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Depends anon, do you believe if you wish hard enough it literally reshapes reality?

Either way, I don't think you did otherwise your wife would have actually became the other woman you were thinking about. Your wish wouldn't just alter the egg's dna.

That question doesn't make any fucking sense.

What you should be asking is : should I stay with my wife because this is clearly a huge goddamn issue even though I pretend it isn't?

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>>18265979
Ok All bullshit aside yes this is the real issue at hand I know she's the mother that was an attention grabber question. What do I do? How do I deal with the issue of just plain not wanting my wife? I have never honestly had sex with her actively I have always pretended she was someone else

Of course you are. You'll get hit in the face with liver cirrhosis at 45-50.

>>18265929
it takes a toll. try to get off the bottle now so you can be even better functioning. my dad was an alcoholic who hid it. he wasn't a bad guy and he loved my sister and I but there was a definite change for the better after we found out and got him help.

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>>18265929
Is this really a big deal?
Yes. Your problems will arise later in life. Example: Herpes and AIDS dont appear immediately. You could still have them despite not seeing problems.
>I am a functional adult. I have a full time job, own a home etc.
Lots of addicts have those things.
>What causes people to go to AA or decide to give up alcohol?
Have you ever seen intervention? When the substance takes control of someone's life, forcing them to hit rock bottom, is typically when people go to AA. Smart people go BEFORE it's ruined their lives.
>Is it really a problem to drink everyday if it has no negative effect on your life?
Yes and it will eventually.
>Am I just lying to myself when I say it has no negative effect?
Well, no. Since you have no current negative side effects for your alcoholism, you can't lie to yourself. You ARE, however, lying to yourself about it never effecting you negitively.
>And how would I know if I was lying to myself?
When you know what can happen but you ignore it anyway with a "It could never happen to me" mindset.
>I don't think anyone even knows that I drink everyday
That's bad. That means no one knows about your problem. If no one knows, no one can help you.

Quit before it's too late. Be happy you're getting hindsight now instead of at age 45 when your liver is fucked.

Damn these are a bit more expensive but seems great too:

https://www.amazon.com/Klipsch-R-15PM-Powered-Monitor-Black/dp/B01A7J534G

>>18265922

If you have powered speakers you don't need an amp, hence the "powered".

>>18265922
Powered speakers are really terrible. No reason to have an amplifier inside your monitors unless you're literally so much of a brainlet that you can't figure out how to hook up a sound system.

Talk to your wife about it, maybe she will be more understanding than you think,

>>18265936
absolutely not. We are in a strictly closed marriage and she has made it known to me that her views on cheating are the same as Lorena Bobbitts

>>18265944
try getting your wife into some fetish shit

try new things

broaden your horizons

She is 100% fucking other guys lol

>>18265855
Ok cool, I don't care about that as long as they're wrapping it up.

thanks anon

>>18265865
Unironically cuck

quit being a pussy. she's emotionally manipulating you with her crocodile tears. that's not fucking cool.
unless of course you want to walk around on eggshells and feel like you're always the one to say, "sorry," that is.
just tell her you don't see you two together in the long run, then cut contact with her, and if you can't do that, minimise contact with her.
but be prepared to be demonized as she tells her sob story to anyone that's willing to listen to her.
you need to do this for yourself, anon.

>putting someone elses happiness before your own

>>18265834
HOw long have you been together?

Jealousy has driven you insane

either you're full of crap, or his brain was rotting away long before he broke up with you and just now he's finally reached the breaking point.

Sounds like everything was wrong before and you were just ignoring it.

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before everyone repeats the same meme:
http://nytimes.com/2002/04/03/health/no-genetic-reason-to-discourage-cousin-marriage-study-finds.html

All humans are cousins.

Marrying cousins is kinda weird, but just marrying MARRIED cousins? You really wanna do incest and polygamy at the same time?

>>18265805
>Has anyone here married their cousin or know someone who did? care to share your experience?

I do know somebody who married his cousin. His name? Albert Einstein.

Your manager could care less about some fucking cheese 7 months ago.

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>>18265802
It's cheese it's not cheese

Are u just retarded or something. Fuck AS i read your Story i thought, fuck now the even got the key to the Store.

Go for it Grab some more ...

