Boy here, what is a good way to confess love to a girl?
Wednesday is when I see her again and I could ask her when she is free so I can meetup or anything, or would it be better to just ask her at school in private, or wait until her lesson at school are over? (time is no issue for me).
Should I go for a direct approach like '' I love you and want you to be my gf'' (not literally like that) or go for a slow approach and ask the gf part after a few minutes of talking how I feel first?
Not really related but I am just scared to mess it up so nerves will play a big part, should I also take medication that makes my head calm down or might that make me feel worse after the fact?
>>18708744
How old are you, friend?
>should I also take medication that makes my head calm down
Don't self medicate. If a doctor prescribed it, then take it as the doctor said. Don't take an extra dose to "calm down".
>>18708753
>you need to be at least 18 to post to thus site
Let's juust say 18 is close to 17 which is nearly 16.
I dont think this info matters but she is also 1 year older than me
>Dont self medicate....
Alright so no meds for me
>>18708761
Don't tell a girl you barely know you love her. As a matter of fact, don't tell people you are not dating that you love them.
You are over-investing on a person that, as far a I can tell, doesn't really know you, right?
My personal advice is: Don't do something that makes you feel bad. If you feel so nervous about approaching this girl, you probably know she will say "no". Go out with friends, and meet girls you actually feel comfortable with.
tl:dr I'm a 23 year old eurofag with not much life experience who has fallen in love with someone in another country and would love any advice from any old fags on what to do.
Now here is the longer part,
A girl from another country did an internship where I work and we fell in love with each other. Fast forward, she has now flown back to her country because she has 2 more years of college.
We haven't actually started dating or anything, we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend because we both know a long distance relationship will fizzle out but we both really want it.
My current contract is over in 10 months, I was also planning on moving to Canada for a year and travel Asia a bit with several friends for quite a while. So I will be finished by the time she finishes college. I was thinking if we are both single after that and have kept in contact we could meet up and start something together then.
Here's the thing, she is literally the woman of my dreams, I know I'm only 23 but I want to find someone to settle down with and have kids soon so I can live to see grand children. (Is that retarded?)
So I'm also considering moving to her country when my contract ends instead (finding work there should be easy. And it is a place I've wanted to live for a year anyway).
As mentioned before I am only 23 with not a lot of life experience. Can any oldfags lend some advice?
>>18708729
Younger fag here (18)
Fucking do it!
Unless she gets someone by then, or is against the idea of a relationship with you by then.
>>18708729
I don't see any obvious downside, do you?
>>18708767
Downside is what if I dont like living in her country, what if we end up falling apart anyway. I would have ended up giving up my one chance of living in Canada for a year and travelling around the world with my friends to live in a strange country with no friends.
Did any of you guys go to court against your doctor, bc you think he may have fucked up? (On purpose or without)
>>18708723
Malpractice charges are not trivial things. They can take years to set up. If you think you have a case, see a lawyer. Since the lawyer will be taking a big risk - most such cases are no-win, no-pay - and so he'll only take it on if you seem to have a sure thing. Trust his judgment.
Tl;dr: pls reapond
>>18709114
Are there any places else I could consult?
Do you think it's Worte the risk? I'd at least like'd the doc to pay for the damage that has to be repaired. My specific case is about my teeth.
I went to the dentist bc my gums are bleeding and he only recommendes me to use a Special kind of floss. He told me nothing else and didn't mention anything about paradontitis specifically up until I had visible biofilm behind my front teeth. Then I was send to a clinic where they told me its' become aggressive and they need to regenerate the gums and teeth and roots up to the bones that have been damaged in the meanwhile. So I will have huge gaps, thin teeth and they also recommend me to wear sth like bridges behind my fron lower teeth so they don't shake unnecessarily while eating and such. All in all about 1k probably.
>>18708723
oh shit that roo got rekt. I wonder why people don't do this more often, like film kangaroos fighting it seems a lot more entertaining than dog fighting desu
>be in the metro
>see cute girl
>decide if she goes out at the same spot I'll approach her
>she does
>pussy out through another exit than hers
>decide fuck it
>look for her at ground level
>see her walking away
>run to catch up with her
>say "excuse me. I never do that but you're really beautiful, could I ask for your number"
>she is surprised and hesitating, my heart is going into overdrive
>finally she says ok and gives it to me
>tell her I hope we'll see each other and we part ways
>a friend I told the story to used searched her number in FB to check it was legit
Now it's the following day and I'm wondering if I should ask her out to a street art festival next Saturday. I planned on making my message a but humorous.
