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Comics with male sexualization? 2017-04-22 12:51:13 Post No.18247369
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Are there any comics out there where any male is sexualized in a similar fashion to females, such as showing off their butts in suggestive poses and clothes scantily clad to show it off and other parts of their skin?
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Have you ever read a Spider-Man comic?
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>>18247370
Spider-Man doesn't fit in with what I describe and showcase in the picture.
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>>18247369
Just go read some shojo manga or some erotic novels
Sexualization is different for men and women. Women generally don't want huge cocks on a scantily dressed male stripper, but prefer a fantasy ideal attractive man with some degree of confidence and control over the situation, and big part of these situations are themselves.
>12 Days ago Girl: I had a really fun night with Anon, we should do this again.
>5 Days ago Girl: Hey how's it going Anon?
>Me: It's going good, you free in a couple of days?
>Silence
>3 Days ago Girl: Hey Anon sorry been busy, you ok?
>Me: I'm good, how's college going?
>Chat for 10 minutes
>You busy this weekend?
>Silence
>1 Day ago Girl: Hey Anon, everything ok?
What's her deal?
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Dint ask her. Invite her to do a specific thing at a specific time. That's unignorable.
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>>18247333
she may have a bf
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>>18247348
I don't understand how that affects anything?
I mean we went out and fucked that night. If she has a boyfriend she has no problem cheating on him.
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>>18247314
One question: What do I do after the initial things like
>hey
>how are you
>good you?
I always have no idea how to move onto a subject.
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>>18247320
Don't start with those. It's boring.
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>>18247321
Okay how else should I start?
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Has anyone else been randomly detained in the past 3 years?
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>>18247278
Well I'm white, so.... no.
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i'm about to finish my probation sentence in 2 months. so fucking stoked
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>>18247278
why?
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Might have sex with my professor
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2017-04-22 11:25:17
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my college professor and I have been flirting and sort of dating for a few weeks now, so it's likely we'll have sex soon.
I'm currently getting a B in his class,
how do I ask for the free A?
Pre or post coitus? During?
He's a nice guy and I'll likely date him for a bit after class ends, he's twice my age though, and I look young for my age so it'll likely weird his friends out, which is probably going to be the end to our relationship.
Anyway, how do I ask for my free A? Or should I just tell him I'm blackmailing him even though I'm not?
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don't mention it until you actually get the B. The free A should be natural and will feel more legitimate to everybody if it went unsaid. Professors can change grades whenever they feel like it, so you can always blackmail (how and why?) or whatever later.
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guy here. i got a free A in my sociology class. i was the only one who really paid attention in class and i would flirt with her sometimes. she's was kind of hot. i first started noticing something funny when the first online assignment we had magically just turned into a 100% when i didn't even look at it. so i would occasionally "talk" with her after class. usually mention that her hair or glasses looked good. and they did
i always kind of wished i banged her. she probably wished the same. but i kind of just went on with my life after i passed the class
anyway, if you're some dumb slut that can't do the grade i'm sure sucking the guys dick would bump that grade up. i wouldn't mention it directly, just be like. man i wish i was getting an A in this class. do it after, doing it before would be straight up whore-level. most people would agree. doing it after is at the very least a little classier and would even make the bang a little sexier. for both of you
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>>18247253
Wow that's a very very valid point.
So how much after are we talking-
like pillow talk 'man I wish I was getting an A' or like days later sort of thing?
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My girlfriend isn't very "traditional" and it bothers me 2017-04-22 10:29:30 Post No.18247133
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I've been going out with my girlfriend since the end of high school (we're now 23 and 24), and as we're moving into the potentially settling down phase, her lack of traditional values is bothering me. When we got together, it wasn't an issue because we were 17 and 18 and all that mattered was having the same stuff in common and finding each other attractive. It hasn't been an issue up till now either, because we were both just doing part time work and going to university. But now, as I'm starting to think about if I want this woman for my wife, I keep on coming up against her desire to not be what I consider a wife.
She wants a career, and has a fulltime job in her chosen field (history, working in a museum), and so do I have a job working in the tech industry. Whenever I've brought up she gets angry and says she wants to keep her job, whereas I was raised to value traditional model of house. If we have children or marry, I firmly believe she should be the one staying with them and keeping house. She also tends to be quite, for want of a better word, insubordinate. I was raised to view the man as the head of the house, but she doesn't see it like that and was raised in quite a left wing household.
Other than this everything is fine- I love her, we have good sex etc.
What should I do? Is it possible to convince her to change?
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I feel bad for her to be honest
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>>18247138
What? Why?
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So, you dont want your gf to work and make money? Are you stupid?
