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>>18271504
Humans are wired to cheat, just like all animals.

>>18271504

men cheat more than women.

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Yes, they are.

I could write a whole 5-paragraph essay on why they are and how it's very evident in real life observations, but enough people have talked about it here on this forum and all over the internet that you should know most of it by now.

Most of "red pill" theory is entirely legit, but it still has a stigma because it's often presented in a condescending fashion and it defies social staples that a lot of people are brainwashed into believing while growing up.

Inb4:
>Hurr durr you're just a virgin who never even talks to women
>Hurr durr you're just a le red pill misogynist neckbeard
>Hurr durr 4chan is just sexist and inexperienced OP, don't actually listen to anyone on here

I do decently with women, and I've believed in lots of different theories about sexuality and relationships at different points in my life. It's obvious to anyone with a little experience who's truly paying attention that female loyalty is nothing but a meme.

So basically: >>18271514

I miss you.

Everyone on campus,
Thanks for the invite.

No but seriously why am I the only one on campus right now, aside from a few autistic asian kids?

Without thinking, I just told my mom about how I want to die. Everything's just been worse than it's ever been lately and I felt like I had to say something, but I fucked it all up. I regret it so much and she's crying downstairs. I've never done anything right and I wish I was dead.

>>18269135
* Ameture porn

Sorry for typo

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>>18269137
Here is pic of her she used to be skinny now she's fat and I hate fat chick so I know it's about emotional shit

Lmao
Probably because shes a camwhore now and other guys are "using" her
My ex got fat and it killed any leftover feelings I had

>It would be weird to even try dating a girl who will be a class above you if I fail a class
No, why would it?

>>18273697
>Fail class
>Ask her to tutor you
>Give her the D

>>18273712
>why would it?
I guess I'm just insecure.

>>18273761
That's precisely what my friend told me to do. But I don't think he was serious.

No, move on and cut contact

>>18273574
damn, i really like her tho she sends me nudes and shit sometimes

>>18273577
start fucking her then dude, eventually a relationship will blossom

>>18273437
>>tfw missed out on teenage relationships
IDK what people see in teenage relationships... It's completely overrated IMHO. Girls at that age are flat, annoying, they screech when they talk, plus it's super hard to create a real bond at that age, especially when you have so much shit on your plate because of school.

>>18273437
>>tinder / internet has confirmed that women only care about top tier Chads and have extremely easy lives
Bullshit.

>>18273453
Yeah I agree to a degree.

Women DO have extremely easy lives.

But there are only brain dead stacies on tinder, and they are not 100% of women.

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>>18273425

you done spent too much time on 4chan

this is how it works: if your mom is a normal, decent human being and your dad is present and respectful towards her, you will enter the dating pool a bright-eyed, hopeful, and vulnerable young lad. your vulnerability makes you sensitive to small/repeated negative experiences with women, compounded by isolation and 4chan women hate threads. this makes you bitter, and angry.

please note that anger with the opposite gender as a whole is something everyone goes through, men and women. someone could have incredible romantic success but end up hurt, and they would have to go through something similar. it's a low point, but natural part of working out your place in the world.

the step beyond generalized anger/resentment is a kind of benevolent apathy, like jesus. you forgive women for the things that make you angry. you understand which things they do are unimportant/trivial (and subsequently stop getting angry at it and eventually learn to love/appreciate) and which are red flags (which you begin to react to rationally and without anger, because you're not perfect either and there's someone out there for both of you so don't get hung up on it). you also forgive yourself for any residual anger you feel, and let go of it.

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>>18273380
Have you ever try to make a joke in front of you friend or family member. If no then try it and see their reaction. If yes do they side launch to orbit or not. If not then you balls probably right. BUT if you really wanna go then just go. I mean rather than being told unfunny what else do you have too lose. This could be you life changing moment. If you fail you probably know what people like and don't like. If you success. Well.. You success. Just don't think to deeply. That what make people scared lose their chances.that what I think anyway..

