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I've gotten a girlfriend at the beginning of the school year and we've been dating for 8 months now and I truly love her but lately I haven't been able to see or talk to her. Her mother won't let us walk around town or hang around her place because she thinks were just gonna fuck and I can't see her at school because they've pretty much banned us from being within 10ft of each other. Does anybody have any advice I'd would mean a lot
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>>18265376
Suit up, buy pack of flowers and make your gf to invite you to dinner at their parents place on weekend.
You basically walk in, give flowers to her mom, introduce yourself and ask her for permission to keep seeing her daughter and promise you will be responsible gentelman.
No matter how retarded this sounds, it should work.
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>>18265396
Don't know if your fuckig with me or not but shit sounds legit. Thanks.
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>>18265405
Why wouldnt it work? In the worst case scenario her dad will beat you. But that will make you hero in your gfs eyes.
Just be tactful. Do not mention any sex, just that you like her daughter and want to spend more time with her. And if it wont work, you can still keep in touch with her via various online things.
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This is rather long but i appreciate every help
I really like studying and learning and reading, and i also enjoy working out to feel good about myself. I really want a sexy physique, and also to be recognized as intelligent. I'm top in my mathematics classes and computer science classes... However, i look up to many great scientist and authors (R. Dawkings, Christopher Hitchens, etc) and when i see their dedication and intelligence, i cant help but notice they dont look like they wasted their time working out. And when i think about it, If i keep up my work outs, i may have to stop when Im older and working long hours, and i will lose what Ive been so dedicated to achieve.... And the funny thing is, I dont even work out to attract anybody... i simply do it so i can feel good about myself. I know it sounds stupid, but is working out even worth it if im willing to work extremeley hard for the rest of my life dedicated to my career? Also, when we are older, we lose almost all our muscle mass... And if i put myself in my older me's shoes, i feel that Id probably would think that I wasted so much time working out that i could have used all that time reading or studying... If i dont make anysense at all please ask me to clarify and i will, thanks
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Just do both.
Also, are you sure you aren't doing this to cover up your fragile ego?
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You do it to enjoy it, just as others: build miniatures, fly kites, read fiction, D&D. The time they spent on their hobbies is not wasted even if their miniatures are stolen, kite breaks, they go blind, or move too far away to game.
Enjoy your hobbies for as long as your life lets you. They contribute happiness. That is reason enough.
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>>18265369
Im not sure, i feel good about myself most times but if it were, what could i do?
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How do you grow comfortable with a shy gf?
She's constantly apologizing for something or another and seems to have a difficult time talking freely with me. She is an anxious girl and I just want her to feel safe expressing herself with me. Things are pretty awkward even though we both like eachother alot.
Does it just take time? We've been seeing eachother for like 3 weeks now.
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>>18265325
not sure, but I am about to break up with mine for that, among other reasons.
I'm tired of feeling like i'm on eggshells.
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>>18265325
talk to her about it. if you communicate your needs instead of bottling it up and unleashing it here, 全体大丈夫だな
it'll show you actually care and are invested
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24 male here. I'd been suffering from tfw no gf all my life. Been rejected by most girls I asked out (which isn't that much because even trying was always very scary). Have been on my first date a few months ago which I thought went pretty well, but she texted me in the morning that it's not gonna work out.
But then I went on a second date last week with another girl I met online. We went to a café, talked for 60-90 minutes, then she fell silent and looked me straight in the eyes. She didn't smile. We had a staring contest for a few beats, then I leaned in, hesitated a bit, but still kissed her. Then we made out for what felt like half an hour.
I didn't expect the experience to have been that... intoxicating. I couldn't think straight or make coherent sentences. It seems like I'd be more sober if I took two shots of vodka than I was at that moment.
Anyway, I guess we're dating now. We've met two more times, the second of which was at her apartment. We sat on her bed and made out, after which I inferred that she wanted to fug so we did foreplay for like 30 minutes, fully clothed, but then she stopped because we were "going too fast". I wasn't too upset about this, although my balls really hurt that day.
She told me something I never expected to hear from a woman - "I really like kissing you, but I'm not sure how I feel about you as a person". I'm a natural, apparently, lol.