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How do I not flip my shit on stupid crap? Shit, most of the time it's just something stupid, will set me off, and it takes extreme willpower not to sperg out. That's IF I can even do it.
Tonight for example, I was playing in the prerelease for the new mtg set, and I was doing really well. I made it all the way to final round and flooded out in game 3 with my opponent at 2 life. I threw my deck at the wall, and I almost didn't shake my opponent's hand (the deck throw was a little after that). It was still second place and a difference of 2 prize packs, but it just sent me off.
This happens with other shit, but this was the most recent. Recently, I flipped out on my coworker because he kept ragging about my shitty work shoes. For awhile, I managed to do alright because it was even worse in the past, but I'd say within the last year, maybe year and a half, it's just been a struggle. I feel bad about it, but I just explode sometimes.
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You aren't "sperging out", you have anger issues. Go to a therapist, or try anger management.
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>>18247131
Unfortunately, those cost money that I don't have.
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So I'm basically fucked. Got it
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I'm going to meet a girl I like at her place of work, public food thing. Our work hours are such that I'm probably going to leave before her shift is over. Should I even expect anything from this kind of meetup? What is the best I can expect? How do I not fuck this up?
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>>18247113
We don't know your relationship, but if it's at her job it can't be a fucking date.
She's meeting you during her shift?
What the fuck mind of meeting is this?
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>>18247115
It's we are both busy working people with shit hours and she suggested I should come today kinda meet.
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>>18247113
She's working. If she spends too much time with you she could get fired. The absolute most you can expect is one minute of chat. Use it to set up a coffee date for after work.
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>Can't stop thinking about where my life is going
>Can't stop posting on 4chan and jerking off to hentai either
>20 years old
>People that seriously fucked up and had kids their senior year of High-school are already into college
>No driver's license
>Even if I had one, I wouldn't do anything with it
>Believe I'm tumbling down a track to permanent labor at Wal-mart for 10$ an hour
What should I do?
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I'm getting my sleep schedule on track.
The next time my dad has a day off I'm going to make him teach me how to drive.
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>>18247049
You know the answer to your question.
Get off your ass and get a driver's license, stop spending so much time here, go out, and try and find a job
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>>18247049
Just because you're in college doesn't mean you have your shit together. Just because you graduate college doesn't mean you have your shit together either
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How far is too far? I met this girl online and had her over. She was super shy and quiet, we just played some games. I feel like such a sleeze, but I would occasionally sneak a grope or squeeze, she didn't really protest so I pushed a bit further. I then just, kind of, kissed her, and we made out, I reached for her chest, she pushed my arm away, but I reached again and she gave up the fight, then I ran a hand up her skirt, she pushed my arm away, I then started biting her neck and she protested for a little while and I fingered her. I got her off once, then started going down on her, she wiggled and told me to wait, I stopped and looked up at her, she just stared at me and I continued. after she got off again, I got up and fucked her on my living room floor. When she left, she didn't say much, we've messaged back and forth since it happened, but its deffinately awkward, but she is interested in hanging out again.
Is this ok? did I push too hard? did she just give in because she felt threatened?
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>>18246949
>did I push too hard?
Probably. But we aren't the ones with the answer. We don't know her, or how she feels. She's the only one that can tell you for sure.
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>>18246949
>Is this ok?
She told you to stop and you kinda did, but then you kept going anyway, and escalated from there? Fuck no that's not okay you asshole.
>did I push too hard?
If you have to ask that, you obviously already know the answer. Anything in the slightest that is not a full and unequivocal YES means it's NO. That's what constitutes consent.
>did she just give in because she felt threatened
Probably. I'm sure it felt good too and that's something else that kept her from bolting. But now imagine how she feels. You did something to her she didn't want done. She asked you to stop. You kept going. Her body responded even while her mind pulled back from what you were doing. Can you really imagine how used she must feel? Turned into an object beholden to her orgasm and the things you're doing to her because you don't care enough about her to stop when she says no.
Kinda rapist shit bro.
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yeah, i'm the same. i can't really tell someone no because i am afraid of rejection and also hugely socially awkward. she definitely tried to tell you in her own way that she doesnmt want this but you ignored her and kept going. she might stick around because she is too afraid of telling you no (even to hanging out). i strongly suspect that she will just ghost you one day. why did you feel the need to push further after she tried to stop you? did you think this is some kinky "take me oh big warrior, i'll pretend to resist but really i just want you to fuck me with your huge cock" scenario? switch on your brain next time.
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Is this sexual abuse, if not, then what is it? 2017-04-22 06:42:44 Post No.18246786
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I think I've been repressing some shit for years. I think I may have been sexually abused, or otherwise subject to emotion incenst, but I don't really know if what happened qualifies as such. If it does, then it would help clear up the issue, and I can target onto a specific form of therpay.
