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Yes, you are a loser. Just kill yourself and get it over with.

pick up the gun billy

>>18256914
You're 19, go fuck yourself. I'm 24 and only figured out what I want to do last year. I wasted my life smoking weed and flunking out of engineering classes that my parents told me to take until then.

I fucking wish I had had the balls and the knowedge of who I am when I was 19 to actually do what I wanted in terms of ecistential authenticity.

Why don't you do some serious soul searching and figure out who you are. Write down your values, who your parents are, what you really love, who you admire and why, etc. Figure out what tou want and who you are and then persue it full fucking bore. Nobody can tell you and don't waste your time pursuing the white picket fence boring ass suburb life.

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GTFO NORMIE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>18256884
im pretty sure normal people find switch men as weird.

>>18256889
Dude seriously this is an advice board for people without gfs if you've got one already your life is golden and you don't need advice. Just get out.

>>18256843
If you know words like tsundere, she's right about hating you. I'm so certain about this because I know them too.

>>18256843
Why you think she hates you?. Sometimes they think you're not good enough, it's not like they hate you, but that they prefer something better for their daughter

>>18256882
>prefer something better for their daughter
Yeah, it feels like that. In that case, should I break up with her?

This post tells me you need to kill yourself. That's the best advice I or anyone can give.

>>18256809
You shouldn't get so triggered at sad people. It lumps you into the pile.

>>18256802
Why do you relate hopelessness to being ashamed?

Toss it out the window, what your doing right now is toxic and stupid. If your even thinking about creeping or anything related it's already over just fuhgettaboutit.

>>18256763
How so? We have somewhat common interests, like similar music, and for all I know she could be too shy or insecure to express the same.

>>18256810
The fact that you can't see it is proof enough that you need to give it up. Trust me dude it's the best option.

Just kill yourself or better yet start cutting, it always works for me.

>>18256760
clever. what makes you want to be cancer on /adv/?

>>18256765
This is honest advice. I'm not sure what your trying to say.

Pic unrelated but good meme

You shouldnt, women are vile Savage beings. Sub-human filth that will just drag you down with them. Your better off living your life free from them.

>>18256723
But what about passing on genes, and companionship? Men are generally designed to provide resources to women, and women generally provide childcare, sex and domestic skills in return. Maybe it's pragmatic but being single all my life might not feel right

Let her sleep. Having sex with a dead fish sucks. Cuddle her tonight then get that sweet morning action when you wake up.

>>18256711
So like start eating her pussy wen I wake up?

>>18256716
No, what the fuck?
Make out a bit and do some heavy petting. I'm assuming you two are sharing a bed or she's into you.
Please don't tell me you're just spending the night at some friends house and you expect something to happen because of that.

>>18256644

Just seek out other communities. I'm part of a forum on IGN that I've been with for 15 years, and I've grown up with these people, even as our interests have varied. I've been parts of other forums like for my favorite football team, and then there's 4chan as well.

But I never feel like I need to force anything if those communities aren't evolving with me. There will be other places, if need be.

But at the same time, reflect on yourself a little bit. Are there things about you that changed negatively as your relationship grew? Did you go from being "the always depressed guy" to now "won't stop talking about his girlfriend guy?" It's pretty common, and even I went through it, but I'd advise you not to write off your friends entirely, as this could just be a bump in the road if you play it right and look at it from other perspectives.

>>18256644
Sounds like a case of jealousy to me anon. I would try and expand your IRL social circle.

>>18256654
Oh shit, is that board The Vestibule by any chance? I used to post there back when I was a teenager, but I was a pretty obnoxious kid and eventually decided to leave. I kinda miss that place.

I absolutely did become that guy for a period of about a month, and I'm frustrated that things turned out the way they did. I made a very serious attempt to not do that once I realized that it was a problem, but it was too late, and people wouldn't stop being shitty to me every time I chatted, so at a certain point I decided it was best to just leave, especially when people I looked up to were starting to become really aggressive for no reason. I think the main reason people were upset though wasn't really the chats (which I managed to stop entirely, but occasionally I'd still mention her because I think it's absurd that everyone else was allowed to talk about what's going on in their lives; just not me), but because I used to run a lot of stuff for the community and I no longer had time to do that. One of those things was a pretty active film club, and I also would coordinate album listenalongs and game nights and so on. I also used to do a lot of streams for them. Some considered me the glue that held things together.