Never did that, went on very few dates. Any tips ?
Well if the number is legit then go for it you don't really have anything to lose do you?
>>18708700
Do it man! Have a great time and maybe something will come out of it.
>>18708700
Yes, but say it like "I'm going to a festival on Saturday, what time should I pick you up?" Girls like it when it seems like whether she shows up or not, you are still attending the event (doesn't matter whether it's true or not)
recently got dumped by my first gf. almost a year together, i felt like i was really in love. she had started acting different a few days before our anniversary, and my anxiety got really bad. the day came when she asked me to meet her for coffee, i knew it was over and i felt so bad that i threw up in a mcdonald's bathroom. she tells me it's isn't going to work out, she wants to focus on herself and her faith. we're still trying to be friends but it's very awkward (been ~1month since breakup) any advice?
>>18708619
Time will help. Focus on distractions and building your life. It will hurt for a while, but it will pass eventually. Don't let yourself wallow in misery, keep busy with family and friends. But you're no way obligated to be friends with her while you're trying recover from the break up, even if she'd want it. Give yourself time to get over it.
>>18708639
i have a class with her and everything reminds me of her. don't have many friends bc i'm shy, not any that i can trust to tell them how i feel. i'm just confused on why we broke up, i'm trying to figure out what changed. i treated her with as much respect and care that i could. i'm trying to accept what happened but it hurts
It's part of life, only people to whom it doesn't happen are permavirgins.
Better now than late with kids.
I've been trying to look up guides on this, but every single guide automatically assumes that the reader has previous dating and relationship experiences... are there any guides for people who are in their 30s and never dated before?
pic related
>>18708612
Why'd the advice be any different whether you've dated or not? The same principles apply.
>>18708617
well wouldn't having experience matter or not?
>>18708641
Having no experience in your 20s or 30s is the same thing. In your 30s you will also get up to speed faster and find it easier.
>Dated a girl that looked like a super model, easily a 9/10
>turned out to be an insufferable bitch
>Felt like I was always walking on egg shells because she would constantly use my words against me to get under my skin
>break up with her and date a new girl
>Although this new one is not as hot, I can be myself around her
>Feel like the black cloud fogging my daily life is gone.
>never felt better
My point is, looks are not the top priority in a relationship.
Although you need someone that is hot enough to turn you on, personality is what makes the match
>>18708606
Most people figure this out before the end of high school.
>>18708606
Thank you for your contribution, Captain Obvious.
In other news, the sun is hot.
It's 3 years now. The only gf that I ever had left me 3 years ago, and some shit happened. Basically my group of friends had to make a choice, hang out with me or her. They choose her. I got mad and had a discussion with everyone, even still I did nothing bad and I was the victim... I felt guilty of something, and now everyone hates me.
3 years of pure love and shit and 7 years of friendship destroyed in less than a minute. I still cry sometime. I had to get new friends and I did it (no gf until now btw). I don't really care about my so called ex-friends, but I still care about my ex gf. She lives 1km away from me, and I always have to pass in front of her house to get at work...this might seem a minor problem but it isn't easy to forget about someone that you loved so much when little reminders like this happens. Also, sometimes when I hang out with my new friends, we encounter my former friends with my ex gf. No one ever talked to me nor even said: I'm sorry for what we did. And this kind of apathy kills me, really. I live in a small city and I don't have enough money to get psychological support of any kind. I just want to be friend with everyone and forget about the past, but it's impossible if this sort of things keep repeating 1 a week, it's been 3 years now. I need help guys, what should I do?
Why did they choose your ex-gf over you?
Whatever the reason may be, if they really were your friends, they would have told you what you did wrong and what right (because real friends are honest with you, no matter what). After that real friends would still keep on hanging out with you, not with your ex.
Now: if they're not acting as friends to you.... why in the hell do you care so much about them? They are not your friends and probably never were.
You have new friends now, be a good friend to them and they'll be good to you
>They choose her. I got mad and had a discussion with everyone, even still I did nothing bad and I was the victim... I felt guilty of something, and now everyone hates me.
Seriously dude, that does not seem even remotely plausible. Stop being the victim, this happened 3 years ago. The people you have a beef with has moved on, they are no longer the persons they where. Are you going to stay at that point in time three years ago until you get redeemed? Then there's only a sad and bitter life waiting for you. Start creating a life for yourself.
Move on and build new great (greater) things, you are more than capable.
What are the odds I can get a physical without the doctor touching my junk? Do I need to ask for him not to? I'm 22 if it matters, I know they did it when I was in school but my dad says he can't remember the last time they touched his
>>18708578
Doctors aren't generally know for just grabbing peoples junk without warning. What's your fear?