Around age 4, which is about the earlier time I have for clear occurances, when I would take a bath, my mother would monitor how much water I actually used. She limited me to about 1 inch of depth near the drain. The tub was a regular sized tub, so the water concentrated around the drain, but still, the water got cold pretty quick. She would sit there, directly opposite the tub, and I would I try to make a lot of suds and 'cover up', or maybe hide? I remember that I felt very uncomfortable. She would always "do her makeup" as she called it around that time. -she didn't wear any cosmetics- and every few days she would say "I'm not watching you", and yet she knew I was hiding myself under the soap...
Maybe around age 9, when I started taking showers and until until the age of 16, she would always seem to 'just have' to do certain chores while I was in the shower, like folding towels, puting hangers on the laundry, or to change her clothes, etc. She would put the laundry basket on a chair near the bathroom door, and go do something else, but when the shower turned on - the laundry had to be folded, etc. It couldn't fucking wait 10 minutes. This happened every day, every single time, no exemptions. and she would always say the same line. "I'm not watching you."
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This was a big 1980s bathroom, with mirrored siding closet doors. There was no angle at which the shower stall couldn't be seen. She had the entire day to do this shit. When I was sick and couldn't go to school [normally I was forced, but my sister always got to stay in… even if she just didn't feel like going] it became more and more evident that all she did in the daytime was sleep, smoke weed in the bathroom on the toilet/in her bedroom, and watch TV… for 7 hours.
But without fail, she would find that 15 minute shower-time window open to do something in the back bathroom. She wouldn't even knock. I could hear her coming from the sound of the door down the hall that had to be opened to go back there.
She never did that with my sister. I felt really invalidated and just… violated. Does that sound like sexual abuse? If not, is there a specific form of abuse that mirrors this?
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>>18246789
She was probably making sure you weren't masturbating, because she was as terrified of and uninformed about sexual abuse as you are. I'd call it abusive in the sense that many things parents do to their children are inherently coercive (such as saying "no" without offering an explanation or alternative), but not outside the bounds of how a reasonable (well, average) parent might choose to raise a child.
Just like everyone that posts on this board, you should see a therapist.
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Doesn't seem very sexual. Just a bit odd but not too much honestly.
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HOW DO I STOP BEING SO AUTISTIC WITH WOMEN 2017-04-22 05:50:25 Post No.18246682
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Okay, so I went on this date last night. It was my second date with this woman, and it seemed to go pretty well. She asked me if I was doing anything later that night, and she invited me out to this dub/dance hall thing with her friend.
Dub/reggae isn't my thing. I don't dance. I don't really go to DJ things. I prefer live local rock shows, but I'm not snobby about different tastes. I kinda knew being out of my element might be a bad idea, but I went against my better judgement because a grill liked me enough to want to see more of me the same day we just had a date.
It was terrible, I completely shit the bed. I'm really socially awkward and shy, so because she came with a friend, I didn't know how to join the conversation (lots of inside stories). I feel like I didn't make the best first impression with her friend, which is a bad foot to start of on with a girl.
When we went to the clubs, I just kind of stood there while they danced because I don't dance. I was autistic as fuck. There were times when she'd bump her ass against me, and I'd just kind of stand there not knowing what to do. I don't know where I'm supposed to look during a DJ set. Like, do I stare at the DJ? When I see bands, I just watch the bands.
It came to the point where I was on my phone, and she was like "it doesn't look like you're enjoying yourself; don't feel forced to stay if you don't want to!"
I felt like I was being such a drag, a total wet blanket. I showed her I'm too milquetoast to be the kinda guy she can have fun with. Declining to go to the thing would have made me look like I have a life. We could see each other another day and do something mutually enjoyable where we're both in our element and I wouldn't look like a dork.
I feel like I fucked up a perfectly good thing with that awkward night. I won't be surprised if our dates start becoming "hang-outs." How do I stop being like this?
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The other part of this is that, I'm kinda a kissless no-friend virgin who just started making an effort to get numbers, go on dates, make friends, etc. But I feel like the difference in social experience starts to show after a while. Like, we got into a conversation about sex, and she was really candid about it, while I was like a shy debutante. She started talking about funny stories about her and her friends, having naked parties, getting lit, going to outdoor festivals, and I'm like, I have nothing to add to stories about doing normal fun human things.
I don't make known that I have no friends, that I'm a virgin, that I've never even had a girlfriend, that I started dating literally within the last year at age 22. You need friends to make friends, so I try to pretend I'm already social and hope that she already likes me by the time she finds out about the parts of me I don't lead with. But I feel like it comes through in my behaviour. I don't know how to make moves. Never kiss my dates. Barely flirt or touch them. Don't know how to respond to certain things. Don't even know what to order at bars because I haven't been to them enough to know shit about drinks (barely know the difference between whiskey and rum). How long until they see I'm not the confident "fun" guy I pretended to be for five minutes when I approached them and asked for their numbers?