Doing stupid things won't mess up your chances of being a successful stand-up comedian. You don't even need to be funny initially. What you need is inexhaustible drive and the will to keep doing it. It usually takes around a decade of doing open-mics, paying (or barking) for time on stage, and bombing over and over again to be successful at it. You will need a day job.

>>18273380
Here's the first rule of doing stand up: Embrace failure.

You will bomb. You will bomb hard. You will bomb so hard that you feel as if your soul has been ripped from your body and trampled on by a hoard of drunk assholes that refuse to laugh no matter what you fucking say or do. Part of the job is learning to deal with it, and how to turn a crowd. If you can't deal with the possibility of failing, stand up isn't for you.

Stand up is rough. Like, really rough. Most of us will never go anywhere with it, and never see any success. But if it's really what you want to do, it's what you want to do, and you may as well go for it.

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I was shocked and speechless. He left the room and his girlfriend (they are unmarried but live together) apologized. Eventually, people started talking more comfortably and he came back and was brooding and drinking more.

The stew was okay, but not authentic. I asked him if he knew that mutton was on sale at a local store and he flew into a tirade, bringing up any small error or faux pas I have ever committed at work. People were trying to calm him down, and I simply responded to him in a quiet and calm voice, and said that I appreciated his invitation and his "take" on Irish stew, but it would have been nicer if the company had been more warm.

He got up and pulled me out of the chair, stretching my sweater at the neck. He was literally screaming in my face and had his fist up in a threatening manner.

I told him I would call the cops if he hit me. He then told me to get out and take my "fucking juice and shit bread" with him. A second loaf was still in the oven with 7 minutes left, and I said I wasn't leaving until it was cooked and I could take it.

He shouted at me to leave or he would call the cops ON ME (imagine) and then threw the bread out of the oven on the ground. I was shaking with emotions and told the group that I enjoyed my time with them but I couldn't say the same about the host.

It was a horrible affair, but I decided to make authentic Irish stew today, because I was let down yesterday and had a hankering for it. It is simmering on the stove and I plan on bringing it to lunch tomorrow, one bowl for me and some for the host. It will be a subtle form of revenge as well as a way to show him that I am a better cook and am the more mature, forgiving person.

So, how the heck does one get along with such infantile coworkers? Any advice?

>>18273366
You sound like a dick, like a know it all dick. Sure, you might think of yourself as more intelligent or whatever compared to your coworkers, but are you really that retarded when it comes to this kind of stuff? This is life ok? You're going to have to adapt to certain situations and this situation is where you had to dumb down to their levels. It sucks, it really does, its like you're being fake, but I'm sorry, that just how you're going to have fun and be enjoyable. Seriously, did you HAVE to spout facts about some fucking Irish stew just to correct the host? He invited you to HIS house, you completely just took a shit on his party. If you really want to be civilized here, apologize to him. Do not add any snarky comments, just apologize for acting like a dick. Next time just be a little more dumb ok?

call the police

>>18273351
>No matter how many times I've talked with these family or police or the landlord...

read anon.

>>18273341
You could just start harassing them. E.g. every time you hear it go bang on their door/get a broom and hit the roof if they're above you.

>>18273239

[cont]

Generally, I feel overwhelmed. Not just by my academics, but by silly things as well. Being an avid comic book fan, I feel as if I have to watch every show. Read every comic. Collect every action figure. And it's driving me nuts. I have a ~1TB hard drive filled with TV-Shows and comics. I've spent a decade of my allowance on little plastic figures. All the time I think about fanfics that I sorta "want" to write. Not because I have ideas, but because I "have to". There was a time when I'd spend 2 hours every day rearranging the pics of all of my accounts, according to the fictional character I liked better at the time. I'd scour even places I hadn't visited in years, just to change my profile pics. Sometimes that'd happen more than once per day.

One day, I just had enough and came up with a plan. Wake up at 7 AM, study (the study-break-study-break method), cook at 1 PM, sleep for an hour or so, repeat at the evening, do some exercises, eat something "light", then write that novel to get that "fan-fic" idea out of my head, sleep a 12 PM, 12:0 at worst, rinse and repeat... As you can imagine... I couldn't go through it. I'm just sitting here, reloading the same websites, feeling like a piece of shit, and maybe getting some small bursts of energy where I manage to get focused and get some work done.