>>18708585
Idk, I just remember getting physicals in high school for sports and the doc would put his hand in my pants, grab my sac and tell me to cough, and it was really uncomfortable having his hand in my pants. I haven't had a physical since hs and a clinician recommended I get one when I saw her for an ear infection but I'm anxious about this (if you couldn't already guess, I'm a virgin and not comfortable with people inspecting my genitals)
What the doctor did was to inspect the development of your genitals and if there was any pathological sign (wider than normal canal).
If you have an ear infection, the doctor will check your ear, maybe listen to your chest during a very thorough examination
Hey what do you think about my face? Do I look atleast average? Would be happy to get some feedback.
>/soc
On the off chance this isn't b8:
You're fine. Nice eyes. Don't be insecure.
qt
Your insecurity is the problem.
thank you very much.. So I guess it is really just me thinking bad of my look. What does b8 mean btw?
So I'm going to another Uni soon to get my master's degree and have decided that it's easier to buy a new laptop than carry around my old PC. I play videogames, but they won't be a priority there; I'll probably focus on writing stuff in LaTeX and the occasional programming. So I'm searching for a laptop which will be able to run new games in at least medium-high. Any recommendations? Does such a thing even exist? I was hoping its price wouldn't exceed 1300 €. Thank you in advance!
Just take your desktop, it's really not that much of a hassle.
where is OP from? so know what 1300€ stands for
>>18709442
It actually is since it's 400 kilometers away.
>>18709616
I'm a balkanfag, 1300€=1564.60$
I have just been asked to give a reading in church for a wedding in a few weeks.
I suffer with bad anxiety and neuroticism. How the fuck do I get through this without passing out or making an utter fool of myself? Should I get some beta blockers? I've never taken them before
Extrovert speaker fags, please help me
Prepare, is there a script or are you supposed to write something? Rehearse, speak out like you would in church, first by yourself then preferably in front of a friend.
>>18708536
I'm going to receive the reading in a week or so beforehand
>>18708537
A week is plenty. Also remember that your heart palpitations, sweating and general anxiety isn't as obvious to others as it is to you. Also people probably care a lot less about your speach than you imagine.
Hey there. Havin a great day? Me neither.
I need help with my love life. Iv'e been together with my bf nearly 2 years now; He's working, brings home money, I'm studying. He's a bit older than me. lately We're very stressed out and I suggested having sex but he doesn't want to do it. This has gone on for like a month now.... and I have tried a lot of things; Even if I masturbate next to him he doesnt wanna join in. I know he masturbates only when i'm not there.... He's very self conscious and suffers from depression. Also small dick (which he probably doesn't want me to make fun of).
So yeah... I'm at my witt's end.
feel free to suggest strategies or ask related things that help develop strategies. ,:)
Tell him if he doesn't have sex with you you'll tell the police he raped you
Find out what porn he likes and watchesif it's any fantasy stuff role play it it'll be easy if it's any dominant female stuff.
tell him you're horny and getting yourself off isn't satisfying enough and you need him to fuck you. have an actual discussion about it with him. tell him it makes you frustrated and feel like he's not attracted to you (if it does. just speaking from my own experience here)
At 23, a lot of guys my age just want to bang. But really, I just want to have friends. I don't think I've ever had a concrete group of IRL friends in my entire life, only on the internet. What the hell is wrong with me? How do I fix this? I'm not even that bad at socializing. But I'd really like someone to hang out with.
>>18708452
What do you have to offer except your genitals? Do you do any hobbies? Do you do anything interesting? I mean look at your thread: boring picture, 0 describtion, it is as boring as your life.
People make friends through shared hobbies / interests and that sort of die off anyway once you are out of school.
What do you do for fun? And where is your bf?
>>18708487
I don't have a bf. I like hiking and making music. I usually just partake in my hobbies when I'm bored.
Also what more description could I put? It was just general info. I wasn't aware there was a standard on pictures either. Keep the try-hard negging to yourself.
>>18708452
Make friends with girls.
Meet people through hobbies, volunteering, university, meet ups. Join a sports club, a gym, take a class for a new language.
Meet people there.
I live in miami and I can't find online whether it's open or not how do I know
>>18708439
Are you the same moron that opened a thread with an anime picture, asking if you need the follow government recommendations for Irma?
>>18708453
Fuck you, you bitch. You want another anime picture? Here's your fucking anime picture, ya cunt.
>>18708453
yeah thats me
>>18708456
this isn't me