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This year I'll turn 27.
I have a receding hairline, never been in a relationship, never been kissed, still a virgin.
The only thing I have going for me is I'm 6'2''.
Do I have to just settle for someone below my standards at this point?
I feel like at this age everyone is taken.
I'm not particularly awkward or rude, I've even had a few people interested, but because I couldn't picture a happy future with them, I never did anything with it.
Should I just be the weird uncle who never got married and be satisfied with that?
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You can just have your normal life, make good money, improve yourself everyday etc and see a hooker once in a while. Good experience, cheaper than a wife/gf (in most ways) and definitely worth it if you can't get an attractive gf who doesn't rip you off
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>>18275410
>I have a receding hairline, never been in a relationship, never been kissed, still a virgin.
>The only thing I have going for me is I'm 6'2''.


lmao
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>>18275418
Honestly for me it's about companionship.
A hooker could satisfy my sexual desire, but so can jerking off, so why waste the money?
I want someone I can share life with and be close to.
I am working on bettering myself though.
I'm learning another language, being better about budgeting, excercising regularly, and have long term goals for my future.
I just want to share it with the right person

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So it's nothing new I was just hoping I maybe able to get some opinions. I have trouble being friends with girls without sexualizing them. I find myself making friends with girls simply because I desire to sleep with them. Like even with childhood friends I do this, but it is only at the fear of the social backlash that I don't actually fuck them.
If I don't sexualize a girl, like I know I don't have a chance to get into their pants, then I stop being friends with them, cut off all contact and forget them.
Is this normal? Any input?
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>>18275373
Men and women are not friends. It's always sexual energy that brings the 2 genders together. And after that you both can make a active decision if you wanna fuck or not. So in that sence you are pretty normal.

But the way you paint the picture is that you only make friends cause you want something in return, which is sex. Sounds kinda selfish.
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stop watching porn

stop masturbating
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>i want to have sex with girls i interact with

you are a healthy male. just because you have a desire to bang a girl doesn't mean you have to try, like if it would be awkward or if she's out of your league or she has a boyfriend etc etc. wanting to bang girls is fine. you're fine.

>>18275393
lmao that'll make it worse

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18 year old here with slightly receded temples. My doctor recently prescribed me generic Finasteride (1mg daily). Does it matter if it's generic? I got it from Fry's, and it just says "Finasteride." No mention of Propecia or Proscar. Also, since I'm only 18, can I expect to see regrowth near the temples? Anyone here who takes Finasteride, I'd like to know how your experience has been
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I can only speak regarding the generic. Truth of the matter is generic brands work in the exact same way as name brands, it's only difference is the additives and maybe shape. Big Pharma is dumb like that.
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>>18275376
Thanks, but.. why do pharmaceuticals do that?
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18 y.o also taking finasteride. I am also receding at my temples. Have been taking propecia for about 6 or 7 months. I'd say the hairloss has been slowed down but not sure it has completely stopped. New hair hasn't appeared at the temples. I feel like my hair is thicker overall. Generics work just like the original, it's just that the patent expired and now other companies are able to produce it. Hair regrowth near the temples is extremelly unlikely not to say impossible.

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So I got my ex girlfriend pregnant

Im 27 and she's 34, I was a virgin before we met so I had to open up to her about my sexual ineptitude, we raw dogged it a few times, she insisted, now im not gonna make excuses, I fucked up on that but there was this one time she slid my penis in her intentionally when I had a hard time putting on the condom because I had performance issues for many years, im not gonna blame her and cause her to stress out, we might plan on getting an abortion but tomorrow she's gonna make an appointment and were gonna go together and see how the embryo is, I don't want her to go at this alone.

What should I do /adv/ this is the only place I can go to talk about this.
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She's 34,it's not a bad time for her to have a kid at all. Just go through with the birth unless she really insists otherwise you pussy
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>>18275315
Heres something else, the day we broke up she hooked up with her ex.
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How much do you like your girlfriend and what's your financial situation? 34 isn't young, at that age a woman can't really afford anymore to fool around without thinking about the future if she ever wants to have a family. It's your child, if you abort it you may keep wondering for the rest of your life what kind of person he or she might have been.

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I'm really lonely and introverted. I want to do more things and meet people. I have a part-time job that I work in the evenings but I'm free during the day.

What should I do? I'd like to avoid spending money as my job, whilst well-paying, is not a reliable income source.