The worst thing is, even when I pick up a book, my mind wanders. I grab the mouse almost automatically. I visit the fridge every half an hour. I go through my little plastic figures once again. I'm not playing any video-games (haven't in about 3 years). I don't watch any of the 30+ shows I have saved (maybe one episode while I'm eating). I'm not reading any books for pleasure (my comic book pile of 3 months has filled a whole shelf). I just... refresh... I put the same 20 videos on youtube on repeat, and browse...

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>>18273252

[cont]

Generally, I feel awful, mostly because I'm not even getting any joy out of it. I'm spending 60 euros per month on a comic-book pull list, and I like maybe 3 or 4 books out of the 12 or so. I get them out of "loyalty" to the characters. I'm not getting any joy out of visiting those boards. I just do it. Hour in, hour out. Day in, day out. Sometimes I stay up until 03:00 shitposting.

And the cherry on the cake is that I feel like I'm "playing a prank". I'm not living in anything luxurious, as I chose the "apartment" with the smallest rent. I don't waste money on anything besides the basic food and hygiene stuff, apart from that comic-book thing I've mentioned. I don't have any friends, or talk with anybody (apart from other shitposters). I don't go out besides those two times per week. I just... refresh... And my parents are average "blue-collar workers" so they're betting everything on me, so I feel (now, scratch that, I know), that I'm letting them down.

TL;DR: Instead of studying my Physics, I'm wasting my time shitposting, worrying about trivial bullshit like gathering all the little plastic figures and writting mediocre fan-fiction (without doing any of that). I've started getting fat again, after a long and hard road of becoming fit a few years back, I have nobody to talk to, I constantly feel weak, I can't concentrate, and feel like a colossal failure.

So, can anybody help? And please... no "btfo fag, put ur ass down and work" and stuff. I get this is 4chan, but... I've thought about deleting all that stuff, sending my collections back home and deleting all my accounts, but... I can't do it. I've tried, but...

[cont]

>>18273253

[last part]

PS: I've also noticed that I'm beginning to dangerously want to be "someone else". I constantly think about changing my surname, I sometimes find myself fantasizing about getting in a "glorious" accident so that I can get disfigured and get a "kewl backstory". I know that it's all a bunch of stupid shit, but I can't stop these thoughts, as they are constant. I've started looking into occult stuff (just browsing /x/ and trying to built up a horror tolerance, so nothing too crazy) in an effort to become Doctor Doom for fuck's sake. I know it's bonkers, but... I feel like I need to do it. I'm not actually putting in the work, but that's all Ican think about.

>>18273196
>All known news spew out their own agenda, and I am constantly seeking out the real facts

I've been on /pol/ for longer than I care to remember. First of all, you're not seeking the truth, you're seeking anything that is contrary to popular info outlets, because it makes you feel smarter and somehow more "informed". We both know this. /pol/ in general works with a "different is better" mindset, that is why anti-establishment underdogs of whichever denomination are always their heroes.

/pol/ always babbles about ""muh redpill", but hardly any of them have ever been "blue pilled" in the first place. I love history and argued with a great deal of people there, and holy shit, it is absolutely stunning how little they are informed on the very things they are denouncing. The majority of them have absolutely no interest whatsoever about the subjects they circlejerk each other to, except what is provided to them in a few "infographics" and youtube videos. The rest are jewish lies or smth, whatever, fuck u cuck.

To put it bluntly, /pol/ has absolutely nothing to do with the truth. It collects small snippets of information, regardless of their context, puts them together, and let their imaginations fill the rest. And then you show up, believe it all, lose your firends, and then shit up /adv/. Because you're a smart truth-seeker.

My suggestion: start actually reading biased "blue pill" sources of news, history or whatever. It doesn't take long for cracks in shitty /pol/ theories to appear (especially when it comes to history). That is, again, only if you are honestly interested in the stuff you are researching.