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>>18246682
I don't know if it will be much of help, but I think that the key-point were this
>I kinda knew being out of my element might be a bad idea, but I went against my better judgement...
I don't really know if decline the invitation would be the better out but still, accepting only made it worse, so if see yourself in this kind of situation again, you know what not to do.
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>>18246682
Stop caring so much about how you're acting. Just be a fun person.
Everybody is too busy inside of their heads to notice what you're doing. They will notice if you're being negative/passive though.
Girls react to positive energy. If you are being fun and helping them enjoy themselves, they'll be attracted to you.
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Is a girl a bad person if she justifies something if it makes her happy? 2017-04-22 05:46:53 Post No.18246673
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Is a girl a bad person if she justifies something if it makes her happy?
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Is a girl a bad person if she justifies me leaving my previous girlfriend for her if it makes her happy?
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 6 years because i was basically emotionally cheating on her with another girl (I'll call her Nancy).
Nancy and I started out as friends but we started texting each other more and more, it wasn't overly flirty, but looking back on it now, i'm pretty disgusted with myself.
Nancy does not see anything wrong with what we've done because it makes her happy to be with me. She never thought she'd be a homewrecker but she's able to live with it because of how happy I make her.
I have this huge guilt hanging over my head because of how it ended with my ex. My ex was a sweet girl who I know is a good person who would be loving and loyal to her dying breath.
Nancy does not seem to have qualms about it. Maybe minor qualms but overall its okay in her eyes because she's happy.
Is Nancy a bad girl for feeling this way?
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That's called being selfish.
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>>18246673
You just described all women.
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>>18246673
You are both bad people. I wouldn't be surprised if your relationship ends the same way. Only time will tell who cheats on who though.
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Do men really change when seeing their child born? 2017-04-22 04:28:44 Post No.18246449
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I'm going to be having my first child pretty soon. My partner is basically a low life shit head who smokes weed everyday, cries about his ex and talks shit about me to his ex. All I wanted him to do was find a place where our child, his self and myself can live together. Things were getting better in our relationship until the other night he started crying about how he should've left me for not accepting his ex and their basically unsaid open relationship. There's been many times they talk shit about me together and he always sides with her so I realize he obviously doesn't respect me let alone gave any love for me even as a human being.
This being said it's been an up and down relationship. I've been so stressed with it all through out the pregnancy that i haven't gained enough weight. The thought of him being in the delivery room or the baby even having his last name makes me cringe! Some people say that men don't grow up until they see their child being born and I in some way don't wanna take that away from him either but I feel so over him and his lame ass I don't know what to do anymore.
Feed up. Down to coparent. Will I fuck things up more if I don't let him in the delivery room? Or will it probably just stress me out and make me get a c section or something scary?
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That pic destroyed any last feelings of fatherly instinct I had
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>>18246449
he's a piece of shit but the question is can you find someone who is less of a piece of shit
The answer is probably no.
Leave, abort if I was you, being anchored to a piece of shit would make me want to die.
Give it up for adoption or something, it'll have a better life in foster care.
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Leave the guy you moron. You should have used birth control, and the combination of not doing either probably means you're passing on stupid genes to your child. Men leave all the fucking time, and your guy probably will too.
>Will I fuck things up more if I don't let him in the delivery room?
It sounds like it's already mighty fucked up. That poor kid, having a lowlife and a pathetic moron for parents.
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What do I have to know about (hypothetically) homeschooling my kids?
I just feel so failed by the education system. I don't want my kids to suffer like that.
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The best way to train kids is to teach them to teach themselves
Being reliant on other people to learn things isn't good
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Read:
How Children Learn
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How Children Fail
by John Holt
Read:
The Secret of Childhood
by Maria Montessori
Check out homeschool group options in your area, because the social aspect is the only part that doesn't work instinctively before about age 12.
Good luck!
I intended to homeschool from the beginning, and we made it to age 6.
Turned out my very social kid wanted to be where all the other kids were: at school.
We found a really great little anarchist collective school, and sacrificed like mad to afford it, and it was worth it.
But: I have always let him know that homeschooling is an option if he'd rather.
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Whenever I hear about someone who wants to homeschool or online school their kids, I ask them which do they think is more important: academic learning or social learning? Because as someone who did both homeschooling and online school, kids who learn that way (especially those who never went to a traditional school at all) are VERY commonly weird, antisocial, and generally incapable of normal social interaction with people their own age.