What are you waiting for?

pls help

I think you should be fine. I once drank out of an old container that had grape juice. Mold had grown in the container and I didn't realize. This huge clump of mold sat in my mouth and I realized before I swallowed. Spat it out in the sink and it was a decent size. I didn't ingest it but I feel like that was more harmful than what you did. If you start feeling pretty sick just head to a doctor

>>18265772
Are you sure it was bacteria that you saw? It exists but I think you would have to be in some exotic place in Africa to encounter some strand that would be visible to the naked eye.

Regardless, without knowing what exactly it was (even if it was bacteria) all I can say is that there's a possibility you can get sick from it. If you start having any symptoms you should probably get checked out, if you don't have any you might still want to for peace of mind. Most likely if you do experience any it should be within the first few hours to first few days.

Almost all of that is myth and rooted in quite out of date science. I don't remember where I read it so unfortunately no source, but doctors used to undercorrect when giving glasses to people whose eyes were still developing because of the same school of thought. Eventually studies were done on children who were given the correct prescription, and it was found that the children who were given weaker glasses than they needed ended up going on to develop worse vision than the ones who were given correct glasses- eye strain worsens eyesight.

>Is there any way to fix this on a long period of time? I know its probably caused by me being a shut in and looking at screens all day long and not a genetic defect.
You cannot fix it, ever, short of surgery. You can help prevent it getting worse but it is almost certainly in part genetic. Go to an eye doctor and get an accurate prescription for glasses, find a pair you like and feel confident in, wear them regularly, and don't squint or otherwise strain your eyes.

>>18265769
Thanks for the descriptive answer.

However, I don't think it's related to my genes. My parents don't have any history of myopia, but my mom does have astigmatism. As I said before, it's probably because of the fact that I spend so much time in my room, looking closely at things (screens, books). There really is no way of trying to correct this while I'm growing? Eye exercises?

>>18265759
No. Evolution is imperfect and eyes arent muscles that get stronger and better. They just wear down or start fucked in the first place.

You wont improve.

But ill add, it could even be astigmatism (less scary than it sounds).
One or both of your eyes is ovular shaped instead of spherical..

Its extremely common, but will cause ever so slightly blurred vision, eye strain and eventually, headaches and more vision wear.

>>18265697
Just stop paying them.

>>18265697
Who's this QT anime girl?

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>>18265698
Wouldn't that get me arrested for tax evasion?

>>18265670
do something bat shit crazy to prove it to her she will like that welcome to women 101 see u in women 102

"Serious flirting"doesn't sound like something to actually be guilty over, though. What action did you take that you feel guilty about? Or, perhaps more accurately, what thoughts did you have?

>>18265670
be honest anon

did you fuck her/penetrate her

Do this and exactly this:

Next time you hangout say to her "Hey I'm glad you asked me to prom. Anyway, I think you're adorable and I like you but sometimes it seems like you just want to be friends"

Main point is that you address what you're feeling and let her know it. Confront her (not aggressively) on the issue. Whenever I do this with girls it lets them know you're a guy who goes after what he wants.

No one here can tell you if she actually likes you, only she can. Ergo, get the answer from the horses mouth

>>18265668
Sounds like she's curving you tobh but just tell her you're attracted to her. Nothing bad has ever happened when I've done that, bad feels happened when I've held that shit in until it was too late.

If you are as autistic as this post makes you sound, the girl is probably a little bit too.
Thus you are both awkward and thats why the situations seem so unreadable.

Do you like the girl?
Is she cute?
Does she have a nice bod?
If so, tell her.
Preferably just start with compliments that are unquestionably suggesting that you really like her, hell she already wants you as your prom date so she must atleast be somewhat interested.

Heres a beginner guide.
"I can't wait for prom, its gunna be so much fun going with you."
"Im really glad you asked me, It'll be nice to have a hot date on my arm."
"Do you have a dress picked out yet? Im excited to see how great youll look"
etc etc etc
Keep it playful and flirtatious in tone, hopefully you can manage that.
And, if she isnt actually cute or whatever I cant help you. Other than just suggesting you lie to her.

>>18265646
Bring some kneepads.

>>18265649
fpbp

>>18265646
Meh I've been in similar situations except I needed a C and was getting a low D. The class was essential to my major but I talked to both my prof and advisor and they agreed best course was to pass me otherwise I'd just be taking up a seat (I had to demonstrate satisfactory knowledge of the subject matter). Reason my grade was so low was I never did any homework and didn't turn in a project.