And honestly, I'm not sure how I feel about this whole thing, either. She's definitely rather pretty, intelligent and nice - but not exceptionally so. The main reason I like her is not some objective set of qualities, but because when she looks at me, my head feels weak and I want to lock lips with her - and she always gladly obliges. She says she has mixed feelings about me but she's definitely always glad to kiss and hold hands.
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And I should be happy, right? This is what I've wanted for a very long time and I thought I would have settled for a lot less. But I'm actually very anxious and confused right now. Like:
What if we break up? That's scary.
What if we don't break up and stay together for a long time? That's scary.
What if we have sex? That's scary.
What if we don't have sex? You guessed it - that's also scary.
I don't think I can reasonably say I "love" her (though I don't "not love" her, either), but what I experience doesn't feel like lust, either, at least not of the "predator waiting to pounce on prey" variety. It's more like some kind of disarming intoxication combined with a moth-to-flame attraction. OP pic is how I feel.
I expect responses like "just relax and see where this goes" but I'm afraid I can't just will myself into ignoring my worries. This is the strongest emotional attachment I've built in less than a week and don't know what to do about it. Help?
TL;DR: started dating someone for the first time in 24 years, didn't expect to lose my damn mind. Would like to regain sanity without returning to the solitary path.
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>>18265302
The fact that this took 2 posts means you are overthinking THE FUCK out of this.
She obviously likes you. But she's not ready for sex. That's fine.
Do you like her? Keep going out. It's not scary because it's a relationship, it's scary because it's new. If this were he third or tenth time you'd done something like this it'd be a lot less scary, trust me.
Do what makes you happy. That's what you need at the end of the day. If trying with her is more fun than scary, keep going. If a relationship is too much for you to deal with, let her know, break it off.
It's up to you. What do you really want anon?
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>>18265302
Just by the length of this post I can definitely tell she is going to break up with. Literally oozing betacuckery right now
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Is buying porn from camgirls cheaitng?
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Long story short one of the most attractive girls ive ever seen is selling nudes/videos online. I want to buy a video but I don't know if this is considered cheating or if its the same as buying porn.
For the record I'm never going to meet, chat with or fuck this girl most likely.
What do you guys think?
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>>18265295
If you're never chatting/meeting/fucking the girl in question, in what way is it actually different from buying porn on some actress's website or something?
Or is there something you're not telling us?
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>>18265311
>Or is there something you're not telling us?
Yes there's something I'm hiding from an anonymous message board. You caught me anon.
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>>18265295
It's not cheating
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I'm looking to buy a new laptop for work. I usually have to run memory consuming statistic programs simultaneously. I was looking at investing in a laptop with at least 16GB of RAM and a motherboard that can handle up to 32GB of RAM if necessary. Is this overkill? Also, I'd like the display to be 17 inch or more and a 1TB hard drive. Where should I shop? I can upgrade the RAM and hard drive myself if it's cheaper
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It's not overkill. Try amazon , newegg
Ebay(if legit)
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Is there any hard and fast reason you can't use a tower? Because it'll be a lot easier to do what you want if you build a rig
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>>18265305
Seconded.
Laptops are great and all but not really ideal for modifying with upgrades later on.
I've done it, i've broken with my gf. After 1 year living together, things went down the hill when she decided to move back to her country(because she found a job there), i couldn't change her mind, i waited for her 25 days, she came to visit me, i took care of her, we had great sex, we discussed, i gave her the opportunity to change her mind until today. But she remained hesitant, she went back to her country, and now the day is almost over and she texted me saying she was destroyed and still doesn't know what to do. But today is the last day, after 25 fucking days, and another 20 days with her in her country, i'm done with this, i've left my job for her, left my friends, i've literally done everything to make her feel special. And now i cannot allow me to keep losing things anymore
Did i do the right thing?.
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My fiancee couldn't choose between me and the other guy she fell in love with.
Not choosing is also a choice. So I ended it.
Fucking hurts, though. Still regret my choice, even though I know I had no choice.
