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I have a lesbian friend who I think of sexually/romantically 2017-04-23 02:11:12 Post No.18249472
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I have a lesbian friend who I think of sexually/romantically
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I am a guy (male) and I have a lesbian friend (female) who I think of sexually and romantically.
We get along very well. We laugh a lot together and we do light physical contact (Learn against each other whiling watch T.V., brushing each others shoulders, she also does my nails [no homo])
She identifies herself as gay and I know she is very much comfortable with herself.
I don't want to be a dick a try to force her to be attracted to me, but she is just so huggable and kissable.
Is the best thing is to let it go and just continue being friends? I don't think I even want to date her. I just want to hug and love her (no homo).
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That was the gayest post on this board.
If shes gay and i mean truly gay she won't even give you a look in.
Also i'm assuming by the little dance around the fact shit at the end of your post you want to fuck her? i dunno i couldn't quite grasp this faggotry huggable kissable shit.
So unless she was banging dudes before she was "gay" or she identifies herself as "bi" you're gonna be shit out of luck. You're pretty much like those girls that hang out with gay dudes.... that's you. The chick that just hangs around with the gay dude but in reverse. Only thing is those chicks aren't so sad that they lust over gay friends.
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>>18249472
this is what liberalism does to men. stop eating estrogen injected fast food anon.
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Ask her about it, if she's not so lesbian, you'll find out. If she is 100%, you should move on.
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> I really need to stop doing x
> keeps doing x
How do I stop this cycle?
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Just stop.
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>>18249466
depends what X is.
if X is heroine, then probably rehab. if its biting your nails, paint them so that when you bite them it tastes bad, substitute with gum etc. if X is masturbating 6 times a day, take your door off its hinges, or remove interwebs from your bedroom.
it actually DOES depend on what it is, otherwise you wouldnt have to ask
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Here ya go...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ow0lr63y4Mw
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Does any other guys get suspicious of attractive girls who are nice/flirt/approach without much effort on your part? I know i'm not ugly, but i'm also not a model and I feel like I "know" that i don't "deserve" interactions with attractive women that easily. Anyone else?
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>>18249448
Of course. I always believe there's some kind of motive, it's for a bet, it's a joke etc. Highschool did some shit to me OP, I've never believed anyone I know actually likes me and just befriended/dated me for some reason I could never find out.
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>>18249448
Yeah, I also get uneasy toward this type of approach. It resulted that most times, my suspicions were right, the only exception being my cousin (witch was staying in for a week) that basically sneaked in my room and raped me (it wasn't rape because I responded to her and had sex with her that night), but probably she were only interested on sex, since we don't really love ourselves and just fuck.
From my life experiences until now, if a woman is trying really hard with you, it's because you have something of her interest.
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>>18249448
I've been rude to attractive girls in this situation before, only to realize they were both sincere and interested in me.
It's probably best to go along with it, unless they're super young or something.
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Looking for some legal advice on renting.
I have to move out of my dad's house on short notice (he's selling it and moving away) forcing me me to scramble to find a place. I ended up finding a place a couple weeks ago that said they have an apartment being remodeled and that if I give them a $500 money order they would hold the place for me, and it the money would become my deposit when I move in. Due to not having any experience renting, I dropped of the money order without asking too many questions. Now they're telling me they want me to sign a 1 year lease when a specified I wanted to rent month to month in the application because I don't plan on sticking around this area much longer.
I live in Washington state, and based on my reseach (http://www.tenantsunion.org/en/rights/deposit-questions) they can't keep my $500 if I back out because they didn't give me a receipt or any written terms and conditions when I dropped off the money. I am I correct? I really don't want to get screwed.
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>>18249444
Yeah, it's yours.
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>>18249444
"1 year lease".
Nah, they can't do that to you, they have to let you rent month to month.
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Worse comes to worse you stay a few months and then sublet. But it sounds like you should be able to get the money back. Make sure you have another place lined up, especially if you're short on time.