Suggestions for places to look for new things I'd like, as opposed to direct suggestions for hobbies, are also appreciated.
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Mechanical keyboards, photography, golfing, moth breeding, learning Swedish, etc.
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>>18275303
>>>/tg/
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4chan is always a rest place to start. their are many boards on here that are hobby based. that's how I found my adoration for history. I'd suggest start browsing the boards and see what appeals to you. 4chan, contrary to belief isn't just about anime tiddies, porn, video games and cheese pizza, desu.

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Hey /adv/, I just wanted to share with you guys tonight, it's been a really bad one for me. My 19th birthday is coming up, and I invited my best friend, he said he'd make it. Just for a little back story, best friend has been my best friend for 14 years. He got a girlfriend 4 months ago, and she's a total bitch. Ever since they got together he's become a completely different person. His girlfriend absolutely hates me whether she will admit it or not, it's blatantly obvious. My best friend and I used to hang out every weekend and talk for hours on end about pointless bullshit, just basic stuff, but since they got together, I've only seen him once, and it was for five minutes. But back to the point, he told me that he would be there for my birthday party, and I just found out today from a mutual friend that bitch girlfriend convinced him to walk across the country. He didn't even tell me he couldn't make it. I feel like he doesn't give a shit about me anymore. I just thought I'd vent to you guys, I've never done it before.

TL;DR: Best friend of 14 years gets bitch gf, doesn't hang with me anymore, says one thing, does another and doesn't tell me, I'm hurt.
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I'm just looking for some support guys, this has me really depressed.
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Anybody? Anyone at all?
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>>18275333
Checked

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Hey guys . Hope you are having a good night .
>know grill for awhile
>ask her out
>pretty much says she doesn't want a relationship atm
>it's been awhile since she broke up with her last boyfriend , school is winding down , and she's not a whore , which only means one thing I think

I'm the one that fucked up and didn't generate enough attraction to her . I still like this girl , and I have a lot of resolve in general , and regardless well be seeing each other in the future because of classes and mutual friends (which is how I know her). What should I do ? I thought she liked me , touching , staying with me one on one sometimes , etc. cut the PUA stuff , fundamentally what am I doing wrong so I can fix this or at least not fuck up next time . What are some specific things I can do as well. Thank you.
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Move on and maybe she'll become interested.

If you pursue her any further she will detect your desperation (and autism).

Dating is about being the best you so they show interest, if you are in the position of having to "prove your worth" you have already lost.
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>>18275312
I don't know everything , but I like to think I'm not completely full autismo.

What should I do when I see her because it's definitely gonna happen, lol. Friendly ? Emotionally distant or just act mildly interested ? Honestly have no idea. Friendly seems a bit more on the placating pussy side , but emotionally distant also just might make me look like angry dick .

For reference , she's already asked me if I wanted to hang out with some of our friends together since I asked her ,though obviously it hasn't happened yet
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>>18275330
I would be friendly without kissing her ass. She knows how you feel so don't be a tryhard about it.

You should be nice to her like the ACQUAINTANCE that she is.

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Has anyone here been on a cross country train or plane? I have to choose between one but I have a lot of anxiety.
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>>18275296
considering the recent lack of customer service regarding planes, a train would be more fun i'm guessing

planes are cool though as well after an ativan. alcohol BAD when taking ativan. you cant mix those.
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Trains might be more fun if you want to see the country. You can look outside and get a proper sense of scale. Planes you get in, get out, look at landmarks, get in get out.

Idk about safety or anything but I imagine the trip will be more interesting on train
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I've been on both. Train was a nice experience. The plane trips were all 10+ hours long so I don't really remember them fondly. What gives you anxiety?

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Just wondering if I should see a doctor for something dumb. I drink alot of water every day, ranging from 6-10+ liters a day (easy to count since I drink from 2L soda bottles). My question is, is this amount enough to worry about or just me being a thirsty person?
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TEN FUCKING LITERS? You should definitely see a doctor, it might diabetes. Unless you are a bedouin manual labourer in the Sahara or something.
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>>18275297
>Diabetes
Well shit that would suck. Saw that as a possibility when I googled this but thought that might just be for more extreme cases. Thanks.
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I almost died from drinking seven liters of water.

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Am I too fucking depressed to live?

