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>what's her logic?

Female logic

Also, you mean he's going out with them separately or all toghether?

Make a better bait thread next time

>>18268336
xd she has the problem she wants your son to be a beta cuck tell her to fuk off pleb leve more room for the alphas amireite?

In general girls are more interested in people and guys are more interested in things. Obviously this isn't a rule, there's plenty of cross over. I mean how many super interesting things do you do? For me work, tv, guitar is all I really have.

yeah most chicks out there have tons of attention already so they don't really have to have character or anything to be joyful and distract themselves from the misery of their lives

you're better than them anon, trust me

fuck them and then bail

I feel you so much OP.

>>18268258
This guy is onto something.
I have a theory that they didn't really need to develop an interesting personality because their looks are enough to draw people toward them.

>>18268096
Because she's your mom and she believes in you even if you don't.

women are incredibly narcissistic and self-centered so they convince themselves that whatever comes out of their wombs is the best thing since sliced bread

>>18268096
> flaws in my appearance
>managed to get a date
You're clearly not that ugly. Though with a attitude like that it's given that there won't be a second date. Eventually you'll grow out of your faggotory though, so rather ask her for advice than being all negative.

Do you actually think you can just go up to a doctor and ask for a sex change?

I plan on paying for it so i don't see why i couldn't ask a doctor

>>18268103
Go on then, go ahead and ask them.

Forgot to mention I get good sleep but they're still there

>>18268013
Have you tried applying ice in the mornings?

>>18268027
yeah but it hurts :(

>>18267872
teach English.

>>18267877
Isn't it very difficult to get those jobs unless you have a ton of experience?

>>18267881
Nope, all you have to do is take a ESOL teaching test. Don't know if there's a standardised European version, some countries might have their own thing, but most are in the neighbourhood of $1K and you get accreditation. If it's sounds appealing, google it, I'm not capable nor willing to chaperone you through European bureaucracies.

The easiest would be if you're already talking about your relationship, even if not that serious. For example, if she's (rhetorically or not, doesn't matter) saying something like not knowing how to thank you, or "if there's anything I can do for you" etc. Don't bring it up in an accusative way, just calmly and shortly tell her that x and y are things you'd really like. If she expresses any surprise at that, you can broaden it a bit - that you do little things for her that show her you love her and she's on your mind, and you would sometimes like to receive little bits of attention like that even if you know in other ways that she appreciates you.

If this is no option at all and you cannot usually talk like this, I'd request her something. Like making your favorite dinner by surprise ("that [dish] you make is so good, it would make my day if you did it as a surprise some time") or whatever. Then after some time has passed you can start her not doing anything with this information (assuming she hasn't, of course, if she has you can show her how much you love it and tell her this stuff feels good because it shows that you're on her mind and she's doing that little bit extra to brighten your day) as an opening for the conversation.

Yeah it's a bit uncomfortable. She might get huffy. But at the end of the day you have to teach people how you want to be loved and you cannot start too soon.

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>>18267679
Dude I know you have to young and inexperienced with long term relationships but please for the love of God, if you care about staying with her, stop pampering her. Stop trying so hard to make sure she is happy.
Ive been married 10 years. I know my shit. You are supposed to be the man. When she looks at you, she should see some guy that's better than her. You doing everything in your power to make her comfortable is the exact opposite. You are putting her on a pedestal and she will start thinking in the back of her mind that this dude isn't the guy I thought he was.
Im not sure why but women do not respect us trying to make them happy it has an opposite effect. It will always be like that. Only thing you should worry about is providing for your household and being happy yourself. I know it sounds contrary but it's what works.

>>18267679
Different people show love in different ways, and you can't decide the way your partner loves you. Learn to accept the love in the way she shows you.

My way of showing love is by taking care of my partner's needs - which means I love cooking for him, buying him whatever he needs, surprising him with nice small gestures, make sure that if he had a bad day he doesn't need to worry about anything and he comes home to his favourite food, his favourite sport on tv and his favourite beer.
He doesn't do any of this. He writes me wonderful love letters, tells me how much he loves and appreciates me, cuddles me to sleep every night. I don't do any of that.
We're different, we love differently, but we both love each other.

Appreciate what your partner gives you, even if she doesn't love you in the way you wish she loved you.

One time I got real drunk and passed out on the couch and woke up with a massive morning wood, since my sister randomly massages me.

>>18267597
Damn.

>>18267570
>what should I do?
Check her out when you have the chance. Mine looks really, really hot in a bikini.
Realize you will never fuck her.

>>18267382
Have some faith in your doctor and be honest with yourself. Dont lie, dont be scared and hope for best.