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I have been having trouble with sleep paralysis for years, lately it has been so bad that I am afraid to sleep, whether it is day or night, ever since I had one of the hallucinations touch me and felt it.... does anyone know how to help stop this from happening?
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Try making friends with them.
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>>18249438
I was watching youtube videos about lucid dream and I think this guy talks about how to stop sleep paralysis in one of his videos.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZgJOMqIhvHM&index=1&list=PLE3E88DE0B45599E3&t=531s
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As for making friends, the last time i did, that the creatures ate my eyes. Thank you for the video, but the advice that was given is exactly hat i already do, although it is more from panic and trying to scream and have my gf wake me than anything else.
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So I landed a job interview for Applebee's on Monday. How do I not sperg out during the interview? Any general tips towards interviews are appreciated as well :)
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>>18249369
Be honest, but not much.
I fucked up with this in my first interview and ended up losing the job.
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One of the most important rings you can do is smile, and make eye contact while giving them a firm handshake. This sounds like a dumb meme, but I've read hiring handbooks for managers and it's literally the first thing it says to look out for.
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Since its Applebees I wouldn't worry too much. Say you have experience and have worked at X,Y,Z. You have worked with serving computers, can handle money and credit cards, and have experience with customer service.
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Friend making a mistake 2017-04-23 01:13:26 Post No.18249360
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I don't know if I should tell my friend, or just let it happen. Honestly, I'm probably just going to let it happen.
My friend lives in California, the girl he met over facebook lives in Texas. My friend is well educated and has a job. The girl he met has a 3 year old daughter and the child's father is an ex-con.
So every time I've met this girl she was always intoxicated, either through skype or when she came out to California to visit.
My friend seems happy to be in a relationship, but this girl doesn't seem right. She looks like a former bar slut that has a 3 year old, and is now looking for any decent guy to latch onto.
My friend is pretty beta, he doesn't have much success when it comes to relationships. And as far as looks go, she is indeed better looking than him.
I feel like this is all going to end bad for him. He is going to relocate to Texas, essentially starting up his career again (losing out on the benefits he worked towards here).
I don't know, I just have this feeling this girl is going to wreck him, and there isn't much I can do about it. Sad part is, my friend's Dad died when we were young, so he never had a father to warn him about women like this. I'm not sure if I should say something... should I say something?
thx in advance for the advice.
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If you think your friend is reasonable enough to hear your opinion without losing his shit, tell him. He might not listen to you, but it might cause him to rethink his plan.
If you think he'll freak out on you don't bother, though.
Why is he moving ?he has the his job ,she should be moving.
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He's probably madly in love, especially if she's his first.
I don't think any amount of words are going to change his mind, he needs to fuck up to realize things. Hopefully it'll happen before any greater decisions are made.
I don't think there's much you can beside giving him some hints that it might be a bad idea.
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>>18249368
He is the kind of person that will get quiet. He will "pretend" like he is listening, but really be getting upset at you inside (without showing it). Then he will most likely try to avoid you for awhile. That I think is the likely response he would give.
I don't think he would freak out. Just stay quiet and ignore/be distant.
He said he is moving because housing in Texas is cheaper than in California, so "long term wise" Texas is a better. That's what he says anyways.
I feel crushingly lonely. I've just realized I don't actually have any friends. I have what you would call a "circle of friends" but we're more like a bunch of people that hang with each other because we were outcasts in high school. They don't really give a single fuck about me, and to be fair the sentiment is pretty much mutual, even though it's been 10 years.
How do I make actual, real friends? The kind that worry about you and ask you how you're doing? I just desperately want somebody to talk to.
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gotta go to places to find people of mutual interests
if u liek animu go to animu people place. you'll also find there's similar groups related to other groups and could easily hippity hoppity over to another group/interest.
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i'll probably end up like this too and idk if things can get better but i was talking to my brother yesterday and he made me realize how disconnected i was from people and even pushing away the girl i like without noticing and how i will never get anywhere if don't break out of my comfort zone and spark random conversations with people, but i have so many bad experiences i don't wanna even try again. shit sucks i can change it but i gave up on myself i just can't be bothered wonder how i'm gonna be like 10 years from now. i feel u OP
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I'm with you OP minus the circle of friends. I hope there will be some answers in this thread
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How to explain injuries to people 2017-04-23 01:00:12 Post No.18249329
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How to explain injuries to people
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Hello /adv/.
