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There's a guy I really like in my uni class, we have a lot in common in terms of reading, music taste, generalised misanthropy etc-we get along great. However, once we get into anything more "values/politics" oriented, we're vastly different. He's kind of conservative and classic liberal, pro free market, pro army, pro gun, pro democracy etc. Whereas I'm more of a pacifist and tend to believe in benevolent dictatorships etc. while being a traditional 'lefty' on topic such as the environment.

We haven't yet gotten close enough to discuss actual values around relationships, so I don't really know how he feels on that front (although I don't believe he's traditional in the family sense, which is great for me since I love working and would hate to be a housewife).
So my question is, should I pursue this? Can different outlooks on the world work in a relationship? Or is it doomed to fail and I should just try to remain friends?

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I just broke up with my gf and I was feeling really bad so I call a girl up. She gave the whole girl friend experience. Gorgeous woman, practically as beautiful as my ex.

The sex was great and after that was done we talked. I told her I was really bummed about breaking up and she gave me her take on the things that happened. Talking to her was awesome. In a way, she was even kinder than my gf.

I actually asked if she wanted to hang out, like eat, and she said sure. She gave me her number, Idk if it was personal. I'm not planning on making her my gf but I she's just a great friend.

I texted her 2 hours ago and she hasn't replied yet. So, is the GFE only up to the time you bought?

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This may be a stupid question, but when does "sex" begin to you? Strictly penetration? Oral? Mutual masturbation? I feel like there's a bit of a debate to be had.

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So can anyone walk me through buying drugs off the darknet? What do you need? What should you be aware of? Mistakes to avoid? Past experiences?

I've downloaded Tor, browsed a few markets, mainly just want to buy LSD...

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I'm a fucking moron and need to stop taking advice from fuccbois.
>be me, overthink shit
>meet really cool girl, go on date, have a blast
> she gets frisky, I tell her I wanna wait and get to know her, she wants it more
> we go on second date within the week, have a blast again, go back to her place
> Netflix and chill, literally
> look into her eyes, we start making out, we get shirtless and I start playing with her titties
> reach her pants, she says maybe we should wait
>i back off, still kiss her for few minutes, try again, she stops me
> we keep kissing, "omg anon you're so naughty"
> we pass out, movie ends, she gets ready for bed
>i decide to crash on her couch
> she invites me to sleep in her bed, we just cuddle and I respect her boundaries
> next day as we are leaving her apartment complex she gets into car accident
> I decide to stick around and make sure she has support and comfort her
> we text throughout the day and she's clearly embarrassed and scared of the person whose car she fucked up, which turned out to be her neighbor
I decided to kick it with my buddy and he decides to send her this mushy ass text because I needed guidance on how to handle situation
(pic related)
> she sends reply and I get butthurt because she wants to take time to figure her shit out I don't get to see her for a while
> my friends make me insecure, "gee buddy. If only you'd of fucked her she'd be thinking about you" "when this all blows over she'll find a new guy and forget your ass"

>i decided to do what I can to get laid

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So, I'm in love with a friend. The problem is, i know i cant move it forward. We're better off as friends than anything more.

The issue is, I'm in this weird limbo between loving spending time with her, and feeling like shit afterwards for not being able to express my feelings completely to her.

Do i cut off a good friendship because i cant control the way i feel? Or in other words, is there anyway i can keep this friendship and kill my feelings for her?

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When should I go to the hospital?

>go through day fairly normally
>take nap in evening, wake up at 7
>gut feels kind of weird, but don't think too much about it
>gut continues to feel weird for several hours
>eat dinner even though not feeling particularly hungry
>sharp pain suddenly developed on right side of lower gut, about 3-4 inches to the right of belly button
>pain comes and goes in waves, but is somewhat noticeable when moving
>no fever, nausea or vomiting

Part of me thinks it's appendicitis, but I also have Crohn's disease (though that rarely gives me problems and when it does it's not as localized like this).

Should I wait it out to see if it's just gas pain or something? Is appendicitis pain constant or does it kind of come and go in waves?

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I'll be homeless in slightly over 24 hours.

>I've got no family around.
>I'm 23 and work casual at McDonald's, making less than people on Centrelink most weeks lately.