No one will understand the reason for this, anyway. To give some semblance of an explanation, I’m not a human, this is just a dream and soon I will awake. It was too cold and the blood was coagulating all the time, plus my new knife is too dull. If I don’t succeed dying to the knife I will blow all my brains out of my skull.
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I'd encourage you to choose happiness and life over depression and death. Write a gratitude list of all the things you are greatful for. Exhibiting gratitude is proven to increase your mental and physical health. Know that this feeling will pass, this situation will pass, and that you can be happy regardless of anyone or anything.
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>>18275246
I am defeated and exhausted physically and emotionally.
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>>18275246
My mind always warped and twisted has reached the point where I can wait no longer. Things just seemed to go too wrong too many times.

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I didn't know I'd go this deep into hell. I'm 20 years old and I'm living on my own with some roommates. I don't have any help from my parents or anything. I'm paying for all my bills and its really hard because I'm starting to live pay check to pay check now that I have to pay for health insurance. I'm also working a crazy amount of hours and it's kinda killing me.
Recently someone offered me $500 for lewd photos of me. They said I didn't have to post my face in the photos too.

So I might just take up the offer.
I've been thinking about just doing this regularly.
Like maybe making a snapchat account and making side money. I'm not too sure. Is there anyone here who does this that can give me advice?

Also please, before anyone says it. Yes I am doing everything to save money. I walk to work (I'm saving up for a car), I eat at home, I even sold a lot of my valuables.
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I'm a professional lewd pictures assessor. Post samples and I will tell you your earning potential.
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>>18275223
Do it. Why not? He has money he is willing to give you, and all you have to do is be pretty and young. You're getting paid $500 to be looked at.

Fuck the moralfags, you have one life don't struggle if you don't have to.
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>>18275847
It's best to trust a professional. Post some pics and we can give some advice

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> be me
>21 year old, average as fuck tall guy
>Long term mentally abusive relationship
>followed by an amazing short term relationship
>Feeling fucked and down I turn to smoking and escaping my feelings
>I meet someone and have sex which was a mistake
>I feel dirty and horrible about it all
>Everyday wake up with a sense of dread
>Hate my job, hate my home, hate myself

I don't know what to do anymore.
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I suggest working out or getting a hobby. Distracts from the pain. What's something you loved to do or wanted to do as a kid?
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>>18275188
>average as fuck tall guy
Tall guy eh? Consider hitting the gym to become an instant chad.

>I meet someone and have sex which was a mistake
Alright. Not your best fuck. Plenty more up ahead m8 not the end of the world
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>>18275196
I do go to the gym and ride my bike around the neighbourhood, which is really therapeutic.

I used to love going to places I've never been before.

I think its a rut I'm stuck in, but I've tried to break to cycle too many times.

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My best friend recently ditched me to chill with some dude, and I'm thinking it's because of that dude's parties and frequent sluts he gets. Basically, this guy ditched me for pussy, I think.

It sucks, it really does, but I don't know if I should still try to chill with this dude again or just forget about. I feel bitter that I'd get ditched, even if it's for easy vagina, because I feel like I wouldn't have done the same thing in his position.

Advice?
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>>18275170
Dont take it personally. It isnt about him ditching you, its about him wanting to go out and have some pussy. Nothing wrong with that
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Look for higher quality friends to replace him
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I wouldn't be upset at all if a friend ditched me for pussy. That's totally understandable, unless you had planned something way in advance, like a special event, and he ditched last second. That would be kinda wack.

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not to be unoriginal, I haven't felt like this in the past, but my life is falling apart. I just think about my sister every time and I can't do it
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>>18275169
>I just think about my sister every time and I can't do it

you shouldn't do it. try to focus on getting your life back.
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>>18275169
Man I don't know you but I love you. I'm going through some shit but the only reason I hold on is because my mother. You need to find a reason to hold on. Life is shit but it's all about what you make it.

You can choose to be depressed or you can choose to be happy. You gotta think past the sad shit and whats wait for you.

I don't know I'm drunk.
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>>18275169
You know even if my mother died. I have a dog and I love her to death and she makes me so fucking happy and she's worth staying on this earth for.

Because if you kill yourself, you're also going to kill the people who love you

How to escape the friend zone. Halp. I want to fug but she just wants to hug.
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You have to be willing to throw the friendship away. Make a move.
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The only way to leave the friendzone is to stop being friends with her at all and forget you ever liked her, she doesnt like you and there's nothing you can do about it. It hurts, sorry, but that's the truth
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>>18275135
tell me your bidding my master

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