>>18273270
I also thought they were wrong. I had completely different views and was well aware of the circle jerking they were into. I tried debating them on a lot of issues and they always proved me wrong, not by some tacky self-serving statistics, but by making me question whats right and wrong with the world picture of today. I didn't start out with their beliefs, I started out with the complete opposite ones and promoted those but they surely turned me on a lot of things I took for granted as truth.

I constantly see false media narratives that I don't need /pol/ to tell me are wrong and serve a purpose other than being informative. It's not because I pick sides and stick to them - I constantly question my beliefs and therefore others as well and it preoccupies me, thus making me depressed because of the current state of events. I don't buy into most of the shit on there, as I sometimes LARP into character just to shitpost and piss people off, but its the questioning of everything that has gotten me into this mental problem of mine.

Is there any diagnosis for this? I'd say cognitive dissonance, but I feel like that's the opposite of what I'm trying to do - put stuff into question and find out the truth as opposed to believing and regurgitating dissonant lies.

>>18273297
>turned me on a lot of things I took for granted as truth.
For example
>making me depressed because of the current state of events
Describe the events
>regurgitating dissonant lies
Tell me the lies

Also, how old are you, and what country are you from?

>>18273168
You can't, sorry. Give up on it, he won't feel comfortable around you again.

>>18273168
Put yourself in his shoes. Think about how cringey it would be if a straight girl wouldn't stop chasing you. The more she says the worse it gets.

Stop doing it op. If you're really thinking for him you will stop texting him. Don't even try to be friends.

>>18273361
This. I have a friend circle where someone came out as gay to a straight guy in a real cringy way, but he stopped with that shit and now they are friends again, albeit not the same as before.

It sucks for you, but how about getting a gay bf once you have killed all hope of getting a straight guy (cause you never will, and if the offchance you do get one to do gay shit while drunk he'll live to regret and hate you)?

>>18273153
Why the ever fuck are you dating a cuck/latent homo? I am appalled of your degeneracy

>>18273153
If your boyfriend won't let you have another boyfriend, I guess he'll just have to get the other boyfriend himself.

I don't think poly relationships are a good idea unless they happen organically, just like any monogamous one. If you guys don't both mutually know someone you can not only be attracted to and respect enough to not reduce them to a third wheel, but trust not to be a meddling jealous little homewrecker, that's the only time I'd say it's safe to go ahead without worrying about it having a negative impact.

You can try the whole free love, lol look at me I'm so kinky shit, but if you're not in it 100% and have reservations about loyalty/your bf being too gay or something, you're going to get hurt.

>>18273132
The problem is that this shit generally works of insecure/damaged or otherwise craycray women.
Are you actually mentally strong enough to remove such a woman from your life for good when she begins that shit? I kind of doubt it. Chances are you're going to get sucked into that BS for some time (imagine being married and miserable for 5 years before you finally have enough) and if you think you're unhappy with your life/sexlife now you better think twice.
I'm sure if you do actually have that kind of mental strength, don't give a shit about any actual connection and just want pussy you'd do okay, but most people just pretend that's what they want and feel empty inside when they aren't getting a healthy relationship.

>>18273132

those are mostly staged, because why would they risk actually doing this to someone? its eaiser just ot hire someone to play along.

you see women being treated like this ALL THE TIME and they always just get annoyed and exit the situation because they feel uncomfortable.

but go ahead and try. the fact that you want to do it shows that you suck with women and are unwilling to acknowledge that its your looks not your ability to 'manipulate'.

>>18273243

This. The type of women it attracts tend to be so stupid that they would be easy to manipulate anyway. If you're only doing it to get laid, I can't see the harm. Just be aware of what crazy/stupid women are capable of when they've been pumped and dumped - and how this might escalate if you've convinced her you're the perfect man that she absolutely can't let go.

I don't think I've ever seen a PUA attempt work in real life and every woman I know would be repulsed if a guy approached her like that. I honestly think it's a meme that only works if you happen to be semi-attractive anyway.