You're right, though. I definitely shouldn't write them off. A lot of them are just concerned and upset that I'm not spending as much time with them as I used to. I'm just frustrated because I can't help but see it as somewhat selfish to demand that someone go back to how they "used" to be when they know full well that the person they used to be was completely miserable. I have also seen several of them go through the exact same thing I am, and I was never an asshole to any of them, so it's a bit bewildering that now that I'm on the other side of the table, I'm made out to be an asshole, but whatever, I tried. For now, though, I need to seek out new communities and meet new people.

I don't know, but it sounds like you've got some fucked up priorities.

>>18256648

Can you elaborate on my fucked up priorities?

>quit job because of stress and no time for yourself
>get a new job that gives you a more balanced life
>quit that job because people aren't impressed with what you do
>go back to old company which you hated
I don't understand how you don't think your priorities are fucked up. Are you living your life for yourself, or for others?

>>18256627
It's tough, but don't replace you're addiction with another one man, that defeats the whole point.

As much as everyone is all "mmuh weed is good for you" wouldn't surprise me if your body is somewhat physically dependent on it. You're probably detoxing from it right now. Just stay strong. I think a marijuana detox only takes about 2 weeks.

>>18256627

Try your best not to replace it with another addiction, but if you're having trouble sleeping, try something like melatonin (not really addictive), or trouble with anxiety, maybe a beer or two, something like that.

It's important to try to let your body adjust to life without being constantly fucked up on something.

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>>18256627
>To be blunt

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Also here's one that I had as the profile picture for most of my social medias.

>>18256603

/soc/ --->>>

if you are unhappy with how you look consider a lifting regiment and getting a haircut

Probably the former although I encourage you to consider that you might not be an introvert and to consider in what ways you are introverted and what ways you are an extrovert. It's not usually all that black and white. Personally I have qualities of both, and you probably do too.

>>18256585

Introvert vs extrovert has nothing to do with social skills, ability to be talkative, or ability to be the center of attention.

It just has to do with what you find draining, and what recharges you.

The rest of that shit is learned, trained, improved, and polished.

Pretty much the only limits in that kind of shit are the ones you tell yourself that exist.

Thank you both
>>18256623
This is an other understanding of what I had of the matter. Comforting in a way. But it seems that these social things are strongly connected to the introvert-extrovert distinction (and in between). I find these social expressions very draining but I gues a lot of it has to do with being uncomfortable/ insecure in doing it and maybe learning them makes it less draining.

>>18256584
>Why am I the bad guy for this? Am I? Or are bitches just crazy?


Unless you work at a strip joint or something, sounds more like your girl is crazy.

>>18256584

how connected is your relationship atm. Are you living together?

and what job did you get that it matters if you work with girls?

>>18256584
Quit job, become houseman, smoke dope day in day out, eventually play victim every time she reminds you who wears the pants in relationship and makes money. Because apparently equal career opportunities is bad. I would go even further, and get a job at where she works.

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Chill u sound like a buttfag. Listen to jcole - don't save her. Leave and tell her to start sucking dick for $ so she can keep up her habit

>>18256553

Fuckin' Dottys man, they're everywhere.

Vegasbro here though, that shit is challenging. People get addicted to the highs of winning, and I've seen it ruin a lot of lives. That first win is SO EASY, and then you feel like you can do it again. Then when you lose what you've won, you feel the urge to "win it back," knowing that just one more jackpot is going to make everything okay again. But it doesn't come, and you've buried yourself.

Since she's your wife, is there a way to set limits on the finances? Like a set amount that can be taken out of your account before going to the bank? Can you talk to her about responsibly sharing the money, maybe with her letting you control how much she can take out at a time until she's less interested in going to Dotty's?

There's Gambling Anonymous meetings, and I've been to one to support a friend, but as an alcoholic that can't stand AA, I don't know if I should recommend GA as any kind of a solution either.