I'm a femanon, do roller derby, and am a perv. Roller derby provides a fair number of bumbs and bruises, but my kink involves getting beat up by my bf.
Long story short, I routinely have bruises all over the place. I'm routinely walking kind of weird because of some injury. I'm also routinely asked by concerned friends/strangers if I'm okay, and what happened, and if I need help, etc. I don't need help, but I'd really like people to stop prying, and frankly to stop assuming that my bf is abusing me and that I need help.
What are some good ways to explain away injuries to people, where they assume everything is alright?
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>>18249329
Just say "you should see the other guy" with a chuckle, and then walk away.
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>>18249348
Kek
Fightclub member in the streets, weird-ass masochist in the sheets
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>>18249329
>do roller derby
It really seems like the answer is in the question. Then bore them to death with talking about roller derby.
Hello. My exams are starting in a month from now, I have wasted an entire year (about nine months) doing nothing. I don't know what was up with me but I didn't care at all and was depressed/on drugs most of the time, I don't even know where did all this time go. Everyone I know has finished everything and is preparing for the exams already, and I haven't even took one step from the start line yet.
I have about 6 or 7 subjects to study, each one consisting of 9 to 10 chapters, and each chapter takes a day -more or less- to finish.
The question here is, can I do it? Or should I just give up? I barely have enough motivation to do anything but If I'm sure I could finish all of this stuff in a month I'd do it.
I can't afford to fail this year, my grades have always been pretty bad but this year I haven't even put 1% of effort, fuck me, why do I always do this to myself?
Help me guys.
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Welcome to the pain train brother, buckle up because we're going down the popular road of self inflicted depression and vicious cycles
I ride this line every day
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>>18249326
Start nofap
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>>18249719
I wish this meme would just die already.
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I get lonely on the weekends.
I'm 23. Got out of a 4 year relationship last year. We both agreed it was best to split before we hurt each other. We both said we still love each other. We hugged, kissed, she cried, then we parted ways.
She misses me, I can tell, but I'm never going to contact her. If she reaches out, we can see where things go.
The problem is in those 4 years most of my friends moved away, got girlfriends, or are no longer worth spending time with. I have about three friends and most are usually busy.
I work 40 hours a week at a good job, and on the weekends I play ps4, make music, vape weed, and hang out with my brother or go out to dinner once in a while with friends.
I live in a small town in New England and there's not much to do around here, especially alone.
I'm attractive and have no problem getting girls, but I don't really feel the need to go out of my way to get laid or meet new girls. I had three gfs since my ex and I split so I'm kind of over dating at the moment.
The only problem is I feel pretty displaced on the weekends.
Any tips for a 23 year old male loner?
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Go to a bar. I'ts not weird to go to a bar alone. If you're just craving social interactions and friends, take a walk around the biggest nearest city and interact with people. Take your laptop and sit at a coffee shop, read, download movies, anything. Getting out into the world will introduce you to people as long as you're looking for that. Once you have one or two new friends, text them on the weekends and try and party to get involved in their social circles. Expand from there etc.
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>>18249303
Might be the weed.
Join a club or a church so you feel like you're a part of something and you have some more meaning?
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>>18249303
Get a hobby
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Had a mental breakdown a few months ago.
Sleeping in my own mess cutting myself and having nightmares about dead people.
Intense paranoia
>What if someone's behind you and they're about to hurt you
Disconnect with reality
>Persecutory delusions
I'm eating three large bowls of plain rice a day then a pizza on top of that to the point my stomach gives me physical pain although I continue to eat.
I'm depressed but I'm alright to 'fake it til I make it' and make jokes and talk to people although I lack initiative.
Joined a church and met a cool guy, he invites me over a lot but he feels like a social prostitute so on a level it doesn't feel genuine but I barely know him so far.
