degree?

>I'm really autistic when it comes to things like this!
Stop giving excuses for your shitty character.
It a shitty text message, it doesn mean anything, stop analysing every little detail.

>>18242294
Ask her again dum dum.

>>18242513
But I don't want to seem over bearing

>>18242294
Hey femanon, whats up! did you get my message from two days ago?

Oats and squats

>>18247739
What about the face? Do you recommend saving up and getting surgery?

>>18247739
How does a big butt make up for all the things wrong with me?

>>18242265
try cannabis, anon. i recommend a 100% indica strain, ideally one with high cbd content. stay away from sativas if you are dealing with anxiety.

>>18242265
taking an AD for GAD is stupid, try low doses of lorazepam

>>18242292
been there, done that. Don't do that it doesn't help shit its just edgy stoner junkies (thats right) that are in the stage of denial where they try to make weed out to be some magical herb while its just another drug with its ups and downs.
>>18242348
meh

I read a lot on the subject and talked to people on anti depressants and none of the stories seemed any better than the depression itself. "I wasn't depressed anymore, but I couldn't feel feelings so I just randomly stood on the traintracks but got bored after a while and went home. I didn't want to die, but didn't want to live either. Atleast I wasn't depressed" fucking lol.

Sleep well, eat healthy and do shit that matters to you and betters you.

>>18247546
Cut down on the porn.

>>18247546
Stay away from porn and sites like 4chan that make it so easy to access that stuff. Hang out with ultra conservative or religious groups.

>>18247546
An ass is an ass. Dont fight the good feels my dude. Liking traps isnt gay, dont fall for the memes.

>>18247474
As far as I understand, you can only use deadly force in response to deadly force or a reasonable threat to the life of yourself or others. It would entirely depend on how a jury of your peers saw the situation.

that said, three guys are probably going to be able to take the skinny guy with the shitty knife.

>>18247474

I think this is a really stupid fantasy that you've concocted.

>>18247474
Are you fucking 12? A fucking karambit kek