You deserve someone who's certain of you. Someone who would leave their job, friends and literally do anything to make you feel special.
You deserve someone like yourself, OP. But either way, you deserve better.
It doesn't matter, though. You don't want 'better' - you just want -her-. I wish I could say it gets better or that it stops hurting, but it's been 3 weeks for me and I still can't stop thinking about her. Just know you're not alone in this miserable shit.
I believe we're going to make it, someday. Just not right now. Stay strong, brother.
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>>18265402
I'm kinda going through the same thing and I just wanted to say that reading your posts made me feel a bit better.
Thanks a lot kind anons, it's good to know I'm not alone.
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I'm in a weird situation, kinda similar, where I really like a girl and she likes me back, but we live almost 500km apart and neither of us are willing or can move to where the other is.
Some things are just not meant to be OP. Specially when one side is putting all the effort and the other isn't.
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In dire desperate circumstances...I have this physodic violent rapist on my tail twenty four seven. He is going out of his way to make me and my family miserible. he has already raped me and my family members multiple times. he goes to our jobs and rapes us, he brakes in our homes and assualts us. he even hook up with baby mama and god knows what hes doing to my child. idk what to do he never stops
this is pic is him
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no matter how many times we call the cops or fuck him up he doesnt stop. hes trying to destroy us.
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im at my ends rope....the cops arrest him but hes always out in no time.
His actions have zero consequences from the law even when we call the police
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>>18265243
Call ICE on him.
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So, I currently work 7 days a week, and I've been doing it for about 5 years now. I work a full-time job, plus a three day a week part-time job. It was fine when I was just another worker at my full-time job, but now I am in a management position and it's pretty stressful. I feel like I want to quit my part-time job but it nets me like over $1000 extra a month, and it's easy - all I do is drive around basically. If I quit, I would probably be bored as shit on my days off and become more of an alcoholic because I don't really have any friends or anything to do. Not sure what to do -_- but I'm so tired...
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>>18265237
This might sounds like heresy in the age of capitalism but
>what are you going to do with all the money
>do you realize there is more to life than work
>you are exchanging time on this planet for money
What is your master plan? Buy large house and die in work?
>gf?
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>>18265351
Fuck off communist. Don't tell this guy what to do. It's okay OP, I understand what your saying. The healthy thing to do is to keep working. Work gives a man character and pride!
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lol americans
>works 12 days a month
>gets $1000
That's trash money. Stop it.
>works 7 days a week
why?
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I have a very fragile ego and weak self esteem for a male. Like a girl I don't even know could call me a limp dicked faggot right now and I would probably cry despite being 27.
I need help. How the fuck do dudes improve ego or self esteem? It seems women can just put something sexy on or fire up tinder and get free ego boosts and improved confidence.
My ego is so frail that if a girl were to take interest in me.. I would instantly believe she has ulterior motive.
So my question, how the fuck do dudes improve confidence, self esteem and ego.
I know big egos are bad but what if you have a small ego? A frail ego? A weak ego?
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>>18265228
Stop giving a fuck what other people think about you. Really simple. The first step in self-confidence is just be you and don't give a single shit if anyone else doesn't like it. That's a them problem, not a you problem. There's always going to be people who appreciate you for who you are and people who just can't stand you for the same reasons. Stop giving any stock to the latter.
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>>18265228
Im in the same boat OP. People have also told me not to give a fuck but I'm failing at the moment. My grandmother called me spineless yesterday which was kind of an eye opener for me. If you havent done it already, i suggest to try something new that you would be good at and gain recognition/money for. You probably need something to identify with other than the negative opinions of people youve dealt with in the past.
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>>18265241
>just stop caring
>just bee urself
Top tier advice you fucking retard.
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Im 26. I live in a city with 3 beaches and lots of 18 - 20 year olds. Is it true younger girls like older guys? Should i try and put some notches under my belt? Im getting fit and feel i wasted my teens and early 20s being a depressed and isolated edgelord.
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Yeah go ahead just don't stick it crazy
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>>18265144
In my experience, most 18yo prefer guys of similar age, but more early 20s girls will go for "mature" men.