He's trying to introduce me to other people but, hey who wants to start up a friendship with someone who'll drag them down?
My issue, I've got a friend and I've got opportunity to meet people despite intense depression.
I am an interesting person yeah just sad.
How can I increase my chances of actually making more friends and overcome my recent breakdown?
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OP still here
Got invited to a bar for live music but the guy pulled out.
Feels bad
How can I increase my value to people while still being depressed?
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If only there was some sort of type of person who was trained to help people with mental disorders - maybe who could assess individuals and provide advice about life changes and maybe prescribe medication.
If there were such a group of people, then perhaps folks with issues could go see one of them instead of looking for advice on an anonymous message board filled with sarcastic trolls...
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the dudes probably just trying to help. get out of the "im gonna drag everyone down" mindset. lastly ya might want to see a psychiatrist because it sounds like this depression is pretty bad
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I met and have been talking to a girl for about a month and things have gone fairly well until now and I've hit a snag. She's not ready for anything serious and wants something of a more casual relationship i.e. hookups for the time being. She's told me she likes me and that there's potential for a more serious relationship in the future but just not right now. I think I could do that for the most part but my problem with that is we've only been on one date so far and were planning our second before she confronted me with this. I feel like we haven't spent enough time together yet for me to really go into this type of casual relationship because I'm accustomed to slower, more traditional types of relationships. What ways could I ask her to spend time with me that wouldn't make her feel like I'm trying to pressure her into a serious relationship that she isn't ready for?
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>>18249232
The girl basically told you she might consider you as a partner if she wont find better in time.
Take it as you want. It was just one date. But i wouldnt tolerate girl who openly fucks others dudes and "dates" me at the same time.
Keep dating her and hope for best or tell her your ultimatum. Your choice.
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>>18249264
No she's being normal and OP is being needy and archaic.
Modern dating:
>Meet qt
>Flirt
>arrange date
>Get number
>go on date
>Kiss/hookup at end of date
>Tell her you had fun. Goodnight kiss and leave, do not speak about next date.
>Wait to hear from her
>When you do (if you did well on the date she'll text you within a week) that's your signal that she likes you. Use this as an opportunity to arrange the next date, do not chit chat on the phone.
>Go on next date
>repeat process.
>Within 1 month you'll be hanging out everyday
>Within 3 months she'll be in love with you and ask YOU to be your gf.
You literally only have to take her on dates and give her orgasms. Eventually she'll want to get serious. Never bring up serious or relationship talk. Keep things casual, fun, and sexy until she brings up the relationship talk.
Trying to add pressure on girls to commit is never a good idea.
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>>18249232
I really want to know what life events lead people into being such cucks? OP she basically told you you're the fucking leftover food in the fridge. If she can't find anything better and is too lazy to go out then you'll be perfect! Why would you think it's ok to remain in this situation?
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I am 25 and I am thinking on going to college to get a finance or accounting degree.
Anyone of around the same age bother to tell their experience here?
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>>18249163
if yo udidnt study back then youre probably not going to study now
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>>18249198
I never went on first place.
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bump because I'm in a similar situation.
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How do I get over an embarrassing sexual encounter?
I'm 27, nowhere near a virgin, but I stopped dating or hooking up altogether a few years ago.
A girl that I had been infatuated with for a while hit me up and we began dating. One night, she came over drunk, and the sex was awful. 100% my fault, but she nearly cried because she felt embarrassed.
We broke up shortly after. Now, I have another opportunity with someone else, but I'm terrified that it's gonna happen again. I used to be quite good at sex, I don't know if I'm just rusty or what.
My skin is usually much thicker than this, but my ego is in tatters and I don't want to embarrass myself so intimately in front of anyone else ever again.
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Tell the new girl about your insecurity if things seem to be heading towards sex.
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>>18250025
I suppose this is the most obvious answer, thank you
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>>18249162
>100% my fault, but she nearly cried because she felt embarrassed.
Greentext that now
Come on man, that's not the end of the world. Instead of just jumping to sex just explore her again.