>>18267432
hug me, friend, for the truth scary, but it is true

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>>18267474
Ask and you shall recieve.

>>18267192
>20 somethings
20something who are 4chan neets
20something who are already working few years
20something who are still in uni
20something who are already married with kids

There are simple too many 20+ people with various wisdom, experience and maturity levels.

If you want gf, stop overthinking, make good photo and go
>>18250471 online dating. Or try friends friends or social events you hate.

>>18267192
Never heard of the term but I've mostly made friends with people above 40 years of age since I was 11.
With time I made peace with myself and learnt to see the beauty in the "young uns" and their naivety. Also I stopped being a pretentious cunt. It certainly got me more friends my age, but
>How am I suppose to get a girlfriend
I wouldn't know kek.

>>18267216

online dating is a meme. I feel confident enough to say I'm not a bad looking guy, but I've never had luck with any online dating I've tried.

>>18267070
>Fuck yourself over
>Blame the jew
Yep, your a nazi alright.

But this is an advice board.

>>18267070
>friend shows up with an ounce
>'hey man where's that 10 bucks'
>'I'm not giving you any money, I told you I don't want the weed'

That wasn't hard was it?

And it's not your friends fault that you lacked the self control to turn down the offer of weed. Fuck man it's not that hard to stop, you literally don't have to do anything. You just stop.

also
>getting triggered over 10 bucks
Who is the real Jew in this story?

>>18267070
Just give him the $10 and tell him you dont want any but if sometime in the future you do to let you have your $10 worth

>>18266632
>Did it by text because I'm a coward.
Kek. Might as well stop bothering.

>when I asked again she said she didn't know what to tell me
Take a fucking hint.

>"if I like her because of what she is or because she is the only girl I've talked to since High School"
Damn.

>What should I tell her ?
Whatever it is, it won't make the shitty situation any worse. B urself, faggot. Though try to limit your autistic rantings.

>>18266632
Look. No pathetic bullshit. No sadness, only confidence. Tell her you just couldn't keep quiet and that you just want to see where you stand

>>18266632
>Did it by text because I'm a coward
Terrible idea

>Sperged a lot
Okay that's not good

> she said she didn't know what to tell me.
She was thinking how to reject you kindly. Should've stopped there.

>how she is all I have
Nooo. Never say this to anyone ever again. Even if I liked a guy, if he told me this I'd run for the hills.

> I love everything about her and it's not just because she is kind to me
I seriously doubt this.

Just go and see what she tells you, and stop talking about how much you love her. You can't love someone you haven't dated, you have no idea what she's really like. You're putting her on a pedestal and you're really getting carried away. And I tell you this because I've been in your exact same place and I still cringe at what I said back then.

>>18266555
It doesnt matter what you, or they think. What matters is what they do. Threatining to using chat as a weapon against you shows how good friends you have.

Realize that you have to:
>self censor yourself
>delete all social media which can be connected to the real you (so you cant lose job or being shamed)
>get new friends which wont go apeshit
>replace bad words with nice one like coal

Whatever you pick to do, realize that only in few places you can say what you really think and certainly it is not when normies listen.

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>>18266555
>>18266585

you can't fight PC culture. It's the main ally of Feminism, and feminism is the jews master plan, in the making since ww2. Nothing we can do about it now, enjoy the decline

>>18266589
>cant fight
You can insult people around you using all beautiful words without any issue. Nigger is bad? Call him feminist. The clever ones will sooner or later understand the irony, the stupid ones arent worth to bother with.

Also go back
>>>/pol/

Wear a shirt and stay on the side, when asked why you're not getting in the pool, say that you're very sick and don't want to infect anyone.

Have you started getting /fit/?

>>18265631
I am sick with what? What kind of illness is waterboune?

I have not, but will soon. This is a wake up call but there is so way I can be pool ready in 3 days hahahaha


Another fear I have is that the girls will abandon me to go into the pool and leave me alone ( I do not know anyone else and it is a large club function)

>>18265635
DO NOT SAY YOURE SICK
youd be a pariah all you need to do is wear a shirt, be one of those guys if your mantits bother you but if its a big party chances are you wont be the only one so just be your regular self just shirtless if anyone gives you shit you just play it off

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>>18265613
Just relax, and think about what's most important in your life. If you're religious, definitely pray. If not, I also recommend you let out that energy you put into making love to your Pillow by exercising. This is a far more constructive use of your energy.

I hope that helped. Cheers.

>>18265613
if you want to die a virgin, just try to hold onto your dick outside, so that you dont accidentally fall into a vagina.

>>18265613
You could go to people who offers such business, or you could straighten yourself up.