Luckily I've got anything worthwhile I own put into a storage facility. Though I want to move it again because I got help from someone to have it there, using their dad's account and paying him.
So worried they'll take my shit.

No car or licence. Parents were never around to teach me and learning from only paid sessions is costly as fuck.

Not sure what to do.

Where did it all go so wrong.

Feel free to ask me anything or give me advice/tips.

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How do I get rid of all of my body hair permanently?
I am completely fucking coated in the shit and it's hard as fuck to find a dude that wants to fuck a skinny hairy guy.
I can't go swimming at the beach cause I'm embarrassed about it, can't wear shorts, can't so anything showing any skin cause there's always a little more hair than I think should be shown. Cant even wear short sleeve t shirts cause my upper arms are very hairy and if I don't shave it every other day it's very noticeable.

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These were my texts as of recently. I really wish I could return things back to the way they were.

I messed it up by asking her friend if she was cheating on me, she ended up snitching me out. Honestly she got so mad she dumped me I guess.

I really yeah her back is there anything I could do? She hasn't replied, I want her back.

Judging from nthe texts is there any hope?

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Hey guys... was wondering if you could share some motivation words for me? 22y old, with a shitty job, thinking what others might think about me...all the time. Scared of quitting job because what if I won't find anything? Never achieved anything I wanted ... Others always been more important for me than myself

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Having trouble deciding what "degree" i should major in trade school?
list of degrees they offer: http://www.tstc.edu/programslist/browse?_ga=1.249392647.1200381418.1492058859

A lot of the degrees in this list seem bullshit to me?

what should I major in?

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Going outside nowadays is a huge source of anxiety for me...and it's rough, I have to attend classes and go to my job, and being depressed, wanting to hide all the time is no way to live. I know for a fact that I'm ugly, but I know that it's not good to dwell on it, that I should at least do something about it.

>people stare at me sometimes; I'm talking unnatural stares, like they're looking behind and straight at me. Girls and boys do this...ESPECIALLY girls for some fuckin reason
>kind of like people are intimidated/scared by me? I'm 5"7, so it could be possible...
>it's been years since I got any compliments, I've just had a ton of bad experiences that seem loosely related to my lack of looks
>every other girl I know has a boy interested in em (including ones that ask them out w/o knowing anything about their personality)
>I don't
>I have a few acne scars, you can't see em very well but they're there. Also am 20 pounds overweight (used to be waaaay fatter though)
>got frustrated with my stupid baby fine hair getting messed up easily, so I cut it off a few weeks ago out of annoyance. That's probably why it looks sorta bad. Should I fix it? How can I? It's an ugly light brown too. Should I dye it darker or something?

Okay. So. I'm not looking for compliments/lies. I want to know how to look less weird and more passable.


Oh, and the pic's mainly blurry 'cause my camera's shitty. Slapped a filter over it to at least get rid of the noise. Sorry.

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So I just got the Mirena intrauterine device inserted. But I keep hearing horror stories about side effects on the internet, yet my ob/gyn says they are remarkably safe (she inserts 3 to 5 IUDs a week, and she's been at the location for about 14 years).

I don't know who to believe and I really don't want to be needlessly scaring myself.
Who here has this IUD? Have any issues with it?

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Just to square some things away... I'm healthy, in my early 20s, eat vegetarian/vegan, work out at least twice a week, try and refrain from porn as much as possible, has sex at least twice a week, and do kegels while pissing at least 8 times or more a day. I've had a girlfriend for a year now and just recently has my sex life taken a turn for the worst. I use to never have this problem, I could fuck for 20 or more minutes before even feeling it, but now it seems I climax in a mere minute of fucking. This has been going on for the last few months, and it's slowly been getting worse. I try keeping my mind off of it and attempt some form of mindfulness meditation to distract myself, but it seems to only make things worse. My penis just seems overly sensitive these days and I have no idea what could be the cause of it. I hardly masturbate anymore, and even when I did I only masturbated every 3 or so days. Today I ate her out and fingered her for 30 minutes, and when I stuck it in I only lasted a mere minute.

This makes no fucking sense and this issue is really bumming me and my girlfriend out. This issue is seeping into my day to day life and is contributing to my worsening depression. I don't know if it's psychological or a health issue, and I would love any advice you all have to give.