Go for it, why not
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>>18265144
Girls like boys who can buy them drinks, drive them home, be responsible enough to have condoms and experienced enough to eat their pussy until they scream.
Simply horny stupid young boys without money, social status cant compete with you.
But it all boils down to a bit of luck to meet the right girl.
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Guys, what's your opinion on bangs?
I've had boyfriends who said they don't like bangs on me because
They hide my forehead
They take attention from my eyes
and I look like a little girl
I want bangs mainly because they hide my fivehead, but I also don't want to look weird like a kid.
Pic is for reference. I have the same skin tone, color and length, but thicker hair. Face is the same shape, but cheeks are chubbier, forehead is longer and my face doesn't look so old.
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Depends on the person wearing it, depends on the person viewing it.
In general I'd prefer sideswept bangs > fivehead > blunt bangs.
Sideswept seems like it'd be hell to maintain though, so wouldn't expect to see that look outside of special occasions.
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>>18265126
Thank you for your advice. I've heard that side swept look great on me so I think I'll just do that
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>>18265110
depends on your face structure, overall head structure, etc
would need a pic to elaborate
Hey guys, I'm looking for legal advice, (kinda). I recently sold a playing card from a game called Magic: The Gathering to an acquaintance of mine for $600, and he claims now 6 days later that it is counterfeit, which I strongly do not agree with.
Can he go to court with this? I feel like he will be laughed out of court about a piece of cardboard.
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>>18264991
Old magic cards can be really hard to identify as a counterfeit because the printing techniques on them were not as strict and standarized as today.
Don't think he can go to court about it, but did he even give you details how did he arrive to the conclusion that it was a fake? How did YOU get the card in the first place? He could be bullshitting.
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>>18264991
Court would cost way more than $600
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>>18265040
>>>18264991 (OP)
>Court would cost way more than $600
Thats what I thought, so it wouldnt be worth it for him?
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I'm 24, I'm still at university because I started late, I've never had a boyfriend, I don't have good friends, I spent so many years being bullied that I can't even relax and have a good time at parties or in bars, I'm so behind everyone else and there's no way to have the kind of experiences that they had because I'm too old for it to be the same
If I have a boyfriend now it's not going to be as good as if I had one when I was young
The years are going by so fast I can't believe I'm 24. But I am
As a girl I'm getting close to my sell by date too and it's so scary
I hate my life I feel like I ruined my youth and I hate myself so much
advice?
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>>18264935
>If I have a boyfriend now it's not going to be as good as if I had one when I was young
That's such a bad attitude, and it's not even true. Teenage relationships are 95% confusion, unrealistic expectations, and heartbreak.
You're at the age where everyone is starting to figure out what they actually want. Relationships will actually be better now, and there are a lot of guys out there who would be thrilled to find a girl without a ton of baggage from past relationships. 24 is still young. You can't change the past, and you're poisoning your own future with this negative outlook.
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>>18264942
>You're at the age where everyone is starting to figure out what they actually want
Except for me.
There are 13 year olds with more dating experience than me
For people my age relationships are not as exciting anymore. And no matter what it will be different because I'm an adult now and I'll never get to feel what it's like to be young and in love
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>>18264957
So you're not looking for advice of any kind, this is just a pity-party. I think you're on the wrong board
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Can the perception of hate be used to generate hate itself?
Example: if I see a quality in someone I find distasteful? and it's a flaw. that I myself once had. will my subconscious generate hate? or anger? in multiples? as in will I be MORE likely to lash out?
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>>18264915
Yeah, "projection" is a pretty common thing. When you recognize your own flaws in other people, it can be frustrating or uncomfortable. Some people really can't stand to look in the mirror, you know?
Maybe in your head, you have an idealized image of the way you are, the way you hope other people see you. But when you see somebody doing the same dumb shit you do, and you realize how stupid it is, you suddenly understand the way other people really see you.
>will I be MORE likely to lash out?
None of this is an excuse for shit behavior, control yourself.
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I will destroy you when you lash out, the way it has worked for the past few millennia. Don't worry.
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>>18264930. could this idea be intentional? could a organization. purposely project? in order to create this reaction. in me?